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Why is it such a turn on to watch my wife having sex with another man?

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Question - (22 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2007)
A male Canada age , anonymous writes:

why is it such a turn on to watch my wife haveing sex with another man

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007):

I was into this, or thought I was. Had my wife try to get with a friend. We got together and she made out with us, the kissing really bothered me, even though she would turn her head away from the guy. She gave us both oral, and I could see her start to cry before she performed on him. Something inside me snapped, I realized this fantasy of mine was unhealthy and realized I loved my wife way to much to let her. She started crying saying that she couldn't have sex with the guy, she didn't. Now we have this weird thing because this was my best friend and she was friends with him too but she says she'd be ashamed to be around him. She only did it because she though I'd leave her. The reasons I wanted to see it was first of all, for the porn, second for my own confidence in that if she did it with him but stayed with me then she must really love me because this guy was supposed to be this great lover. The third thing was because I had always had females to let me down, and I guess it was sort of a self fullfilling prophecy, by making my wife, who was the one woman who had never let me down, do something I knew was extremely wrong. This was my situation, but yours may be totally different. I love my wife like storybook love, and never want to see her touch anyone besides me. My fantasy was crushed and I don't think about it at all now.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007):

It's almost like watching porn, but your wife as one half of the sex act...i'm not sure. Do you still love her?

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

love-him agony aunthi, um some people are into this sort of sex stuff.. but in the long term i think u may get hurt by it.. it could be many reasons it turns u on.. watchin ur wife get a great orgasm she maybe didnt get from u.. n watching her body.. im not sure..

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A female reader, beautifultrustnlover United States +, writes (22 August 2007):

beautifultrustnlover agony aunti cant answer that for you just keep asking your self that just maybe you like the thought of your wife getting off

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