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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I think I'm adopted, what do I need for DNA tests?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - hi there everyone i think that i am adopted but i am not sure i don't want to ask my parents because they may get upset if i am wrong and if i am right they may deny it. i was going to have a dna test but i was thinking that do i need my mum a...

Two types of men...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I come across two types of men in my dating life - those who quickly think I'm the answer to make their lives perfect and so within a couple of weeks they're saying they love me, talking about moving in together soon and starting conversations about ...

I feel really battered and bruised by my boyfriend's constant abuse...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm looking for advice re my boyfriend of ten years. I feel really battered and bruised by his abuse. He has called me names over the years, insulted my daughter (he is not her father) and he has even threatened to 'slash' my face open and ...

Asked to be a God mother, what do I do!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - My friend has just asked me to be god mother to her 2 children. I'm really flattered but I don't know what to say! Do you have to be a Christian to be a god parent? What will my role be? ...

I sometimes, whilst masturbating, fantasize over men stripping me, does this make me gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - hi I sometimes, whilst masturbating, fantasize over men stripping me, does this make me gay? i mean its not that i have anything against gays or bisexuals, but i dont really want to be one! i still do fantazize over women, but when i fantasize...

He gets excited to easily, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - When I am kissing this guy he gets turned on really quickly and asks me to make him come which he always says it wont take him long and it doesn't I mean he lasts about 2-3 minutes, is this normal, he usually comes quite a bit. We aren't dati...

He treats me really badly but I just can't seem to leave him... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so this will be a bit long. I am 15 years old and have been through a lot, I think.. Alcohol use and drug use. My mom drinks a lot and my dad isn't in the same country, he also drinks a lot. They both smoke. I'm saying this because I find it ...

Is my ex boyfriend over me - why the mixed signals if he has written the relationship off??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I have been with a man for a little over a year - on and off for the last 6 months - I am 31 wks pregnant and he denies this is his child so has asked for paternity. I said fine because the fact of the matter is, I was attacked the same month that I ...

How do you move on after a break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - what do you do to get over a very hard breakup when ur still in love with the person but he as moved on and after 6 months i cant seem to move on and you cant seem to find anyone else. he has moved on and looks happy and i just want to be happy too. ...

I seem to get unfair treatment all the time from men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like dirt, belittled me,name called,even threatend me which is...

He says he is unsure about our relationship yet he still acts like normal, I am so confused!

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12 February 2010 (F) - Hey guys. First of all I'd like to say thank you for helping me out. Greatly appreciated it. Please be honest and speak your mind. I also like to see the perspectives from any guys who have been in a relationship for more than a year or anyone who ...

Why can't I forget my pig of an ex even though I'm with someone better now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - 2 years ago now my first love walked out on me to be with another girl. We had been together since the age of 16. It was a very troubled break up which was dragged out for around 9 months following the first time he walked out... he was coming back ...

How can I connect more with a woman when I suffer from depression and she suffers from ptsd?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - How can I connect more with a woman for a realtionship, when I suffer from depression and she suffers from ptsd?...

Would it be so bad to get a tattoo reminding me of him, even though this weekend will be the first time we have met up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I have recently met a younger man (3 years) on a dating website. We have texted and talked on the phone. We are supposed to meet this weekend. To add insult to injury his father passed away this last Monday. I feel a VERY strong connectio...

Why am I acting like I am single and looking for a man when I have a boyfriend? Is it wrong that I am still with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1 I'm a mother of a 4 month old girl, and am still with her father but only as bf/gf. Well he wants to get married, but I don't. He's madly in love with me, I'm...

She wanted us to get married someday, but now she is saying she is unsure of what the future holds for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - This is an email from my girlfriend and I'm not sure why she says she is not sure what the future holds for us.She wanted a commitment and was the one that wanted to get married someday, now i get this. Not sure whats going on.Any insight would be ...

Should I tell my boyfriend what happened in bed with his best friend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - What should I do ? , my b/f was out of town at a business function and we had a party down here , It was all good fun , with drink , music and Dance . When I was getting ready for bed I put on my favorite skimpy nighty and jumped in bed , ...

He was meant to be moving out on March 1st, but now I am pregnant and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - i am 34 and my husband 29... we have 2 kids and i have an older one from a previous marriage... back in 2002 he had an affair.. to this day he justifies it saying that she is a great person and that she is better than me in every way... i have asked ...

I want to keep working as an exotic dancer but my boyfriend wants me to stop, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi all ..thanks for some help , Im working as an exotic dancer in a rather nice club , I love my job and really enjoy turning on the guys and feeling them wanting me so badly . But I began dating this guy I met there ( I know , I know ...

He told me he prefers larger breasts, when I only have small ones! How do I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Lame question... but I have small breasts, and my boyfriend prefers big ones. I know this because his celebrity crushes have big breasts and because I asked him and he straight out told me. During sex I'm not self conscious about them, although when ...

I don't understand religion and why we should be forced to put up with it.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - hi, im 14 and an atheist but i respect religious people who are open to another persons point of view, but the other side of that coin is that ignorance and single mindedness makes me really really angry. i just dont understand religion, i mean no ...

Is it just me, or are lots of young people having sex nowadays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - is it only me or you guys see that lots of young has experienced sex already, and they are so open about it. do you have kids that age (13-15ish) are they doing it? are you aware of it? i don't have kids, and I'm not going to for that reason...

What does love really feel like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I think I may be in Love with someone, but i don't know about it because Years ago I let go of most of my emotions. I think i may like her, i know she likes me, but there is another problem as well. She is only 15 or 16 i think and im not that kind ...