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Lost in lust and letting guys use me

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Question - (13 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok well i have this problem, i tend to let guys use me, and i dont know why, i say no but there so hot and good looking that i cave and be sexual with them, but then i end up falling for them and want more but then they stop talking to me and dont want anything to do with me, so i end up getting hurt...i dont know what to do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009):

Growing up is learning to control your emotions instead of letting them rule you.

You can't punch everyone in the face every time you want to, or you'll go to jail. We all want to hit people sometimes but that doesn't make it okay.

Just like you can't sleep with everyone who you find sexy and willing. Or else you will get a reputation and possibly some diseases. It's tempting but that doesn't make it okay. The only one you are hurting in the long run is yourself.

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A female reader, d gr8 frnd.. India +, writes (14 May 2009):

avoid meeting guys.....

till u feel you could control your emotins....

good luck

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