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*ario4hustle
writes:why do girls pretend to not like performing oral sex , then you find out that they love it? whats up with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): Well, I think that if you ask a girl casually if they like giving it, most will say that they don't. There is a stigma that is attached to it. Like if a girl likes it she must be a slut or have had many sexual partners in the past. (A good girl doesn't like it.) But when in the act, something more primal takes over and a girl can find herself drawn to that region.On the flip side, not every girl likes it (gag reflexes and all). Others find that it is sort of demeaning. Personally, I can't do it unless I have really strong sexual chemistry with a man. Out of all the partners I have had (3), I have only done it with one.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Or maybe your ex hated it with you and enjoys it with her new guy.
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reader, loving arms +, writes (22 February 2009):
it seems everyone feels the same way about the use of the word 'they' as though your experiences can be attributed to all girls eveywhere. Maybe your girl loves it now because it's with you! whereas before she was not so connected to whoever she decided she didn't like it with.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
I love the use of the word "THEY" as though this is all women everywhere.
I am assuming this is one girl, so just ask her!
It could be that she is worried that if she is too forward about enjoying it, men will think she is some kind of whore who does it to anyone and all the time.
Good Luck!! xx
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