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Does this sound like I just had an orgasm?

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Question - (18 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Did I just have an orgasm?

I have never had sex before/ barely any sexual contact really... but just now I was watching porn (not a habitual thing, more of a curiosity) and was squeezing my legs together abit and clenching my uhh pelvic (?) mucles... and suddenly I felt really good, but kind of at the same time like I might or something? Like a lot of pressure all at once and I had like two spasms (thats all I can think of to call them) and felt hot and cold flushes over my body. Then I sort of stopped clenching and let myself relax, I didn't feel like I reached a "climax" or anything but I'm not sure because I don't know what a climax is meant to feel like. This was all for a maximum of 5 seconds... do you think it could have been an orgasm? Or the lead up to an orgasm?

Help! Because I have been longing to know what one feels like for ages and seeing as I don't have a boy friend and don't want to be a slut... I have never had the chance to before.

What do you think?

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (18 February 2010):

This was an orgasm dear. Good idea to have them alone at home! Enjoy

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010):

You'd know if you had an orgasm. It sounds like you were aroused. Not orgasming. Get a vibrator and experiment, I got my first orgasm that way. Of course they are always more fun with a partner.

It hurts my heart that you use the word "slut" by the way. A woman enjoying sex is not a slut, as long as you use a condom and are discreet with your choice of partner, sex can be a very fun and enjoyable thing.

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A female reader, leogirl18 Canada +, writes (18 February 2010):

Sorry this made me lol. By the sounds of it, you had an orgasm. But maybe each person is different? Were you rubbing yourself or touching yourself? Generally, rubbing or touching my downstairs makes me orgasm. :)

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