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writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up today, he's been distant and I just couldn't take it anymore. He asked if I thought I'd be better single and I said maybe even thought I love him more then life itself. After I said maybe I just walked away, the look on his face when I said maybe told me I truly hurt him, today would have been our 1 year anniversary. There is so much I wish I had said to him and I'm wondering if he'd let me, should I e-mail him or just let it go?
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reader, bcol616 +, writes (26 November 2009):
bcol616 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I still haven't talked to him but plan on it, the question now is what if he doesn't listen or what do I say if he does?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): Do not wait with something this important. You should have talked to him already and waiting longer will make things worse. The longer you wait, the more time he has to get over you and debate whether you are worth being in a relationship with. Not only that, if he cares about you the longer you wait will cause more pain to him.[Edited by moderator.]
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reader, fishdish +, writes (24 November 2009):
 yea i think it's worth explaining to him more so that he knows what you see as lacking right now in the relationship. it is possibly fixable, his distance, and he realizes now that the consequences of his behavior, so might come around to work on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): I'd give it some time! If you email him any time in the very near future, he is more likely going to read it and leave it! If you give him a little time to think about everything that happened and calm down a little from being hurt it will work out much better for you!Hope I helped hunn!
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