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writes:Okay so my ex has just moved to my school for sixth form, it was about 7 months ago we broke up and we sometimes talk and have really cool conversations. We spoke online the night after our first day back to school and I asked him how his day was, he replied "good, I didn't see you though?" I figured I'd see him around so I thought I might as well be chilled about it, by surprise I saw him and he smiled at me so I smiled back, I saw him later on that day and he did something that shocked me a little? When we were together we used to have this inside joke where he would raise one eyebrow and I loved it, and when I saw him he did that? Anyway it made me smile and cheered me up a bit, not that I was in a bad mood before but still. I put a status on facebook saying how good my day was, he liked it and commented saying "saw you!" :) Then on facebook chat I said to him "did you do the eyebrow thing?!" he replied "you know i did :P".. then had to go for dinner haha, the rest of the conversation is yet to come... Why would he be like this? I have a boyfriend now incase you're wondering. I suppose we always have kept our inside jokes alive but I guess its making me wonder a bit.. Thanks in advance :)
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Even if the break up between you two went really badly it doesn't mean that he would want to see you unhappy all the time. It's nice to see that he still cares about you and that he wants to let you know that you were something special in his life even though it didn't work out. Some times friendships can start up years later because of all the inside joke and what you two have in common. This doesn't mean that he wants to get back together with you or cause problems with your new bf, he just cares and wants to make sure that you're happy. By you being friendly back it shows that you enjoyed the time you two spent together even no matter what happened during the break up.
I have an ex gf who I went through a terrible break up with and we don't talk at all but I still feel bad when I hear that she isn't doing well with life. The relationship still means something to me and I know I could never hate her even though we will probably never talk again.
Hope this helps you out.
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