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Big Questions: Help and advice

I want to go to a convention in America but my friends can't afford it. Should I forget it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I really want to go to a convention in America in a few months to meet the cast of a film that i am a huge fan of, but the problem is, since i live in England, my friends have been saying that they cant afford to go, and ...

I have to kiss my sister-in-law in a play! Should I do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - hello aunty,I am stage actor..my last few plays have done well and I am on a rise..2 days back I was offered a play with the best director in the business..this is a romantic play where my sister-in-law(cousins wife) plays my love interest..she also ...

I confided in my friend that my ex had been sexually abused, but now we may get back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - hey.. i broke up with my girlfreind about 4 weeks ago, she had been sexually abused in the past and it has affected her trust in people. anyway i took the break up bad, i kept things in for two weeks and then confided everything (including the ...

I'm getting an abortion but he doesn't want to discuss it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I found out I was pregnant four weeks ago. Today I had the consultation appointment for a termination which is due to happen on Saturday. My boyfriend of 5 years definitely does not want to keep the baby, nor do I. For various reasons we are n...

Why do I miss her even if she has give me sooo much pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Hey everyone..My relationship of 2 yrs with my gf(more like a fiance to me) ended 2 months back!She was my first and i wanted her to be last too!ive always wanted to be with just one girl for the rest of my life..but i broke up with her! Its a ...

What is meant by "make my move"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Okay, before you read this, check my previous question called "How can i make a move without embarassing either of us?" or something like that. Bascically everyone has told me to "make my move", but what is meant by this and how do i go about it. I ...

Why do women not mention their husbands in a positive way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Why do married women with kids never mention there husbands in a way you feel they are in a happy marriage. For example, I was talking to a lady who lost everything in a flood and she mentioned she will miss the kids pictures those types of m...

What if she spreads a disease to someone and I date them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - So, this girl that im not really too good of friends with but talk to her, she keeps having sex with all these guys in my school. i honestly dont doubt she will get some type of disease from doing it so many times with so many diff. guys! i tell her...

Is a body fat percentage of 11% a turn off for guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Am i too thin or muscly and does this turn guys on or off? Im 5 foot 3 inches, have a bmi of 20 but my body fat is really low at 11%. I am quite muscly because I dance and climb a lot, but is having so little body fat a turn off to guys? Also, do ...

Help - step parenting advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Am I doing the right thing? I am a step parent to a lovely 9 year old boy. My husband is away for a week and I am taking care of my stepson on his visits here. We have him twice a week and his mum lives down the road from us. His mum and her partner ...

Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...

How can I be hot with small boobs?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - How can I be hot with small boobs? I have small boobs, wide hips and a small waist. I think it's a very feminine looking body. But guys still drool more over busty women! I don't get it, boobs are only fat. I've seen guys drooling over women with ...

Should you marry a guy who is not your type?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Should you marry guy if he is not really your type and he is trying to be who you want to be with?...

I don't get why I have these weird fantasy's of being submissive to someone. Am I normal??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Do I have a problem? Ever since I was a little girl I innocently (no sexual just like little kid imagining) fantasized being submissive. And I still do, I've never told anyone this. It's not because I am ashamed but because It's really personal...

Do I go for it and tell her I like her or am I just chasing a hopeless dream?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (?) - I want to be with a girl who I feel is absolutely perfect in every way, but there are several problems that I'm not sure how to overcome. I'm 21 and so is she, we both go to the same university. I can't stop thinking about her and I get the feeling ...

YEAH we have great sex but is that enough? Does it compensate for the neglect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - After 6 years loving a "badboy", I am still left neglected and lonely. It seems every occasion or event meaningful to me, I end up alone. I am constantly disappointed and p.o'ed. After the steam cools, he always calls or shows up apologetic and ...

Should I just walk away or should I stand my ground as his bestfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hey Ok so my ex and I stopped talking for about four months (after break up), got to the point where I truly thought I was over him. He contacted me out of the blue and wanted to be friends, after 3 weeks I acepted and we started chatting heaps a...

Ideas for things to do to make the her know I care, when meeting my online girlfriend for the first time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - hey guys, i was just wondering if you could help me out here. So im meeting my online girlfriend for the first time in about a week(im going to be careful, cautious, all the good stuff.) I have grown very attached to her, adore her, and want to show ...

Birthcontrol is a must but has killed my sex drive..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I have been on birth control (the NuvaRing) for about 4 months now. I find it causes me to not want sex really at all. Apparently that is a cause of taking it. My boyfriend wants to have sex all the time but I never feel like it anymore. I ...

What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...

Live-in has become rude. He has started burping and passing gas...help..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. We have lived together for 8 months out of that time. Recently he has become quite rude. He passes gas and burps infront of me way more than he ever used to. What can I do to make him ...

I'm doing it by the book but how do I have a happy ending?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Ever since my ex broke up with me over 2 years ago, I have been looking for ways to get him back. AT FIRST I made the mistake of chasing him and pushing him farther away. Then when I backed off, he began to initiate contact by calling and texting ...

I don't want my four year relationship to end. I've worked so hard and I don't want it thrown away because of sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I need help. I'm only 18 years old, but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. I'm not very interested in sex anymore, and I'm afraid he's going to end us over it. He complains that we never do anything, and I feel bad. Even ...

Genuine reason or mental block?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hi I have a strange problem. I have been married for a year and I still cannot love my husband. To be honest, I was never in love with my husband...even before I decided to marry him. We didn't get a chance to date much but he seemed like a ni...

Does size matter guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - What do guys think of large labia? I don't mind mine just wondering how guys feel! Ta x...

I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - So I'm one of those people whoose always always single, I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people? I've often wondered that it's because I'm a girl with short hair and a flat chest anyone think this ...

I don't want to leave her but to me it seems that if I do it wouldnt even matter to her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - ok me and my girlfriend just got back together after like 2 months of not being together and now shes tripping and pissing at me for things that i havent even done...i do evrything possible to be with her n i do anything for her and now all shes ...

Does this sound like I just had an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Did I just have an orgasm? I have never had sex before/ barely any sexual contact really... but just now I was watching porn (not a habitual thing, more of a curiosity) and was squeezing my legs together abit and clenching my uhh pelvic (?) mucle...

Am I being treated like a door mat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hi peeps! I've been living with me bf now for 7 months now and I'm reallu concerned about the way my bf treats me. Our relationship used to be filled with affection for each other, now I find its very one sided. I'm always the one who instigat...

She constantly accuses me of cheating on her, yet she's the one who did the cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me a while ago and i forgave her and took her back, i love her, but our relationship is hard recently i don't know what to do. I lost a lot of trust in her when she did that, but i had enough to believe her and take her...

He says he doesn't believe in relationships, but I want to be in one with him. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Afraid of relationships but not afraid of commitment. My current lover has a chronic fear of relationships, he believes that every relationship is doomed from the start so why even bother. We've been seeing each other for a year and have been ...

Am I too young to buy a sex toy? Should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Thanks for your time i turned 15 a couple months ago and iv never had sex. But i want to try useing a dildo or a viberater. I dont know were to get one? and how old you have to be? plus i think its embarising to buy one at a store. My cousin got ...