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How do I make out with him? I'm scared

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 26-29 - I guys, I'm a 16 year old male and have just entered my first gay relationship, well "relationship" for that matter. First time I've ever been in one, and I'm excited and scared at the same time. Me and my boyfriend have going out for two weeks and he knows my situation so ... (170 words

It doesn't bother my boyfriend to make out when others at around

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - dear aunts and uncles, pleasee help! i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we stay round our friends houses a lot for the night as we are in one friendship group. but when we are laying next to eachother when people are in the same room (asleep) we do foreplay... (136 words

Blessed by knowing you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

25 September 2010 (? age 51-59 - just a quick question what does it mean when someone you know says they are blessed by knowing you is that a good thing.... (24 words

No sex in 2 years, no period for 2 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I haven't had my period for 2 months and I am not pregnant as havent had sex in 2 years. I am starting to get worried now as I do not usually experience this at all. Does anyone have any idea why I could be having this problem?... (48 words

A threesome without my boyfriend feeling awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I would like to have a threesome with my boyfriend and another girl. We have mentioned it before but he sounded nervous about it. How would I go about finding a girl that wouldnt want my boyfriend and not making him feel akward?... (43 words

I like him, but he doesn't talk to me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so... I like this guy. But you see is, he's a year older then me, and well he's my best friend's brother. Two years ago, he was at my old school. He always used to tease me about how I'd never talk, and he'd always try to get me to talk. Then, he went to a new school, and ... (224 words

I love you and I'm in love with you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - HELP PLZ! i dont know if this is a silly thing and that im making a big thing out of nothing...ive been in arealtionship with my bf,for 2years now. we both love each other alot. and we are planning to get married in 2years. the thing is that he used to tell me "I'm IN Love with ... (221 words

Husband says I'm the reason we fight and I should just be quiet

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Should I leave my husband? My husband and I have been married for 4 years and we have one daughter. First of all I love him very much but it has been getting increasingly difficult to stay. About a year ago he lost his job which made our already rocky situation diffic... (296 words

Husband gives me no affection

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25 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I'm 43 years old and I have been married for15 years.I feel like my husband is just not attractive to me anymore.We have sex once a month if I'm lucky and I'm serious,it's usually quick as well.No petting,cuddling-nothing.I get a peck when he goes to work and when he gets ... (160 words

My boyfriend died 2 months ago and I cry every night

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend died about 2 months ago. I have had terrible relationships before he came along. he treated me like I was literally a princess and the only one in this world. I know it has just been a little over 2 months but I still cry every night. I dont know whether this is ... (147 words

How can I initiate a kiss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi,everyone. This is a bit weird problem. I'll appreciate your help. I,m 21, my girl friend is 18. Its first relationship and practically first love for both of us. In my country things are kinda back dated. We love each other so much. The problem is we go on dates,watch movies ... (155 words

Why does she tease me with bits of her sexual past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (? age 51-59 - How do you women feel about a guy who likes to know about your sexual past? I have many things I'd like to know about my fiancee's past, but she seems uncomfortable talking about them. However, she will bring something up, out of the blue, and then it haunts me because I want ... (218 words

I know he cares but he won't give me a chance because of his friends

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am completely and utterly in love with this boy , he is my everything .... I fell in love with him two years ago when we started secondary school , I would sit next to him in class and we would tell each other everything .. I felt completely comfortable with him and he said ... (530 words

What do women like/dislike about getting it in the face?

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25 September 2010 (? age 51-59 - So I'm with a girlfriend who loves to make me come. She swallows, which is amazing in itself, but she wants me to come other places if I want. I would like to try coming in her face, well, really more like her open mouth, but I've always thought that as a bit degrading or ... (214 words

Six year relationship and bf cheated and now there is a baby on way

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for six years and I found out three days ago that he cheated and the girl is 6-7 months pregnant!!! He said that he was sorry and I forgave him, but Im so hurt and dont know if I should cope with it or move on. I told him I still love him and care ... (79 words

My son has voilent outburst and hurts himself

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok my son does not listen to be for his step dad with out realize it tought him not to listen to me. now every time my husband is gone my son and i fight my son is 3 years old, and he has voilent outburst he crys for hours on end and hurst himself and sometime others. This also ... (148 words

I'm afraid that entering a relationship would be the wrong choice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Alright, so, after coming back on campus this summer after a semester abroad a guy, *James, who I was always just an acquaintance with me started hitting on me at work; we work for different departments at my school but we saw each other all of the time. We hung out a few times ... (405 words

Why cant my man express his feelings to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

25 September 2010 (? age 51-59 - hi there hoping someone out there can give me some advice on my question i am asking. I am in a LDR and we are committed, we see each other when we can txt, go on MSN every night but gets quite quiet on MSN, cause i am not a chatty person and he isnt,but when we are together ... (597 words

I want the baby but I don't think he does??

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok I'm 24 with a 3 yr olds daughter I just found out this morning I'm pregnant again....I'm head over heels in love with her father but he left me almost 2 yrs ago to date another girl......but all along he still had me to help bring him to doctors appts and be there when he ... (247 words

I want him to know I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - how do i get him to realise how much i like him? and this sounds cruel, but how do i get him to like me back too? how do i get him to ask me out?... (36 words

Escaping from one ditch slipped into another.

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25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - was having a very terrible time with my husband and I am a student in the university. One evening my husband abused me a lot and I decided to quit the relationship that day.(though the relationship was worst for last 5 years). While I was sitting in the lobby, I saw a guys ... (1157 words

I want to have sex but I just can't

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25 September 2010 (M age - My wife is at the end of her rope on my case. I have some mayor sexual problem, but nobody could figure it out so far what is it. It started years ago, and now we tried all help,but I wonder ,if anybody could relate to it. She is a beautiful woman, many man would be happy to ... (278 words

I don't want to share my lady with another man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been seeing my girlfriend for a while now and I have fallen in love with her but here lately things have changed We went from being very affectionate towards each other to it seems like she is almost repulsed by me when shes around. She tells me that it is just that ... (501 words

How can I go out with him when I can't even talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well I have liked this guy for the past to years. I have had relationships while liking him, but it hasnt let me have a sucessful one. I thought that it would be better to go out with him to see if these feelings go away but I cant seem to get the courage to talk to him. What ... (62 words

I cheated on my husband, if he finds out he will divorce me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age - hi all, i am 46 years asian lady and married with 3 children and nice husband. last year i fell in love to asian man and we kissed many time and he asked me for sex but i refused. now he stoped to see me and phoned me and that relation is over now but i think i have lost my ... (127 words

Doing it every day, will it harm me?

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25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - hey i have a doubt.. i do masturbate daily.. does it harm me?... (13 words

My wife wants to work things out but I don't think I can

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - i have been with my partner for 8 years we have a most delightful little girl who is five. back in may we got married. in june things started going wrong. we did nothing but argue. this continued for the next couple of months and now i have been staying at a friends house an... (113 words

I recently came out and want to have a male date at my graduation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 17 year old gay male and live in a small town in Saskatchewan. I came out when I was 15 and all I've been able to think about is how happy it would make me to have a boy as my grad escort. But as I said, I live in a small town, and small town people are very ... (340 words

Is it normal for breasts to be flat when a woman is lying down?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a somewhat silly question I haven't seen asked here before. I have size C breasts - good enough when standing upright, but when I lay down they go flat...too flat for my liking. I wish they defied gravity haha! So my question is, do all breasts go flat or are mine a sp... (72 words

Does my ex-husband want to reconcile?

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25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I dnt understand my ex husband he does favours for my sister and tries to play father figure whn I am not around. He is staying with his girlfriend and whn as him how his girlfriend feels he just says he does not care. We haven't divorced yet. I fail to understand him as our ... (202 words

What is this thing inside me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have like this weird feeling in my vagina like a ball in the back of it.and when i have sex my partner hits it and it does not bother me but it make me feel like i have to pass a stool what can that ball feeling be?... (49 words

I broke up with a married man but he won't leave me alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I hv asked for advise before here and I really took it into practise. I also hv another problem in the same matter. I was involved with a married man a way older thn me. I decided to let go as I saw tht it was merrily a waste of time. I haven't seen him for over a month or... (145 words

Should I consider getting back together with my needy ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I am currently 19 years old and so is my girlfriend. Recently I've been thinking a lot about our relationship and I can't come to any definite conclusion... I really care about her so I know i have a bias, so I need an outside opinion. We've been together for 4 months. Wh... (560 words

I was good to him, so why did he feel the need to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I have dated this guy for about a month and hade to break up with him because it was just not going to work out. But he has left me feeling realy bad about myself. See the first weeks I started to get to know him he realy seemed nice and he tolled me all about his past a... (226 words

How do I know if he wants a relationship without having to come right out and ask him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - What do you think i should do? I know this man for 7 years. The first 3 were just little talks in GYM and couple coffes at Starbuck. Then we started being very close. We even went out sometimes. The past year we went out few times, and ended up in a car kissing, but that's ... (574 words

How should I ask him to homecoming?

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so im in Highschool and we have the homecoming dance comming up soon. There is this guy that I like, and want to go with. Should I ask him if hes going and kind of bring up the fact that I want to go with him? ... (47 words

Sex fiend blues..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have become a F-R-E-A-K and it does me no good. Like a lioness I bait and prey my on man constantly. He wants to nap and me, I go down on him until he has to give in to me. He's watching a show, I climb all over him. He walks around naked...well, the ... (206 words

Nice guys finish last, atleast that's what I'm seeing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Nice guys finish last or at least thats how I see it, The beautiful women are attracted to the D bag guys. I am the typical nice guy I think I don't talk about people behind there backs and am usually honest. The girls I like only like me as a friend and I have noticed the ... (436 words

Advice and such because its torturing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Okay so i guess i have a serious issue and i just want to get past this stage and no longer remember it because I have thoroughly regretted it long enough and each day wished it was different. so here goes. I am a male currently 18 years old and have a cousin that is approxim... (185 words

She doesn't avoid me but she does seem to avoid my feelings for her, should I still ask her out ???

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25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok yesterday afternoon when the girl I really like finished college I met up with her and did what always do have a chat and a laugh. But when I bring up feelings or sumthing similar she becomes evasive of the whole thing like she's not interested and it confuses me because I ... (110 words

My friend is mad at me and it's breaking my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - I got into a fight with someone special to me over the summer. After a couple of months I finally said sorry to him. Then two days ago we talked about what happened between us. When I asked about how he felt about the fight and me he got so mad! After I said sorry about one ... (314 words

How do you stay wet during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a question about sex! So the last couple times I've had sex with my guy, I usually start off really wet. But then at some point during it i get dry and then it hurts... whats happening? Cause it's not like I'm not turned on or horny anymore... what can I do to stay wet?... (58 words

What would you change if you had a time machine?

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25 September 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi, Just a general question. What would you change if you had a Time Machine? Hypothetically, if you could go back in time armed with this knowledge and understanding of mistakes you both made in a relationship and start all over, what would you do to make it better. ... (72 words

Is he guilty or in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - hello , My friend was telling me a story, that he wanted to marry a girl of a different race, but her parents are against it because they had a very bad experience with another sister so her dad even got sick .So she told him lets just be together hoping one day her parents ... (146 words

Do you only bleed the first time you have sex?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - i lost my virginity to my boyfriend last week, but afterwards i bled. a lot. i figured that it was because my cherry got popped, and that it would be a one time thing. i guess not. i've had sex twice since, but both times i've bled, and i'm not at all sure why. its less blood, ... (78 words

The guy I am dating doesn't want to be exclusive with me

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25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've met a guy on a dating site and have been dating him for a month now. Things are going pretty well and we've been seeing each other several times a week. I've slept at his place a few times, met some of his friends and I really like him (he's 33/I'm 31). A couple days ago ... (234 words

How do I ask my friend if I could stay at her place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'd like some advice regarding my friend. I want to go to London next week to see my favourite band, but i would need to stay overnight. i dont know london at all so i would like to stay in the hostel where my friend lives. we wouldnt be in the same room, just the same ... (167 words

What is so special about love or lust?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - Well, it's been a long time since I've had sex, which was a few years back, but my question is... Why do people insist on saying that relationships are special? What is so special about an intimate relationship? Is it possible (just possible) that love or sex is overrated and... (97 words

After a night together now he won't text me back

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been talking to this guy online for 6 years, we flirt online and last night we met. He put his arm round me and i kissed him. we ended up making out for 3 hours and then we went to sleep. this morning he just seemed to want me gone so i left. i text him and said will this ... (90 words

He wants actions of affection but doesn't return them!

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25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a 1 1/2. My boyfriend expects me to give him affection example: Give him foot rubs, Scratch his back, Play with his hair And massaging his hands and fingers. Sometimes We rub each others feet but, a couple of times, ... (191 words

Do you think his feelings really faded after our argument or he's trying to control me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I recently had quite a serious arguement with my lover, who lives abroad, and sent him some nasty emails. Now we have made up but when I ask him he says he doesnt love me quite as much as he did, but that the love will probably come back. Is this a bit of a controlling thing ... (73 words

Friendship with crush's brother caused problems for everyone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - okayy... this will sound kind off complicated, but here goes.... I've liked this guy since like 4 years back. I've always look at him from a distance and just observe him when he's around. After some time, I think he notices me observing him because whenever I'm around he'll lo... (738 words

To what depth should you inquire about your partner's past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - The question on every person's mind when they begin to have a new relationship. Exactly what's this guy/girl's dating history? I want to have an idea of what you think. To what depth should we know this. If we don't, is it appropriate to ask?... (48 words

Husband had an affair wants to work it out but says he can't get over her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband had an affair and I recently found out. I still love him and am willing to work it out. He says he still loves me but can't get over her. I told him if he wants our relationship to work, he needs to get over her, but he can't. At this point, he's struggling with ... (175 words

Are you still a virgin if you've been fingered?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Are you still a virgin if you got fingered?... (9 words

Are my teachers trying to set us up????

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - last year i sat next to the same guy in three lessons and we got on really well despite being kind of opposite( he was quite cocky whereas i was a bit shy) i mean we were both popular and sporty but apart from that we were pretty much opposite. whenever we talked nobody said ... (145 words

My girlfriend cries all the time

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend likes to cry... a lot. When I first met her, she wasn't overly emotional at all, I mean, she still showed emotion, but she never really cried. But when we started going out and became more serious, she just became more and more emotional. I feel like a bit of... (348 words

How can I feel more comfortable as single ?

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25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - I bet many singles hate the situation , when friends and family ask you, "why are you single" ? or "How come that a good looking person like you is single" ? " How come that you turn 18 and you haven't lost your virginity yet "? The top is ,when you say " i feel lonely and ... (182 words

A guy in love with another guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 26-29 - So there's this guy that i met 2 years ago in a class we had. We sat pretty close to eachother and became decent friends... we hung out and talked and stuff (not in a gay way but just like friends) but THEN i started to "notice" him, so i started to get really nervous around ... (220 words

When I get really angry or sad my body hurts!

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - This isn't exactly a relationship issue, but whenever I get really sad or angry, my inner wrists and chest hurt in a strong aching sort of way (especially if I'm holding it in). And if I continue to get more and more sad or angry, other parts of me begin to hurt too, like the ... (88 words

Do I have these feelings because he was my first sexual partner?

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25 September 2010 (? age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend split 2 months ago and i still really care about him and get upset when i see him with another girl and it still really hurts when he has a go at me why am i feeling like this could it be because he was my first sexual partner and how can i stop feeling like ... (61 words

I'm desperate to get my license and can't find a decent instructor!

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I honestly think I'm cursed with bad driving instructors....In the past 2.5 years I've been learning to drive ive had 5-4 of which were reccomended by friends and colleagues. My 1st guy was always miserable and used to grunt orders at me. He'd be late picking me up an... (426 words

I've never done this before but I want to ask her out

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25 September 2010 (M age - question dear cupid, should i tell this woman i fancy her. i've liked her for a long time now. i would like to ask her out but don't know how to go about it. as i've never done it before. she is 5 years younger than me will that make any difference or problems.... (54 words

Lesbian, confused, married women lesbian affair

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am at the end of 20s, i have developed attraction to girls and boys since my childhood, likely to be bisexual but attracted to women more, not any women, to mentally mature, brain sexy type" brain seducing type". am an honest, responsible, not a player, attractive, and ... (1030 words

I kissed another boy at a party and now am afraid my b/f will break up with me

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay i have i boy friend and we have been together for a while and well i forget things really really easy and i was playing truth and dare at this party i had a shot or two and well i ended up just kissing this other boy but my boyfriend is really really against cheating he ... (103 words

Situation with my professor has become quite awkward but I need his classes!

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25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm in a really awkward situation. I was very attracted to my professor and he was interested in me but I'm very shy and I guess I didn't respond to his flirting in the right way. He kind of ended it and that was in December. I have to be in 2 of his classes now and I still ... (181 words

How do I make this girl mad about me?

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25 September 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi i am 14 and i need help getting this gal to love me... it is complicated... I know she likes me and she even holds hands with me... and i have heard her talking to her friends about me... she thinks im hot. She does not have a boyfriend. :) the problem is that i was ki... (124 words

I am dating a man 37 yrs older than me

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am dating a guy that is 37 yrs older than me. i love him like i never loved anyone else and he loves me the same way or even more. my question is: Is it okay that i am dating a guy 37 yrs older than me? we have plans on moving in together but idk if people are going to accept ... (142 words

Girfriend thinks I'm cheating and threw my stuff out!

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25 September 2010 (M age - My girlfriend of 1 year thinks i am cheating on her when i know that i'm not how do i prove it. I went to work 1 day she said she found a pair of my socks downstairs under a table in a locked room which i have no key to and it has an alarm on the door and window. She said that ... (111 words

I like my work colleague and she's in a bad relationship... what next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have become friends with a female colleague. We get along well, have a lot of 'chemistry' and have become very close. I would like us to be more than friends, but she has a boyfriend. He doesn't treat her very well (obviously my opinion is subjective). I am starting to find ... (145 words

Does a brazilian wax hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey I'm 19 and I wanna get a brazilian wax and I was wondering does it hurt?... (17 words

How do Indians in US do arranged marriage?

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25 September 2010 (M age 36-40 - How do Desis/Indians marry in arranged manner in US (or elsewhere) when the boy and girl, both are working in different states? This gets complicated when both want to continue their careers and given the tough economic conditions these days, its hard to even think leaving ... (368 words

My mom never remembers things the way that they actually happened!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm really at my wits end with my mum, we argue all the time and she insists on always being right no matter what. I'm almost tempted to record our conversations as proof, because she ALWAYS remembers something as happening in an entirely different way and then insists she's ... (258 words

My best friend is flirting with the guy that I like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm going to apologize ahead of time for the long story :/ Ok, so i like this guy alot, and he likes me too, but everyone says he is such a player because he is a big "flirt" according to some people but he really isnt, and he is actually looking for a serious relation... (247 words

My friend told me my crush and I would date and now she says we won't. Why the change?

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi im Josie and in my last year of middle school well my friend morgan has a bf but she told me she likes slade my crush(she didsnt know)but when i told her she was happy for me but you can hear a little sadness in her voice.She told me earlier today she thinks slade will ask ... (83 words

I can't see to stop my angry outbursts at him.. even though I know it's wrong. Should we break up?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 17, we've been going out for a little over a year. Our relationship is mainly over the internet, as we live 1000 miles away from one another, but get together on holidays. He started out as a friend and then a rebound from my previous relationship, ... (596 words

This guy doesn't talk to me ever since we kissed.

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a Chinese girl my family came to the States 2 years ago for my father's work and stuff. It took me a while to fit in this country but now I'm doing quite well. I'm in highschool and I have a big crush on this guy and I really want to make it work with him. Since lots of ... (481 words

I'm lost again as usual : /

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well let's see I'm 19 years old now. I have been off and on friends with this chick for 4 years. We got into a big fight in 2008 that lasted to 2009. We didn't talk. Well she tried to, not the good talk the "I'm gonna cyber harass you for months. And try and get my older male ... (244 words

I don't want an abortion but my boyfriend does

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years, we moved in together on our 1 year anniversary and our relationship is great! He is 27 and he has 3 kids and I am 21 and I have 1 child that is 3, I've recently found out that I am pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to ... (145 words

Would you be upset with this?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Would you be upset if your boyfriend had a pirture of him and a girl togather even though there just friends and she gave it to him?... (27 words

Does my crush like my friend?

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - well I like this guy very much but I think he likes my friend more even though she knows I like him.I mean cause he is always looking for her.Even though she say she thinks he is going to ask me out I think he'll ask her.Pluse im to shy to tell him I like so i flirt with him a ... (71 words

Do guys like hairy vaginas or not?

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 16 in a few months but ive never had sex before. Im not sure if my vagina is normal or really hairy, but i think its too hairy. Is it weird if i shaved it? What do guys prefer, hairy, a little bit hairy or no hair at all?... (53 words

Do you think she is flirting with him? And do I have feelings for him?

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm in middle school. I am in a class with my guy friend and best girl friend. I'm not so sure why this bothers me so much, but I will try to explain. Ok so my best friend, melissa, has a boyfriend. And she is in the same class as me and my guy friend. I don't have ... (142 words

Should I call him tonight or wait it out?

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25 September 2010 (F - my ex and i have been talking on and off for a year..he knows i want to get back and i think eventually we might actually see each other..i called over a week ago and asked if he wanted to talk more often and maybe get together soon and he said he had no problem with that..he ... (355 words

Will she break my heart again?

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25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - ok so i joined the site because i wanted to hear some other peoples opinions heres the problem my gf and i have been dating for about two years and i think she is cheating on me. i have asked her about it and she says that she wouldnt do that to me that she loves me. the ... (257 words

Body proportion?

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys, what's crackin? Here's a ridiculous one for you all, and I'd hate to be a cliche but...: I feel like my boobs are too small sometimes. Some days I'm thinking, "oh, they're an alright size." And other days, I'm thinking, "oh... Where'd they go?" I'm not going to ... (139 words

What does the expression "you can't have your cake and eat too" mean?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - what does the expression "you can't have your cake and eat too" mean? My boyfriend said this too me and I was very confused as to what that expression means So please enlighten me!... (41 words

Photo's of my boyfriends ex on his computer.

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, I have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly six months and recently found photographs of his ex on his computer. They are photos from her page on a social networking site featuring her in her bikini on holiday, these photos were taken while i was seeing my boyfriend. ... (121 words

Why do men treat tall girls with disfavor?

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25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am a tall girl, but I'm not fat. I'm 5ft8 and 130 lbs. I'm 28, my husband is 38. My husband says I should lose weight and that my vagina is too big. But I'm not overweight, but I've definitely lost muscle and added fat since we've met. So I don't look as ok as before. ... (274 words

Should I shave down there before I lose my virginity or leave it?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so i am a 17 year old girl and i am hella confused about me shaving down there.... yes i know its weird that a 17 year old is asking this question but i dont want to ask any of my friends cus im embarrased and i dont think ima ask my boyfriend either.... so my question ... (90 words

Should I stay and fix this or leave after 3 years?

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok. I feel At fault for this but my father in law says other wise. My marriage is falling apart. My husband doesnt do much for us with out me nagging or fighting with him. sometime he comes out and does it him self. As well he is the sweetie guy when he wants to be. The other ... (233 words

I can't seem to find a girlfriend!

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25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 20 year old guy who has a problem. The problem is that I cannot for the life of me get a girlfriend no matter how hard I try. EVER. I'm average looking. Not ugly by any means. Also I'm not over wait or anything either. I'm not mean or anything. Overall I would say ... (147 words

Two men,Two loves...which one?

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Strange as it is, tonight I found myself "googleing" the question how to choose between two men... My story is this, long and confusing... I'm a 24 year old mother, six months ago I left a man I spent three years with, a very rocky up and down relationship.. I just ended it... (485 words

I love him, but he doesn't believe me..

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months. Lately, I've been acting different. Yes, I've noticed that. Unfortunately, he has too. Then he asked me to marry him, and everything went back to normal for a while. But today he told my that I looked at him li... (215 words

Can you really fall out of love with someone in just a day?

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, im not sure how to put this... but what should i do if i like somebody who wuld never talk to me, When i was in love with my ex a day before?? I know this is confusing, but today i felt a really strong attraction to this guy in my class, ive thought he was hot for a few ... (256 words

My ex comes in and out of my life when he pleases!

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, I really hope someone will understand my situation.. I really feel bad and I can't achieve the things I always wanted to do and I think that all of this is because I put myself in some bad relationships and it always ends up badly, I really don't know why boys use me.. last ... (233 words

I think he is a bit put off that I'm a tad taller than him! anyone been in this situation?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I met this guy a few weeks ago... we hit it off immediately, we have loads in common and he's such a great guy in everyway, he can make me laugh till im practically crying and i feel so at ease with him (Normally i get so nervous that i can't speak!) I really like him ... (151 words

My boyfriends like a stick in the mud!

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25 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi, i am a little confused with my relationship at the moment. i have met some really nice men, and 2 of my exes are still in the picture, i have been talking to them a great deal more than my bf recently. my bf has taken a bit of a back-burner while my attention f... (400 words

Did I ruin his pride or is sex all he wanted?

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I been talking to this guy for a couple of months.he has really been nice he never made a move on me or anything. when im alone i can call him no matter what time it is.we eventually had sex a week ago and it was horrible he came within 3min and i told him that i did not enjoy ... (110 words

Why did she stop talking to me and just out of the blue start talking to me again?

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25 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - okay so this is rather insignificant, but still i cant understand girls, and im confused once again :) 3 days ago, this girl i used to talk to a lot contacts me. I havent spoken to her since right before we nearly started dating 2 years ago, when she decided to just stop tal... (499 words

I want to know how my boyfriend feels about me

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25 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend haven't really hangout in awhile just us because school has began we have just both been really busy. And he is the kind that jokes around a lot. And this weekend once again for the 3rd one in a row I can't see him in person since he is going to some fair ... (129 words

Why isn't my husband flushing the toilet anymore?

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25 September 2010 (F age - Most of the time I get on really great with my husband who's a great bloke - kind, funny, supportive etc. Just lately though he's started forgetting to flush the loo after he's taken a cr*p. This really bothers me and it's sometimes 2 or 3 times a week. He says it isn't hi... (127 words

I know he won't find a girl like me!

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25 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - okay so guy and i been together for a while i heard rumors of cheating and i asked him and he finally tld me he didnt do anything but he did kiss one girl during our break which i dont really care for bc we were on a break! now i told him today that i am waiting fo rhim, him ... (304 words

Memories of my ex are trapping me in the past

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25 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Whenever I'm alone, i'll start to think about the memories my ex-boyfriend and i had shared which kinda traps me in the past because i want to get over him ! i heard from my friend that he talked trash about me and yet he still thinks about me .. Well i do too but after hi... (116 words

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