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Why are men so obsessed with breasts but hardly notice them during sex?

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Question - (11 January 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Why are men so obsessed with breasts when during sex, they don't even spend that much time on them. lol Just curious!

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntYour question is alien to me... I have never ignored them during foreplay of during or after... Your guy must be VERY inexperienced or just uneducated as to the art of lovemaking. Sorry but you may have a bum one on your hands try using some chocolate on the places you want adored he might get the hint.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

I think guys should keep our sexy lacy bras on and totally just play with them before having sex. Sometimes with my husband I like to rub my breasts all over his face and he just licks them and rubs them and grabs them with his hands and sticks his face in between them. I Love it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009):

forgive me but it's what we in the army call primary targeting. said in another way a stripper w a thong the guy will stare @ the breasts without a thong & his eyes move southwards. similar thing happens w naked women in bed.

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A male reader, lovelynightmare United States +, writes (12 January 2009):

lovelynightmare agony auntMany species have some kind of primary attraction unit that first draws us to a potential mate. Breasts probably serve that function (along with other functions). Then as the attraction develops, other things would draw attention instead.

Me personally, I'd spend lots of time with breasts, but I can't speak for every male out there.

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A male reader, CrazySparta Greece +, writes (12 January 2009):

I always play with them, lick and suck the nipple.

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A male reader, demon2004 United States +, writes (11 January 2009):

demon2004 agony auntIt has been my experience that I have other things to do with my hands during sex. I give them a little attention and then move on. I havent had any complaints so far.

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A female reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (11 January 2009):

UnfinishedSymphony agony auntGeez

I was having this discussion yesterday with several girls and we found ourselves cornering this poor poor lad.

They never seem to take a step back, stare and appreciate things do they wneh it comes to the bedroom department? They just constantly are oblivious to everything and dive in!

We splash out on sexy underwear from time to time for them! (they rip it off us immediately :/)...ect ect ect

They just grab us, place us accordingly (whereby they cant see our tits at all) and caress our breasts in such an odd, unsatisfactory way.

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