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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I accept the love I was longing for 4 years or should I keep up my words to my future life partner.. ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I was in love with a guy for the past few years....though he loved me too he denied the fact that he loves me too after passing 1 year if our love.......he advised me to be good friends forever....though it was diffiult to me at times I atleast ...

I want to find my biological father - where do I start?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I want to find my biological father, has anyone got any ideas as to where i can start?? Plz help!!!...

I'm 14 and the 22 year old guy I met online wants to meet me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I met this boy over a chat room started talking but the problem is hes 22 im only 14 i know hes not an old man or anything becasue he sent me a picture with my name on i told him first that i thought he was a fake but now i know hes not. He wants ...

Two weeks ago I lost my dad to a massive heart attack. He was still young and I don't know what to do. There's such an empty silence in my life and in our house.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Two weeks ago I lost my dad to a massive heart attack. He was still young and I don't know what to do. There's such an empty silence in my life and in our house. He was always here because he was retired due to ill health. I miss him so much. I come ...

I've got no confidence... any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - okay this is gonna sound lame to some of you, but i have no confidence...okay lemme explain, ive had borderline anorexia twice and ahve been thru depression, not a good combination i know. now to add to that ive been screwed around a few times and ...

What does this recurring dream mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Since the beginning of the week Ive been having the same dream everyday. It includes me and a guy, the situation is somewhat complicated but I have alot of feelings for him we are just not in a together. In the dream, I'm taking the train to and ...

My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...

Do men really CARE, or is their mind set to sexual desires, generally speaking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - this is just a general question for all the guys out there. Do guys really CARE about girls? Do they love us like we love them? or is your mind 99% sexual desires? just trying to get the gist of it....

Does a man that loves a woman normally want her to be beautiful, well dressed etc, or doesn't care at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My question to everybody here is, What do you think, the man that Loves you wants you to be beautiful, well dressed, shining or He doesn't care at all? Yes, i'm quite disturbed by this guy, he seems not to care of how i do look... I can go to hi...

What is normal behaviour when it comes to "friends," not to be misinterpreted with "lovers" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I'm 17 and one of my closest friends is 15 and i've known her most of my life. But now people are starting to think something is happening between us (which it isnt), or saying we're acting like a couple. However much we deny this people still say ...

How do you get someone to accept a relationship is over and deal with depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - How do you get someone to realize a relationship is over and start taking healthy steps to put their life back together. My ex is still severely depressed. He won't go out and socialize, meet new people or do anything to create a support system ...

My married life: lacking romance, lacking friendship and just plain lonely.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ive been married 2 years and have a child who is nearly 1.My problem is that my husband doesnt want to spend time with me to take me out,He just stays at home,eats and uses the computer to do stupid research.He doesnt do anything romantic like bring ...

How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love? I am seeing a wonderful guy but I have never trusted men easily. I've had a few knocks it's true, but my trust issues do not seem to be based entirely on past experiences or my childhood. ...

I said I would move to her town, but I don't think I have the money! I am very afraid for our future, IF I even have one with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hello. I am just a normal guy, almost hitting 30, and looking for my better half. I have been in two serious relationships so far, never married, though. First of all, let me start by mentioning that I came to this country only about a year and...

My mother hasn't spoken to me in a month and has been telling my children lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - A liitle confused. My mother hasn't been speaking to me for over a month due to the fact that I went back to my ex who she doesn't like. Mind you I have two boys ages 12 and 6 who she has been putting stuff in their heads which I think is not right ...

Pleasuring myself makes me feel disgusting, but I know I shouldn't and that it's completely normal!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi, i'm 15 years old and im not in any relationship, i've never been in a relationship before and i've never had sex, but the one thing im addicted to is masturbating. At first I always try and tell myself to stop but I end up doing it anyway and ...

How do i help her and get her to open up to me more and relax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Right, when your wife/gf is a teacher obviously its a stressfull job how can you help her through the stressfull times when shes tired out and getting herself upset and worked up. Because thats how my gf, soon wife to be is at the moment. Shes not ...

Have any scorpio men out there that have cheated and been dumped or been in relationships where you've been down right wrong and been dumped, and then realized that you made a mistake and will change? or have you changed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am a very paranoid and superstitious person! i think that because of my past it has made me less trusting in alot of people i always read horoscopes they have always given me a certain path or idea of what tomorow is goin to give. as fa...

Is it okay to be in a serious relationship where it is near perfect, but to still wonder/dream/occasionally hope that the "wow/breath taking" love will happen someday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Sometimes I believe in an amazing fairytale love, in which although circumstances can never be perfect, the two people feel an amazing love, in which passion and etc is all included. Other times, I believe people should be realistic, and r...

He was open about personal things - does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I really like this guy, i'm 15 and he's 17. The only problem is i'm not sure if he likes me. We haven't known eachother very long but he's told me stuff about his family which sounds like it's hard for him too chat bout. What should I do to find out ...

What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?...

Does he really want me or is in it for the phsycal side? How can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My probelm is as folows, this guy and i have been "dating" on and off for a few years now, the relationship tends to be physical although there is a connection, he just recently got out of a long term relationship and now wants me back (he actually ...

My partner wants me to move in, but I am worried his damage runs too deep

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 7 months. We have a great relationship and he wants us to live together, but I'm having some reservations. You see, he was in a very painful break up with a woman he was engaged to marry. She cheated on him ...

Moving to a new town, I find myself in minority! How do I immerse in a society I dislike?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I just moved from NYC to a new town and I am really scared of trying to fit in here. I would love to have friends and have a life the problem is that people here are SO different to what I am used to. Please don't think I am a snob, but the only way ...

Girls, what would you not like/tolerate in a partner, generally speaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2007 (M) - All right, so most guys already know what it is women want in a guy, smart, handsome, confident, etc. But a question I don't ever see asked that I think would help out my situation as well as some others is, what don't women want in a guy, what a...

Is it wrong to dream about another guy???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I feel guilty... i dream about another guy but I have a boyfriend. Is it wrong os cheating to dream about another guy? I know i cant control my dreams but i still feel bad....

What is the difference between a girlfriend and a fiancée?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - today my partner introduced me as his girlfriend,yet we are engaged and have a 4 year history behind us,what would you say was the diffrence between a girlfriend and a fiance?...

I'm 18 and have no confidence! Ant advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I'm a 18 year old female. I have no confidence in myself, i hate goin out anywhere. Any advice please?...

Apparently i am a chauvanist! How do i correct that????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

26 August 2007 (M) - I've recently had it brought to my attention that I'm a chauvanist... which I never thought I was... My question is, how the hell does one correct something so fundamentally core? I don't WANT to be one!!...

My brother sexually abused me as a child, will this affect my future relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - How can i know that i'm ready for a sexual life with the one that i love if i tell you that i've gone through a sexual abuse when i was a child by someone so close to me, my brother. when i remember that i disgust sex ,do you think that i'll enjo...

I seem to find other girls more attractive even though I have a girlfriend. Is something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - Is something wrong with me? Cause even now that i have a girlfriend, i seem to find so many other girls more attractive. Please help....

Can you get pregnant from a jacuzzi (if there's man-love floating in it)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i are going to be using my jacuzzi tub tomorrow night (not for sex, but other things) and the whole pregnancy issue resurfaced again..Does anyone know if its possible to get pregnant if sperm gets released into the water of the ...

I have stayed with my husband because my daughter can't bare another divorce, but he is not treating me right

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I don't know if anyone is in the same position! I'm 37 and have a daughter of 10. I married a man 3 years ago after much stress on both sides. Both our previous partners had, had affairs and left us with a child. So we are now married with a ...

His abuse is getting worse, he's tried to strangle me 5 times!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my husband for 3 years and I don't know what to do. I have a six year old boy who adores him and a one year old baby girl. The problem is he has become physically abusive. He has tried to strangle me five times but generally just ...

I can't decide if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - I can't decide if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious. Me and my friend who I think is bi hooked up in the toilets when we were realy drunk at a party and it spread round our college and people teased us. but I totally blamed it on the fact I was drunk, ...

He physically hurt me and possibly had relations with other girls, but I still love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been getting into a lot of heated arguments lately....mostly about random girls calling him and texting him... this morning our fighting escalated to the point where it got physical...I got pissed and in his face yelling...

I can't tell if he has feelings for me or not! He has a girlfriend and I am gay, but he sometimes seems flirty!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - I am a gay man that just turned 40. I became friends with a straight guy who is 25 years old but he doesn’t know about me being gay and never said anything to make me believe he suspects. We hit it off right from the start. The ideas, the taste, the ...

Nervous about my job interview

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - hi. ive just been for a job interview on wednesday. iv not had any experience of a real job interview before. the job im in, i got i think because my mum knew people and i felt my boss wasnt reli interested in interviewing me. his attension was ...

I accidentally had sex with a 14 year old girl

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - ok I have a (hypothetical) question. I am a male in my mid 30's. My wife my 2 daughters (3 and 7) and my niece (15) and her friend (14) went on a road trip to Florida. We stopped halfway there and got a hotel room, my wife and I in one room the...

My house is getting too crowded and now my bf wants his son to move in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - well, its like this. I moved to a smaller unit with 2 b/r on my own after a divorce. I was moving on in my life and started a new job etc. A few months later I met bf, he moved in, his dog moved in. A while later my 16 year old moved in from his ...

I always feel that other people are better than me. Why?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - hey. What i have always felt throughout my life is other people are so much better than me. Why? I have been told i am pretty lots of times yet i still feel like everyone else has something that i don't. Why am i so insecure about what i look like...

How do I handle rejection from the lady I'm in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - How do I handle rejection from the lady I'm in love with?...

Why is it such a turn on to watch my wife having sex with another man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - why is it such a turn on to watch my wife haveing sex with another man...

Is big best, if so why?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - hi i am a male and not well endowed is big best if so why ...

My 18th birthday is coming up and nothing is planned! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Its my 18th Birthday in a few days and nothing has been planned. I have had a serious fall out with most of my friends as i feel its time to change everything and they weren't acting like true frinds. But my family are just as bad. Its my 18th an...

Is there something going on between his co-worker and him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hi I think that my bf has something going on at work with his co-worker whom just recently started there. Within 1 month, he knows so much about her already. Also, he's been getting in earlier to work and stays a bit longer than usual. And, wh...

Do you think he thinks he has made a mistake??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My ex left me for someone over 4 months ago now, moved on with someone else. The other day he turned round to me and said i've been a bad husband and a bad dad...do u think he thinks his made a mistake?...

I want to know if this was true love or should I close the door and never look back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My first true love in high school graduated and left to the Army for four years. After years passed I was told by his friends he was living with someone over seas so I started dating. It broke his heart when he returned. I was so ashamed that I ...

I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."...

The problem is that I have changed and I no longer want to be married.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I have been with my wife since I was 17 years old. She is 18 years older than me and we have been married for the past 7 years. The problem is that I have changed and I no longer want to be married. I've made alot of promises that I can no longer ...