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writes:My gf broke up with me but said she still loves me. She broke up w/ me randomly. I don't know what happened or if I did something. But she's been avoiding me ever since. I thought she loved and she said she did, so breaking up with me and then leading me on by telling me she loves me is a bit confusing. What does this mean? Thanks
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reader, Bobito  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Love is a very complex word. It includes a huge variety and shadess of feelings. What is it that your (now ex)gf means when she says that she still loves you? Could it be that she still feels the same as she did before?
The anser is no. If she broke up with you it means that she doesn't. This doesn't mean that she doesn't feel anything more about you; her feelings have changed to something else and she needs to find out whether her 'new' feelings towards you justify your relationship.
Leave her alone. Don't try and get in touch with her. She needs to find out for herself what she feels about you. I know it is difficult for you but you obviously want the best for her and for yourself. No good would come out of chasing her. Just don't keep your disappointment for yourself. Share your feelings with someone. That'll help you bear this tough moment.
Best of luck,
Rob
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): I think she was trying to spare your feelings a little. Crap, I know, but it may have made sense to her.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Just give her time and space alone. Dont contact her make it look like you dont care if she is there or not.
She will probably contact you when she has had time to think it over.
If you do get back together whatever caused the breakup will have to be fixed if it can be.
Good luck.
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