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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We have different morals. Should I date him anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in highschool, and the guy I like (who also likes me) and I have different morals. We get along really well and have similar interests as well as have great conversations. But, he and his friends tend to get drunk and do some recreational drugs (pot) as well as have sex ... (124 words)

All he wants is sex, what about my financial responsibilities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age - Hello, I am a 56 year old female divorce now for 7 years...and I just told my boyfriend that it's over! We have known each other now for the past 20 years. And he just went through a divorce about 1 yr. ago....we have been dating for 2 yrs but tells me he is not ready to get... (140 words)

Should I send her a mixed tape?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has left for boarding school and i won't see her for a month and a bit. Would it be sad to send her a mix tape of songs with missing someone as a meaning?... (40 words)

I insulted the girl I was dating. Will she forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I insulted the girl I was dating I thought she was cheating and made alot of terrible insults to her and later she told me she wasn't cheating and then I said I was sorry for saying those things. Will she forgive me?... (44 words)

Having trouble conceiving

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid and nd others i am a 18 yr ols feMale who is having trouble concieving . ive been pregnant an misscarred twice i have no kids but want some please giue meh answers on wat i shud do ! ... (42 words)

Why did I marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am 36 years old and have been in a relationship with my husband for almost 10 years now. We just recently decided to finally get married (a month ago to be near exact). I've known him since I was about 13 years old. He has been a close family friend this whole time. ... (549 words)

Is he leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm really confused about this situation and wonder if anyone here knows of anything similar. I met this guy at a party about a month ago and it seemed that we both were really interested in each other - he was being quite flirtatious towards me and I thought I was re... (263 words)

I'm so confused at where I stand with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so yeah i'm bisexual, this guy is my first sort of boyfriend..except this is the problem i don't know if it is a relationship or not..Everything was fine, one of the problems though is the distance, he lives 3-4 hours away from me on the train so its expensive to see him. I ... (198 words)

Everything I do is not good enough for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my boyfriend have been together almost two years and in the beggining everything was beyond wonderful..like a dream come true.we went on dates every weekend.he surprised me with gifts.and showered me with attention.but the past four months we have been going thru ups ... (526 words)

I am in love with my aunt

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello again everyone. i have previously posted my question, but again, i would like to hear more advice from people so i am reposting it again. please let me know how you think and thank you very very much! i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed awa... (248 words)

"Friend" spread lies about me and harrasses me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Two years ago I started secondary school the most popular girl everybody loved me but later my so called bf started spreading lies about me just because the guy she liked liked me. Now two years on despite the fact she's going out with the guy and has ruined my life she still ... (138 words)

Trying to win someone heart back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, i am trying to win someone back at the moment,could you please tell me how you guys got your guy/girl back when you thought all was lost. I need to hear some positives, but i know its not going to be easy.... (44 words)

I'm a virgin but haven't had a period since June?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I started my periods when I was 12. I am now 14 and I havent had a period since June, I am a virgin and there is no way i could be pregnant. What is happening to me?... (38 words)

I have a mental barrier around my body image

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I have a skewed perception of my body. Basically, I don't look like the ideal of beauty. And when I see myself in the mirror, I don't see anything special. I always end up seeing someone else who is more perfect and that always reminds me that my body is just normal and not ... (240 words)

My ex sounds so over me and I'm still hurting so much!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

2 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - hi, my name is deanna. i am heartbroken over a broken relationship. for over 3 months now, my ex and i had officially broke up. i really need advice. he obviously had got over me. i honestly love him, but due to the fact that he doesn't want me for good, even after two... (287 words)

After 6 years ex contacts me but I'm still just as hurt as I was then!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Bit of help needed here. It is about my very first boyfriend.We had been going out for four years, being inseperable, his family was practically my family and vice versa. When we broke up he vowed to be my friend forever and for two years he was, sharing everything, even ... (374 words)

He cheated but says he has changed now, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My long distance year and half relationship shattered when my boyfriends friend told me my boyfriend had slept with a girl at the beginning of our relationship, and that he continuely flirts with others. He had always text girls that were 'friends' and was always secretive with ... (183 words)

I like him, but I want to make sure it's for the right reasons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy (: So, my boyfriend recently broke up with me. This really hurt because i'd never been dumped before, and he was the first boy i really liked (maybe even loved)but after a month or two, i accepted it, and now i think i'm over it. Anyway, once we broke up, i st... (386 words)

Everytime we break up I get a chnage of heart and realise how much I love her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - help me please :( i've been with this amazing girl for nearly 3 years now. well i had, we broke up last monday. our relationship started off so well. and we've had loads of good times. i split up with her last year because i was unhappy and i thought it was becau... (242 words)

Bored with our online conversations sometimes..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy since December by sending each other messages on this website.Our conversations were 99% of the times interesting,and my attraction for him kept growing.So My profile there got deleted,and I e-mailed him to ask him if he can still see it online and ... (323 words)

Testing the waters with online friend again..any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I met a lovely guy on line a few months ago. The first day we spent together was great. I then subsequently spent two full weekends with him in June and July. Things progressed quickly. He lived over 100 miles form me so a lot of the communication was via e-mail etc. all ... (380 words)

Will he cheat or should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm sorry this is long guys. but i really need help. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. and he just recently left for college.....to another state. before he left...we were fighting about some girl he's been talking to. They're both goin to the same school and ... (213 words)

Long distance skype hookup advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend just left for college about a month ago and we decided to have a long distance relationship. I am a really sexual person and not seeing her in person has been tough. I want to try sexually experimenting with skype. I think it might be a little weird at first but ... (102 words)

If I don't have sex with him soon will he leave me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dearcupid i have been with this guy for a year and couple of months,he now want to have sex with me and iam confused.my mind want to leave him but my heart still loves him,i love him so much,he always tells me that he loves me but it is hard to believe him,iam a confused girl ... (121 words)

We are both insecure and now it's starting to get out of hand! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my now husband for almost 5 yrs. he is a bit older than me and has two older children,I have 3 from another marriage and we have one together. At first it seemed like things would last forever. In the begining of our relationship I was the one that was ... (329 words)

If a relationship switches to friendship, will it ever switch back to being a sexual relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

- I would like to pose this as a general question, to both male and female opinion/perspectives. If a relationship switches to "friendship" on the part of the guy, is there ever hope that it will switch back to sexual? Perhaps there is some kind of block, that if it remains ... (84 words)

Why does my ex keep bringing up the past when we're together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - okay i just dont know wat to think... my x boyfriend and i talk like if we were never going out.. last night i went over to seee him we were just chillin and talking but like at one point we didnt have too much to talk about so he brought up the past .. it wasnt bad but it was ... (157 words)

Multicultural marriage becoming overwhelming

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to a Luo Kenyan (we just celebrated 9 years mid-August). We have a 5 and 6 year old girl and boy. We both live away from our families, he, obviously much farther than I as we live in the US. Lately things have been strained b/c #1 I have not offered support to ... (901 words)

I really want to be pregnant! Do I have the symptoms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,im married and i met my husband on my ovulation day after a week i started having symptoms of pregnancy like tenderness,soarness and fullness of the breast,a green outline below my nipple,avation 2 some ... (266 words)

How can I create more time before ejaculating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - At present this is too easy for ejaculation. How can I get more time for ejaculation at the time of intercourse or masturbate? ... (23 words)

Am I reasonable to expect my ex to do more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Aunts I would love as many unbiased views as possible please as Im am trying be remain fair but also not wear myself out completely. I am a single mother of 2 children 15 and 12 who up till now have seen their dad every other weekend, just 1 night ( Sat thru Sun). (... (328 words)

Is there such thing as the "one" or is it just a stupid thing people want to believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you know is someone is the one? i have just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 an a half years.. we have broke up once before but i know now i dnt want to get back with him beacuse he is an ex for a reason now! but all my friend keep saying "oh i thought he was the one f... (147 words)

Week alone with a new guy, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I have a week off at the end of my summer classes before my fall classes start and I called that week off from work. I just really need to get out of the house because I still live at home. I've been talking to this guy and he is going to meet my parents next weekend, ... (104 words)

What does this text mean? Friends or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What does this text mean? Friends or something else? We've been close friends for a year at university, and recently we've got closer since we saw each other with other friends in a small summer get-together. Nothing happened but afterwards since we've parted again, for about... (375 words)

He ALMOST cheated... is this a red flag?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now. I'm 25, he's 33. Our relationship has always been great except for the one thing we have always fought about, which is my lack of trust for him. I would say our first year together, everything seemed perfect, ... (815 words)

Is there anything I can suggest instead of porn blocking software that would be fair on both of us, and that would make him stop lying to my face?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Towards the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend I found out he looked at porn. I asked him not to, because the thought of it made me feel very insecure. He agreed, and promised that he'd stop looking. But he didn't, and after a while a pattern developed: I'd f... (688 words)

I feel like my girlfriend and I are drifting apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have just recently started college at the same place. I'm 21 but transferred over and she is 19 but a freshman at the university. Lately it's been hard to feel close to her. I understand that this is the point in her life that she needs to meet new people ... (314 words)

How can a couple rebuild from the point of relationship burnout? Or is it helpless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for about 1.5 years now, and it's been pretty rocky. There have been trust issues, control issues, fighting that goes on late into the night, etc. We have both made mistakes, probably me more than him. He's given me reasons to doubt him, but has ... (432 words)

Why the hell am I finding this guy so hard to resist when he offers me nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi again to readers who have given great advice re the Sydney internet guy. I haven't made the trip to Sydney and have decided that all he wants to do is to use me. I have accepted that, as hard as it is over the last week. When I text him last week and said I was available he... (388 words)

Do girls like public hair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls like pubic hair?... (5 words)

About wedding dresses - what is the difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the difference between V-neck/mermaid and round neck/trumpet wedding dresses ? ... (15 words)

Girl giggles after I kissed her on the cheek?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I went out with this girl for 3 months. She broke up with me, and two months later we started to drink coffee and go to the movies and just being friends. One night after we went and watch a movie, she gave me a hug (not unusual, we always hug each other after we went out for a ... (107 words)

How do I make it the least painful for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so me and my girlfriend have been going out since may, and we've always had this problem where we want to wait till her birthday before we sleep together, but no matter how hard we try, we always end up in a possition were if we didnt stop there and then, we wouldnt ... (135 words)

I felt an attraction, but he was just leading me on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound really silly but i like the guy so much I have to ask. I met a really beautiful guy, James, while out the other night, and saw him again another night. He seemed really pleased to see me again and ran up hugging me. We got on so well had so much in common and ... (434 words)

Is having lasting pain from losing my virginity normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a guy i know were messing around earlier yesterday and ending up "doing things". I was a virgin until he put his penis inside me. I told him to stop so he did but then he put it back in and we had sex but it was only about a minute because i didnt want it. I didnt ... (188 words)

Do you think there is a chance that my relationship is strong enough but still casual enough to last through highschool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think there is a chance that my relationship is strong enough but still casual enough to last through highschool? .. Sorry if this gets long I just really want some peoples advise and thoughts. I am dating this guy and he had liked me since about a year now in tota... (302 words)

I don't trust her and want her out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Theres this chick ive been really close to for awhile and we sorta went out but not officially when i asked her out she turned me down. She than acted like a bit of a slut and i didnt talk to her for a few months cos of how she was acting but every few days she would m... (167 words)

He loves me like a sister now. Can he fall back in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible for a guy who used to be in love with you, but now loves you like a sister, to ever fall in love with you again?... (29 words)

Will she take me for all I have ???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy ok a few weeks ago a girl I liked asked me for money not alot about £20 now my best mate and one of her friends think that she will keep on asking for more until I cannot give anymore. I am slightly more in the money than she is but firmly believe that she wouldn't do this ... (83 words)

My sisters husband has fallen in love with our other sister. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age - I've got two older sisters. The older one found out her husband has fallen in love with the other sister. She is upset about and talks to her husband about it. Her husband deny it. However they continue to go out together when my other sister is at work. My sister looks ... (108 words)

Our sex life has begun to get really boring. How can I talk to him about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - when i first got with my boyfriend our sex life was very exciting and never boring and now its got really boring and he dont last long anymore its over so quick how can i talk to him about it with out hurting his feeling and what could i do to try get our sex life back to ... (61 words)

My sister won't even talk to me now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, well here's the deal, I'm 26 and a few days ago, me and my sister were home, told her I was gonna leave with my friend for some work. After I left, me and my friend were halfway on the road I noticed we had totally forgot a piece of hardware we need for that work. So I ... (201 words)

Can I still ask this girl out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone. My question is this: I used to work in a pet shop with this girl that I always liked, but whenever I told myself "Right, I'm gonna ask her out next time", it's as if my balls dropped off whenever I tried. I THINK she may have liked me back - could be wrong o... (145 words)

I'm 21 she's 15. Is morally it ok that I want to date her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've recently met this girl, she's 15, but she seems so nice and mature, but ok she can also be quite childish as well. But she seems really into me and I'm 21, now the legal age for stuff I know is 16 but I wouldnt do anything with this girl until she was 16 and ready, my ... (114 words)

Should I try anal? Does it hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age - Dear cupid. I cant stop thinking about receiving anal sex do you think i should go ahead and have it Does it hurt very much the first time as I never went all the way before with a man Fustrated... (113 words)

Will he text me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago... I cried for hours, it basically ruined my vacation... I still feel like crap... Basically because I'm very lonely as it is... I don't really have any friends to my name, I didn't depend on him, don't take it that way, I ... (220 words)

Too big a change in the relationship. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my bf have been together almost two years..In the beginning it was absolutely wonderful. So romantic he showered me with attention. Even had our problems with jealousy and trust issues for the last for months. I recently went to riverside for two weeks and when I was ... (447 words)

Ladies: am I too small?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - K to understand how I am asking this question understand how I am approaching this topic. I am a 25-year-old male B/F American who has done some good and some bad thus far in his life. My character has been labeled as respected, honorable, dependable, powerhouse, understa... (1133 words)

Should I wait till after her exams to bump into her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - does this cause distraction to my crush ? my mutual crush is having some exams for past 1 week,so i am not able to see her or meet her as she doesn't come out of her home ,i am missing her more than usual,so is it ok to bump in to her intentionally, (just a hi and bye not a... (127 words)

I still don't know if I'm over or not ! help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys ! quick question ok my ex broke up with me about 3-4 months ago she said she didn't love me anymore . of course i was upset but as days past i accepted it and moved on . im better , now back to normal life working , going out etc not really thinking ... (177 words)

Torn between my current stable relationship, and the possibilities of what could happen with this other girl if we were both single.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sooo this may seem like a really confusing question but i thank you in advance if you read this all and give advice Sooo me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 years now, we started dating in our senior year of high school and this is both of our first long term ... (386 words)

My fiance of 5 years has just left me, is there any way to make me feel better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dumped by my fiancé of five years. Is there anything anyone could suggest that might make people feel better?... (21 words)

I think my older cousin might like me! Should I play along with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old male and my cousin is 21 years old female I've liked my cousin for well over about 2 years and ive kept it a secret. I always knew that she wouldn't like me back but recently over the last few months when i've been with her shes acted very flirt with me sh... (98 words)

Is there a way for us to communicate calmy so it doesn't escalate into an argument?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age - my boyfriend and I of 6 years have been fighting a lot. Most of the time its over small petty stuff but of coarse we have had some big problems too. We would like to know if theres a way or how to communicate calmly so it dont escalate?... (49 words)

Does he just need time alone? Will things get better when I am not at home 24/7?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a quite complicated problem so ill try my best to explain it. I’m 16 and my boyfriend is now 19, we have been together for 3 years and met during high school, through a friend. I’ve been through a lot of problems during our relationship especially dealing ... (518 words)

Problems in my relationships....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am a 23 yr old female who is having problems in my relationship. one is that i have never come during all my sexual encouters with the few guys i have slept with. two is that i feel kind of confused coz i have two guys right now and currently am very serious with one and the ... (96 words)

We never really broke up and I am finding it hard to move on....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - till now i cant move on my past.. ive been badly hurt before.. its hard for me to trust once more.. i have a bf before i get here in japan.. he promised me that he will wait for me.. but couple of months staying here..i heard news about him.that he got new and shes pregnant.. 2 ... (80 words)

Can anyone make sense of what is happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age - Please help me.my man womt touch me wthout being begged. Each time he gets home, sits to delete messages and numbers before relaxing. Most times when with people all is well,once alone in bedroom picks a fight over anything small and goes to bed angry.when i touch him moves ... (173 words)

He stopped texting after we had sex, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so there is this guy that i have been talking to kind of and we before we started talking we were always really flirty and stuff so finally he gave me his number and we talked a little but not to much and then recently we started talking a lot more and We started hanging ... (263 words)

What is the best way to get my girlfriend into bed and to make sure she enjoys her first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my lass are both virgins, but we've started to get serious. But, I'm not totally sure what's the best way to get her into bed, and what...foreplay and position that will pleasure her the most. I know it's an awkward topic, but any help?... (46 words)

My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I hit her, she likes it when I h... (237 words)

What is her problem? I have never seen this side to her before!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married recently and I really regret inviting an ex colleague of mine which I thought was a friend! Since I've been back from honeymoon all she has done is slag off my wedding, not only to me but to some mutual friends and god knows who else. I understand she is ... (395 words)

One minute she is very sweet to me, the next she breaks up with my saying she doesn't love me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl whom i like is at times very sweet to me and show that i m the only one for her...but then she has a lot of guy friends because of which she doesnt devote time to me and then she want me to always be around her.. we were in a relation few days back but due to some rea... (91 words)

Will my boyfriend become a monster? Are these warning signs?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and feel that I care for my older bf. I know that I'm not quite in love with him and yet, he's my "first" and we're happy. The only thing is that I worry about some his behavior. He's sweet, encourages me in everything I pursue, and it's hard for him to deny me anything ... (200 words)

How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 year old lesbian start dating?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 y/o lesbian female meet other lesbian females? I know it sounds silly, but I honestly do not know how to start dating. I am a 20 y/o female with no sexual experience (virgin) with males or females. I've had men show major... (241 words)

There are 3 guys that like me, on one hand I don't want a relationship right now but on the other I am worried about missing an opportunity!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hang around with a lot of guys. I dated one of these guys until I was pressured to break up with him because of my so called 'friend'. But now I find out that they all still like me. They're 3 guys and I'm not really sure what to do. I just don't want to be in love or fall in ... (88 words)

Has my ex just come back to me to take my virginity?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid,i was dating my ex for 9 months and we never had sex,and i found out that he was cheating and ended it,we got back together this year(june)and he think we should have sex,did he come back to get what he never got at the first place?my viriginity... (49 words)

Is he wanting to be more than friends?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused more than ever about a coworker of mine. Lately, I've been wondering if he wants to be more than friends. I'm 25 and he's 30. We started as lunch buddies. We found out we have a lot in common so naturally we became good friends. We exchanged phone numbers and ... (482 words)

Need a male's opinion, does my ex still have feelings for me?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I was wondering if my ex still has feelings for me. We did not break up that long ago and there are subtle hints but I need other peoples opinion so I know if i'm just over obsessing or not. Firstly, his hotmail password used to be ilove and then my name, his fb password ... (329 words)

I don't want my family or his family to know that we are having sex, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand this!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont undestand why my boyfriend of 5 years gets mad when I dont want his family and my family know that we had sexual relationships. I know that his family judges the women for having sex for a young age but he denies it. His cousin got pregnant and well they didnt take it ... (129 words)

This guy wants to date me, but he slept with other girls before!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy. He's friends with my one friend, Vaughn. Vaughn and I haven't hung out in a while, but he asked if his friend, Eric, could tag along. I was ok with it. So when we met up Eric would NOT stop staring at me. Honestly, Eric isn't my type. But, the boys were tal... (296 words)

What is wrong with my friend and is there anything I can do to help her?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question concerning my best friend from school. She is 27 years old and was very "normal"...good at studies, we spent time together, had crushes...the works. I left my hometown a few yrs back to pursue higher studies, and I dont get to see her that often, but I ... (476 words)

What are the rules when it comes to your friends ex?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I've liked this guy sinse I was 13. I told my friend that I liked him about a year ago and about a month after that he asked her out and she said yes! I wasn't mad at her or anything cause I mean he liked her not me. I was just that sad you get when you find out he ... (115 words)

My boyfriend is the kind of guy I need but not what I want

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Gosh...i dont know what to do. I like my boyfriend and hes cool, but i question our relationship. I LOVE talking to him on the phone but sometimes on like Facebook or something i always avoid him and i dont know why. My friends are always telling me that hes not cute and that ... (159 words)

My best friend is hitting on the guy that asked me out!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so angry right now because of my "best" friend. My apologies for my long-winded story. I knew this guy for about a year, and he used to come to where I work almost every week. I was pretty "ok" friends with him, but I didn't know him all too well. Every time he'd come i... (596 words)

I'm becoming bitter because of my troubles with men.....

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so desperate right now, I need to let this out or I feel I will burst. I fell in love with a man who ended up been married. This relationship has destroyed me so deeply. This guy is military and he happens to be in Iraq. I want to get out of it, but he's like a drug. ... (192 words)

Sex positions with a busted knee?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] What are some good sex positions for me and my boyfriend... who stupidly broke his kneecap. Besides cowgirl, but cowgirl variations are welcome! Thanks... (33 words)

How can I show my new boyfriend he is not just a re-bound?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im going out with a new boy and everyone is telling me that it was too quick and that they hope it isn't a re-bound from my ex who i was so in love with. and it absolutely isn't but he told me that he thought he might've been a rebound i don't know what to do to show him that... (80 words)

What is the right type of therapy for someone with Borderline Personality Disorder? I am receiving conflicting advice and don't know what to do!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Readers. I have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder by my Psychiatrist. I am 41 and prior to this was diagnosed with Major Depression with Post traumatic Stress Disorder. My current Psychiatrist feels that CBT group therapy as an outpatient where he works... (418 words)

He ended it, but now he wants to get back together - on HIS terms. What should I do?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long term, long-distance relationship with a guy who basically controls me. I can't do anything without him knowing, he HAS to know what I'm thinking and why I'm thinking that and I'm not allowed to go near any other guy, which is pathetic as I get on better with ... (237 words)

My heart just got broken, anyone got any advice to make me feel better?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this is the first time I ever asked a question I need advise...I've been with this guys since last year on and of and I really love him he says he loves me but yet he tells me he still has feelings for his ex I already broke up wit him but this time was for good and it hurts a ... (351 words)

My ex is obsessed with me and won't leave me alone!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Throughout our relationship he has been annoying, posesive, and obsessive.... Before we went out i saw him differently then i thought he was. Now he wont stop calling, texting me and trying to make me feel guilty. He ... (113 words)

My first time having sex! advice please!

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2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl were thinking about having sex for the first time. We are both in our 20s. Both of us are virgins so we are new to this. So we plan to be safe about this so I was going to buy some condoms, but I have no idea what size to get. My dimensions are 8 inches long ... (110 words)

How can I spice my sex life up?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend and i have been having sex 3-4 times a week, now we barley do it once a week because he never wants to, any way to spice things up or any advice?... (36 words)

How can I make this better? I love him so much!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there so i have a little problem in my relationship...my bf lives 20 min away but we go to the same school so i do get to see him and i stay at his place every weekend, he doesnt have a cell phone so i hardly get to talk to him when im not with him but his mom lets him... (434 words)

My ex girlfriend just emailed me!

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2 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Humm she emailed me back after I wrote here wanting my coat? This is what she said does it sound like she wants to talk to me again? here is what she said! "I dont have a bf at all. And as for your coat why do you need it now?? Its not winter. I will mail it when I ha... (129 words)

Why have I been like this?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! So! The Summer is ending. And A lot of stuff has happened. And I've been EXTREMELY moody. And on top of that, I haven't been taking my Depression pills for a LONG time. I stopped taking them in March. I don't think I need them. Right now, I'm calm. Let me expl... (982 words)

Should I just leave her alone or try to get her out to have fun?

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2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this huge crush on a girl and I have let her know several times but the past few days she has become very stressed by her large amounts of homework. When I ask if she wants to talk about her situation or if there is anything I can do to help her she just say no thanks to ... (162 words)

I need help in restoring faith in man kind!

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'v been cheated on twice. I have only been in two relationships, no casual sex no friends with beneficts never ever. I always thought those were mistakes that must be avoided. I am having such a big problem getting over those bad experiences. i waited 5 years after the first ... (140 words)

How do I tell my parents my girlfriend is pregnant?

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2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is 15 and i am 17 she is almost four months pregnnt how do i tell my parents she is pregnant. i would have already told them but my dad has a bad anger problem. her parents know and so does everyone else its just my dad that dont. please help... (53 words)

Am I in danger from this guy who texted a nude pic to me?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age - I went on plenty of fish several months ago and was flooded with emails. I tried to weed out the jerks and players and would block them when I realized they were users. There was alot sleezy guys on this site. (as a caution to the ladies out there)..I blocked one guy that ... (166 words)

We were on a break! but he can't forgive me.

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. However last year we split up for 3months he split up with me because we kept arguing as i was abit overprotective. i begged and begged him back he told me no every time said he can never get back, even told me he didnt really love ... (351 words)

I love him so much.... he left me please I need advice

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title please i really need help. i love my fiance more then my life but he just left me today. we were engage alomst three years ago. i hide him about my past . i was victim of rape when i was 11 years old. i did not tell him before our engagement .also befo... (428 words)

Is 17 too young to move out?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i have a question and i hope you all can help me out.. ok so my question is that if im 15 now and i have a job that pays very well im saving the money that i earned to move me in to an apartment when im 17..my family thinks its bad for me to move out at that aqe but i said ... (81 words)

I'm pregnant by my younger b/f, I don't want him, or the baby.

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2 September 2010 (F)

- need help fast! I am a 30 year old female and have a boyfriend that is 21 I just found out i was pregnant he doesn't no yet because I didn't want this to happen he already made it clear that he want's a baby by me but lately I have been having a change of heart about me and him ... (120 words)

He says he likes me, but dates other girls, whats going on?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I like this guy in school but I've never talked to him in person. I only text him and he says he likes me and says I'm hot. but then he just goes out with a bunch of other girls. I'm so confused. And he knows i like him but..i don't know I'm just confused. ... (58 words)

Long time girlfriend suddenly ditches you for friends.

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2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTER: OP's own title: My girlfriend and I have been dating since the middle of our sophomore year in high school, and we just started our senior year. So it's been a little over a year and a half. I really really hate her two best friends, so she hung out with them and I se... (184 words)

Is this normal, or should I see a dr?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i started not feeling good today.. i had terrible cramps and my lower back hurt really bad. It's two weeks before my period is supposed to start, and this really isn't normal for me. I'm on the pill, but i did forget one during the beginning of the month. Is this normal or ... (63 words)

Without being obvious, how can I find out if he likes me?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I go to school with, and I think he's just amazing (he has the intense artist thing going on) and we've sort of been friends for awhile...I actually switched instruments to be in his section and we basically spent all last year arguing about stupid stuff. ... (179 words)

My bf's ex wife drives me crazy

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Me and my bf are in cooling off stage. Because we need to think things over if we still want to continue our relationship or not. We are ok as a couple as far as I knew, and the only argument that we have is about his ex wife (they dont have any kids... (616 words)

Will his big penis always be a problem for me?

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a new boyfriend, he is 35 and i'm 42, and finally I seem to have found someone who matches me in personality, sexual appetite and pleasures, however, he has a 'girthy' penis. Monday morning I felt like i'd been kicked in the crotch, I felt so bruised, (My labia wa... (138 words)

Married for 21 years and I'm afraid of being alone

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2 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Because of my husband's affair 3 years ago I could no longer handle the pain, it was always coming up and fights broke out, he provoked things by not being there in conversation, all I could think of was you knew what to converse with other women...and so on well it came out ... (127 words)

Please help me find the strength to leave my abusive b/f

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2 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have recently been in a very abusive relationship with a lad who is three years older then me,we had been together for a year and 5 months but continued to keep something going between us. Durin this time i have been with him he has been extremley disrespectfal towards me,my ... (353 words)

How can I 'woo' my travel companion into bed?

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2 September 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I’m on a group tour. Most people on the tour have a partner or travel companion. Being a single traveler I was thinking about not going on the trip but then I thought I should. Anyways, on the tour I met a cute woman who is also a single traveler. During the free time when most ... (190 words)

How do I stop feeling so worthless?

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2 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, my girlfriend keeps saying im amazing and that im like this superman to her, but the thing is, im just not, im a bi polar self harmer who has gone from one place to another, and i know that she really is the best thing to ever happen to me. i probably sound reall... (169 words)