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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this guy straight or gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently turned 17 and I am almost certain that I am gay. I am not out of the closet yet. If I ever do come out soon, I would want only my future boyfriend to know. I have never been in a relationship before with another person of the same sex, but I have had one girlfriend ... (804 words)

How can I find out if my dad is cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I've watched my dad for some time and watched him on the computer where he goes on dating sites and chats on msn with other women and when he left his phone in the bathroom once i checked and there were dirty messages and sick pictures of other women then once he realised his ... (123 words)

I damaged our relationship in the past and I am not sure boyfriend has gotten over it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago, and everything was great at first. I got scared when I started to fall in love with him and began pushing him away. This went on for about nine months and the whole time I was completely oblivious to the damage I was doing to him and ... (230 words)

I'm using the toilet too often!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im really annoyed because i need to use the toilet anthing up 20 times a day, wat can i do please i need help!!!... (25 words)

My married lover says he is staying only for his children

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My married lover is not happy in his marriage because he said that his wife isn't affectionate or loving towards him and that he is staying in the marriage because he loves his 2 children and doesn't want them to suffer from a broken marriage, but he says that he loves me.Is he ... (95 words)

Am I being selfish after being cheated on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! My boyfriend cheated on me in the past, but we are trying to work things out. It happened when he took a trip to another provice to do a final presentation after his schooling there was done. I just found out through facebook that he is planning another trip the... (181 words)

We're not together anymore but we still do things like we are? I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys and gals, Ok I have this messy situation happening right now. The thing is, my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 8 months ago. Then I told her to never get back in my life, and I was happy for the next 5 months, before she started seeking contact again. I ... (211 words)

I like her, but I'm getting mixed messages.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy. I like this girl who I I've known for a year but I never really connected with her before. Durring the 2009-2010 school year I had her in one of my study periods and we really connected. We both like the same music and people and we for the most par... (250 words)

My g/f kissed her ex while he was in the hospital

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well my girlfriend went to visit her ex in hospital and she ended up kissing him. I'm not mad I'm just confused and I think that she may still have feelings for him. She did come out and tel me this. What do I do?... (51 words)

Parents splitting up and I cant chose between them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need to be helped my mom and dad have just split up and my dad wants me but so does my mom i love my mom and i love my dad but who should i go with please help me :(... (48 words)

She blamed her actions on a panic attack?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age - Ok.My girlfriend and I are both 50 years old.she lives 120 miles away.We have been going out for almost 3 years.We broke up at least 8 times.We just broke up again 3 weeks ago .I think its for good this time.I hope.But it dosint make sence this time.We hadint seen each other ... (242 words)

Was breaking up the biggest mistake of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I had been in a relationship (on and off) now for 6 yrs until 2days ago. The relationship started off well although I had just gotten out of the longest relationship of my life at the time so explained that I wouldn't be able to get too deep and thought we could... (587 words)

What would guys think of a girl like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I have guys ask me out sometimes (past aquaintances from college, not new ... (460 words)

It's time he chooses... me or his family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Finding this site has helped me a lot, now i know i am not alone. i am 26 yrs got married last year february, still trying for a baby. my inlaws bad mouth me and make me do all their household chores. my brother inlaws wife has 8 children some are the same as my age but they ... (200 words)

He won't let me say sorry...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have problem and no one really seems to understands my situation.... So over the summer I got into a fight with someone special to me. My whole summer has been stress and painful, many things have happened including getting into a lot of fights with my best friend. And he ... (284 words)

I told him I didnt want sex, was it rape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

5 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - i had sex with my boyfriend i wasnt sure about it and told him i didnt want it but he did it anyway was it rape?... (26 words)

My boyfriends sister depends on him so much its causing problems in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What can I do about this problem with my boyfriend? My boyfriend's sister is 22. She doesn't drive and relies 99% on him to get her places, take her to work, out with her friends, here there and everywhere. The one night I stayed over she texted him at 9:30 in the morning for ... (236 words)

I don't know if I trust myself around my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with my boyfriend of three years whom I love very much. I would never leave him, he is my life, and have always felt extremely strongly about how I would never cheat on him. However recently I found out my friend from work has feelings for me. I've always like his ... (191 words)

I want him as the person he USED to be

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here's the thing. i have been living with my bf for 5 years since i was 15. it was great at first we were both virgins and we had a baby a year later. because he wanted and during that time all i wanted was to make him happy. well lately i've notice that he only smiles when ... (214 words)

Love or lifestyle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't get over my ex of 8 years who I split up with two years ago. I met him at University and adore him but he has no ambition. He has lots of potential but doesn't know how to apply it. I tried helping him but in the end there didn't seem to be anything I could do. ... (254 words)

Is it because we had sex too early?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf wont call me anymore, or text me like before and I havent done anything wrong,, i dont think its because we had sex too early, because right after we did, he didnt leave, soo I dont think its for that. Whats the matter??... (48 words)

Love talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If a girl and a guy started talking as friends and they say the following hey hun3 and one says hey hunny3, is that meaning a relationship or just true love... (31 words)

I plan to tell my b/f about my drunken indescretion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So a couple nights ago I had way too much to drink and I made out with a guy. He seemed gay to me...he was wearing blue eyeshadow and was grinding with other dudes, but he claimed to like girls. I have no idea what came over me, I wasn't even attracted to the guy. It didn't ... (96 words)

Evidence that he's looked at escort sites and had a Craiglist ad

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Have been reading the site because I'm just so lost right now. I ended things with my boyfriend of 10 months earlier this week. There have been some trust issues in the past which I guess is what led up to this. This past Tuesday his messenger was signed on at... (595 words)

Birth Control and Period

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently started taking birth control about a couple weeks ago I started my pills the first day of my period as the doctor told me. It's been over 2 weeks now and I am still bleeding is this normal? ... (41 words)

Lost in high school, lost in life generally

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's very overwhelming because I'm ... (215 words)

Is he taking me for granted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I being taken for granted? I ma naturally good natured and calm. Recently my boyfriend seems to be taking this for granted. He says he'll do something or be somewhere then cancels. He's more than often late to arrangements. Everything seems to revolve around his arran... (61 words)

Anyone tried online Viagra sites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age - hi guys , i dont know if anyone can help me with this , but i have started using viagra which my doctor prescribed as i have erectile dysfunction and i was wondering if anyone knew of any sites where i can buy the genuine pills for a more realistic price as i pay £26.80 for 4 ... (93 words)

Wife/ girlfriend sharing. Experiences, thoughts, where does the idea stem from, is the after experience worth it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Guten tag! I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years. She's an open minded person, and we love each other very deeply. From time to time we discuss our fantasies, and hers tend to be very genital, which is surprising to me. For example, (and her face b... (252 words)

I'm driving myself crazy!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really driving myself crazy. I always have these irrational fears and worries about myself. Like that one day I am going to realize I am not in love, or one day I will wrong my girl. I also feel really guilty if I look at porn, look at another girl, or even talk to a ... (348 words)

My family want me to do a reading at a wedding next week but I'm so nervous! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused. I'm going to my half brother's wedding next saturday, and one of my other brothers was supposed to do a reading, but he has backed out of it because he is too nervous and he thinks the poem sounds girly. my dad has asked me to do the reading, but i am too ... (345 words)

How can I stop him becoming too overprotective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone! I've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with a wonderful person, but unfortunately quite recently hes been too overprotective and really insecure. An example would be for example: if i moved out of my seat in a restaurant for a few seconds, hed ask ... (316 words)

She kissed another guy and I'm really upset about it. What to do next?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break. they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what to do. i didnt even shout at her i just said ' okay' and left her. she was following me and sayin so... (115 words)

Bi curious, bi sexual... what am I???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my boyfriend thinks i might be bi curious or bi sexual but i dont think i am. So i was wondering how do you know for sure if you are? He thinks i am cause i some times have sexual dreams about girls and i would rather watch girl on girl porn then a guy and a girl. But i ... (108 words)

Nasty rumours caused my boyfriend to break up with me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am getting called pregnant at school and everyone thinks its by one of the teachers that has just left our school but it isnt, I'm NOT pregnant (not that I know of.) My boyfriend is getting sick of it and he wants to break up, what should I do? ... (52 words)

Do you think this guy deserves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, I am dating a guy who's at university and I am still in high school. We have been in this relationship gor about 1 year now. I am a virgin and he's not. The thing is that I don't think he deserves me because if we have sex I'll be giving him somethng of which ... (120 words)

He just can't stay off the social networking sites!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female who never had any trust issues before. Now i am in a relationship with a man who a week after we had sex sent a female an invite on a site telling her she is the kind of woman he is looking for and sent her his phone number and email address. I confronted him and ... (319 words)

I'm bi, I've fallen for my female teacher, and I am so confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Ok, how shall I say this. I know the topic of teacher crushes has been discussed to death, but mine happens to be a tad more unique, mainly cos I'm a girl, my teacher's a girl. So anyways, I've realized I'm bi since I was 11 years old, so its not a surprise for me to ... (462 words)

Was my relation flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what this means. I was at a family party recently, and one of my relations winked at me a few times and got me up dancing with him a few times. It just seemed strange because he was a relation. what do you think?... (47 words)

Teacher/pupil shenanigans!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey last year me and my teacher were in a relationship and he is my form tutor now but my friends know, i told them but now one of them wont speak to me coz of it. what should i do, should i break up with him but he is only 5 years older than me or should i leave it please ... (67 words)

Help!!! Is this guy playing me or does he have genuine feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I made a big mistake yesterday, I made out with a guy I was trying to get over, I realize that he was recording me on his fone then he lied saying he was just texting. He then said to me that his friend wants me too, I said I'm not that type of girl. This guy knows that I'm in ... (112 words)

Should I hide my feelings from her or should I tell her, even if she doesn't like it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys im new to this. I would really appreciate as many opinions as possible on this one! Basically, i get down whenever my girlfriend goes out and there is a risk of something happening. This is due to the fact that i have trust issues with her, because of multiple thin... (252 words)

How can I stem this flow of rumours that's going about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so my ex ended things in may, and since then ive got together with a girl i really like, my ex used to lie about a lot of things, like being stalked, or boys going for her in school ect, but i was able to deal with it, because i felt like if i broke up with her she'd become ... (194 words)

Last to get a boyfriend...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old girl and I have really nice friends but I am hugely quiet I have always been and I am worried that most of them will get boyfriends before me because they are more confident. Plz help thnx ... (44 words)

I don't know how to trust but I really want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with a girl for a while now, and we got back together a few days ago after a fight that split us up. The reason we broke up in the first place is because I have extreme trust issues, and I get paranoid and my imagination goes wild. I start to convince myself that she ... (271 words)

He doesn't talk to me but won't leave me either?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been with my boyfriend 5 years and i've talk to him in so many ways that i cannot keep track of. i have a child with him and i don't know what to do about our relationship. sometimes it feels like he loves me and sometimes he feels indifferent towards me. for example ... (267 words)

A single mom who wants to have another child for her son

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 yrs single mum to a 1 year old boy. I am have a good job and still studying so as soon as I am done with my studies I will get a better paying job. I don't want to get married as I had a terrible experience with my first marriage. I always wanted to have 2 kids a boy ... (141 words)

He makes plans but never shows up to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm been just a bit confused lately , so let me start at the begining. I like my friends brother and he is two years older than me. We stay up all night textin eachother and he is like the only person I talk to in the day. And we have known eachother since the first day ... (149 words)

I know I should end it with the married man but I'm afraid of being alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, To cut a long story short to start with my husband left me in Feb 2010 for the woman he left his 1st wife for 14 years ago. I met a guy - call him David - at the beginning of June, started off well, we really hit it off. Couldn't see each other a great deal due to h... (326 words)

18 and not had proper kiss

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Basically, I'm 18 and I still haven't had a proper first kiss. I'm not upset or angry about this, but I'm just wondering... What exactly so with my mouth/tounge?... (38 words)

Girlfriend broke up with me because I was best man in a friends wedding!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend wants to end us and is really upset and mad at me. From the start we have got on like house on fire. 1 year down the line she says im a selfish, lying, twofaced person. I have stopped seeing my friends and moved into her house, it takes me 1 hour and 30 mins from... (618 words)

Why does he say it's just for now and not forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im having a problem understanding this boy ive met online. i like him and he likes me too, but deep down id like to be serious. he doesnt live in the same country as me and hinted he could visit and that we should meet up. He is who he says he is, and ive made sure he ... (123 words)

Broke up because he was 12 years older than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there anything I can do to convince him about the age? That I am willing to work with him. I have tried everything but still to no avail. He said the age difference would always be there. He is 12 years older than I am. It hurts so much because he said he liked me a lot, we ... (83 words)

Can having a problem create problems later on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - iam 32 years old.have an obortion 3 years ago.i was aborted the child when its was 2.5 months that time i was 29 yrs old.can it creat a problem to be pregnent next time?after marriage can my husband understand dat i had sex before marriage?... (45 words)

How do I deal with his weird fetish desires?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my guy watches porn but not just any porn he watches foot fetish porn, gay porn and midget porn he has a serious foot fetish and he likes sucking cock (but isnt gay)and he says he would love to fuck a midget but how do i deal with this?... (49 words)

Is he just being a flirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy i have liked for ages has recently split with his gf I have slept with him b4 his gf was even on road, so yeah backed off a bit when found out he was seeing someone, anyway even when he was with her he was sending things 2 me on fb like u like naughty sex and web cams... (320 words)

"I love you but I don't know why"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) age 51-59 - My wife says " I love you, but I don't know why". We have been married 1.5 years. We have known each other nearly seven years. ... (26 words)

For those of you into BDSM, how did you start?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks to some recent events and meeting the right person, I'm beginning to think that's where I'm headed. So I'm curious: for those of you who are into bdsm (especially bottoms), how did you get started? Was it a progression (e.g. light spanking, bondage, hardcore bondage... (108 words)

Does everyone have a different G-spot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i realy would like to knw where is your g-spot. Does everybody have a different g-spot. And could you please define the word g-spot 4me. Thank you.... (27 words)

We have talked of marriage but have nothing in common!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys thanks a lot for spendin time in order to help me with my situation i ve been with my girlfriend for ages and we actually been talkin about gettin married and spendin the rest of our lives together we truly love eashother so much but the thing is . WE... (249 words)

My teacher has hit on me help please

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so guys i need help before the six weeks hoilday my it teacher tried to hit on me,i do fancie him a little but her promied me that he would let me pass my exams if i would have sex with him and he would give me an a but i didnt and i keep gettin worried if he wants me to ha... (95 words)

Will he make life difficult for me if I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I have been with my second Husband for two and a half years. We met four months after my first Husband and i split. My first Husband and I had been together fourteen years with two beautiful children and had no major problems until we grew apart and I found out he started ... (1692 words)

He sent me a sexy text by mistake. Should I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello friends, please your help is much needed right now, so i've been with this guy aroung 6 months, 3months we dated long distance, he was cold for some time so i broke up with him but then he came back few weeks later asking for a serious relation that will lead to marriage... (148 words)

Friendship or something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4995 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hiii. i am a college going student.. i have many girls in my college... i had a particular interest towards a girl... we began to become vry close friends.. whenever i used to go out i used to call her , she to came with me.. both our parents became friends too. we were living ... (135 words)

Getting over commitment problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4997 days ago

5 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I've got commitment problems. Well maybe not just that. When ever my bf starts to speak about us moving in together I start to freak out. I know that marriage and moving in together doesn't mean that I'm not free, but I start to panic, to doubt "us".... How can I get over this. ... (72 words)

I don't want to come off like an emotional wreck so should I wait for him to contact me?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been broken up for 3 weeks now. We were together for 2 years and we broke up because we were bickering too much. He wanted the break up more than I did so I guss you could say be broke up with me. I am heartbroken, but i'm doing good. I'm really busy, ... (189 words)

Should I forget about my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, Well i am 15 and in a long distant realationship with my girlfriend. I have been seeing her on Saturdays for 30mins after footy but when i get home i cry and cry because i love her so much it sucks being away from her. I need some advice on what to do. Should i try to ... (103 words)

I feel so uncomfortable and awkward about sex...and girls in general. How to gain confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4995 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never really been comfortable about sex before. It's always been something I've felt extremely awkward and embarrassed about. I mean, I don't have any problem talking about it online, nor do I have any problem watching porn or even masturbating because I do...But if I ge... (314 words)

How do I overlook his big ears?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met someone who is very good looking, funny, smart, and sweet. I am sexually attracted to him buttttt his ears!!!! lol they're kinda big, my friends are telling me im crazy and that they didnt notice, idk why im a little obsessive and friends think im over analyzing that ... (129 words)

I want a baby even though he has 8 kids. Will this be a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for amonth or so and he has 8 kids and 1 on the way very sn .these children r al 2 different women.we r very open about life and the hope that it holds for us,but i want a child 2 him and a future.i am not a selfish person but i am not that keen on ... (113 words)

I had sex with my, guardian is it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i think i hav a bit of a problem... about 6 years ago, when i was 14, i moved to china (my parents wanted me to learn chinese). my parents hired a guardian to look after me and afterwards, both of them went to the U.S. Well, at first, the first year i went to china... (306 words)

He tells me about other girls but I'm not supposed to talk about other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i have a boyfriend and we been dating for a month now and be is always telling me about his ex and girls that texy him and expects me not to get mad but when i tell him about a friend he gets all defence with me. also he is always telling me i get annoyen and stuff what ... (64 words)

What to do - Date again? Break-up for good?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together since grade school. We've had quite a few break-ups over the years, but only the most recent break-up was ever serious. (For the most part the other break-ups were due to immaturity on both our parts) The most recent break up was dif... (347 words)

My friend got mad at me and told me to not talk to him

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need to know what to do with my problem? today i was at work. everything was going well.. my friend works with me he has always been understanding but today. i dont know what went wrong or what happen when i wanted to say hi to him. he just told me dont talk to me today... i ... (205 words)

My husband was not upset to find out I lost our baby

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been almost a year, since I lost my baby. I kept it from my husband because we had so many problems with his mom. His step dad tried to kill himself because his mom cheated on him with a younger man. Loosing the baby has been the hardest especially when you have no one to ... (92 words)

I'm done with my ex

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im done trying to get her to write me back I have got rid of every thing that I use to have on the internet facebook,just.in,youtube,msn etc.. Im just done she emailed me today like in the moring IN was saying how we need to keep in tuch well yeah! sure wooo you know my number ... (147 words)

I like sniffing dirty panties

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am obsessed with dirty panties i always go around sniffing my girlfriends dirty panties with out her knowimg is this normal and do others have the same problem.... (29 words)

Why can't I forget about him?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I met in college and fell for each other. He was the sweetest guy I've ever met and a real gentleman. We had great chemistry both emotionally and physically so I was shocked when he ended it after less than a month of dating. He said that I didnt do anything wrong ... (171 words)

Sometimes we feel tied down, sometimes we feel the relationship is working. Why the mixed emotions?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Because my boyfriend and i are still young, we have feelings of being tied down after being together for so long. We tend to get mad over some pointless things, and feel a little trapped. However on many occasions we also have so much fun and wish to be together a lot longer. ... (67 words)

I am not sure if my girlfriend is really over her ex

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi A few days back, Me and my girlfriend went into a conversation about her ex. As much as I hate to talk about him with her and I become uncomfortable about it (and she understands it very well), the very fact that she considers me not only as a prospective husband but a be... (366 words)

Confused: Does he like me? Or am I a booty call?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy asked me out last Friday, and we were supposed to have a date on last Sunday. An emergency on my end happened and I tried to back out of the date as gracefully as I could under the circumstances through texting. He meant to reply, "you bitch, just kidding :) no ... (350 words)

Stressed by peoples' reaction to our inter-racial relationship

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, some insight on this please....? I'm black and my boyfriend is Hispanic. He looks extremely Caucasian though without a tan. Anyway we have that difference and a 15yr age gap, he looks 28 :p. Grocery shopping today, we ran into friends of mine. They waved and then ... (191 words)

How do I tell my Mum...that I am bisexual?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm confused and don't know what to do I lnow for a fact that I'm bisexuale but I'm not sure how to tell my mom she says thatbeing a lesbian is " not her cup of tea " but I can tell she would be devastated No one knows that I am bisexual yet and I hate hiding a part of my ... (68 words)

Why when you lose interest do they start liking you?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know why is it that when you like someone, they don't notice you at all. but when you lose interest in that person, they finally starts noticing you.... (31 words)

Is he brushing me off?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really need some help! I've been with my boyfriend for a little more then a year and a half he says he really cares about me/loves me a lot n other people seem to see it to. The problem is I really have trust issues and he just started college. Although he is only half a ... (241 words)

Is it a waste of my time to keep thinking about him?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all i wanted to say thanks for taking the time to read this and for the input, I really appreciate it. So.. I am a 20 years old female, from the midwest. I am over in New Zealand for six months as a nanny living with a single mother and four kids. The woman i'm staying ... (1035 words)

Will he realize that he's taken me for granted so we can be friends?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a friend of a family member in the past. We decided to be friends because he is deploying overseas and moving out of state. We got into a few arguments recently ( I said some mean things ) I apologized and tried my hardest to make up for it. He would ignore me most of ... (207 words)

Scared to let him go down on me

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am I so scared to let him go down on me? I don't know if I'm just scared of him not liking it or nervous or just think its gross.... What is some good advise am I being paranoid, an just go ahead an get it over with... ... (52 words)

We cant be in the same room for more than 2 min without fighting! Help!

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have ben together for pretty much 4 years now were 20 n living on our own for 2 months now but we lived with his mom for 7 b4 we moved here we love each other and need each other very much but all we do is fight we fight about who made wat mess who paid what ... (152 words)

Boyfriend seems distant - am I overreacting?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met online and started dating 3 months ago. We'd text all day, skype, and end the night with a phone call. I recently went to visit him for the first time and we absolutely adored each other, and we discussed the possibility of me moving to his state. ... (427 words)

Should I date 'Luke'? Even though he's in a relationship with 'Lindsay'?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help. Im very confused and don't know what to do. Theres this boy, we'll call him "Luke". He currently has a gf (we'll call her "Lindsey"). "Lindsey" moved to Florida with her family (we live in new york) so her and "Luke" kinda have a long distance thing going on. Well ... (190 words)

I have always had a fear of men. Help me here!

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5 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I have always had a fear of men. I feel like there is no way I will ever get married or have children because of it. I already feel like I will never be loved. I recently just realized that people dont make friends because of looks [I know that some people do], but their ... (116 words)

Could I just be having the symptoms without actually being pregnant?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on aug 20th twice. Then approx. 6 days later I bled just a little nothing heavy. I assumed it was implantation bleeding. My breast have enlarged some and I'm tired all the time. I have been under a lot of stress lately but nothing I ... (112 words)

Is she over eating? What is the problem here?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts, ok, so this isn't really a love, sex or relationship question, but it's still important to me . So my 13 year old sister lives in my apartment with me, she goes to school when I do ( I am 18 and go to college ) and my boyfriend frequently spends the night. We have to ... (260 words)

I like a girl who's dating another guy! Should I still flirt with her or wait?.

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well i'm a guy and 18 this year and basically it's kinda selfish and stupid on my part but i really like this girl who's actually, attached. well i mean she does seem to send out some flirting signals, and like even though the guys sometimes nudge me towards standing or sitting ... (259 words)

My gf's fingers, feet and calves cramp up during orgasm! What can we do?

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, My girlfriend and I have been trying to figure this out for a while now. Quite frequently durning orgasm my girlfriends fingers curl and seize up, as do her calves and feet. We are wondering what the cause of this is, if it is unhealthy / dangerous, and if there wa... (104 words)

I have to wait 3 years before this older guy will date me, but can't wait!! help!

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Sorry in advance for the length! So here's the story: I'm fifteen. He's twenty. Obviously we can't be together because A, we'd be shunned by society, and B because there would be to much drama from our friends and family if we did. So we agreed (his idea) to wait till I t... (283 words)

Why does my boyfriend masturbate after having sex with me?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my boyfriend masturbate after having sex with me? After we have sex, he says he needs to pee, goes to the bathroom and continues masturbating? Why does he do that?... (32 words)

We have relationship issues that I can't forget...can we get past all this?

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend tells me that she has changed her attitude towards guys and how she behaves with them now that she is with me. But this has only just happened 4 weeks ago, and we have been together for over 7 months. The only problem is: There have been three times that i know of ... (580 words)

I regret how I treated her...what should I do to fix this?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not too sure if my question's type is common, but I've really found the need to ask for help. The thing is, I recently have broken up with my girlfriend and now I miss her...But it's actually a little more complicated than that. When she and I first got together, I was ... (422 words)

She gives no respect! Should I bail out of this?

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm growing weary and more upset. My girlfriend has been fighting with me (well actually it's been one-sided). She used to say she loved me and still tries her best from time to time to show that. But lately all she does is put me down. So after 10 months of trying and ... (1509 words)

Is he a Cheater?? Yes or no?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm going out with this guy who has a rep for being a "player". And the other day I went through his phone and saw that he was calling another girl(not me) "Angel", and "Beautiful" and he's asking for a photo of her...I approached him about this and he said that he was ... (91 words)

It's like he wants me then he doesn't!

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the deal, I have been hanging out with this guy for a little over a month. When we met we were both instantly attracted. Then of course I face booked him and I saw that he was in a relationship. I called him right up and asked him about it. He replied they been ... (383 words)

Do masturbations make men cum faster than the sexual intercourse?

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Do masturbations make men cum faster than the sexual intercourse? How long can men last for each type ( approximately) I have not idea about this problem. So pls help out. ... (35 words)

My girlfriend's guy friend!

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend has a guy friend that she grew up with since she was like a few months old. She always tells me he is just friends. i saw a text from this guy a while back saying "im craving you rn". so im like wtf? she said he was drunk and i dunno why he wrote that to me. ... (168 words)

Why do guys say they want one thing then act totally different like they don't?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys say they want one thing then act totally different like they don't? Thing is my immediate answer would be, hes a player. But hes not hes a nice guy. He says he wants to be good friends with me yet he wont make any effort with me or speak to me much when we are out. ... (174 words)

Confidence with girls and in general.

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi well im 15 soon to be 16 years old and i was wondering if you could offer any tips i sort of lack confidence with girls because although they say im good looking, but i can get really shy, but in general ive had problems with my self esteem as when i started high school i ... (152 words)

I really want to be with someone again, someone to care for and who will care about me.

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little bit of a confused soul at the moment so I hope someone can help me out. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years over a year ago. He was cheating and I now find that I have trust issues in all areas of my life, where there weren't any before. I left the home we ... (220 words)

Should I do it? Should I cheat?

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I do it? Should I cheat? In desperate need of advice. Please help. Hello aunts. I really need some good honest advice. As weird as this might sound, preferably from someone who has cheated before. Let me give you a quick background: I am currently marr... (681 words)

What would guys think of someone like me?

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5 September 2010 (F)

He gets offended when I cannot cum!

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have a great relationship. We do have sex, a lot. He has had many other partners, where as i have only had one other. My problem is that i cannot cum! He gets really offended and things it's his fault, but he does turn me on- i don't know what the problem is! ... (81 words)

An old boyfriend wants to have sex with me... but we're BOTH married!

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband 10 years and he is great to me. This last year an old boyfriend from over 15 years ago found me over the internet and we have become friends. He was my first ever boyfriend. He says he is happily married to his wife and loves her a lot but he ... (151 words)

I can't get her to text me back!!!

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5 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't understand what's going on. I can't get this girl that I really like to text me back. This time last week I was asked her out but she couldn't because of previously planned family matters, but she made me promise to take her out when she was free. Now she won't even ... (85 words)

Shaky leg problem!!!

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well. I have something to ask. I was having sex with my boyfriend the other day for the first time. He started fingering me and then we were on the bed. Before I know it, his clothes and mine are on the floor. He entered me and then my legs starting shaking like hell... Why do ... (84 words)

Stomach pains after sex...???

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I have a few enquires.. first of all i had sex with my boyfriend for the 3rd time and we were both virgins before we met, after sex i always have stomach pains for a day or 2 is this normal?? Also we had sex today and he used a condom but im not on the pill ... (119 words)

Was this a date?

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5 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm not sure if I've just been on a date or not, and I really like this guy and need some advice, please:) First ?date after 9 months of being single, after splitting with ex-bf of 8 years after he cheated on me. Guy at work who's been texting me, met up today for first ... (145 words)