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writes:I want to know what your views are on cuddle buddies. Cuddle buddy is similar with friends with benefits but without the sex. Cuddle buddies do kiss, snuggle, cuddle, make out and many more. However, the feeling of love is just a detachment. There will be no emotional feeling, no strings attached type of thing. I want to know how far can you go (sexually)? and what do you think about this? did you ever had one? does it work?
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reader, ponderland  +, writes (8 April 2011):
Ive got a cuddle buddy admitadly its a female nd my best mate but its nice to have the intmate bit :) x
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 April 2011):
 I personally can not make out (kiss deeply) folks I am not attached to.... it would not work for me. I would fall in love... just like I did with my FWB...
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reader, shawncaff +, writes (5 April 2011):
 person12345--when you say it "worked", what do you mean?
How do you define "worked"?
And OP, what do you mean by "Does it work"?
What are your goals in this? Is it to make out with someone whom you don't know one time? If so, then yeah it can work. But are you trying to also feel something, like comfort or security? If so, I do not see how this is possible, unless you lie to yourself that the person cares for you, or unless the person actually does care for you, in which case it is not casual and it won't "work".
So it would be helpful for me for you to define your goals.
Thanks!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 April 2011):
 I've had one work. It only worked because neither of us had any romantic feelings whatsoever. We both found the other attractive, but both found the idea of dating each other fairly repulsive. The refraining from sex helped keep emotions out of it, and it was nice to have a friend in the same building as me who I could go make out with occasionally. We got as far as fingering/handjobs once, but mostly kept to making out. Adding orgasms to the mix can be complicated since they release bonding hormones in everyone. Hence, why just making out and cuddling is good. They can work, but you have to be certain that you really really have no emotional attachment to each other.
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Well, honestly I've never had a "cuddle buddy" because I don't see the point. Why would you want to cuddle someone who you don't have feelings for or any attachment to? The reason I want to cuddle in the first place is because I like the guy a lot and want him to cuddle me.
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