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writes:Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more?I am 19 years old and he's 34 years old.I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and he is an amazing person. He would come to my house everynight after work. however, like a week ago he stopped coming. I know he was sick and wasn't feeling soo good but he's always sick all the time. Before he would call to say I love you all the time or text me just to say goodmorning and he used to tell me how beautiful I am. Now he doesn't call me if I don't call him first if we talk he would say that he's gonna call me back and never calls. He won't even answer my text. He says he loves me but I don't know what to think to more.
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reader, EmoGir0 +, writes (25 September 2010):
 You guys have only been dating for a month. Its to soon to say that you two love each other, maybe its a mistake in emotion because the relationship has just started? He may not actually feel those emotions and is to afraid to break up with you because your so sweet to him.
Good luck, sweetie.
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reader, jimrich +, writes (14 September 2010):
re: Now he doesn't call me if I don't call him first if we talk he would say that he's gonna call me back and never calls. He won't even answer my text.
...OK, so do you know how to confront that behavior and reach a solution? Do you know what to say or do when he pulls that on you?
Wanna learn how to handle him and any other misbehavors in your life?
go here
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's not married so it has nothing to do with a wife ...
And thanks everyone for your answer and help :-)
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Try and talk to him about it. Things might be running through his head right now. Tell him that you feel like your growing distant. But first consider how long this has been going on.
If it has only been a week, you probably have nothing to worry about, things happen and he might be dealing with something stressful right now. Ask if he's alright, it MIGHT be a good idea to ask if he wants to hang out at your place or if you could go over to his place sometime. Listen to his words, listen to his voice and then judge whether or not he is trying to avoid you, or whether he is going through something large.
Good luck
I hope that helps.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 You said he was sick.. then you said he was sick all the time.. maybe he is sick and that's why he acts so different. Or maybe your tired of being with a man who is always ill. It's only been a week, and he is sick.. That's not enough time to worry that he is leaving, and he has a good excuse for why he may be acting different.
Everyone needs space, a week away doesn't mean he doesn't care.
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reader, slightlyconfusedhusband +, writes (8 September 2010):
Warning:This will be blunt.
He is either with someone else already or has somebody in mind. He is gone, don't bother with him anymore. Find somebody else and if he tries to come back, don't let him, he will only leave again.
Either that or his wife started suspecting something or caught him and he is laying low.
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