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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend broke up with me to go to college and cut off communication! What should I do?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dateing for over 15 months. i love him more the anything in the would, he is my best friend. he tols me that i am the only girl for him and all that stuff. and ive never felt this way about anyone before. but recently he just went away to college ... (182 words)

I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I still like this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey!! I'm in a bit of a dilemma here...so i am a freshman in highschool, and i have this huge crush on a senior who is in marching band with me. he never really payed attention to me, but after noticing how i look at him, he seems to want to talk to me! The problem is, now i ... (106 words)

His best friends girlfriend

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and are so inlove with eachother. But we have been getting in arguments almost everyday for over 6 months now... Bad ones. His best friends girlfriend goes to his school, and wont stay off of him. they go for lunch together and ... (73 words)

He says's he "loves me" does he really mean it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy.... of course. and like he says "i love you" all the time to me... but im not sure if he means it... like if its a joke type thing or if hes serious, im not sure he knows i seriously like him.... ... (46 words)

We broke up now I am pregnant!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend had sex. BUT we used a condom anddd i was on birth control. We broke up a week ago and i just found out i'm pregnant!!! i dont know what to do. He is already dating someone new. What should I do?! Im thinking about getting an abortion but i dont know ... (77 words)

I said yes to a threesome now I am second guessing this!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm almost 15 years old and i'm with an older guy. He's 16 turning 17. We've been together for a while about afew months. We fell in love, or atleast I did. And yesterday out of the blue he asked me to join in on a threesome he wants to have with another girl... I feel like i'm ... (124 words)

I'm shorter than her!

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Im in love with a girl. But Im shorter than her. By alot. How can I bridge the height gap?... (20 words)

What is wrong with me? I can't get over him!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't get over him! What is wrong with me??? He left me for his ex-wife its been three weeks but I can't get over it. I cry at different moments in the day and I literally feel a pain in my chest. He hurt me. In 2 months, he managed to hurt me more than in comparission to my ... (83 words)

Does he like anyone? Id be fine if we were just friends!..what do you think?

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8 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi everyone. There is this guy in a few of my classes that I like. Lets call him L. Ok, so L came here from Africa because his parents do missionary work there in Kenya. So anyways, I thought he would be more popular because he is cute, funny, ect. But he hangs around people ... (315 words)

My parents hate my boyfriend to death! Help!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a little confusion going on...i want some advise from people that have gone through it or any wise suggestion. I'm in love with this guy ive been dating for 2 years...he means a lot to me. This person my family hates to death basically because we started ... (451 words)

My girlfriend is having bad dreams about our relationship

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is having bad dreams about our relationship. In her dreams, everything is fine with us until - an ex of mine shows up and gets my attention. She is extremely worried about me leaving her for an ex. She has not met my ex. Any ex. She's seen a picture of my l... (358 words)

How can we overcome the problem of being too familiar with one another?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have liked this guy for nearly two years and it turns out he liked me too but we went out and things didnt work because we were way too good friends and it felt a bit weird, so we decided to break-up but i still really like him, so any ideas how i can get over him or even ... (67 words)

Pain during oral sex because he WON'T LISTEN to me

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8 September 2010 (F)

age - First, he's not a boyfriend so the question of whether this guy cares about me or not is moot. However, I am somewhat confused by him. Last night, he kept saying how he wants me to orgasm really hard (squirt) and kept saying that. So he did oral on me over and over, but ... (303 words)

Should I talk to him while all his boys are around or wait till I see him after school?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid im 14 and think i like this boy hes an upper class-man and hes a jock. first noticed him at a football game when he ran through the stadium and he saw the crowd. Then i thought he was really attractive and i forgot not to stare so he caught my eyes on him and he s... (235 words)

Am I running away from my feelings for this girl?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, am I running away from my feelings. I met this girl at camp and I fell for her. We hung out at camp and became friends, we didn`t leave camp on very good terms (I told her I liked her but in a cowerdly way) she truth or dared me to tell her who I liked and I stalled for 30 ... (224 words)

I want more self confidence but just don't know where to start!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone .. need you help =/ over th past few days ive been feeling like crap .. i have no confindence at all .... and i just feel really ugly =/ i just feel like crying =/ school has made it even worse .. im like madly inlove with one of my male teachers ... and when i s... (184 words)

Saying goodbye...

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, please help... I met a guy in America and had to come back to the UK because my visa ran out, i met a guy there who was lovely, charming, generous and funny. He swept me off my feet and i've never felt so much like a lady. We didn't say too much when i left because we ... (311 words)

How do I seduce her???

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit sick... but how do i seduce this girl...(i'm a girl as well).... i have been day dreaming and thinking about doing her... but i think she's straight. This is awful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (35 words)

Cursing...

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Would you allow your boyfriend to curse at you and call you a bitch during an argument? ... (17 words)

Religious Parents

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A little background before I ask my question - I grew up in a strict and controlling environment with very traditional and religious parents. I still live with them and I have to abide by their rules (i.e. – not going outside freely like most people my age, when I am “allowed” ... (1254 words)

Very confused with who I am... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here is the deal, when i was going out with one of my exes, (8 years ago) we went to a club with some of his friends both male and female. when i had a few drinks, i got really turned on by one of his female friends, she felt the same way because we snogged as it felt great. ... (355 words)

Empty nest syndrome???

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid and Agony Aunts, I am 25yrs old, male, Italian, and still living at home. In the Italian household my parents and many families that are Latin/ European have strict families and moving out on your own is TABOO.. and something that is not taken lightly! In ou... (802 words)

Getting him to take care of himself!

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?... (22 words)

End it... or keep it going?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years in that time we broke up for about six months but we still talked the whole time so it was like we were still together now we have been together for maybe a couple months now we won add me on facebook anymore he ... (121 words)

It takes him soooo long to climax! Does he not fancy me any more?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been seeing a this guy for a few months now and about 5 weeks ago we starting having sex. The first time we had sex it was great - he is very confident and totally unselfish in bed. The first night we had sex a few times with no problems although it did seem to take... (278 words)

One of my photographers recently has asked me to do more adult work for a private portfolio. Is this cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a great loving relationship (5 years). I recently (a year ago) quit a well paying job as a stripper. I do artistic nude modeling to help make ends meet as my "respectable" job doesn't pay too well. One of my photographers recently has asked me to do more adult wo... (105 words)

Is it very hard to divorce and start a new life at 50?

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8 September 2010 (F) age - Is it very hard to divorce and start a new life at 50? I feel this relationship is ended, even there was 26 years invested. But I'm a strong believer, marriage without sex, is a sin. I feel, if there is no medical cause, and your husband dont look for sex and affection, than ... (119 words)

Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone else feel that by men constantly watching porn means that they will never be really happy with a real partner? Of course most wives will never be as attractive as skinny teen porn stars - because they are not teenage any longer, pert boobs and arse are a thing of... (276 words)

Girlfriend not interested in sex anymore..

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, hope you can help :) Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. Until about six months ago we had a great sex life, no problems. Now however its become awkward, like I know I want to and I think she does too but it just doesn't happen. Iv tried the usu... (123 words)

I wanna have fun and see my friends and my girlfriend.

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm a girl and I'm dating my first girlfriend. She lives one hour away by train but I really love her. I didn't come out,my mom thinks i'm with a boy right now. This is one of my problems actually. I'm 17 and my mom says i'm not mature because i don't tidy my be... (312 words)

Long waited orgasms.

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It takes me very long to have an orgasm and I have tried every trick in the book including letting the nature of orgasms take its toil. I get extremly wet and my man thinks I am having mutltiple orgasm, but i only get an orgasm maybe after 2 hours of sex. Is there something ... (58 words)

After our date I couldn't tell if he liked me...

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy up with a guy after 6 years i got his number by accident so i chanced texting him, went well enough. he came to see me which went well then i went up to see him. have no idea how it went, im so confused hes either shy or just not bothered. he was very sweet but i ... (178 words)

Should I ask him... or am I just paranoid?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 yr old and my boyfriend of 9 months is 25. For some odd reason since the very beginning i have never really fully trusted him even though he is a really good to me and is very sweet and caring and says he loves me. But i have always felt like there is a side of him t... (591 words)

Who is the dad???

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 i live near london my boyfriend lives near manchester, im pregnant - im 17 weeks today my problem started back in may i went out for my friends aunts birthday we went to this club, the group got split and i lost everyone in this club, my friend's aunt went home at 1am... (382 words)

My ex seems happy to have seen me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my ex has just moved to my school for sixth form, it was about 7 months ago we broke up and we sometimes talk and have really cool conversations. We spoke online the night after our first day back to school and I asked him how his day was, he replied "good, I didn't see ... (254 words)

Can we be falling for each other so quickly?

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8 September 2010 (F)

- I met this guy when I was 14 and we had a lovely summer romance. I'm now 30 and we met on facebook.. We talked for a while and finally met last week.. It was so perfect. He was lovely, there was no awkwardness.. It just felt right. We both felt the same we have talked about the ... (132 words)

His talking about his exes or pretty women is making me feel so insecure... help!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for three years and things are pretty good. He is a wonderful partner however there is something that bothers me. I am the opposite end to what his 'type' is. He has usually dated women who were caucasian, very very petty, high maintenance and ... (244 words)

What to do about friend on a sex spree???

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What would you all do? my husband has a recently divorced friend. they and I have been friends for over 20 years. Since his divorce, he has been on a sexual rampage. I guess he is making up for all the "time lost", as it were. Some of his conquests are a little extreme ... (463 words)

Torn between my parents and my now ex boyfriend... help!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i'm going through some seriouse hard times right now, i'm a muslim but i'm in love with a christian we, secretly dated each other for six months then i told my parents, before i told my parents i told my boyfreind that my parents were never going to let us be, he said he ... (169 words)

Should I just be friends with her first?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, erm ........ So I like this girl in school! Un fortunately, one of my friend told the girl's best friend which is a guy and he eventually told everyone in school, before that she was so friendly to me, we had quite a few chats, but I always get nervous when I'm talking to ... (121 words)

In-lust, in-like, in-love?? You tell me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to make of my feelings. Am i just in-lust, in-like, or in-love? what does it all mean? There is this guy that for the past 4 months or so we've hung out on and off, with a group and alone. It started off really slow, then eventually we made out, which led t... (564 words)

Since resuming our friendship he's like a different person...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently at work one of my friends had stopped talking to me and he didnt give me a reason why? i had been crying for two whole days cuz it hurt me that he wouldnt speak to me. i dont know what i cried for... but now he is talking to me.. and he didnt even say sorry for hurting ... (129 words)

Not experienced enough in the bedroom department and it's holding me back from asking her out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me. I like this girl I work with not sure if she likes me. I want to ask her out but im not experienced at all in the bedroom what should I do?... (38 words)

What can I do to make our relationship work?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been with my ex for 9 years but we have broken up so many times because she's cheated. She was making a great effort for 9 months but I was rude to her and miss treated her and she took it all. Well she had time away from me because of her job and she became distant with ... (241 words)

Was it the wrong decision for me to wish my ex a happy birthday?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I decided to say happy birthday to my ex, even though we havn't spoken in months and ended on pretty bad terms. i don't want to start talking to him, and who knows if he wants to talk to me. was it a wrong decision or bad idea to wish him a happy birthday? does it make me look ... (80 words)

My feelings for her have totally changed since she got (and dumped) this other guy!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

8 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am out permanently of a 7 year on and off relationship. I am the one who most of the time did the dumping, usually through frustration, but both knowing it was just a fall out. We have both played our parts. When together again, my faults were talked about, but her faults ... (293 words)

Trying to look older

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How to make myself look older? I'm 19 and I guess I look my age or less. I probably look 20 or 21 if I wear make up or maybe even my age some people say. However, I would like to look older maybe 23 or something. My boyfriend is 34 and its weird when I go out with him and... (72 words)

My friend told me a guy liked me but won't tell me who it is!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend told me that somebody liked me, but she would'nt tell me who it was. my friend described him and i thought it was this lad. last night i asked my other friend if she knew and she said no, so i told her the story and she said she would ask. the first friend said i was ... (77 words)

Completely lost with life and love

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a 27 yr old woman and completely lost with life and love. I don't understand why I'm so unlucky when it comes to love and feel very alone. The past 8 or 9 years I had my share of unsuccessful relationships and never understood what went wrong. I always have these guys ... (591 words)

Is he really in love with her as much as he say? he is messing with my head!

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8 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have a male friend who i have feelings for (wish i didn't), anyway, he has a girlfriend who he's been with about 9 months. I'm pretty sure he knows i like him as more than a friend and him being with her kills me. He flirts with me all the time and the last time i saw him he ... (314 words)

I miss my girlfriend and I am worried about her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well my girlfriend and i have been togetehr a really long time and i love her with all my heart and so she feels the same she let me know that a million times. i honestly could c myself being with her forever(sorry if i sound stupid)i really love her so much. we spend almost ... (389 words)

What is this girl doing? is she interested in me?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, my first question was a little long and dramatic, here's the quick follow-up question *cough*. So 4 years ago my best friend got himself a girlfriend from spain who was jawdropping gorgeous. I fell in love with her...Anyway...I think she liked me too...both of us are kind ... (783 words)

How can I tell him I just want to date and not be his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really HUGE problem. This really sweet guy friend of mine asked me on a date. I said yes, and at the time I thought it would be a nice experience for me. It will be my first date (and I've been holding off on this for a while). Soon after I accepted his offer, I rea... (173 words)

Should I take it slower?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have been dating this guy for almost three weeks now, we've been having a great time and i'm very happy since i got out of a long relationship and i'm finally moving on. i feel i'm ready for a new long relationship, i like the feeling and the love, but this guy got out of ... (211 words)

Is this his way of being friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We were together for a year and a half. Its been a pretty turbulent relationship due mostly to the fact that about 3 months into the realtionship he had sex with his next door neighbor. He ended up admitting it to me about a month after it happened otherwise I would have had no ... (1164 words)

Where have all the single women gone in my area???

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am finding it really hard to meet single women and could really do with some new ideas from the aunts and uncles out there. I have been single for a while after the break-up of a long-term relationship (9 years), am 36, with my own flat, an interesting but not fantasticall... (319 words)

He's confused about his girlfriend and oscillates between wanting to be friends and then wanting more from me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,can someone tell me if this situation is fixable? about month ago I ran into my chilhood crush who I haven't seen in 15 yrs. We started talkin and to my suprise he had a crush on me too back then. The problem now is he has an on/off girlfriend of 3 yrs he's confused about. I ... (366 words)

I've been called his ex's name 3 times by him!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has called me my ex's name three times now, i over reacted at first and said if he did it again i couldnt forgive him, yet he has done it since but seeing how angry he is with himself after ive forgiven him. The wierd thing is he call his ex my name all the time ... (112 words)

Is he playing or using both woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age - Here's the deal, you're a woman that has been involved with a man for an extended period of time(more than 3 yrs) and you find out that while he has been sleeping with you he has hidden the fact he has a live in GF. Would you say that this man isn't only a user but a playe... (85 words)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found someone else. I asked him and he ... (193 words)

How can I control myself? tips please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there guys, so this is a request for advice on how to improve myself! I have a friend who i fight alot with, and it seems that sometimes when she says something insulting i can't help it - i just lose my cool! We end up having a huge fight cos i feel so wronged, but at t... (98 words)

Is it possible that I don't have the capacity to love a man?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible that I don't have the capacity to love a man? I am in my early 40s and have been married for almost 15 years. I have had many relationships. Many. I have been loved and cherished and treated as any woman would wish to be treated. A few times I have thought ... (243 words)

I don't want her to leave, I can't live without her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I've been 'seeing this girl' for the best part of two months now, and will continue too until the end of this year as its a very important year for us academically. She decided that we couldn't dating or official until the end of the year as it puts to much pressure on... (538 words)

If he's hiding that he's masturbating, what else is he hiding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been with my partner for 11 years and I dont know if too leave my partner and starta new life. We have a little boy aged 6 and rent a lovley house but this is not evrything. We havnt been getting on for s while constent little arguments mainly because i dont feel ... (295 words)

LDR--I get jealous over the stupidest things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, me and my gf have been together around a year now. i am completely in love with her and we have a fantastic time together despite the relationship being long distance. however there is one probem.. my jealousy. i get jealous at the stupidest of things, for example if s... (215 words)

Its bothering me that my b/f is friends with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a problem with my boyfriend being friends with his ex. they were together for about four years and broke up about two years ago. she cheated on him and broke his heart. he says shes not a very nice person, very selfish and only talks about herself which he says bo... (127 words)

I want to leave him to be with the other guy but I love them both!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am going out with this guy(boy 1) and have been on and off for most of 2010. but then this other guy came along(boy 2) and said he liked me and wrote me a poem and treats me waaaaay better than my actual boyfriend.boy 2 says he loves me and he is soooo nice, but my boyfriend ... (104 words)

Test results came back inconclusive..what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got tested for chlamydia and the test results came back inconclusive and was told I needed to do another test. Can someone explain what it means when a test comes back like this? and does this not necessarily mean I may have something?... (48 words)

His tightness with money bothers me! Is there any future with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (F)

age - I've divorced my husband after 15 years together. He is controlling and I just followed his decisions all the time. The last year before we separate he shaved his head and lost a lot of weight and refuse to have sex. Then I met this 20 years older man he is caring and we ... (179 words)

I want to keep the love of my children after my divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - HI, I left my wife of 18 yrs 11 months ago,we have two teenage daughter of 16 and 17 who are extremely close, the marriage was good,but not a loving one,with hobbies and pets being the major factor of our split I have met a fantastic lady,who i love and who is extre... (253 words)

She "thinks she needs some space"

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so me and my girlfriend had been in a relationship or 2 years... and then just a few days ago she just said, "i think i need some space... i was hurt badly for she was my very serious girlfriend... and then she messaged me that, "even though it hurts on my part to hear it she ... (108 words)

I'm not sure I like him anymore because of this girl!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey...i need help... my friend a boy, who i've known For a long time about 11 years i've never thought of liking him as more than a friend. this is my problem we're seatmates and we usually talk about everything and it's usually just the two of us sometimes we get teased and we ... (154 words)

I'm 23, wife is 32, having DOUBTS, not sure if I was READY for marriage, or am I just STRESSED/DEPRESSED?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - First of all I apologize for the length, I'm pretty much writing this as it comes out of my head. But if you get through all of it and have any advice/insight to offer I would be humbly grateful. I'm a 23yo male, my beautiful wife is 32. I am having doubts about my ma... (1158 words)

I'm wondering if my husband is just waiting to leave me

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8 September 2010 (F)

age - i need help as i dont know what to do, my husband of 24yrs has been distant and just not the same, he used to say " if i only knew how much he loved me" and be a wonderful loving man, he always wanted sex more than me but i have always enjoyed it, as the yrs have gone by we did ... (489 words)

I don't see him committing! Do I walk away?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pushing 30 and I feel like my life has been one giant lack of progress. I have no idea how I got into such a massive rut. If I could wish myself into the perfect life... Relationship: A loving man who wants to share his life with me. The modest little home together.... (467 words)

Low class guys asking me out, is it ok not to date then?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder if u cn help with advice. I had problems were I ws working and I was forced to leave I am currently serching abd hoping to find smthing soon. The problem I have is tht I don't feel like being in a relationship as most of the guys who ask me out are of low class. Whn I ... (106 words)

How can you be cheating and committed in a marriage?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age - I'm in a relationship with a married man have been for 6yrs. I love him he tells me he has feelings for me and he is very fond of me he doesn't want this to end His family is all grown up and married ,but what he tells me i find hard to understand. he says he is in a committe... (157 words)

Should I call or speak to him?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im a 25 year old women im in a relationship with the guy for 3 years,one of the days i found him with the girl where me and him stay together,the girl went and open the case saying i hitted her,he is my witness in court that i did not hit her,after that im having such big ... (118 words)

21, pregnant, broke and alone

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 21 and had sex with a guy I was seeing really quickly. 3 days later i took the morning after pill, only just within the 72hrs. i havent seen the guy since because i keep cancelling on him, hes only 18! then a few days ago i found out i was pregnant and dont know what to do! ... (121 words)

After sex I feel worried and confused!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im really confused because me and my boyfriend have just started having sex and just before we do it i feel like i really want it but after i feel confused and worried and feel like he doesnt love me what should i do?... (44 words)

My friend is turning into a prostitute!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see her that often, but I really ... (457 words)

Why did she break up with me and then say she still loves me?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf broke up with me but said she still loves me. She broke up w/ me randomly. I don't know what happened or if I did something. But she's been avoiding me ever since. I thought she loved and she said she did, so breaking up with me and then leading me on by telling me she ... (69 words)

When I picture my future I don't see anything

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Argh. I'm gonna try and make it as short as I can. I'm 24 sitting in my parent's house who I don't really like cause they're selfabsorbed damaged controlling narcissists and the family is pretty much broken and they don't take any blame for it. They sabotage any attempt of me ... (1128 words)

I don't feel like things are going anywhere for me since the breakup

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Iam a 19 years old girl with a big problem.I got out of a serious realtionship about a year ago and since my ex I fell like i cant seem to get close to any one.Iv dated but it just dosent seem like anything is going to go anywere what should i do... (57 words)

I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort as i dont want a serious ... (105 words)

Sex crazy and abstinent!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm as much of a virgin as humanly possible, and I want to stay after marriage only. But I haven't even been on a date with anyone, much less even had a first kiss! This is a problem because underneath the 'good girl' act, I'm really hormonal, and I really want to, well, have ... (177 words)

My two-timing boyfriend likes her body but comes back for my stability!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been dating for about 7 months now. We broke up once few months back when he said that he wasn't attracted to me physically anymore. He went on to date this girl for 2 weeks, obviously she does have a great body. After this, he came to me and said how much he ... (372 words)

I'm just wondering if teenage relationships can last forever

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been in a realtionship for 3 years now and he is my first boyfriend. Im just wondering if teenage relationships can last forever? Ive heard that with young relationships they dont always last because one may want to experience being wi... (79 words)

Who is he falling in love with?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i confused by his signs i dont know if i should chase him or let him go please help. theres this guy from another state that i've talked to on the internet this weekend i've finally met him he recognized me before my sister which my sister claims to know him. his super cute but ... (339 words)

Trying to see through blurry eyes in their personal life?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What do you think it means when someone says they're trying to see through blurry eyes in their personal life?... (20 words)

Should I just walk away and find someone who is willing to love me the same way?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age - Hi All, My question is should you stay in a relationship if the guy you have been with (we have been together 4yrs) has feelings for you but there not as strong as yours ,he just tells me he likes me very much.but i am in love with him.he knows this. i really don't know wha... (134 words)

We dated, she broke things off, then sad we aren't friends? WHAT does she want?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old. I am not very experienced with women. Sometimes its embarrassing to feel like the odd man out when it comes to this stuff. When i was in high-school i would hear people talk about sex and relationships and i wouldn't get depressed really, just anxious. So ... (1611 words)

How can I break up with my muslim boyfriend ?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i break up with my muslim boyfriend ? so, i have finally decided to end things and forever with him. the only problem is that my parents don't know about the 7 months relationship and if they knew they won't forgive me. so i'm afraid that he will tell them or someth... (115 words)

Is this question too personal? did I screw up and say something wrong?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My personality is that I'm pretty open. I have no problems sharing information about myself because I have nothing to hide. Ask and I will answer. But not everyone is like this and I get that, but it's hard to remember what is and is not OK around someone who is more reserved ... (182 words)

After a yeast infection I get a burning sensation during sex!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. About a month ago, I had to go in for a pap test and my doctor said I had a yeast infection. He gave me pills and creme for it and It healed up and my itching, burning, etc. went away. I didn't have sex ... (126 words)

I want the complexity to disappear, and the gentle girl back!

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Not sure where to begin, honestly. I'm still currently a bit flustered about the current situation I am in, but I also know that the next few hours will make or break, most likely, my future with this woman. I've spoken to friends about the matter, and have gotten a unanimous ... (1334 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf broke up with me out of nowhere. I don't know what happened or what I did. He just seems angry with me all the time. I can't seem to let go of him though. What do I do? Should I keep trying? Should I give up? I have to see him everyday so I can't just ignore him. I don't ... (73 words)

I slapped the man I love!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over two years. At first we started... (620 words)

How stable are peoples feelings?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering how stable most people's (in particular, men's) feelings are. I know everyone is different, but I'm talking in general, or you personally. I ask because if I fall in love, I see it as a long term, stable thing and don't feel the need to say it all the time - as ... (226 words)

Doesn't want a relationship but still acts as if we were still together

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend of one year said that he wants us to take a break. He used to be head over heels in love with me, even so much as saying that he could see me as his wife. But this past summer was extremely difficult for the both of us and I said something really stupid to ... (876 words)

Mixed Messages and Confusing Texts

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. I screwed things up a bit. I met a guy online, we had definite chemistry even before we met (which doesn’t usually happen, to me at least). The first date was at an outdoor concert in the rain, and it was a little awkward. Afterwards, I wasn’t too enthusiastic. Bu... (517 words)

Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more? I am 19 years old and he's 34 years old.I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and he is an amazing person. He would come to my house everynight after work. however, like a week ago he stopped coming. ... (151 words)

Has my boyfriend lost interest in me? could there be someone else?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Lately, he's been somewhat.. eh, I want to say aggressive. To the extent where it's starting to annoy, worry, and hurt me. What I mean by aggressive is that he used to be soft, and sweet. Now when I ask him ... (478 words)

Why does she treat me like I'm invisible when we're out with friends?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so all summer ive seen this girl and we get along great when we're alone, but when we're with a group of people she acts completely different towards me only, and when i say different i mean she is really quiet and antisocial and doesn't even bat an eye at me the whole time ... (126 words)

I'm a Pollice Officer, and in Love with my Partner, My Police Officer Partner!

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - falling in love with my partner. i am a police officer. just recently, since july, i partnered up with a female partner. she is the nicest, most beautiful woman. i have always like her as a person but since we have been partners i have grown to love her. the problem here is ... (250 words)

How can I stop this infatuation for my Co-Worker

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not really sure where to start. I've never been in this situation before and I don't really have anyone I can talk to about it either. I've been working at my current job for about six months now, and I've become increasingly more and more interested in a coworker of ... (290 words)

I'm afraid i'll start messing around behind his back again! should I walk away from our marriage?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help....so confused iv been with my husband 24 years married 19 years two beautiful grow up children, over the past 10 years iv felt neglected unwanted unloved,i felt so low lack of confidence i started having affairs,i hate myself and feel discussed how i could go back to ... (153 words)

How do I get over feeling duped?

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 10 years. When we first started living together she expressed her dislike for certain things in bed. She said she didn't care for sex toys, porn, and oral sex, among other things. We have a healthy sex life, however lacking spice at times. I ... (181 words)

Is he thinking of impregnating me?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend confuses me again and again...I am 20 and he is 36. We've been dating more than half a year. When it comes to sex, we use the pull-out method. From the first, he stated that he wanted no kids. I shrugged it off since I'm young and though I love children, I want to ... (157 words)

He wants to give it another try!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was recently in a four year relationship and it ended and for good this time. I wasn't happy but 3 of the years I cheated with this one guy and everytime me and my ex split I ran to him cuz he made me feel good and I really care for him. My past relationship I felt like I was ... (82 words)

Should I contact him?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been broken up for a little over 3 weeks now. we have not talked. we broke up because we were bickering too much. we were together for 2 years. i miss him and want him back. should i contact him?? i have been going out and keeping myself busy, its not ... (73 words)

My parents don't like my girlfriend!

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have a very serious problem and it just happens to be my parents. The issue is that everyone i know in my family hate my girlfriend and even people i don't know do because my family goes around and talks about her. Before i just start stating my problem ... (458 words)

Turned on a dime..

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8 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I live on the east coast. I've met the girl of my dreams in San Francisco about 36 months ago and she, in turn, met who she called the "guy she was going to grow old with." Two issues: she's still in a divorce and nasty custody battle with her ex. He was mentally abusive and ... (491 words)

Should I put him out AGAIN?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating the same guy for almost 10 years. The first 2 years were pretty good, but I guess I always felt like he thought I wasn't good enough for him. He lost his job 2 years into the relationship and then he asked me to move in with him. I did, but then he made no ... (503 words)

Is there any way that you can make someone want you?

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may sound silly but ive seen it happen before and i jsut wondered if there was a chance, is there any way that you can make someone want you after they've said they dont. I know that does kinda answer itself as a big NO but theres so many people ive seen where o... (372 words)

I told him about my past sexual abuse now he is distant!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently told my lover about sexual abuse in my past (my lover lives abroad), this stemmed from an arguement we had when I completely freaked out about something that he did. And I felt it was only right that I should tell him what had happened before to make me feel like ... (139 words)

Need advice on my ED problem!

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8 September 2010 (M) age - I'm so worried right now. I don't know what happened to me, but I have serious sexual desire problem, and erectile dysfunction. Started few years ago. The doc says ,Im healthy, hormones are ok. And here goes my marriage, my wife 27 years was very understanding, but she is ... (91 words)

I think my baby is another mans!

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really do need some advice,basically i gave birth to my daughter on the 24th august an the thing im worried about is she looks nothink like the guy i thought was her dad as from the due date the doctor gave me i automatically said ye hes the dad but she really is nothink ... (138 words)

Is it wrong? please help.

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. Okay there is this dude. and he has a girlfriend but we like each other and talk alot. we hung out friday night with some friends, that knew about the situation. and sunday i went to the lake with him and had sooo much fun, and we had a moment and it a... (125 words)

It seems my life is stood still and everyone elses is moving forward.

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8 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I feel as if everyone around me are getting into relationships and im just by myself :(. all my friends are now in relationships and I feel as if im the only one which isn't. My friends all have there own lives now, with having babies or in a serious relationship. i'm the ... (84 words)