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He wants to be single?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - i was with this guy for 9 months he was my first love and i lost my virginity to him.everything was great until he said to me he wants to be single. i dont understand why he wants to be single or if i done anything to him ? he said to me yesterday if it wasnt for your debs ... (126 words

Why can't guys let go of the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for a yr and everything was good well at times it still is to a certain point. he has been tryng to deal with my pass. i had cheated twice on my ex husband. and he has such a big prblm with that he calls me names he says that am a cheater thats what ... (135 words

2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS to work out. He and I broke up ... (593 words

Gay in Denial..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a serious obsession, it's with a guy, who I hang round with an awful lot. I am completely out as gay, and although he says he is not gay, there are so many factors that make us know he is not telling the truth. As wrong as it may be, I once looked through his phone and ... (232 words

It hurts like hell, how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I ended my relationship with my lover 2 weeks ago and im trying to forget him but its hard.I miss him and i have crying spells but i had to end it because i felt that it was all one sided.How do i get over him? Because its hurting like hell.... (51 words

Are we cousins?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so my mom married this guy had two kids then had me with another guy right? so he was my step dad then he died so would his sisters kids still b my cousins? ... (35 words

How can you nicely tell someone they are unattractive naked and a lousy lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am now engaged in a sex-free relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we probably have sex about once a month. We are both in our twenties. The thing is, I am not attracted to him anymore. I feel superficial because it has to do with his physique... (294 words

My boyfriend doesn't understand!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am desperately in need of help. I am currently 17 weeks pregnant and live with my boyfriend of over a year. We have not been doing well in our relationship and we fight daily. I am emotional and hormonal and am sure that contributes to some of the fights, but ever since I ... (335 words

What does my ex mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Well on saturday I made this sign for DJ Pauly D from the Jersey Shore and I posted it on his page on facebook he left me a comment saying he liked it and all that I was pretty happy about it so I told a few people and I even told my ex since we on friendly but sometimes not I ... (166 words

Would this work in preventing pregnancy in the same way Plan B would?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend and I had sex and it turns out that right when he had an orgasm and was finished, the condom broke. I ran straight to the bathroom and cleaned myself off and made sure that I got most of it out, but I feel like I should panic. Today we went to the drug ... (136 words

Anniversary tomorrow and don't know what to do!!!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Eek! Its our 2 year anniversary tomorrow (since we met) and weve been so busy that we havent thought about booking anything we would like to do. I wanted to see a show in London or go to a spa but 1. Its too late to book, and.. 2. We can only see a matinee because were ... (183 words

What would you do if someone you met for the first time smells funny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Lets just say you are going to meet someone for the first time (woman/man) and as soon as she/he gets in the car she/he smells like onions better yet bummy.what would be your first reaction? And how would you approach her/him? Lol :)... (43 words

My husband has to respect for me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years, whenever my husband and I have an argument he ignores me for days afterward and this happens when I have proved that he has lied to me or when his angry with me. He has taken money from me and lied about it (instead of asking) It was the last ... (160 words

He's not in to sexy text-talk any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - My bf of two years used to love sexy talk via texts. Now he doesn't really engage in it. Is there a reason for this change? He still enjoys sex and gets turned on, so I don't quite understand the change. ... (41 words

My girlfriend says she wants an open relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - My Girlfriend want's an open relationship and i don't. We have been together for 3 years and are gonna get engaged and married. Still she is barely able to see me because of my job and college. I don't know what i should do.... (44 words

What do women really, actually want?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Why do women so often say they want things that aren't the man himself, e.g. clothes, tatoos, car, house, money, job, hairstyle? If you ask a man what he really wants, he wants a good looking, healthy woman who doesn't actually need makeup, or nice clothes (ones that show ... (157 words

I think my very conservative mother found my vibrator!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I used to live with my extremely conservative mother, but last year I decided to move to my mother's empty loft. She agreed because the alternative was to live farther to where she lives and we like spending time together every other day. Taking advantage of my in... (214 words

He only talks about sex, does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi. There's a guy whom i met 2 months bk. Hez been askn me out since nd i rejected him several times bt he has not given up. I acpted him 2 wiks bak nd we had sex 3 time nd lately, what he talks about is only sex. Does he luv me?... (53 words

I'm attracted to men, but don't want to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 51-59 - I really hope i dont offend any one so I appologies if I do. I am 38 years old and always had some sexual attraction to men. Its always been just sexual never wanted to date anyone that is. I dont want to be gay and in my family life it would not be acceptable. I am divorced ... (165 words

I feel like my wife lied to me about having an STD, how should I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - My wife of 4 years returned from her pap smear with irregular cells. This in itself is terrifying. We found out they weren't cancer, so that was a huge relief. My question: when my wife told me she had the irregular cells, she then said, "I told you I had HPV (genital war... (112 words

Met a great guy in Turkey but not sure how to proceed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have just come back from Turkey in July and met a really nice Turkish man who is aged 22 we got on really well and with my son and family. We have spoken everyday and we are now in love and would love to get married one day. He wishes to move here and get a better job to look ... (85 words

How can I stop feeling paranoid about my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well first i will tell you exactly what my problem is and explain it in detail. Any girl i get really attached to after about a month or 2 months i get paranoid that they are going to dump me. So basically 4 years ago i dated this girl, and after about a month i grew ext... (348 words

He kissed me, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Today I went out with a friend I didn't see for the past two months. He had called me before but I was kind of sad because I was interested in someone who didn't show much interest in me. well we went out talked all the afternoon about a lot of things. And then when we got... (256 words

13 and pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am pregnant im am 13 my boyfriend is 14 we have been together for almost a year now I love him so so much but i have no idea how to tell my mom and their is no way to tell my dad trust me...I just need to know im not alone and i need advise on how to tell my mom too.adoption ... (95 words

I keep having dreams about my ex, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 months but keep dreaming of an ex boyfriend. I usually wouldn't be concerned about the odd dream but these are much more frequent sometimes a couple of times a week. Sometimes they are explicit, sometimes I tell him I am leaving my husband for him - ... (161 words

Will I ever get over being abused in a previous relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I dated this guy about a year ago.he kept saying that is I didn't date hime he would kill himself.so I dated him..it was ok @ first..he bought me nice things and treatd me great.then I told one of my darkest secrets then he told me one of his..then that's when stuff went bad.if ... (154 words

I think she knows I still like her, but I'm afraid to tell her how I feel about her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - My x girlfriend split up with me two months ago, we were getting on great and one day she turn round to me and said she didnt feel the same way about me anymore, I was devastated. Anyway she got in contact with me through facebook chat, we seemed to to get on well, we had a ... (122 words

Troubles with my fiance: porn, trust, family ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I just stumbled on this site looking for answers to my relationship. Even though I think I already know. I just don't want to admit it! I don't know what my question is? I guess I just what opinions? I started dating this guy almost 4yrs ago. We live in a very small town. Ev... (1317 words

He's married, but I like him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi! I've been working in my current job for a few years now, and everything was really nice until a new colleague joined us in the office. He's hot, I mean really hot, and nice and kind and gentle and funny and all the other good things about a guy! And I just can't stop thi... (159 words

Can you get an STD from oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay so i am 16 and i am quite grown up for my age like i go clubbin i drink i am freinds with older peaple and i have done drugs like twice! I lie an awfull lot to my mum i do it basically everyday and i know it is really bad but something happened and i am trying to decide... (198 words

I had an abortion. Will getting pregnant help me ease the pain I feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I had an abortion two months ago, now I am so depresed, nobody knew about my abortion, and I live in a place in the united states with my two kids and my husband. I feel really bad after my abortion, I has been thinking about getting pregnant again, so I don't have to deal with ... (122 words

Should we see a relationship counselor or should I not even bother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello, My boyfriend (or ex, I don't know) says that he doesn't want to be together anymore because a lot of things about me annoy him. However, he is willing to pay to see a relationship councellor (which I am not). Why does he want to see one if he wants out of the relations... (78 words

I've never felt this way before! Do you think he feels the same for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Ever since the first night we hung out we have been basically inseparable. We never did anything sexual, we never even kissed. I'm in love with him! But I don't think he would ever feel the same way. He tells... (378 words

Why is he back with me and is this just a phase? Or did he never really care???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am goin to make this breif. I am going out of my mind at the minute! I am emotianally exhausted and I dont know what to do. Ok I was with my boyfiend for 10months and I split with him for many reasons. I was always making the effort, cooking meals and breakfats in bed for ... (344 words

How do I control my thoughts about my future sister in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 22 yo student, happily engaged with a beatiful girl, currently living at her parents' place. This is a choice we mae a couple of years ago, because we know we couldn't get enough money to live in an apartment while we study, so we stay there. She has a younger ... (478 words

In a relationship with a military man. Can anyone help me understand him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am finding this emotion so hard to cope with and feel as if this is the only thing bad in my relationship with a wonderful man. I love him very much, and he has said he loves me too and thinks about me all the time. I have been in a 5month relationship with a 40year old RAF... (241 words

How do I get older women to notice me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - what is the best way for older females to notice me? im 19 i like females from 25 and up to 45. people help me out. im not ugly or anythin i look good . i mean alot of women my age want to go out with me. but ilike older women. any advice well be greatly appriciated.... (59 words

Can I say this ONE, LAST, SHORT thing to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I posted awhile back about a guy not texting back (see background info below this post). Recently a friend told me about how shy this guy is and I should give it one more chance. I just wanted to say one last, short thing to him (to make it clear I don't need a committed, ser... (364 words

What do you think? Are we girlfriend and boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so ive been getting to know this guy for a few months now.. we've been chatting everyday for hours in a month...phone calls and text messaging.. when i saw him..we kissed alot..i gave him a massage (he loved it) and he said he loved been around me.. we walked do... (161 words

What do women really hate about men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 51-59 - What do women really hate about men? This is a copy of another posters question aimed at men - I liked it so much, I copied it, but in reverse!... (31 words

Can't climax with my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - my husband has an average penis, he's a 61/2 and i'm 71/2-8 length. is that the reason i can't climax? we tried oral stimulation and it doesn't help. he's often asked me for threesonmes and we have in the past but not the right sizes. i'm tired and helpless. need answers.... (51 words

Is my mind playing tricks on me? I think my teacher is flirting with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have had a little crush on one of my teachers for quite a while. He is quite young for a teacher, and i was his first ever class to teach when i was in second year of high school (im in scotland so i was 13/14 at the time) i didnt have him as a teacher for two years, and I ... (228 words

Why doesn't she answer my call or call me right back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - i met some one with whom i wanna advance my relationship,got her phone number,but i doesn't replies quite regularly ,she replies after an hour or so and says that she's busy any suggestions?... (36 words

Help me get out of this situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I will try and explain my question as best as I can,I know its long but please help.Here goes... Me and this guy have known each other for 6 years altogether.We dated for about 10 months and then we moved in together when I was 16 to his area which was about an hour and a half ... (330 words

My boyfriend claims he loves me and can't live without me, so why does he behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Okay, so this is my first time doing this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. We have had our ups and downs like any normal couple. Over the last 2 years I have noticed a huge decline in his yearning for me. And with each passing day a bigger decline! ... (718 words

My mother's promiscuity is influencing my life and my sisters' lives!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I live with my mother and younger sisters who are sixteen and fourteen. My parents divorced when we were young but I am the only one who remembers a time where dad lived with us. My mom is truly promiscious that it borderlines prostitution. She brings home men often that i... (195 words

What do men hate?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - What is the main thing that makes a man hate or dislike a woman? Men only please!... (17 words

I told my online boyfriend's wife about us but he came back to me anyways!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I had an online affair for almost 5 yrs with a 69 yrs old married man. We did not meet personally but had a huge fight for he plays with women in net and flirt and he had a gf where he met personally here in the Philippines. A year ago we had a big fight and I caused trouble... (257 words

Is she being honest with me? Did she really sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - I was away out of the Provence working for a few months and my wife cheated on me. She says she's sorry and it will never happen again. I found out because a friend called me at 330 in the morning and said my wife was seeing this other guy. She was out with my wife that ... (427 words

Will I keep getting thrush while I am on penicillin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - hello i have septic tonsilitis and at present on 8 tablets a day using penecillan and now i have got thrush. apparantley it is common so i have bought somthing for thrush a tablet and cream which i have just taken but my question is i dont finish my penecillan for another 4 ... (60 words

I know she still loves me but she won't say it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 36-40 - hello, i am 25 and split with my girlfriend 4 weeks ago, we where together for 3 years and its really broken my heart when we ended, the reason we finished was because her mum passed away and a week later she ended our relationship, she said she needs to do this to feel 100% ... (222 words

Know any good quotations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello I am giving my girlfriend a gift because she is an up and coming writer. I wanted to ask does anyone know of any good quotes to motivate her that I could include in this gift about writing, creative writing or writers? Any inspirational quotes or even humorous quotati... (58 words

Why does he lose his erection by changing positions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - My man can only last longer during sex if I am on top of him, or if we have sex laying on our sides. Most of the times when he decides to roll over on top of me, he loses his erection. Do anyone know why does he lose his erection from simply flipping to another position?... (57 words

He seemed so interested, but then I didn't hear from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, last week, i met this guy in my history class at college. he's 22, and i'm about to turn 19. he's the one who introduced himself first, and then, he asked me for my number. it couldn't have been five minutes before he texted me, and we talked for a pretty long ti... (262 words

Help with the family tree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - im seeing this guy but im confused... my mum has a half brother called mich and he has a cousin called guy, guy has a cousin called zak. if zak is cousins with guy and guy is cousins with my mums half brother mich does that make me and zak related? thing is... (105 words

She lied to me but I still want her back, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well to start things off, im 19 and my recent ex is 17. I have been in college for one year, and she recently ggraduated from high school. We are young. We decided to get an apartment together as i transfered schools, to be closer to her and my family. Things were going great ... (955 words

I need my ex to tell me its ok for me to date others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have recently split up,i need him to put his hand on his heart and tell me this is what he really wants and for me to go date other guys,this is so if we ever consider getting together again he wont or cant say that we was on a break and i have cheated... (58 words

How can I reconnect with my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I am here because i'm just so confused. When I was about 6, my dad left my mom me and my two older sisters. Before I was even born they were fighting. When I was a kid I was so happy when my dad would come home from work, I would always run up to him and I was so proud of ... (534 words

Will he think I'm trying to buy his love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - ive just started seeing this guy.. hes really sweet soo caring.. sensitive and just perfect. i really like him and hes really into me.. theres this mens perfume that he really likes and wants to get.. and he says hes gunna ask his cousin to get it for him as an ear... (134 words

Am I gay or am I going through a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey am 15 .. I know most people would say am confused .. But i need help ! I find girls attractive at times but guys too. At the same time i would choose a girl over a guy. To be honest i don't even like the look of the " the third leg" i don't even like saying it. I've ha... (108 words

Would you stay with your husband,if he doesn't have sexual interest in you,and he can't explain why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age - Would you stay with your husband,if he doesn't have sexual interest in you,and he can't explain why?Do I want too much? I mean ,it is not ,that I can;t live without sex, but not to know, why your husband doesn't touch you ,or want to have sex with you, wouldn't you drive yo... (143 words

I want my "old" husband back, not this new greedy selfish man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (? age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I've been married for about 15 months now. Before I got married, my husband and I had made the decision to wait until we were married to have sex because we wanted our 1st time to be special. Even while we were dating, he was a very big on romance which really ... (217 words

Sexual tips regarding a large penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, need some advice from guys and girls, please. Slept with my new bf for the first time last night and OMG his penis is huge! I have never been with a man with such a large penis before. Not only that, he had so much stamina (was erect for ages, then quickly became erect ... (119 words

I am not sure how to tell my parents about my 10 years older than me boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay this is going to sound odd at first but im 19 and my bf is 29. I will be 20 next month. He just turned 29. I am not one for age if its reasonable like this....but how am I suppose to tell my parents? I dont want them to judge me or him. Him and I are goth...bu... (127 words

He has been terminated from a job, should I support him or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what to do with my boyfriend who's going through a very tough time right now. Recently he got hired for a job after 2 months of being jobless, we were both happy for that as he was getting depressed that he couldn't find a job. And then he was hired so he was ... (349 words

I want to have sex but my heart starts beating so fast I feel like I'm going to die!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I think I have problem and I always been shy to talk about it but I can’t keep it inside me anymore I need help... I am 23 years old and I really want to have baby so badly but the big problem is I can’t have sex I am virgin. I have been trying to make love for the past 3 y... (234 words

I'm 15, think I'm pregnant but don't think I could abort a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am 15, and i think i am pregnant. i am goin to do a test tomorrow, i am scared in case i am cause i still have my whole life ahead of me, but i dnt think i could abort the baby, i cant talk to anyone about it, plz help me?... (53 words

Boyfriend expects me to have sex with him he's 14 I'm 15!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Im 15 years old,and im having problems with my boyfriend last night he asked me what my bases are and i told him and now he wants to have sex with me! he is a year younger than me too! I love him and i dont want to break up with him cause that will make me cry for years but i ... (70 words

Boyfriend got DUI and says if I wasn't so jealous it wouldn't have happened!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age - I have been living with my fiance for 3 years. He and I both drink daily. He has has a problem with crack in the past an cocaine. He has had 2 dui's in two years. He smokes pot everyday and takes pain pills every chance he gets.He is 56 I am 60. Here is the problem. I just los... (197 words

Does he like me or am I freaking him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey. I dont know what to do. Im bisexual and theres this guy at school in the year below me who is absolutely gorgeous!!! unbelievably stunning! Well there are loads of times where i see him looking at me. Now i would want nothing more than to find out that he actually lik... (230 words

B/f angry at me no matter what I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am getting really confused! My boyfriend is going through an angry patch and everything I do and everything I say ends up making him agitated with me! I do not know what I am doing wrong!! and to my knowledge I have been nothing but supportive and have always put his needs be... (109 words

Still bleeding after 1st time sex 8 days ago. Is something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid This is really embarrasing, basically i had sex with this guy who had a very large penis and it did hurt as it was my first time, but you see i have been bleeding for longer then 8 days i think. I thought it was my period that started but its lasted longer th... (120 words

Should I tell my parents about my secret boyfriend

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay i am going to uni next week and i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years my paretns don't know i havent told them because there is a 9 year age gap i am 18 he is almost 28 we are in love but iam wondering if i shold decide to tell my parents about him and him tel ... (109 words

Every time I try to get close to him he pushes me away

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 3 years.. We had a baby boy together who is now a year old. I have gained some weight due to pregnancy and I'm fighting to get it off. When I was about 6 months pregnant, he said he didn't want to have sex with me because he ... (249 words

My ex is self obsessed

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29 September 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, my GF left me and wants us to "be friends". But its too painful even seeing her. How do i tell her? Also i think shes self obssessed, as apparantley she thinks that i was aiming a performance of the song "Sunny Afternoon" at her, what do i do?... (50 words

Is it okay to pull away from the person you think loves you to test them?

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I never thought I would consider “testing” my boyfriend, but here I am dealing with some doubts that are driving me to seek action. My first boyfriend of over 1.5 years is by all initial impressions a great guy. We share the same values, respect each other, and engage in ... (342 words

Friend who only talks about herself!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, just a question. I would appreciate some advice. I have a good friend who talks about herself most of the time. She would call me and tell me about herself, sometimes even asking me to ask her a question so she can tell me more about herself. It has started to bu... (241 words

Is it just passion? Or true love?

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29 September 2010 (F age - I have been married for 16yrs. To a very nice man. We have 4girls 25,15,13,10. We have drifted apart and I have started seeing another man who I have known from school. I'm confused on what to do. stay or go. i would loose out on my house car and retirement. The man I am with ... (124 words

I'm not sure if this relationship is right anymore. I want to trust him but I don't!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I have caught him twice chatting girls up online before and after we got together. Last time when I confronted him, he promised me that he wouldn't do it again and he loves me very much. Even offered ... (133 words

I'm in love with a married woman with an abusive husband!

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - i am an 18 year old high school student who works as a mechanic i live with my aunt and uncle and i was hired to fix my neighbors car after she drove it into a ditch in an accident and we started bonding while i fixed the engine and after it was fixed i came over frequently and ... (239 words

Breakup Pain

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29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm sixteen and have just started college. Three weeks ago my boyfriend of two and a half years finished with me. He said he didn't love me any more and started fancying other girls. Up until that point he'd acted normally to me, sex, I love you's, everything. I was, and am so ... (315 words

What is the job of being a hostess to a baby shower

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm having my first child a baby girl and my hmegurl/godmother insisted on trowing me a baby shower. Next month is the baby shower. Every since I decided to have one I been feeling confused about the job of being a host. I have brought the decorations. I have brought the ... (306 words

I don't want anything inside me! How am I ever going to have sex?

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm 24 n a virgin, yet i have urges like everyone else. I have one problem ... I am scared of anything going inside my vagina. the mere thought of it makes me squeeze my legs together. Ive had a boyfriend before n I only let him go as far as playing with my clitoris which felt ... (278 words

My boyfriend doesn't like me sharing dorm with a guy, its starting fights

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - basically i'm at uni and i've moved back into my flat. last year it had all girls but this year there is one boy moving in. so there are 4 girls to 1 boy. anyway my boyfriend hates the idea of me sharing a flat with any boys, so when i heard it was just the one i was quite... (273 words

Boyfriend wants to do stuff with guys. I didn't know he was bisexual!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - right where do i start.... me and my bf have been together for nearly 2 years and are living together and everything, however 7 months into the relationship he told me he was bi sexual. he had never done anything with a guy, but i found out 3 months later that he had chea... (191 words

I can't keep playing off these 2 guys!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I Have a boyfriend who i have been with for 18 months , and he has been there for me through hard times. My family do like him. However as im only 17 , we went on a break because i really needed space , i didnt want to be tied down to just one boy. I met this other boy who was ... (175 words

Can masturbation break your hymen?

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29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am 16. i want some tips about how to masturbate to make it more fun. i also wants to know if masturbating has risk of breaking the hymen?? am a virgin... (32 words

No dating experience and I don't know how to set up the next date

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, jst a uick question. I have recently started seeing this amazing guy, we met up on a few nights out and then he asked me out to dinner. He asked for my ideas but i told him i wanted him to decide. we had an amzing night and are both really keen to do something ... (118 words

My lovelife doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Why?

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone =)... Just feeling a little lonely, aaaaand my lovelife hasn't particularly gone anywhere for a while... and I mean a loooong time. I've only had 2 girlfriends, one I had three years ago for two years (she never wanted physical contact, not because she was scar... (144 words

Also - how many arguments do you think "normal" people have in a healthy relationship?

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - whenever we had arguments (which is very frequent and lasts for several hours), my ex would be obsessed over it for a day. He said that it wrecked his day, he couldn't concentrate, and he can only think about ending the relationship (which he finally has after much going ... (133 words

What are some birthday ideas for my friend?

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi ppl. Um male 21. Its my best friend's birthday next week. She s quiet and shy type of girl. What should i get her for her birthday? Any ideas? Any sweet and thoughtful ideas? Thanks in advance ppl. :)... (42 words

All my husband talks about is "money money money" I'm sick of it!

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29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am having a real hard time now to my husband. He was retired when he is about 54 years old. Then he got divorce to his first wife, i dont know exactly the main reason bout it but all i hear is all about money. i am his 2nd wife. We are now 7 years together and actually liv... (403 words

I'm not his mom! How can I get him to see that?

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29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - How can I make my boyfriend realise that his mum is trying to paint me as her, because my boyfriend has never loved before till he met me, didn't want to move from the area he lived before, didn't want to share a house. Now he is, and she can see he loves me, she constantly ... (103 words

My dad had an affair and now I hate him!

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29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - my dad cheated on my mum and they separated. now hes still with the girl but i hate her. i only met her once and i didnt know they were going out then. now he keeps trying to get my 10 year old sister to go out with them all because he knows shes too young to say anything. I ... (181 words

Loosing verginity from fingering before sex?

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29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok so i had sex today but my bf has fingered me with 3 fingers before and that made me bleed. before i had sex for the first time today he fingered me with 4 fingers. it was weird that he could fit that much... so is there something wrong with me? also when i had sex after it... (92 words

Is he capabale of settling down with me?

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29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Am abit confused, my bf and i both love each other so much bt he is reluctant with life. he has a job, doesnt pay rent, has enough savings in the account but wont use any of it to upgrade his lifestyle. he mostly spends it on drinking and partyng. we plan to settle together but ... (81 words

She moved on while I got more infatuated, how can I move on?

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - [Mod Note: OP's suggested title taken] This girl and I liked each other last year and were going to go out, but I couldn't decide if i liked her that much and I ended up hurting her and she says she has lost those feelings for me. As time as passed my feelings for her kept ... (140 words

Is this going in the direction I'm hoping it is?

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29 September 2010 (F age - Engaging guy I met online. I made the first move and he responded. The emails within the online dating website have been consistent. One morning he emailed me providing me with his work email address which shows his full name, and he wrote feel free to use this email anytime. ... (228 words

How do I show my boyfriend I wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - how do i show my boyfriend i wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away. someone mistakenly called my bf by a different name. thinkin it was one of my friends. (they kinda look alike). this friend had once visted me on campus and ended spending the night coz h... (135 words

He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....

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29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is married, and for that reason, I have ... (208 words

Questions about sex and boys.....

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29 September 2010 (F age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Does it hurt when a girl has sex for the first time? And are boys attracted to girls with big butts or unattracted?... (37 words

We have been together 17 months now and we still have not had sex!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so about a year and a half ago, I was at a small house party with a few friends and I met a guy, I was only 16, and although I wasn't a virgin, sex was the last thing on my mind. Me and this guy fancied each other and we exchanged phone numbers and before the night was ... (269 words

Is this realshionship one sided or is this in my head?

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29 September 2010 (? age 51-59 - hi you lovely agony aunts out there, i always come on her for help when i need, and feel i need a little reasurring today..., i at the moment feel my relashionship is one sided, me more than him, or could it be in my head, i will tell you how it is and judge for yourselves.. i... (680 words

Does the pain ever go away?

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29 September 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi, This may not be the right place for my Q but I thought I'd ask it anyway. My father very suddenly collapsed and died in my arms over 20 yrs ago although it feels like yesterday. Each year on the anniversary of his death (today) I always feel very sad/down. Qu... (97 words

My boyfriend is very controlling with me but I am too attached and afraid to be alone

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - i'm 18 and i have this boyfriend i i'm with for 9 months. he was so sweet and charming the first 2 months but then he started to be very controlling with me. he tells me what to wear, he even forbidden me of adding my pictures on facebook, he gets very angry if i don't do what ... (229 words

We made up, but my new bloke is back to his old behaviour!

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been seeing a new guy for about 1.5 months. He is 21 and I'm 23. Like him a lot. But he forgot that we had plans. This is like the second time. And the other week we were supposed to go out on a date. But he showed up drunk, with his friend. And they got kicked out of the ... (150 words

Is he making a fool out of me or is he telling the truth?

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - okay my boyfriend cheated on me before and he was acting all funny, so i checked his phone records and saw this number all the time coming up, so i rang it and a girl answered, so instead of saying it to him i checked his record so i dumped him. we kinda hang out so i joke ... (106 words

Are careless people happy?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm asking because I see so many people who don't seem to fear anything. They are at easy with every situation, they don't put much effort into whether things go the right or the wrong way. When it comes to serious stuff, they just do what they have to do and that's that. They ... (300 words

Can anyone decipher what he is saying?

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29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - A friend of mine and I have been exchanging sms and chats for sometime now. Recently I suggested that we meet for lunch, and added in jest ' unless you prefer dinner' to which he replied ' Either is fine !..I am not scared of you " I just didn't get what he meant..and would... (76 words

Is it time to leave?

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29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - i have been with my current partner for 11 years. he refuses to get a job to help with the bills. If he gets any money he will spend it on drink. he is verbally abusive and on a few occasions in drink he has been physically abusive. i am at the end of my tether.is it time to ... (61 words

Will he ever commit to me?

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - scared he may never commit? Me and my fella been seeing each other coming up to 9 months. Before he got with me he had been broken up with his ex of 8 years for 7 months. We broke up a month after dating because he told me that he thought he wasn't ready. After two weeks t... (346 words

I know I need treatment but I'm terrified of needles!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey all, i have a problem, but im too scared to sort it out. I think i have IBS, actually im about 100% sure i have IBS. Ive read numerous amounts of articles on it and symptoms about it. I have almost like contractions or spasms of really intense pain, to the point where ... (623 words

Is there a chance for us? Or is it over?

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29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I've been dating this guy since June, and over the last month we have gotten very very couply. We started in a space of course where we both could date others, though he never did that, and I did, which he know. So over the last month, he's been very openly with me...arms ... (335 words

When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?

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29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being disrespected? I know that sounds like... (87 words

What can I do to be better in this relationship?

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29 September 2010 (M age 36-40 - This is probably going to be very long, but I need to explain the whole scenario for you to see where I am coming from. I have been in loving and slightly dramatic relationship with my bf for a year and a half. by dramatic I mean everything ends up being drama and over rea... (1078 words

My boyfriend seems to be choosing his child with his ex over our child!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has two kids, one by me and one by his ex. his ex decided to move to another state now he wants to drop our home and jobs that supports our child to hang out with his other son can you help?... (46 words

Is there a cure for my indecisiveness?

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29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - Ok I have known two wonderful guy "A" business man and "B"a doctor which i just knew...this two relationship is a long distance relationship. "A" i have knew him like around for a month and we so madly in loved with each other but he is always so busy in his business only ha... (239 words

Would it be selfish of me to have another child without being in a relationship?

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - i am a single mother and i have a gorgeous 3 year old son. For the past year i have been wanting another baby but i don't want to be in a relationship. I'm happy being on my own. Would it be selfish of me to have another child?... (49 words

Why am I so confused?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I started talking to this guy Travis last year around february. He was in one of my classes and was really into me. We hung out on the weekends almost every night going to parties and stuff. We also studied together for class a lot. He is a little bit more on the ... (373 words

Why does this girl freeze up around me?

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - There's this girl I like...a lot. I notice her staring and smiling at me when she thinks I can't see her. She also makes long eye contact with me without saying anything. When I talk to her she seems shy and submissive. She fidgets (such as taking out her phone and pressi... (115 words

How do I get a satisfying love life?

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29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - I turn 32 years old in a month and I've had three relationships, lasting from 2 weeks to 3 months and two one-night stands. The last was 6 months ago after a 5 year dry spell. Is this a sign of serious trouble? I definitely feel unsatisfied with my love life and most women ... (89 words

I have discovered my boyfriend has been contacting girls for webcam sex! What should I do?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Today I searched on google my boyfriend's mail and the results that appeared all where from comments he posted on porn blogs for girls to contact him (for webcam sex and I don't know for what more). One of them had the date of four days ago and we have been in a relationship ... (105 words

I want to get back with her but she has already started dating again! What should I do?

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29 September 2010 (M age 36-40 - So here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broke up like 2 weeks ago and apparently after a few days of us being seperated she's already began dating someone else that she met when she was still with me. Suffice to say this isn't a good feeling. I would really like to ... (131 words

My teacher acts like he likes me but doesn't directly say it! What should I do?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have an issue. I went to religious school and found my self with a teacher I hadn't seen in a few years. He's very nice and knows me. He started flirting with me. I liked him before and was sad when he didn't come back to teach. So now he's back teaching my class and I really ... (75 words

I cheated on b/f with his brother but now I want him back

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid,i realy need your help becouse iam lost,i had a boyfriend of one year and we where so happy until i cheated on him with his brother ,he found me in bed with him,he broke up with me and i continued dating his brother,after a couple of month i heard that he has a new ... (128 words

I found my bf's emails to his ex....Please help!!!!

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29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - The other day, my boyfriend of a year left his email account up on his computer. I know I shouldn't have looked through it, but I did. I know that was wrong, and even hesitated, but I still did it (I found out he was using his webcam in a sexual way with another guy back in ... (370 words

Spousal Verbal Abuse?

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29 September 2010 (F age - What is the advise out there to a woman who is married to a verbally abusive man? When anything goes wrong (flat tire, freezer not working, sports team lost?) it's because I'm a f-ing bitch. He shouts it over and over at me in front of our child; i.e., "you f-king bitch! ... (257 words

I don't think he loves me as much as he loved his ex

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all... its a bit complicated story.. in summary.. i love this guy so much and i m ready to give up everything for him but he seems he dont love me as much as he loved his ex before...This is a nightmare for me..I cant remove this from my mind... I know he loves me so he ke... (725 words

When we were together he seemed interested.. but now is not making an effort to talk to me.

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy at a college party and he ended up giving me a ride home.. turns out we lived really close so he invited me to his place before taking me home and we ended up watching a movie. He slowly did the whole putting his arm around me and was very touchy and affectionate. ... (715 words

I think about my ex every day, I don't know what to do!

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29 September 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 years. I love my husband... a lot. Our marriage has been nothing but a fight for survival. I never thought I would ever be thinking this but I wonder if I married the right man. I am still in love with my ex. I have never stopped loving him. We dated... (211 words

I am giving him a deadline. By next fall, he needs to be in a school or have a good steady job, or I am not going to be with him.

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm having a few problems with my boyfriend of 3 years. First off, he is not in college and doesn't have a job. He graduated high school last year, but he never even applied to a school until after. He does not have a job either. He goes around to all of these places, picks ... (151 words

Is it fair to eject people from your life who don't mind their own business?

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29 September 2010 (M age 41-50 - I know that no-one's perfect, but I have lost a lot of friends lately because I can't stand people who stick their nose in my business. They try to manipulate me. Is it fair to eject people from your life who can't mind their own business? I know a lot of people (some are... (147 words

My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids. Will he ever change?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids. We about 19 which isnt a big deal yet, but we have been together for 6 years. Should i expect his answer of marriage and kids to stay the same, or do you think he will ever change his mind? ... (52 words

How can I get my girlfriend to shave?

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29 September 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ok first question on here......lol My GF has a hairy vulva...and id prefer her to be shaven/waxed , How can i encourage her trim up? [Mod note: changed 'vagina' to 'vulva' for accuracy]... (36 words

Confused if I like an old friend!

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29 September 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok, so I met an old friend a couple of days ago, that I haven`t seen in 2 to 3 years. And ever since Friday I haven`t stopped thinking about her, I`m just wondering if this could be just that I`m happy to see her after all this time or if just talking to her again after two ... (601 words

Why is my ex boyfriend delaying meeting up with me?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and i have been broken up for about a month and during this period, he has called me a couple of times, sent me his vacation pictures, even called me the names he gave me when we were going out, "peach" and "beautiful". After about 3weeks, I told him, i would ... (133 words

Do I actually like him or do I just think I do?

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - How do you know when you genuinely like someone? I have been friends with someone for years, and we have gone on dates and fooled around with each other, but we were pretty much always just friends. Since he moved away to join the army I keep thinking about him and I want h... (114 words

How can I break it to a grown man that he needs to stop shoving his tongue down my throat?!

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - Yes, yes. I'm sure this has been asked many times. I tried searching previous posts, but only found little girls asking questions and, frankly, found nothing entirely relevant to my problem. Sorry if this is seemingly redundant! So, now for my question: I've recently started... (271 words

Is his demeanor and arousal a weakness or strengh?

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - If a guy gets a hard on when he's sitting with a girl and they are currently just friends (neither appears more attractive than the other), yet he continues talking like he doesn't need anything from her (not needy)...... Does she feel she has power over him, or is his demeanor ... (70 words

I am tempted to cheat on my boyfriend!

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29 September 2010 (M age 30-35 - First of all this is a gay relationship, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, and we are living with eachother, I am currently going to college and he is working. I love him with all my heart! We make eachother laugh about anything, our silences are not awkward ... (422 words

How can I get my boyfriend to come onto me?

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29 September 2010 (F age 30-35 - how do i get my boyfriend to come on to me? its been 3 weeks since he has even tried to have sex with me and when i try he shoves me away and makes up excuses all the time when i bring it up! so what do i do?... (50 words

We can not go on like this... right?

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29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating a separated man for over a year. We knew each other casually for 3 years prior to dating. He asked me to lunch one day and told me he was divorcing and suggested we go out. I reluctantly began dating him, although I clearly stated that I was uncomfortable ... (882 words

6 months into the relationship and he has stopped giving me good sex

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29 September 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm a 31yr old woman, with a extremely high sex drive. I'm with an older guy, well 7 month older....6 months into the relationship he is no longer getting morning wood....he thinks this is a problem. So this means no sex for me. He is not even willing to try to have ... (127 words

Does this man like me more than a friend?

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29 September 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am trying not to read into this, but I have some questions that need some outside input. I have this guy friend who I think has been flirting with me. He always gives me a high five when we see each other. He gave me a nickname and he always approaches me in our group of ... (299 words

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