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Archived questions from: 27 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why isn't he having sex if thats what he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I was with a guy for a few months but we were never official because he had issues with labels and just wanted to "be with each other" I said that was fine unless he asked me for sex, which he did, he kept asking when we were going to do it and ...

16 and erectile dysfunction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for eight months now, and for five of those months we've been sleeping together. I love him more than anything and he loves me too. I know he does. He never fails to show it and he does so many things for me. We are both ...

I seriously have the hots for my sister in law!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I have an issue that has been driving me crazy for a couple years now. I am married, and her brother is married. I am seriously having the hots for his wife. She used to be VERY 'freaky' if you will, and still has a slight taste of that in her. ...

Does anyone know the trick to a "flawless lady garden"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I like to be completely hair free down below. However, no matter what hair removing method I try, I still get red irritation and spots. Does anyone know the trick to a flawless lady garden? ...

What every day objects can we use to get sexy in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had really good sex the other day, with the help of a feather. We used it as a way to build up and stuff and in the end it was amazing. We were just wondering, what other objects would we be able to use which are everyday obj...

My girlfriend has told me she just doesn't want or need sex anymore...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Ok so this has been going on for a few months now. My gf and i have been together for about a year and we've lived together since august of last summer. We used to have sex without discussion and anywhere from 3-6 times a week. The first night we ...

My husband doesn't want sex anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - How can I get my husband sexual attention? He never wants sex. Should I keep trying to turn him on,or it just wasted time? What is the best thing to do,just dropp it,or keep innitiating? I feel,it is very strange, he wanted it before. What is going...

Grilfriend physically cannot give head. Move on, wait, or accept it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Hey I have posted this question before but didn't explain enough so the advice I received wasn't particularly relevant. The problem I seem to have is that I am in a 5 month ongoing relationship- we are both 21 and I have never received head to...

He says he loves me but I'm not sure if he is just trying to get me into bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a couple of years older than me, he's gone all the way with girls before, but i havent gone that far yet, he keeps tryin to push me into having sex and i dont know what to do. should i have sex with him? or keep sayin no? but what if ...

I want to make this a night to remember!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Heyy. well i havent seen my boyfriend in a while (examss. great things that they are!) and hes coming over to spend the evening with me tonight, just the two of us and no-one else will be home. So i thought i would ask for some idea's on how...

How will our sex life ever get better if he wont stop masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My question is would you stay married to a man who lies and sneaks around behind your back. We have been married for 31 years, and 2 years ago I discovered he was watching porn and masturbating, we had no sex life, no wonder, anyway he promised to ...

Pains in my stomach after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - The first time i had sex a few weeks ago it was fine during sex, however a couple of hours after i got a sharp pain through my stomach area every time i stood up/straightened my back. I didn't know what caused it or if it was to do with the sex, but ...

I get turned on too easily!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - My problem is I get turned on too fast and easily. When with my girlfriend and we start kissing I get an erection almost straight away and before I know it I feel like I'm going to ejaculate. It completely blows my chance for sex and it's reall...

I wasn't ready! Why did I have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I feel awafull, I am almost 30, and a single mum, have met a man on a dating site, he is 34, we just met once, that went ok, chatted a little online, and send a 1 or 2 text messages, and than, yesterday he invited me over for dinner. I went, but I ...

I don't like being on top, its grosses me out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have sex on a regular basis but the problem isn't him...it's me! I'm ok with the having sex part but I hate going on top and I don't like giving blow jobs or hand jobs either...the thought of it ...

Should I take another pill after having unprotected sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - hellpp! last night i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend..however, im on the pill, and tuesday (yesterday) i took my last pill. so today i stopped for the 7 day break (if your familiar with how the pill works.) should take an extra pill today...

Was this all because of male competition?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - A while back I met these two guys who live together. We partied once and I kissed one of them. He wanted to have sex but I didn't let him. I found out that he is a big manwhore so I probably hurt his ego. I stayed friends with him but started ...

Problems when my g/f is on top...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

27 May 2009 (?) - Hello, well I'm kind of worried because whenever my girlfriend is on top, sometimes my penis cracks, like if you were to crack your nuckles...the very first time it happened it hurt a little bit, now I just got used to it...is it bad that this is ...

He seems genuine, but my friends think he is just after sex! Tell me what you think.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Let me apologize in advance for the long posting. I met a guy through some mutual friends about a year ago. We were paired up in their wedding. That was the first time we had met in person. He seemed like a nice guy. We talked for a while at the ...

Looking for anal sex tips

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been talking about trying anal sex, and im all for it but i want it to be good. Does it always hurt? or does it feel better after doing it a few times, and also kinda embarrasing but is there a way to get rid of fe...

First time ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I have a girlfreind and we both are still virgin. For some time we are thinking of doing sex ,so please let me know some tips for first time sex and the best position to break her hymen for less pain...

Am I that bad at this or is he that difficult to please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months now. We've been doing oral and recently sex. I have a few questions regarding ejaculation? When I first started giving him blowjobs, before, it took like, 15 minutes, but now i can't ...

Do I have subconcious feelings for him? Why do I feel used?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Recently, I've started living with a guy friend from school. We've been really good friends for a long time, and although we used to be attracted to one another romantically, we've been platonic for the past two years. In the evenings we usually ...

He never seems to "finish"!!!!! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Is there any condition or anything that makes it really hard for a guy to - finish- , i'm asking cause i just cant get my bf to finish, i would give him a hand job and he would pre cum and then a little fluid but doesnt finish, stays hard, we dont ...