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writes:I read in a magazine recently that some people are saying that among teens girls giving casual blow-jobs to boys is replacing regular petting. In other words, hugging and kissing is being replaced by oral sex. Is this true? Is this a dangerous trend?
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reader, molly4  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 I am a teen and I haven't seen this trend really, but I have noticed people talking about hand and oral sex quite casually. I wouldn't go to the extent of saying that it is replacing kissing, but that it is becoming more common among younger and younger teens. This is why sexual education is important so kids don't get hurt. I view sex (oral, hand, whatever) as something private and special, and not just to give out to fit in or impress somebody. Peer pressure can have huge influences on teen's decisions, and when they hear their friends talking about their experiences (which often aren't true) teens may feel frigid or uncool for not also participating. I hope that kids just use their common sense to do whats right for them, not for their reputation.
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reader, emilya968  +, writes (13 May 2009):
yes ive read about this too ,well a friend of mine has a teenage daughter and shes very close with her 14 year old daughter but recently her 14 yr old told her mum about her and her boyfriend they have been together for 5 months and hes always around but they seem to do oral things such as bloe jobs ad fingering my friend was shocked but glad her daughter isn't having sex but its still very dangerous mothers ahould be aware of what there children are doign but clearly many teenagers do it and the questions why ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): kissing is still very much so in effect.
It might lead to oral sex and oral sex is probably becoming more and more common, but overall I don't agree with the precise language of the article you read.
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