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No sexual desire and can't get an erection

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Question - (13 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2009)
A male Australia age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hello! i was wondering if anybody has this problem.

I don't feel sexual desire, and I can;t get an erction .

So my wife is very frustrated, because She thinks it her. That ,she is not turning me on anymore, and she thinks,I just don't tell this to myself.Like a self-deception...

Do you think she might be right? She thinks I just stopped feeling sexual toward her, and she says it wrecks her self-esteem.

Now i don't know, I do generally feel the luck of sexual thoughts. Like ,I never think about sex..

My doc says, it's all in my head, as they didn't find anything wrong with me,on my check up.

So what should I do in this situtation if I don't know , what is really the cause of my turn off? Anything helps,just give me some ideas here please!

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A male reader, Harry Castle United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2009):

Harry Castle agony auntSatin is once again right on the mark. No chemicals that operate as Viagra does will ever do it for you without desire on your part.

Now, I did hear a few years ago of a tablet called "Aprima" or "Uprima"; goes under both names. This DOES operate on your desire centre and stimulates you to erection. I'm assuming that your penis IS capable of full function, as your doctor has given you confirmation, so if your desire can be activated, then you will achieve your objective.

What I don't know is how, where and when this drug is available, or even if it is licensed.

PLEASE do not attemp to purchase this via the Internet, even if you can find it - you simply don't know what you are buying there.

Harry.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):

Are you under a lot of stress or having some sort of emotional difficulties?

Were you always lacking in sexual drive or is this a more recent problem?

Perhaps you're simply not a very sexual person. Some people aren't.

Maybe you should visit a sexual therapist. Or try using Viagra.

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