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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:First, i like this guy. next, im confused as to how he acts. So...he treats me differently than other girls, basically, and idk if im just overanalyzing cuz i like him or if he really does treat me weird. He basically talks to me a bunch and invites me to stuff and tells me stuff that he says he doesnt tell anyone else, and then he acts really strange other times. he just seems really awkward. like...he invited me to a party at his house, and at the party, he just...ignored me, kinda. he talked to me, but its really weird cuz he seemed so awkward. he does that at school too. he talks to me, but sometimes he doesnt, and i just feel him look. so y doesnt he say anything? does he actually hate me or something? im just kinda confused. hes a flirt with a lot of girls, but trust me, hes not the type to be a player, hes just one of those guys who is super nice. and he refuses to touch me kinda. like well be talking and he will hug every girl who he knows who walks by and he doesnt touch me. its so strange. he does sometimes, but rarely. and sometimes, we have this sort of intense eye contact and he doesnt look away...im basically just wondering...does he like me as a friend? does he actually hate me? y does he do this? sigh. sorry, i just dont know who else to ask. Thanks :)
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reader, LadyCorsair +, writes (24 November 2009):
 Oh he definitely likes you honey, he's just shy! Reserve your best smile for him, and when he looks your way, hold eye contact for 3 seconds whilst smiling and look away. That'll give him the hint you like him too! Try chatting to him online... People are often less shy about saying stuff when they don't actually have to LOOK at them. So add him on Facebook or messenger and try and get him to chat with you. Play it cool, but don't let him think you're not interested if you really are. And don't gossip about him with your friends- it'll only get back to him and that will make you appear immature, even though you've done nothing wrong.
But no fear, he DEFINITELY likes you from what you've told us. Go get him girl!
Lady Corsair
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