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writes:i am 41 years i been married for almost 14 years and we have 3 kids my problem is my husband i was asking myself if i need quit my marriage, my husband and i do not talk regarding family matters, sex do not say i love you he did not talk to often we leave the day as silent if he go then he say i go to buy this or to do this. now he is in abroad we never talk about sex he only call if he had something to let me do something or ask to do this to do that then look for the my daughter to talk with it seems that i am only his helper i do not know his status in abroad his salary his position he seems he do not want me to ask something for him he do not send money. he do not care about me i think but i think or i am thinking of my kids only. please help me to save my marriage thanks then
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (18 November 2009):
 As bad as things seem, you still want to save your marriage, so you're willing to go the distance. Is he though? It sounds to me like you only have the children in common! How old are they?
You need to get a straight answer from him, a few days before he's due back, write a list of questions you need to ask and wait til he's relaxed enough to be calm. Say that you really love him and want to make your marriage work, but you both need to make some changes to get the love/romance back in again. Ask him if he's still committed to the marriage, if he says yes, outline how you're feeling and get him to reciprocate. Ask if there's anything bothering him that needs to be discussed.
Communication is the key!
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