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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm worried I may be pregnant even though we take precautions.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hi aunts, Normally a few days before my period is due my chest gets very sensitive and tender to touch but once I start my periods they are fine. But this time round they have been sore for well over 2 weeks and no sign of my periods starting...

He won't come with me for regular STI checkups...why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a 23 year-old female and have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. The thing is I like to go for a health (STI) check every once a while but the problem is he has always refused to come along with me. At first I thought maybe he...

Best sex positions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Hi this question is mainly for women but any male posts would be great well im just wondrin which sex position is best for both partners wanna give my gf a night to remember thanks ...

A survey about Birth Control pills.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Okay, so this will be a survey concerning birth control pills and its effectiveness.This survey is for my own purpose only, not for any scientific purposes. The subjects will be those of you who had or taking birth control pills, and have one par...

Is this a case of practice makes perfect or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hello! I am female and 18 years old. So last night, me and my boyfriend lost our virginity to each other. Yes I am on the contraceptive pill and he used a condom, which as far as we are aware, did not break. Anyway, even though we both orgasm-ed, ...

I find it difficult to orgasm through penetration alone. Does anyone else find this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I have a problem that's really bothering me and it's making me really paranoid. Everytime I have sex I just can't orgasm through penetration at all... Like not even close and this is like this regardless of the guy I'm with. So much so tha...

Married and need good tips for giving head.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - hi to all I'd like a few tips please, im a happily married 28 year old with a great sex life but im rubbish at giving head and really want him to like it and ask for more. Any tips or hints please? thanks...

What sexuality am I? Confused - lesbian or straight???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 201 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Basically ive just started to question my sexuality... ive always been straight and when i was younger had boyfriends but for the last 4 years ive just been having the odd snog on the weekend and foreplay with men as im 16 and just want to have fun. ...

Am I sane and is it possible to change our relationship now to an open status?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - I am re-asking this question only because the first time, I failed to mention some important details that were covered in some answers I received. Then after I added the details, I stopped getting answers. So here's the question with all the ...

Is it true that some girls cry after having sex for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Is it true that some girls cry after having sex for the first time? Why? I overheard some girls in the restroom in school saying this and it just has me curious?...

Any anal sex experts here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - well. me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex, and i dont really know much about it, and i have read about it on this website, and it says use lots of lube. does that mean acual lube or could it be lotion or baby oil or things like that? and wh...

He likes to call me names like whore, bitch and slut. Is this normal for a person in love to call his girlfriend these names in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend likes to either be dominanted or be dominant in bed. I have figured out what turns him on. I on the other hand like it without the role playing every time. He either wants to pretend that I'm raping him or that I'm this naughty girl ...

She's doing my head in! What's going on with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - hey, i am not sure if am doing this for advice or just to get it off my chest. i met this girl a while back. we dated for a short time before she said it wasnt going to work. she never gave me a reason why. i was crushed when she said it cos it w...

Scared to death..to tell my Mom, I am pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I turn 16 last month and five months ago, I was raped by a masked man. I was a virgin before it happened and then three months ago, I found out I'm pregnant. Nobody knows anything except for my best friend (he's a guy) and he tells me that if I ...

Help...I had unprotected sex and missed a period!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - hey every1 i need sum advice urgently...so im only 13 and im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me. my boyfrend started pressuring me into sex but i told him no and i kept saying no and now he has finally understood my answer. But anyway ...

Since we started having sex..he is now so over-demanding!! Are all guys this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I really need your help here. I've beeing going out with my boyfriend for six months and I believe that I am totally in love with him and he says he loves me too - I really do believe this. Around a month ago we've been having sex (for the first ...

Although he used me, I love the father of my child! How can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - My ex left me, he strung me along thoUGH. He wOuld tell me that he wantd me back and then he would get with someone else. Yes i fell for it. I loved him, we had a child together. I didnt want to let go. I kept hoping he would wake up and realise ...

We don't make love any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - I need some advice here. My girlfriend and I don't have sex any more. Well, maybe once a month or so. I've been with her for over a year and a half now. For the first 10 months or so, we had sex frequently, and both put a lot of effort in to ple...

I am a virgin, my girlfriend is not, any tips on performance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - hey. My gf is not a virgin, but i am. I want to be a good sexual partner, but I'm not really sure how to be one. First of all, is there any way to make sex more pleasurable the first time? How can I go for longer? Anything else would help. Thanks....

I think about leaving my husband every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I think about leaving my husband every day. I think, I'm so confused. I don't know if I'm right to feel how I feel. He stopped being affectionate with me sexually years ago. Yet he is not sick, but does not want sex. He also does not make me feel...