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writes:I had a fling with my sons baseball coach, here recently and he was married, im a widow, he came onto me and i cant stop thinken about him, we had alot of fun together, and we had sex 4 times, and we really connected together also, but i know i did wrong, in this because i dont believe in cheating while your married, even though it does happen, i did ask him before we had our sex if he would feel guilty and he said no, but everytime we see each other , or meet, my feelings for him get stronger and stronger, please help ty, xoxoxox Reply to this Question
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reader, AngellicaWaters +, writes (16 July 2009):
 Nothing just happens. You allowed for this to happen and this man is married. You know this isn't right and you know how you would feel if your deceased husband did something like this to you. Feelings or not this isn't the kind of a foundation a happy, successful relationship begins on. Stay away from him and move on. You can find someone else who isn't a cheater and who will actually be available to love and be with you, but you have to stay away from men that are unavailable to make way for a man like that. You deserve better and your son deserves a better man in his life too. Any man that you 'date' will be setting an example for your son, just as you set an example for him. Think of your child first and the example you want to set for him. Think of being the kind of person he can be proud of having for a parent and the kind of person he can emulate when he is older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): Funny thing is I am also having a fling with my son's coach, but he is not married and I am-- I do not know how to deal with it either because we are fine if we don't see each other. Still we text almost daily- not about us, but just like friends. It is so strange, I don't know for sure how I feel about all this. In a way I want to stop, but I also want it to continue... I don't know what I want. Just confused.
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