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I'm worried she'll start being afraid of having sex

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Question - (20 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ostintheaction writes:

Hi i have a big problem last night i had sex with my gf she said she was a virgin, first we did some foreplay when we go to the momment she said it hurt like hell she almost cryed we try it twice, then we watched some tv together, now my question is this she told me she had a burning sencetion ,

she told me she is a virgin, now ,i know when someone is a virging they need to break her hymen my problem is that we only try it twice cuz she got alot of pain, the next time i see her like a couple of day will it happend again beacuse i think didnt break her hymen cuz she didint bleed.

p.s I went all the way the second time thats why she told me to stopped, im scared she will get afraid of the act of having sex ,and also i used protection and been with her for 2 years

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

having pain for the first time when having sex is very obvious for a girl. it takes few`attempts for the hymen to break. dont push yourself to her. give her sometime. be understanding.

as u mentioned u r likely to see her again,it is quite possible during that meet she may not be particular about sex.

besides for a female, foreplay plays a very important role. since that naturally arouses her and lubricates the vagina. this will make the intercourse more pleasurable, less painfull and no burning sensation.

just relax.

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