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*olaroid93
writes:So I'm one of those people whoose always always single, I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people? I've often wondered that it's because I'm a girl with short hair and a flat chest anyone think this could be why? Reply to this Question
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reader, Polaroid93 +, writes (19 February 2010):
Polaroid93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help guys yeah sorry that q. Was badly worded - I guess my question is a mix if both so I'm glad that was picked up on, i'd just like to add that I'm 18 and feel it may be something to do with boys my age being into very feminine women( which I just don't suit trying to be) as I'm sure you can tell I have spent time thinking about this thanks again x
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 I don't understand your question. The way it's worded confused me a bit. Do you mean that there is a stigma attached to being single or that people stigmatize women who are flat chested with short hair?
I don't think that this is the reason you're still single.
Hmmm... if you don't like short hair, have you looked into extensions?
The decent ones are pricey but they're worth it.
You just have to be very picky and make sure you go to a reputable salon.
It can be done... look at Britney... she went from nearly bald to butt length in a few months.
Of course not ALL guys dislike short hair... look at Halle Berry... she's a beautiful movie star.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (18 February 2010):
I don't understand your question. The way it's worded confused me a bit. Do you mean that there is a stigma attached to being single or that people stigmatize women who are flat chested with short hair?
I don't think that this is the reason you're still single.
Hmmm... if you don't like short hair, have you looked into extensions?
The decent ones are pricey but they're worth it.
You just have to be very picky and make sure you go to a reputable salon.
It can be done... look at Britney... she went from nearly bald to butt length in a few months.
Of course not ALL guys dislike short hair... look at Halle Berry... she's a beautiful movie star.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 This would only be an issue if you only look for guys in a shallow place like the bar. Otherwise and I don't mean to sound rude but maybe you are hard to approach. For example if you have such a strong confidence level most guys feel challenged. Otherwise the only stigma I would say is that you are happy with life and don't need a man at this point, so nothing negative.
If you want be to go into more detail it would be great to know what you are like around guys you like.
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reader, Cowboy255  +, writes (18 February 2010):
Tell you the truth I date for the person who they are not looks flat chest don't bother me to bad as I'm not the biggest fan of doubles but the short hair I've never been crazy for but you'll find someone have you really tried dating like asking anyone out
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (18 February 2010):
 I'm not really sure what your question is here. Are you asking about the stigma or if your single because you have short hair and a flat chest? In both cases, I'd have to say no. I don't believe there is a stigma against single people. I'm not sure why there would be unless you have noticed that people don't treat you the way you would like because you're single. And no, I don't believe you're single because you have short hair. Look at models! I just don't think you're looking in the right place. You'll find someone.
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