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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Honestly guys, do you really like the taste?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend goes down on me a lot and when he kisses me I can taste it and its so gross! He says I taste good but I feel like he is just saying that to make me feel better. Do guys really like how a girl tastes down there?...

A year and 1/2 and still no sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Sooo me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half so a decent amount of time. We havent had sex nor have i tried. Our year n a half was a week ago n we were making out. Both our top layers came off n the moment just seemed right, so i tried ...

We have not had sex for 2 years due to his lack of sex drive...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I'm asking guys, but not only... So, if my husband can't get it up with me, but he is not physically impotent,/night erections present// then is it possible he will be able to get it up with someone else? I mean, I just don't know, if I should ...

I know I'm just using her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - alright so here it is this girl that goes my school has been flirting. She's alright. Anyway we were talking and somehow we got onto having sex, now we're talking about having sex with each other and I think we're going to do it. I dunno if ...

Please help I cant stay hard whilst having sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I am a 18year old boy I am going with my girlfreind now about 6 months we try having sex a lot of the time and 9 time out of 1o when we are havin sex i go soft i dont know what 2 do it is driving me mad and also her mad we have even nearly broke up ...

Sex with the ex used to be amazing and the new boyfriend doesn't quite match up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hello ladies out there, I have a strange situation and want to see if anyone else has faced this. About six years ago, I ended two year relationship with a guy. We were not compatible, no abuse, cheating, etc. The issue is that the guy had a ...

I have genital herpes, how can I get my fiance to get me pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - ok well this is very embarrasing. but here it goes.... I have been with my finace' going on two yrs now n I want a child. We have set a date and every thing to get married but that's not the problem. the problem is that I have genital herpes and he ...

I want to try lesbian sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I wana try lesbian sex, but i don't know who i would try it with, i don't have many friends and the ones i do have are too close to be asking that kinda stuff. girls really turn me on, i love boys though just the thought of women together gets me ...

Can you have a meaningful relationship with someone if it started out as just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I would just like some advice and opinions here... Do you think a relationship based on sex alone can turn into a real relationship? I met a guy at a club and I wasnt looking for a relationship at the time, he was cute so I ended up going bac...

What is love then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - love my bf more than any body even more than myself whatever i did till date i did it for him and never looked at any other guy or felt like looking at nude men even...my bf is the only person in my mind..since paet 8years and i have no inclinatons ...

I think we are falling apart...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Well I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now Iam 20 and he's 21 we have a 3 year old child together and lately I've been feeling lonely like iam in this relationship by myself we never go out or do anything fun.Were always fussing and everytime ...

Curved penis....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - My penis have left curve and downword curve and it is too bend. I want to know that it has difficult for me when I will do sex and my wife will satisfy with me. pls give me ans.....

What do people think about casual sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I'd like peoples opinions on casual sex (one night stands and friends with benefits). Do you think either are morally ok? I am trying to make my mind up on weither i think they are accetable and would like some opinions. ...

Husband wants me to be submissive, but I'm not comfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - My husband wants me to be completely submissive to him but i just can't seem to do it. I have tried in the past and he has asked me to do things that I felt were against my best interest and the best interest of our child. Can I ever get over this ...

I want to talk to her about sex, but don't know how.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with this girl for over a year now, I want to talk with her about sex, but I can't ever bring myself to... How should I start the conversation?...

Our sex life is gone. Can the marriage continue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - How safe is to plan to stay with my husband in this life, if he stopped being sexual with me at 43? What kind of future a marriage have, without sexual intimacy? He does not know what is wrong, but he wants me to accept this, that he is off sex, f...

Should I just go for it? She wants more and I do too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - She said she wants more, and said i need to take chances. I think (i kinda know) she wants to move below the waist. She likes to go into things fast so should i just do it, or should i move into it? (going below i mean) ...