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writes:hi anuty,last few days I feel like a prisoneer...2 days ago my girlfriend got me drunk,seduced me into sex and then handcuffed me to her bed at her place..slowly she began to remove my trousers and...then all of a sudden she whipped me with my belt and then gagged my mouth with a cloth and left me in the room tied up for 4 hours..later her mother saw me tied and she called the lock smith to untie me..i am embrassed now,as her mother,the locksmith saw me naked..but more then that about my girl friend attiutue,before that many times we have done bondage,i used to like it before,but now she's been dominating me a lot..when I asked her why she does it,she says she jokes and changes the topic..now even her mother teases me..pls say what to do?
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reader, dddddddd  +, writes (27 February 2009):
That is bordering on criminal. You don't tie people up and just leave them. Take this as an insight into the sort of person she is. It isn't a loving or caring thing to do - it is a punishing and controlling thing.Bondage is one thing, but leaving you tied up is something else altogether. Did you ever think what might happen if her mother didn't see you there? You might have been there tied up for hours longer.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 Leave her, get a pair of balls about you!
She needs to find a guy who likes this stuff and you really need to walk away, as you really are being very wimpy about the whole thing!
Or you could just turn the tables and tie her up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): She does it because you let her! You're acting the wimp and she treats you as such. Sorry mate - no sympathy from me.(Actually, she rather sounds like fun!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): Well, that's pretty freakin obvious don't you think?
If you don't like this and she keeps avoiding the topic, theeeennnn..........
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......come on. One guess on what you should do? Just one? None? No?
Okay... Well, if you don't like and she refuses to listen, leave her. How hard is that OR maybe you like it and you're just trying to vent this out here.
This is hardly rocket science, let alone the billions of questions here that ask, "Could I get pregnant if he fingered me?" Come on man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): I would NOT be w/her! That is ridiculous!
P.S. Don't EVER let a woman tie you up ... ... And DON'T ever trust a woman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): if i was you, i would run while you still can. to some people this is fun, if you are not into this dominatric stuff, don't get involve with people like that. i can feel your embarassement, i would be afraid to even step into that house again if her mother makes a joke out of it.
be a man and find yourself a girlfriend who does normal sexual things. best of luck.
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