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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex and STD's

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - So, I've been hearing more and more about (young) teens beeing worried about pregnancy and STD's, not just on DearCupid but also at college and from friends. I'm not going to talk about pregnancy but STD's.... Everyone knows that Sex educat...

She's younger and I'm wondering..if it would be right to date her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I'm in year 11 and theres a girl in year 9 who I Fancy. I know she likes me as well but the thing is I've had relationships in the past, which have involved foreplay. I'm wondering whether it would be right dating her?...

He had sex with me and I haven't heard anything from him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy for three months. He is 38, divorced with four children (they don't live with him)I am 35 no kids. I like him a lot, he told me that he really liked me and said he wanted to take things slow (despite the fact that he ...

I think I'm about to have sex with another man and I'm married

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I realise that this topic could possibly upset some people but I am generally looking for advice and not critisim. I'm on the verge of getting involved with a man I have met. We're very attracted to one another, he is older than me. I'm married ...

Scared to have sex with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - i really love my boyfriend.. he wants to have sex.. but i' m scared... even with protection... but i dont want to say that i am scared or that i dont want to do it .. because i am ready to do anything for him.. I dont know what to do right now....

Could an erotic masasge awaken the inner bi-sexuality of my wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I have been married to my wonderful wife for 24 years. Her sexual orientation is definitely straight and conservative. I on the other hand am still inclined to some adventures, hopefully with my wife, for our middle age. I have this feeling that my ...

I was raped 9 years ago and feel guilt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - help me please, i was raped 9 years ago....i kind of forgot everything that happened but now i'm about to get married and i'm planing to tell the guy because i feel so guilt,.... i tried before couldn't tell him... but i feel i should tell him... ...

He says we're nothing to each other so why does he act jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - ok, well this guy and i have been casual sex buddies for about 7 months now, we talk everyday and meet up as and when we can. He gets jealous if he thinks im seeing other ppl, and even makes up stories about other girls to make me jealous! But when ...

How can I forgive and forget with these images in my head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. She told me she was a virgin and wanted to stay a virgin till she gets married. I agreed, because I am a virgin too. Everything was going okay. Until last month, she said that she can't lie to me ...

Late period... Advice needed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - This month I'm late with my period by about 10 days [or 4] somtimes it depends when I get it. Some months i've gotten it the 22nd or so, while others when the month is about to end but this time it hasnt come yet. Pregnancy is somewhat out of the ...

Addicted to masturbating.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I think I have become addicted to masturbating. I would masturbate 3-4 times a day. Is this normal or should I try not to do it as much.? ...

Not sure what to expect

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Its been one week since my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex. I cant take a test now because of it being too early. I'd like to know what symptoms could start happening in the first week or two, if any, for pregnancy. Every woman is differen...

Should I tell the new girl that I'm not quite over my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I'm in a new relationship with a female at college. not too long ago i broke up with someone. i'm not completely 100% over my ex however i havent said anything to this new girl. should i mention her? or is that a bad idea? or is the fact that im ...

First time sex for gay and 34

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - Thinking about it, I guess I was waiting for the right person to do it and the right time. Being me now, at this time, I'm realizing that you just have to go for it if you find someone who wants to be with you.... A little history, I knew I was gay ...

What can I do to teach him to be more affectionate and intimate with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - We have been seeing each other for 3 years. We have been living together for 2.5 years. I have a son and he has two daughters from previous marriage. I cant help but feeling that there is something big missing in our relationship. I love him and I ...

He can't keep an erection and I am too young to forgo this part of my life! Help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year we are both in our late forties and married for 20 years and divorced. He shared withme while we had been dating for 2 or 3 weeks that he had diabetes and therefore can not get an erection. I do love ...

I want to know, will I be a bad person if I have sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I need help....I am 14 and i have been dating this 17 year old for almost 9 months and we have did oral....And I think im ready for PROtected sex. I want to know will i be a bad person if i do this? ...

Should I be worried or grateful that my wife wants to have a threesome with me and another woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - A month into our relationship, my wife confessed to me that she is bi-sexual and had had a few girl-on-girl experiences back in college. It's now been five years since we got together and two years since we've been married. No children yet, but the ...

Was I used for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - was i used for sex? I saw this guy in the evenings and usually had sex. It was a bit of a FWB situation. It went on for a few months. I never really went out much with him or hung out with each others friends. Also, as a girl, you can tell when ...