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Is it wrong to dream about another guy???

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Question - (27 August 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel guilty... i dream about another guy but I have a boyfriend. Is it wrong os cheating to dream about another guy? I know i cant control my dreams but i still feel bad.

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A male reader, metalinvasion92 United States +, writes (27 August 2007):

metalinvasion92 agony auntWell technically you can not control your dreams so its not really wrong.....its just awkward.....unless of course you are doing "the nasty" with this dude in your dreams. but even then most of the time its just a random thing.......i have a gf and i dream of different girls all the time.....some i dnt even kno who they r. dont worry about it it will pass

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A female reader, skye United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2007):

skye agony auntNo, to dream about someone is not wrong nor could it be considered cheating for you have not acted upon it. You have no control over your dreams.

Are you finding yourself day dreaming about this other man? If you are then you might need to reassess your current relationship. If these dreams are at night when you are asleep, then you have nothing to worry about. They are purely fantasy.

Best wishes,

Skye

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A female reader, Midge United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2007):

Midge agony auntHell no, its fine! Its fantacy!! Dont panic about it. If you acted on your fantacy, then I would think it was wrong!

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (27 August 2007):

sexi agony auntHi,it very much normal and ok.I would suggest that you keep it to yourself and not to share it with your bf as he would not be too happy.Dont stress, it fine.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (27 August 2007):

kenny agony auntyou are not being unfaithful by dreaming about another guy as dreams are based on fantasy.

However if you are dreaming about another guy and you are doing this often are your feelings all there for your current boyfriend?.

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