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writes: Is it very hard to divorce and start a new life at 50? I feel this relationship is ended, even there was 26 years invested. But I'm a strong believer, marriage without sex, is a sin. I feel, if there is no medical cause, and your husband dont look for sex and affection, than the marriage becomes a business partnership. And I can't live with that. My husband stopped looking at me like a sexual partner years ago, and we have very joyless sex. He is losing his erections many times. And not because he has any medical problems. He does not care for sex, I dont care anymore why. What can I do? What would you do?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 I was gonna suggest the gym as well mizz. butterflies. I am in my fifties and been going to the gym for the first time in my life since April. What a change in my body shape,my stamina, self esteem and fitness. I would recommend it to anyone.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 talk to him about it.if he doesnt understand,start going to the gym,care for ur apperance.if he doesnt notice it ...time to move on and holla at some hottie out there who will appreciate you and want to bone ya!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (8 September 2010):
Unfortunatly it can be very common at your age. Maybe you could try to spice the marriage up. Can you pinpoint at what stage things changed for you both. Surely after 26 yrs you can open the lines of communication and talk about your feelings with your husband and try to see why he has changed towards you. Before you think about divorce give it one last chance to sort your differences out, you have nothing to lose if you bring it all out in to the open about how unhappy you are. Good luck
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