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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Could our different experiences in dating cause big problems down the road?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I'm very interested in a 23 year old guy who hasn't had a girlfriend before... and I'm 24 and have been dating for nearly 8 years. There are a few things that concern me about us and I'd love your thoughts on any of them: - would he likely be put...

He's married, but I want to be friends. Should we be friends anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I know a married man who is interested in me. I am an Asian girl and have known this guy for a few years. We get on well and it is only recently that we have been in touch via text messages, occasional calls and meeting up for brief chats whenever ...

He isn't saying the 'L' word, and now I'm starting to get worried. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused at the moment and would love some input from those of you who've been in long term relationships. I've been with my BF for about 6 months. At first I wasn't sure where I wanted things to go so I never worried about the future...

My girlfriend cheated on me with a stripper?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Dear All ... I have only just discovered what happened and Im devistated , my wonderful g/f of 4 Years ( well I used to think wonderful ) Went to a really " out there " Hens Night for the bride to be , It was in the city where there is much ...

Should I tell my girlfriend that I told her secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - hey.. i broke up with my girlfreind about 4 weeks ago, she had been sexually abused in the past and it has affected her trust in people. anyway i took the break up bad, i kept things in for two weeks and then confided everything (including the ...

He has known me for a year, now how do I get him to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - i need help... How do i win a mans heart that ive been talking to for the past year? he likes me and feels for me but he wont commit to me. Men i need your help please give me advice. i know im attractive, sweet, fun, polite, caring, interesting, ...

My life is miserable now. Will I ever be happy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Will ever be happy? 18 just finished school all my 'friends' are in college and having fun my parents cant afford to put me through school. soon i'm not doing anything with my life and on top of that i'm i'm ugly,fat and have a small penis and i've ...

How can I manage this difficult team at work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - This question is more a problem at work than personal relationships. I am a manager in education. Lately my staff have been bleeding the sickness procedures and I have been becoming quite annoyed about it. I had one staff member with susp...

Is my ex boyfriend over me? Or is he just acting like it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me last Friday, and we decided to still be friends (even though I still have feelings for him) and I've tried talking to him about what went wrong and talking about the good times we had in the beginning. But he's told me ...

How do I make my boyfriend understand that this is still affecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Firstly apologies for what will appear to be a long and confusing story. I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 22 and we met at university, we live apart as I am still there and he has graduated and works full time. We’ve been together for 14 month...

I'm scared my insecurities will ruin my relationship, how can I overcome this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - hi, i am 19 years old and i have just found the most perfect guy for me, i have never felt like this before and i know he is the one for me. i have completely forgotten that other attractive guys exist because i only have eyes for him. howeve...

Am I labelling myself right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I am 15 an i have been using the term bisexual but recently realized that that term may be wrong. I date girls and guys and like both romantically but i dont want sex with either one. I have had sex with a guy but i didnt really care either way for ...

Why has he started talking to me again all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - What would make someone that you like start talking to you again? He wasn’t talking to me online for a long time he wouldn’t text or talk to me on any social network. I haven’t did much in that time I only gave him a present for Christmas and gave ...

Do I go to the American embassy to get the ball rolling in plans to migrate to NY from the UK

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Who do i go to help me get the ball rolling with plans to migrate to new york. The American embassy? i have no idea how to set up accommodation there what to do job wise i just know that that is where i want to live! i'm 18 and i would like to be ...

I hate my surname! Is there any solution to this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I know this problem is lighthearted compared to some of the other stuff people are going through, but it's been bugging me for a long time. I can accpet an honest answer but please don't judge me as shallow. I love my family, but I absolutely hat...

How do I accept my gf's promiscuous past if I've only been with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I've seen a few questions on here that are similar to mine, but I think mine has a special little twist on it. My girlfriend, whom I've been with for 6 years, has a very promiscuous past. Around 40 - 50, she can't remember exactly. And before her ...

Drop everything and go for love, or work out what is already there...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - hello everyone, im kinda stuck in a situation that almost everyone one here can relate to on either side. Ive been together with my wife for 6 years now and have been married for a little over a year now. We have gone though tough times and I have d...

I slept with over 30 women to try and find vengance, but it never came! Now I am trapped in a loveless marriage but I don't want to start a new family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Ok, so this is my story. I am on separation. Have been married for the past eight years. Not that I wanted to spend the eight years with my wife but thats what counsellors would tell me to forgive and accept my wife after she lied to me about her ...

How can I get over someone that great? Will I ever find someone better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. For a while now I've been struggling after my first love broke up with me. It was a two year long relationship that was undoubtedly amazing. However, I made a horrible mistake and was unfaithful. After I told her, we both cried all ...

Is my mum right - should he grow up and provide?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriend is 35 and I am 26. My mother doesn't think he's good enough for me, for very old fashioned reasons. Now I'm beginning to think she's right. Or am I being shallow? My boyfriend worked but kept dead end jobs until he was ...

I need some advice on how to end this nightmare

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I am in a bad spot in my life right now. Everything seems to be going wrong in every direction. I am divorced over 45 and not happy. I started seeing someone who what it thought was getting out of his marriage but over 2 years later he still hasent. ...

I don't see myself as sexy, I can only see myself as "cute"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My issue is that I don't see myself as "sexy." This poses a problem since I am in a relationship. I see myself as "cute" - not really how you want to see yourself when you're intimate with your significant other. My boyfriend says to me, "you're t...

Could you consider what happened to me as rape? I never actually told him to stop.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Saturday night I went out with some friends from work. After the bars, we went over to one of their houses for an after party. At about 4:35 I went to hang out with one of the guys alone. (No intention of sex, just wanted to make out). We were d...

I told him the ring he proposed with was not my style and now he is really hurt! How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend proposed to me out of nowhere and the ring was from a pawn shop, I told him yes, but the ring wasn't my style and I kind of wanted a new ring, not someone elses. I told him this and now he is really hurt, my question is how do I fix ...

I feel extremely disrespected after I told my boyfriend to stop during sex and he took no notice! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - hi to make this as short as possible... im about to be 16 and my bf is 19. we had sex for the first time a few nights ago. it was my 4th time ever having sex. he was way too aggressive and did it way too hard and i cried and told him to stop but i ...

What does it take to get a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - What does it take to get a girlfriend? I am an analytical person. I'm not always happy and I question stuff a lot. I think about consequences before I do something. I might be a bit prude, but hey, I've got standards. Sometimes I'm very outgoing and ...