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*noopy99
writes:Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wondering - and I'd love to hear some female takes on this - 1) Will this freak out most prospective partners?2) Would it be possible for a long-term girlfriend/ wife to respect and love a man who enjoyed kissing and stroking their feet/legs?It doesn't obsess my life, I don't spend 24/7 thinking about it, but I do love cute feet and wouldn't want to be in a relationship if I couldn't kiss and nibble my partners' feet. Is this just pathetic? Or do some women tolerate it, or even enjoy it.Hopefully not a total freak...UK
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Personally i dont think it should, because everyone has some kind of fetish so they will respect yours if they care enough about u.
2ndly..... My husband has a foot fetish like yourself and i respect my husband ....i still dont get it... and dont find it a turn on myself but i love him very much, it turns him on and ultimatley benefits both...
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (16 January 2009):
ok personally i hate feet, so i find it really odd and creepy. but that's just my opinion. i personally could not stand a guy touching, kissing or sucking my feet. however if he wanted to buy me nice shoes to make my feet look nice then that would be fine. but i could not bare anyone touching them. but as a fetish goes i think it is pretty normal. if both people in the relationship enjoy a bit of foot fun then they should go for it.
it's just not something i would go for.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (16 January 2009):
Hello,
I think it's cool! My bf touches and smells my shoes, socks and slippers. I find it very loving when he makes a fuss of my feet and toes. Cool!! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): Hey! My guy has a bit of a foot fetish (more for the toes) and it doesn't bother me one bit. I hate my feet, but he loves them. I love that he loves them... who wouldn't love getting their feet rubbed. As long as you do not go over board with the fetish, I think it is fine. A girl should be lucky to have a guy like you!
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reader, im_a_dummy  +, writes (16 January 2009):
 awww, that is so cute!!!!
yes, for sure what Ask JenniHearts said, but also, i think its nice that a guy notices, girls spend (well i do) a lot of time picking out shoes, that match there outfits... and all sorts of stuff...
i think its cute when guys like girl's feet.... its better then them stairing at your boobs!
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reader, Lib1 + ♥, writes (16 January 2009):
I have to be honest it freaks me out a bit. But I would try to be supportive if I was already in love with the person. Maybe waiting until you're more secure with the relationship before you tell anyone. There are umm negative stereotypes out there for people who do like that. So counter those stereotypes to that person before letting them know.
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reader, lovesick2 +, writes (16 January 2009):
I have only had one boyfriend that had a foot fetish.I did not think it was weird at all, I was actually flattered that he liked my feet so much. I never would have thought that having my feet kissed and nuzzled could be so sensual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): It should only be a problem if the woman is self-conscious about her feet, which some are.
1. Only for the above reason so no
2. Of course as long as you don't spend all your time down her.
I too am a feet/leg lover, I never really find it a problem because
a. i never directly say I'm a podophile(foot lover)
b. I work it into a normal sexual routine, I'll spend time on every part of my girlfriends body and I find that after I give her good head she lets me spend time down there, I'm pretty sure she knows I love feet, but I don't neglect her needs so she hasn't got a problem with it, she even lets me give her foot massages after work. So it might be worth your while learning how to give good foot massages.
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (16 January 2009):
 My brother in-law has a foot fetish and he kept it from my sister for a good porton of them before marrige. my sister found out about it and thinks its cute. she takes pictures of her feet and send them to him in iraq.
not all women are grossed out but fetishes. most of them thin of it as another way to please their partner.
think of it this way a foot fetish is better then a porn fetish or a pee fetish...
women will probilly be releaved to see a guy put an interest in their shoes.
hope this helps
jenni hearts
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