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writes:What is wrong with me. I like this girl I work with not sure if she likes me. I want to ask her out but im not experienced at all in the bedroom what should I do?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 If you're asking her out to get to know her and after a relationship then you don't need to worry about sex right off the bat. There's plenty of time for that and she can show or coach you on what she likes. Every girl varies so what works for the goose doesn't necessarily work for the gander. Now, if you're just looking for a one-nighter, no strings attached deal make sure you explain that's what you're looking for, if she game. Most guys often make the mistake of not telling the girl right off the bat or just tend to use them then proceed to cast them aside after they're done like yesterday's trash, don't be one of these creeps.
Let's say you get to the let's get down to business point, I'd rather a guy tell me he's a little inexperienced than try to take the reins and fumble around thus killing the mood. That way it's out in the open and were flexible so we will be adjusting you to our likings. Best of luck, just don't stress it and relax!
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Uhm, you want to ask her out just to get laid with her?
You know, not all the girls want to have sex on the first date, so go ahead, ask her out - unless she's that type of girl.
But don't worry, as long as you don't pretend being an expert in the bedroom just to impress her, everything will be just fine. Just be self-confident and be yourself.
Good luck!
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