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writes:okay so you dont need details so i wont make this too long!.. but yesterday my parents went away and because im an only child, i didnt want to be alone for the first night, so my boyfriend (of almost a year) stayed over. we got a film, pizza etc.. and at like 10 o clock we ended up gettin abit *intimate* on the sofa, (we've never done anything apart from kiss, and ive given him the odd handjob) but he put his hand down my trousers and. well! like i said, details arent necessary but he asked me if i wanted him to stop, and i really didnt! we ended up upstairs and he took my virginity. we did pretty much everything, the sex wasnt at all painful like people make out, i didnt bleed. was a little uncomfortable but nothing unbareable! but when i woke up this morning, he went to work, and when i went to the toilet, it really stung! i couldnt bare to wee, i got these awful stomach cramps and i was sick! i had a bath and stuff. and i was on msn talking to my best friend and she put 'how'd it go last night then ey ;)' so i was like well actually.... and i told her what happened lol :) then i told her about this morning, and she put 'omg! he given you chlamydia or somert?' so it really made me think! i probably havnt got anything, because i wouldnt get symptoms so soon would i? and im not pregnant, because again its only the morning after? and we used a condom? but he told me hes only ever had one sexual partner and they always used something! what could be wrong with me? is this normal? im really worried!
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reader, Darlinxx +, writes (19 July 2009):
it was probably just a little too rough for u,, i got the same when i once had sex,, nothin to worry about xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi guys, thanks so much for the replies :) i guess i was just a little panicky lol was all new and stuff. but im fine now, i just over reacted a little! i had a bit of spotting blood in the morning, and then by last night, i was finee and right as rain again :) yeaah we did get a little rough lol. so maybe my body just isnt used to it :) i do trust him and shouldnt of even thought he would have given me anything :D thanks again, really appreiciate it x
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 if it was an std you wouldnt feel it the next morn it sounds like that boy needs to learn to be a little more gentle next time tell him to slo down if it doenst go away soon go see a doc he could have broke somehting
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reader, Knight_in_White_Satin +, writes (16 July 2009):
 I had exactly the same problem 1st time i had sex. Morning after i was throwing up and feeling right aweful, it went away in the afternoon and i have been fine everytime since, was it kind of rough, if so he may have been pounding against your cervix, if it continues to hurt go see you GP. Hope this helps.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 After first time sex you're probably a little stretched and ripped down there, so its like peeing into a cut. Worst case scenario, you have a urinary tract infection. Don't worry! You probably made yourself sick stressing over this.
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