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writes:I am 19 years old. I know I am young but my boyfriend and I who have been together on and off. Have sex regularly sometimes twice a day. He almost always cums inside of me. Not saying that we want a baby so young or nothings its just we know how much we love eachother if it happens it happens and we are ready to be a young family. But after all this time its never happend and im starting to worry. I asked my doctor and she said it was probably nothing but i tend to think diff. and she also said i was too young to run test on i still have time to become pregnant. I wanna know whats a matter? If im doing something wrong or doing it to often? I need to know what i can do differently!
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reader, tux +, writes (22 February 2009):
 You are still too young to worry about being sterile. Some people can take a very long time before they are successful at becoming pregnant while others like my wife got pregnant on our first try.
You say that you think that you may be sterile, but what about your boyfriend? He could be the one who is.. unless you have experienced this before. If you have always had unprotected sex like you are now, you can be at risk for certain STD's that could cause sterility. But I'm guessing your doctor checked for that at least since you are havign unprotected sex. If she didn't, I would definitely recommend getting a different doctor.
But the best advice I can give is, relax and don't worry about it too much. You don't even really want to have a baby yet. If you really want to conceive, then I would track your period and find out what days you are ovulating and have sex around those days. There are a lot of good resources online if you search for them on conceiving.
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Try getting a book about reproduction. You might get some good answers!
I have heard that if you have sex frequently, the quality of the semen decreases: that is, each orgasm results in fewer sperm, because the man's ejaculating faster than his body has time to make sperm. So sex twice a day might not be ideal for getting pregnant. HOWEVER, if it's something you two enjoy together, I wouldn't stop.
If you always have unprotected sex and aren't pregnant in another year, go to a different doctor and ask for some answers.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Please, your doctor is certainly on the right path, and you are too young to be concerned about lack of fertility. You simply are NOT doing anything wrong.
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