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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife is driving me crazy! advice please!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is driving me crazy. I love her so much but she is the most stubborn woman on earth. We met, fell in love, got married. Everything was perfect. Now, with the stress of my job, her starting nursing school again, oh and us getting pregnant. She's 7 months along. She ... (446 words)

I'm tired of inatiating our sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 37 and my boyfriend is 10 years younger. I am 6 month pregnant and before I was pregnant and at the beginning we had sex regularly but I had to initiate it every single time. Now we have gotten down to maybe once a month and it lasts usually less than a minute. I feel ... (202 words)

What makes a guy shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 1. would a shy guy ring a girl and ask her out?? or hes too shy to do that?? 2. what make guys shy??? 3. what if you like a shy guy and you think he likes you too..but hes not making any move?? what should the girl do?? thnx..xx... (65 words)

Dating a military man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I would really appreciate any advice I can get on this matter because I really need to decide what I should do about my RAF boyfriend and I. I am beginning to realise how hard it is to be involved with a military man after dating him for 4 months, and I know I am falling for... (343 words)

Very irregular periods at 13?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and 1/2 and i have been gettign my period for about 3 years now and when i first started for the first 2 years it was very regular about 25 days apart right, now for the past year it isnt anymore. Between 40-50 days apart and sometimes even 2-3 times a month? i don't ... (85 words)

I poured my heart out to him, and got no response...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have posted on here before now. Quick background, my ex and i split 3 months ago after 3 and a half years on and off. Main cause of relationship breakdown was lack of communication, mainly my doing. days after the split, he starts a new relationship with someone else who had ... (412 words)

My boyfriend's brother likes me more than he should and it's embarrassing me... how do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. I am 18 and he is 19, he recently moved in with his brother who is 25. So, I see a lot more of his brother than I already did. I've lately gotten the feeling that his brother is attracted to me. When I am there he follows me ... (231 words)

How can I distract myself from this dream guy while keeping my motivation to get my life back in order?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay guys so I seem to have gotten myself into a bit of a situation and it would be great if you could give me some advice. About a month ago I started talking to a guy online and we hit it off so so well and have so much in common that I can't believe it. So far he seems ... (399 words)

My ex girlfriend keeps calling me up... what to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well last night I was like hey im going to make a jtv account. So I made one then I was like well I wonder if I email the link to her email I wonder if she would come in? So with in 5 mins of sending the email to her on msn she was on my page talking to me. But this is weird, ... (232 words)

I want my old son back... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age - Hey all, I hope you are willing to help out! I have a 14-year old son; he was the sweetest boy, he always did his homework, and he had perfect grades. Then, my husband and I split up. I divorced him because I felt that i could never take him seriously; he had no guidelines or ... (187 words)

My feeling horny all the time is embarrassing me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really dont know what to do... I get horny so easily!!! Its really bad when I am in school. I get all wet and stuff. I cant help thinking about my boyfriend!!! I am wondering why it smells tho? Should I get it looked at by a doctor. It seems that it only happens when i think ... (71 words)

Scotch eggs!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

- Not really a dilemma but would like some input because I don't want to come across odd, lol. Which I probably am. I saw scotch eggs today (lol) and they were a favourite of a member of staff at my school. its been 2 years since I've left but we got on pretty well. I've seen ... (137 words)

In love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, im an 18 year old girl and 4 years ago i saw this guy and i was blown away! I'd like to think of it along the lines of love at fist sight. What i feel for him is deep, in the past 4 years, he's all i thought of. 1 day i decided to invite him on facebook and it turns ... (130 words)

He has given me 2 weeks to drastically change things or we have to go....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This might be long, so I thank you in advance for reading! Some background: when I was 15, I had a huge crush on a guy who was NOT interested in me at all. I was his exact opposite, loud and wild, and "scared" him. I never forgot him, but moved on with my life. Fast forward 15 ... (261 words)

My ex best friend told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more and I'm so upset...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My ex best friend told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more. She said i brought stress to her life. I don't know how but she said i did. I cried so much. That was in june. We have 2 classes together this year. She seems so happy and stuff. She really hurt me ... (159 words)

What if he was the one for me and I have let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really finding it hard to get over my ex... We broke up over 2 months ago but got back toegther and then broke up again a couple of weeks ago.. We weren't getting on, arguing all the time over differnt things, we were together for over 2 years and i really thought he was t... (127 words)

How do I make myself want to have sex more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and I took his virginity. I have only had sex with one other person. When we have sex he cums in a minute or two the first time. Then we do it again and he lasts for about ten minutes and then he can do it again and again. He can ... (142 words)

Have I just wasted 3 years of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for three years, which is a very long time because I'm only young. I love him to pieces but I don't know if I want to stay with him. He isn't very romantic and has never treated me, we have never been out for a meal or done anything ... (100 words)

How do I nicely reject a sweet guy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright I need some seriouse help. So homecoming is coming up and I'm really excited to go, and at lunch this guy asked me to homecoming, and he kept walking, so at first I thought he was just joking around, but then I heard him say "no don't! I already asked her." and I ... (202 words)

How do I give a blowjob to my boyfriend who has a lot of cum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I am 20 and he is 21. I took his virginity right before his 21st birthday. But I had only had sex with one other guy before him and I had only given a bj before sex so I had never had the experience of cum in my ... (218 words)

Are there trips you can go on for fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I really wanna go to Europe (especially Paris) and was wondering if there's any trips (preferably during the summer) people can go on. Not to study, just to learn about the culture/language. I do speak a little French too. If anyone knows of any websites and/or ... (55 words)

I don't have the urge to make out with her any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this one is a little complex so thanks for ur time.. i will make it short.. i love my girlfriend and we have a great relationship.. she wants to wait till marriage to lose her virginity and i am fine with that (this will be important later). so at first we made out 24-7, ... (175 words)

International women student stereotype

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was having a very terrible time with my husband and I am a student in the university. One evening my husband abused me a lot and I decided to quit the relationship that day.(though the relationship was worst for last 5 years). While I was sitting in the lobby, I saw a guys ... (877 words)

How can I get him to talk and not shut down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, I need some help. Been dating this guy for almost a year. We dont spend time at all together maybe once a month, he texts every day. He is very sweet one minute and angry the next especially when i question anything about the relationship and or why he doesnt spend time ... (113 words)

Relationships and University

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My name's Joe and i'm just starting my 2nd year of University. Before My Uni life began I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. It had it's ups and downs and ended ok. But the problem was during that relationship I was doing my A-Levels at College and the ... (266 words)

Should I rebuild my marriage, or follow every instinct in my body and ask for a divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i have been married for 2 years. i am bi-polar and my husband is an alcoholic, although he denies it. he has cheated on me 3 times, twice with his ex-wife and one time with a friend of ours. I find myself not trusting him, or respecting. i feel repulsed when he hugs me or ... (88 words)

How do you tighten the vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Is there any means to get vagina tight after having sex 6-8 times in a month? it seems lill bit loose in vagina shape?... (25 words)

Am I crazy to be insecure? Should I let this pass?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so insecure, my boyfriend lied about his ex. He said he never brought her home then i find out she knew all his family and he had brought her home. I confronted him and he said he didnt like to talk about the past. I feel betrayed, why lie? Now I am insecure, I have met ... (122 words)

Son looking at pornography on the computer?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age - I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was too young to get into that ... (60 words)

What's the difference between being honest and being negative?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) age - What is the difference between being honest and being negative? People told me many times.including family,and friends, ''you are being too negative'' And I just cant see, where am I going wrong. I feel, Im just seeing the truth.. What is wrong with that? It is very strange ... (98 words)

Why won't my husband touch me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 3 years and two of those years he will not touch me why is that? I try and he always telling me that i am to demanding so i stoped it and never touched him for three months when i went to touch him the other night he told me he was not in the mood for ... (106 words)

Gave him my number but he still hasn't called...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This past Saturday I went to a good friend's birthday party at a restaurant. One of the waiters was nice. He would come up and touch my shoulder asking if I need something to drink, or if I know what I want. Smiley, and good eye contact. It got my attention anyways. Finally I ... (153 words)

Could he be the one cheating and trying to blame shift?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been with my bf over 18 months. Its been turbulent. His highs and lows have taken a toll on me. He constantly accuses me of cheating (I never have) thinks I talk to men online (never have) calls me sneaky all the time. Looks at my cell. Questions everything. I feel lik... (182 words)

I have problems with my violent teenager son, who doesn't want me to date!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having problems with my teenager. He's 13 and doesn't want me to date or talk to anyone. I decided not to bring any man around until I felt that it was serious. I have found someone who I am very happy with. My son won't accept it. He is very violent towards me. He fights ... (314 words)

How to get the correct bra size???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like to get advice. pals from india would be able to help appropriately, i believe, for my wife, we don't get bra of right size. her cup size is big while her measurement below breast is less but with most of the brands we get some size (38 c) which covers the breast ... (139 words)

My boyfriend with gambling issues said he will really change this time - I'm confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, Here's my story. Been with my bf for 2 years now. I'm very much in love with him. He has a lot of issues that I've tried to over look and tried to help with. Trust,control, and gambling. He has no reason to not trust me, as I've been loyal. He needs access to everythi... (295 words)

How can you stop yourself from getting too jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey how can you stop yourself from geting too jelous? My bf has alot of female friends that parts ok, the problem is the ones that have a crush on him or messed around with him in the past (hes friends with hes ex's). I get jelous/mad/upset just hearing there names or knowing ... (154 words)

My boyfriend has an oversized-women obsession!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me with oversized, unattractive, low class women. I thought this had been put to rest but recently discovered that he masturbates with the use of Voluptuous magazine as well as other big girl materials. If that is what turns him ... (118 words)

I feel like he's become distant since I told him how I felt about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 17-year old (just today, actually) that is quite confused right now. I've been in love with a guy (straight) for 4 years now, and I'm not quite sure how to get over him, as I really want to. We'll both be graduating from high school soon, and I'm afraid time won't ... (565 words)

"The case of the pissed off ex"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OP Own Title"Why is my exboyfriend sending me random Emails 1 email he sent was him just saying Hi (just that) and later on he sent another one saying "don't say bad things about me to other people" (and I never do things like that) then I reply back okay. because I'm not ... (149 words)

My parents have always treated me poorly, preferring my sister to me. Time to walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age - All the time I was growing up my parents made no secret of the fact my younger sister was the preferred child. From the day she was born they compared us, always to my detriment. Everyone was told that I’d been a horrible baby, forever crying and keeping them awake whereas ... (919 words)

I just can't read her and it's becoming a problem on my end

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP Own Title* Hello Dear Cupid; I've written here before in the past about a girl I've known for a few years who's a close friend of mine who said she was asexual until she "falls in love". Recently, another friend of mine, who's like a slightly younger sister to me, as... (264 words)

Glitter on boyfriend's face!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and started questioning him.... (208 words)

I totally panick when giving presentations in front of my class!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started at sixth form and so far I am really enjoying the subjects which I have decided to take however I have always been quite shy and nervous and in all my subjects they have told me I need to do a presentation in front of the whole class. Well my first one was toda... (219 words)

Less than a month and he says he's in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have sort of been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks now. I haven't even known him for a full month yet. He's already told me that he thinks he's fallen in love with me and that I am the only girl for him. Suddenly it feels like I find him less attractive now. Why is ... (98 words)

How should I interpret his lack of communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and now things are starting to get bad. I text him for a couple hours and then he just stops texting me. I then send a text asking what is going on and he replies that he is busy. I then am skeptical. He tends to disapear at ... (238 words)

If we break up over her cheating I'll lose my child

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my wife now for almost 8 years now. Married for 2yrs with a house and a baby girl of 7 months. She is from overseas and is currently back with her family with our baby while we were getting back on our feet(so far 4months). Inspired by her constant looking thru ... (318 words)

She's become distant and spends more time with Facebook than with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girl have been together for two and a half years. We have a nine month old son together. For the last three or four months she has gotten to the point she won't converse with me I come home from work she gets on facebook and stays there till two three four in the ... (180 words)

Period is late -- could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. I am 19 and My fiance and I just started having sex. It was my first time with him. I am 4 days late on my period could I be pregnant? He used a condom the first time, but he did not use one the second. But he did pull out before anything happened. I am not on the ... (68 words)

Afraid that "standing up for myself" might drive her away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What can I do because I feel like I'm in a no-win situation. I am madly in love with my girlfriend, who often seems to take me for granted. But at the same time, while I feel I deserve better treatment, I'm afraid to "stand up for myself" because I do love her and feel being ... (66 words)

Married and infatuated...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I wish I could say I was not infatuated. But I am really crazy and having a tough time controlling myself. I am, beautiful, educated and in my twenties, married, without kids leading a very monotonous life. I am happily married, so to say, but I am a little sexually frustra... (262 words)

Fone fury!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I spoke to someone last tuesday and they were sick on the phone and we would talk again when they are feeling better.. i am away for a few days and yesterrday i entered an area without much signal so i turned my phone off.. later on i used a family members phone to call mine ... (158 words)

I hit her when I was drunk... how can I make it up to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my wife for 4 years and we had a wonderful relationship when I was sober. But one night I got drunk and we both started arguing and out of anger I hit her. She has told all of her family and friends she is done with me. Is there anything I could do to show her ... (111 words)

He dumped me, but is now contacting me every day. I'm a bit confused. Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Please help!! My boyfriend told me he just wants to be friends last week, and no relastionship. I accepted this gracefully, but ever since that day I told him I accept it, and good luck with his future etc, he has been texting me every day saying, ' Hi Baby, ho... (102 words)

Why does the ex still want my friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Boyfriend and I broke up July 21st. We argued and said some really mean things about each other -back-and-forth (yes, it was very childish) He started dating his current gf 2 days after we broke-up (she's the reason we broke up) and deleted me as a friend on FB. He said that I ... (338 words)

How can I tell my friend I'm there for her without offending her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This isn't so much a relationship question, but more of a friendship one. Its quite complicated, sorry. I have anorexia, and a girl in the year above who I slightly know but not very well found out. She told me that she had it as well and told me I can always talk to her if I... (224 words)

Women, why is fitting into your "thin clothes" more important than your health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Hey guys, I've recently found out a female friend of mine is starving herself with the sole aim of fitting into her old clothes. It's mind boggling to me for a number of reasons. Firstly, when I say starving herself I'm talking about her only eating maximum 800 calories... (367 words)

He's talking to me again but I'm confused... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My exboyfriend and i are talking again and i just said do you want to see a movie later he replied not tonight cos he's dead busy so i said maybe some other time and he said yeah that sounds good. Does this mean he's interested again or just saying it to blow me off? Sh... (76 words)

Why do I like having sex with him when I find girls attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who visits me weekly and we kiss, suck each other and had sex. I find girls attractive, not guys, but i love having sex with him? Am i gay or bi?... (35 words)

I lied to my online love about my age

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a guy who is 26 and i am 15 years old.... i met him online...he dont know my real age and now i love him alot i want to tell him everything..but i am scared that he will leave me...my intentions was not bad...i was depressed bcause of my family problems and i ... (310 words)

I feel like my life is crashing down around me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i knw this sounds silly but i feel lik my life is crashing down around me. everything seems to be going wrong, i have a job but its only part time so i have no money. i want to learn to drive but have no money to do this, so im stuck either in my house or around my area. ... (98 words)

I really don't know what is happening between us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. I am dating this guy and I dont know what is going on, he seems to really like me when we are together but when we are not i start to wonder what is really happening between us. I was in a long relationship before this and it only ended a few months ago but i ... (175 words)

I'm interested in my ex's friend..do I act on it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I kno its wrong but I've been interested in my exs friend I've always thought he was cute but never made an attempt to talk to him my ex and I have been broken up for about two years now the problem he's not just some ex he was my first boyfriend we were each others first ... (268 words)

Boring Selfish husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am sexually frustrated with my husband. He had a talk with me as if its me that is lousy in the bed when he doesnt even participates. He says he thinks my mind is on somewhere else .. I think it is really his that is on someone else. I Usually start the sex and because he ... (173 words)

I'm 18, he's 40. Can it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! my agony is that i just met a man online, i am still 18 and he is 40 years old. now the problem is i have been searching for many years of my love and i think i found him. we respect our age differences, we feel compatible with each other now. we use to chat, call and do ... (178 words)

Its impossible for us to have a future together. I want to break up with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't want to be with my boyfriend, we are in a relationship of 7 months and i want to break up now before it get too deep i'm not leaving him to find someone better, it just impossible to have future for us and i no longer love him. but a lot of people tell me he will g... (130 words)

HE has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and 7 months has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one. We have trust issues. Is that like fair? Is it right of him to do that? I dont talk to any of my friends anymore because of our trust issues and i think it would just be nice to look up ... (120 words)

What will happen to my hair if I dye it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I got my hair dyed and highlighted a few days ago and my highlights turned orange-ish red instead of blonde, probably because the rest of it was dyed medium brown and so dark. Well I hate it, every time I look at it I hate it even more. I don't want to go another day ... (208 words)

Will the cops come looking for us in the hotel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and want to have sex with my girlfriend(she is unmarried)in a hotel room. IS it legal? Can we spend a night in a hotel room without luggage and simply by saying that we want to spend time together without worrying about the cops knocking at the door??... (50 words)

Why is my cat always hungry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Hello there I have a 7 month old neutered boy cat! He's very lovely and cute but I think he has some behaviour problems. He meows quite a lot and is ALWAYS hungry. I feed him twice a day (wet food) and dry food is always available. Whenever I walk into the kitchen he follo... (113 words)

Why did he just drop me?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i had a long distance relation,with this guy.we meet on a social networking site,we use to talk everyday atleast 4-5hrs on net and afterwards on calls also.so he was a part of my life in past 3yrs.i was very close to him emotionaly.but from past 1yr is has stoped mails,of... (103 words)

He dumped me because he's busy with his career

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My 3 months old boyfriend just dumped me saying he is busy with his career and doesnt feel he is ready. We had been away for 3 weeks and he said although he missed me he felt detached sometimes. Thats why he doesnt want to continue, its not me who is the reason for breakup. I ... (138 words)

Do guys like calm girls or hyper girls?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I read somewhere that guys don't like hyper girls, who are always excited all the time. Like they think that the girl is trying to get attention and its lame that they are so excited about little things. It has been researched that most guys don't like this. So this worries me ... (116 words)

I think I'm in love with someone, I can't have? HELP!

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and I have been talking to this 20 year old guy from Washington since April, we started talking and talked for hours and hes asked me loads of times to come to Washington, but is it even possible? I mean I live so far away, could I make it work? I just feel like I... (83 words)

Is it unreasonable for me to ask him to commit to a mutual schedule to chat?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a distant friendship with a man (for the last two years, email and chat) which has grown into a stronger and more sexual attraction. We have so much in common and hugely attracted to each other. In the last month he has started to say he loved me and how he hoped we ... (375 words)

I'm scared being unemployed will make my boyfriend think less of me

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Just when everything has been seeming perfect with my bf, my worklife has taken an uncertain plunge. I feel sleepless and agonized and he tries to help, but in all the wrong ways. I want so much for us to work out, and I am scared to death that my unemployment will make him ... (64 words)

Does he really care or what??

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been at it for sometime. But three days ago I called it through a text message bc lately he'd been acting like he was too busy for me. I texted him and said "dont worry about calling me back, i dont want it anymore" he called me and asked was I ... (74 words)

I'm not even divorced yet and my girlfriend is talking marriage and kids!

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14 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I'm in the tail end of a long divorce following a dragged out separation (long story) and am with a partner whom I love dearly. We have talked about marriage and she really wants kids, and while I am all for it, it is very hard for me to think about starting over again because ... (329 words)

How do I stop feeling so insecure about sex?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in my current relationship three and a half years. I'm sure this is "it". We waited two years into our relationship to have sex. It was my first time, but not his. I don't really know why, but that makes me feel insecure. I second guess myself a lot, wonde... (101 words)

Boyfriend has caused me to mistrust him but I want to put it behind us

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm truly committed to making things work with my boyfriend. We've been together four years, and our relationship is almost perfect. Earlier in our relationship, just over two years ago, he went through a phase where he posted profiles on dating sites looking for "cas... (267 words)

I don't think I can offer him much I'm very new to love

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there Aunties/Uncles! So I am a Gay 20 year old male. And well I have never been in a relationship, better yet like the movie aptly titled---I have never been kissed. The people I tend to fall for, just never work out. So a while back I tried a dating site...and was mess... (398 words)

Ex broke up with me 5X and now wants to try again

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - here we go, my ex boyfriend who ive been dating for about a year (on and off) but not dating anymore, just told me he loved me , i know somwere i will always have a place for him in my heart but he broke up with me 5 times within our relationdhip. he says things will be ... (138 words)

Is he letting go of something potentially wonderful just because he's scared?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am going to try to sum up this situation as best as I can in hopes that I can get some helpful advice. I am 21 years old and a senior in college. I met this guy a little over a year ago in class and the first time that we hung out we immediately hit it off. Literally, I ... (1045 words)

How do I apologize to her for being selfish?

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll make a long story short. First off, im dealing with long distance. Now, me and my girl have been arguing for a while now, things were going pretty smooth before all these arguments. However, today we hit it off pretty bad. I've come to realize that ive been the one... (281 words)

He lied to me about many things but its hard to just walk away

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts, I've been so confused about the whole thing in relationship. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend who I met online 8 months ago. We've been in a Long Distance Relationship. He lives a world apart, in The United States while I live thousands miles ... (373 words)

25 and have never had a serious girlfriend

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old and I have never had a serious girlfriend in my life. I have dated quite a bit but it's usually just one date and it never gets anywhere beyond that. They usually stop talking to me, even if the date went really well and we had a lot of fun. They don't even ... (391 words)

Girlfriend wants to move faster in our relationship than I do

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly a full year, however we're long distance making our relationship difficult. We've had our ups and lows, and even broke up for a while, but we've been back together for about five months now. The problem is, my girlfriend wants... (503 words)

How to change the taste of vaginal fluids?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know how to make vaginal fluids taster sweeter, besides eating pineapple.....because I don't really care for pineapple lol. Does cranberry juice work? And maybe an increased intake of peaches and melons? If so, how much juice do I need to drink a day and how quickly ... (159 words)

Grey crusties on my nipple? what could cause this?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a nap after work today while dinner was cooking and when i woke up my boyfriend noticed what looked like a dirt smudge on my nipple. i dont think it was there there before my nap sonim assuming it happened while i was sleeping. i tried to rub it off but it started to ... (89 words)

I don't want to have this dream again because I know I can't have this girl

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Last night I had a terrible dream. It was a dream in a dream, so I went to sleep and woke up to a dream that was some likeness of the Denver I live in. In that dream I went to sleep and had a dream that my last girlfriend told me she wanted me back. In the dream she said she ... (206 words)

Done things in the past that I'm not proud of and now feel guilty. Help!

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do anymore...I lost my virginity badly...and then had an older men be my lover because I didn't want the first to be the only. I was 18. The 2nd is 42 and for 3months I ignored him, never spoke to him. But he kept trying...and I answered. Talking to him ... (193 words)

How do I achieve being a one man woman?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age - I am what you call a "real life Samantha Jones". I'm a 47 year old woman who lost her virginity when she was 12. Throughout my teen years after that, I had seven sex partners. One of which was my first love who I lost my virginity to (we were together just under three years). ... (335 words)

Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since then we kept in contact via ... (1535 words)

Heartbroken by a jealous husband

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been a good woman. I never cheated on him. He was my first love, my first (and only) sex, my first everything. I have loved him for eight years. And I did not deserve this. The culmination of these years, is one year of calm and seven years of jealousy escalating ... (245 words)

Best friends... with no strings attached!!!

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14 September 2010 (F)

age - Hi Everyone I am hoping some of you out there can answer this for me. Can you be best friends with someone and also have a sexual relationship with them but neither of you are in love with each other and no comittments. Neither of us have any other sexual attachments but w... (143 words)

I don't know whether to keep the stress and the guy or try and shed both!

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I treat my boyfriend bad, and my mood changes are hard for anyone to keep up with. He's not that happy either but says I treat him well. A part of me wants to break up with him, and get rid of some of the stress for both of us. I know it wouldn't help his mood at first, ... (116 words)

I guess what I'm saying is, has anyone else ever experienced this random intense need to hug people?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm a high school student and I have a question not regarding romantic relationships, but love of a different sort. I suppose this is rather odd, but I get really attached to my teachers. As an aspiring teacher myself I've done a lot of volunteer work with tutoring... (256 words)

I hated him now I love him!

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever fallen for someone they hated at first? It feels so strange and confusing. I feel like I must be crazy!... (25 words)

The man I love is three hours away and another guy is right here! what should I do?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for a couple months already, and i really really like him, at a point were i love him. but i moved three hours away to go to school. And there is a guy who likes me and hes alright the thing is hes here where i can see him everyday .. where the other ... (77 words)

The love of my life...

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, the names brian, im 17, turning 18 in 3 months, and this is my story of the love I have for a teacher I havent known for to long. I warn you this story is very long but it is interesting once you get into it.It is more of a story than a question but I still want feedback. ... (1307 words)

Whats this guy want from me??

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so this is my situtation..i met this guy last semester we made out a few times text once in a great while usually at night nothing really happened. this semester he text me out of the blue during the day. "just say you and you didnt say hi haha" i didnt say anything and then he ... (327 words)

Am I being taken for granted by the love of my Life after 13 years?

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - This is my first time using this and this very complicated, so here goes. I will try and shorten my story up for readability. I really need some solid advice for this group because I feel like I am dying a little every day: Please don't disregard this as romantic crap: I... (1018 words)

Why the need for so many lovers?

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My daughter is 19. She has had at least 10 sexual partners that I know of. Am I out of touch for feeling that this is excessive? We have good communication, what is going on?... (35 words)

I cant move on should I ask for a second chance?

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello my names jeremy and i need some help i lost my best friend a couple months ago and im so lost he was more then a friend he was my bbf, my brother, my father my best in everything we lived togther and did everything togther for many many years we where inseperable and now ... (181 words)

Now that we see each other more what do I do now?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I broke up with my boyfriend right before summer vacation started,we were together for about 4 months.. but now that we're back in school, hes in a few of my classes... and we talk a lot... i broke up with him because i knew we wouldn't maintain a lot of contact t... (87 words)

Why does she do these things and why do I feel this way?

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14 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was on the phone with my girlfriend, she is out of the country for one month. We spoke on skype video (the image was very poor). she shuffled the laptop around, making lots of noises, then I would not understand half of the stuff she was saying because she was mumbling in a ... (453 words)

Pregnant with my LD boyfriends baby!

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I visited my long distance boyfriend who is residing in the US while I'm living in Canada finishing my degree. About a month after returning from my trip I found out I was pregnant. So far I haven't told anybody, I've also decided to keep the baby but I don't know what ... (127 words)

My boyfriends friends are presurring him to have sex!

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 17 months now (almost 18 months!!!) and he's now at college (he's 15, almost 16 and I'm 13, almost 14). I've just started my GCSE's, and he's just started his A Levels. He left just over a week ago. I miss him like... (403 words)

Does he secretly like me? and if so what should I do about it?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, i need help. my crush is like my best friend, and some of his friends told me that he likes me? my crush touched me (like sexual touching) and now im wonderin if he likes me. he teases me playfully and when we played truth or dare, he ended up touching me. he acts like that ... (101 words)

How can my friend forget his ex girlfriend?

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14 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have a male friend called 'james' who happens to be one of those people who clings onto his ex's. At the moment, he is finding it hard to forget his last ex. Today he told me that it has been 6 months since she broke up with him. It pains me to see that he has been in ... (379 words)

He is having marriage problems and we want a fling together? what should I do?

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14 September 2010 (F) age 41-50 - So I just got into contact with a guy I had a crush on back in high school. Found out he was very attracted to me as well. We both haven't forgotten each other and would like to have a fling but here's the situation: he's married, I live in one country and he lives in ... (80 words)