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writes:hey...i need help... my friend a boy, who i've known For a long time about 11 years i've never thought of liking him as more than a friend. this is my problem we're seatmates and we usually talk about everything and it's usually just the two of us sometimes we get teased and we just don't mind it. we WERE happy Until this girl who's also our seatmate started talking to him and really throwing herself at him it was PATHETIC AND DEGRADING TO LOOK AT...anyway she started talking to him playing with his hair and just generally getting his attention. while that was happening the time we spent together became less and less until it's where it is now...we just talk if he asks something as if we weren't friends and it's making me feel sad and left out i dont know if i like him or not please help me... Reply to this Question
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reader, confused... +, writes (10 September 2010):
confused... is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe says he doesn't like her, but i have a hard time believing him . he always comments on her pictures on Facebook its somehow making me feel jealous and i dont know why, i think i'm starting to like him more than just a friend but i think he likes i should just back off right?
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reader, confused... +, writes (10 September 2010):
confused... is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe says he doesn't like her, but i have a hard time believing him . he always comments on her pictures on Facebook its somehow making me feel jealous and i dont know why, i think i'm starting to like him more than just a friend but i think he likes i should just back off right?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 You have been friends for a long time and eventually he would meet someone who he may have a relationship with. Can you cope and accept that this could happen and can you live with that or do you feel more about him than what you thought?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Ah the agony of teenage anxiety it is enough to make a man wax poetic but the answer is to quote a poet "blowing in the wind" I must apologize but there is no concrete way to tie down the fleeting feelings of youthful glances and meaningful meaninglessness. Good luck my friend but only the passage of time will crust over the open wounds of youth.
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reader, StrawberryYouth  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 I'm terrible with advice, but what I would do in a situation like this, is start talking to him more. Ignore the girl, and try to get his attention more often. Since you've known each other so long, he shouldn't be easy to just show himself out to someone else. Start a conversation, and act as if you aren't bothered by the presence of this other girl. Good luck! x
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