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Sex: Help and advice

5 Questions about teen pregnancy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - 1, Are you more likely to get pregnant if you have unprotected sex about five days before your period? 2, If you have unprotected sex too close to the time of your period can you miss a period and it be emplantation bleeding instead? 3, What is the...

Questions about bj/hand job

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - while giving my bf a hand job - my first time ever - i felt something that i donnu if it is natural or not , at the base of his penis from under - near the testics there is like 2 small bumbs or something i donnu what it is , is that normal ! ...

Do condoms come in different sizes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and we decided that we were ready for sex. My boyfriend went to put on the condomn but it wouldnt fit... Do condomn's come in different sizes? If so where can we find them?...

Delayed ejaculation and unsensitive penis, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend has problems with delayed ejaculation, he can always please himself but very rarely gets to orgasm through sex. he also seems to have a very unsensitive penis, he says he cant really feel anything, even fellatio, I think the ...

Did I miss my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - We had unprotected sex five days b4 my period was suppossed to start. My regular period lasts seven days, its been that way for three years and has never messed up. About three days after the sex i thot i started my period...which is weird for me, ...

How does a girl know when a guy is having sex for the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - how does a female comes to know that a male is having sex for the first time?...

I need some help labelling my sexuality

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - I'm having difficulty in labelling my sexuality for others to understand. Whilst it doesn't matter to me, I can't find a category I can define myself by and was hoping that others with more knowledge or an unbiased view could help. I'm male, I've...

I am scared but so curious to have a relationship with a woman. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Hello, I am an attractive, divorced woman with a child. I'll have to say that I've had many women attracted to me but I never accepted them. Deep inside, I always wanted to say yes, but I was too scared to realize my preferences. Well, it would be...

His condom came off..inside of me. What could happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend recently just had sex for the first time and we were both Virgins. It was quite painful but he made sure that we went at my pace and that i was okay with everything. There was more blood then i expected as well, we did use...

Do you think he is using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship and have been for nearly two months. I dont really like relationships so when i do get into one its no long term. The first few weeks was great he took me to the movies, we met each others parents and i think its fair to say t...

She's had sex with possibly 30 plus guys and I have issues with it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - Hi everybody Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. Im 20 and she's 23. I seem too keep on having an issue with her past. She's had sex with around 30 guys. Could be more. I myself have been with 17 girls, and as such I a...

Will sex be an issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - i'm a 19 year old girl and i have a boyfriend who's 8 years older than me. we have been together for a quite a while and everything seems to be going well. we hardly have fight or problems. i'm really happy with him and he lets me know that i m...

I think he's faking it and I don't know how to approach this with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Help here please I am in a relationship with a man and we are both in our mid 60.s we have sex on a regular basis but the last couple of times we have ,i think he has been faking it and i'm wondering if i should say something to him about this or ...

What does this mean and how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - How do I forget a guy and what does this mean? Ive had feelings for him for the past 2 years and its hard to just let go. However, he's never respected me and only talks to me for sex. Ive slowly talked less since I know thats what i should be...

Having STD testing as a rule?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - Since several of my friends fell victim to some nasty STDs, I decided to make it a rule to never sleep with a woman unless she got tested and showed me the results ( and I would in turn of course ). However I feel this simply doesn't fly with...

FWB but it means more to me than that and he's really hurting me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, For the past six months i have been in a kind of friends with benifits relationship with a guy in my group of friends, i only started talking to him last september and one of my frends gave him my number.He seemed like such a nice...

Problems with climaxing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Right this is annoying me. I have troubles with climaxing and even getting wet. when my boyfriend 'fingers' me I only seem to get a little wet, but not significantly wet, although i used to be able to. now i worry that sexual intercourse will...

Help!!! Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I had unprotected sex a week ago (during ovulation) but the guy pulled out. It is now a week before my period, and my breasts are starting to get tender, and i have been extremely tired. I know that tender breasts is also just a PMS symptom, but ...

Can anyone shed some light on my questions about masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - ok. this is gonna sound reeeaaalllly weird. but that's okay. :) so when i masturbate i get a lot of pleasure from it; it feels sooooo good and everything but when i reach a "climax" i don't think i actually orgasm... isn't, like... stuff supposed...

STD's and sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - So, I've been hearing more and more about (young) teens beeing worried about pregnancy and STD's, not just on DearCupid but also at college and from friends. I'm not going to talk about pregnancy but STD's.... Everyone knows that Sex educat...