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Help me get over this "desire!"

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Question - (18 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *lifecorrupt writes:

How can a man get over the desire to have a threesome?

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A male reader, alifecorrupt United States +, writes (18 November 2009):

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I suppose i need to supply more information on the situation. me and my wife have been married for 5 years, and togeather for 10 years. We have already had threesomes before, but i want more. i need help getting over the desire to do this cause its hurting my wife that i still want these things.

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (18 November 2009):

duce00 agony auntOn the serious side: Why is this even a problem? Are you in a relationship that its a bad subject? Dude, you are giving us nothing to work with.

On the funny side: You could just lop your dick off and end your angst.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009):

are you currently in a relationship?? If you are, and your partner agrees without any complications then go ahead and do it. But have in mind that there can be problems arising from this and you might lose your significant other. My boyfriend has been wanting to have sex with other women, with or without me. I AM NOT OKAY WITH THAT!! Not so much me not being open minded but I don't want to share him because I love him & I just want him for myself. Selfish? No, not at all because we're in a relationship for a reason and never was a threesome mentioned before. I was clear as to what I wanted and what we were going after. He agreed... and he cannot say I'm not attractive because I know that is not the case. But if in your case you're single and wanting to explore go ahead. You might not want to accept reality, but there's something inside of you calling for the threesome....and it will bother you as long as you live if you never do it and desire it. You will keep thinking about it and it will not leave you alone. SO like i said, if you're single do it....get it out of the way.

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A male reader, alifecorrupt United States +, writes (18 November 2009):

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Both, but that is irrelevant in my opinion

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A male reader, joeyriley2196 United States +, writes (18 November 2009):

idk but my 1st question is do you want 2 guys 1 girl, or 2 girls and u

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