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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are they too close?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has a brother (14) and he is totally obsessed with her. He lives in a group home as her parents are alcoholics/drug addicts but she sees him every weekend. He acts really weird around her, he follows anything she says slavishly and he seems to want her ... (113 words)

How do you get over a 3 year relationship when your still madly in love with the person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over a 3 year relationship when your still madly in love with the person? especially when they were your best friend when you were 12 and they are all you ever had.... (36 words)

Help! How can I let him know that I care so that he will understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has brought up some complaints a few times over the course of our relationship, and though I feel like I have been making an effort, he still complains about the same things. (I think it is justified, however). I am not demonstrative. I am not romantic. I am ... (658 words)

I don't understand what I did wrong, and why he's acting this way now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy a couple of months back while I was staying with my friend in Pittsburgh. He lives in WV, but he's only a half an hour away from her apartment to where I was staying. It was one of her boyfriends real good friends. I wanted to meet someone, and she introduced us, ... (910 words)

I've hit a dead end!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've hit a dead end. After a few attempts of getting guys that I've liked in the past to like me back or to simply ask me out, I've given up! For some reason I attract desperate, needy, sexually frustrated or awkward guys. Guys that I'm just not that into! I've neve... (262 words)

my bf has only dated teenagers in the past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my wonderful bf for almost a year. He is everything I could ask for in a life partner. I trust him completely, I know he loves me and will never cheat on me. He is kind and respectful, and we have an amazing time together. We are both 25 years old. Prior to ... (349 words)

Please help, I cheated on my wife with a prostitute

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been married for a year and a half, I cheated on my wife with a prostitute and got caught. I love my wife and was seeing the prostitute just because I was so damn horny and wanted to do things with the prostitute that my wife doesn't do. Since she found out we have ... (123 words)

How do I prove that I'm willing to change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for almost 3 and a half years. We'd always had problems during the relationship, which lead to us being on and off quite alot. But in the end we always got back together. Back in June, we broke up, and days later he starts seeing someone else. Now of ... (442 words)

Does this mean I'm slacking in the good looks department?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem completely pathetic and let me put this out here now... I am not considered weird or out there in my school I have a lot of friends and I have a well known status. I'm a junior in high school and I am so nervous about this year. It seems like my friends are always ... (251 words)

She's under my skin!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age - I have been dating a lass of 35 for 12 months, i am 47. Sometimes she is all over me, she sends me loads of texts and we speak on the phone for 4 or 5 hours at a time, but other times i feel as welcome as a bad smell. she becomes very angry for no reason and will not talk for... (234 words)

Tired of getting hurt...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a boyfriend and out of nowhere he says we need a break, im his first girlfriend because he is bi-sexual and only had boyfriends... before we started our relationship i asked if he was ready for a girlfriend he said "yes" but no he is talking about how he loves me and ... (140 words)

Is a God who does not exist, more important for her than the man she claims to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am 22 and me and my girlfriend are in a relationship for the last 3 years. There are a lot of points that I must highlight before going to the real issue. In the 1st year of our relationship, she was flirty with guys and used to have fun in making them wan... (413 words)

Fear of marriage if she gets too big!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age - I would love to marry this woman i've been seeing for over a year now , My deal is I feel like if she gets very large at some point that i may lose my physical attraction for no wanting sex, I know by all standards that is wrong, but that's how i feel. It would only chalk up ... (165 words)

I feel he doesn't bother about me any more the way he used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people me and my bf , have been together almost a year and it reaally bothers me that he usally puts all his money towards weed he barely buys me surprises , like ... I dunno things that show he care like he used to on our anniveraary he used to buy me a card and now he ... (109 words)

Can I ever commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age - I was married for 21 years, Been divorced for 9 yrs. now. In and out appox 7 relationships nothing seems to work out a year or less. Did not date, hug, kiss, nothing for two years. Then i met a classmate of mine ,told her i didn't want a relationship, she did. So i thought ... (391 words)

Is it wrong to date my former teacher?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, I graduated high school last year. There has always been a very strong attraction between a teacher at my school (30 years old) and me. My friends would always bug me about how he liked me, but I never told them that I was in love with him. Before ... (130 words)

Is he lying about mobile games?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 2 years takes his phone to the loo..had no problems with this until I thought id send him a text to ask him to bring my watch down out the loo and it ever made a noise? yet when he came down he answered my question and said my watch wasnt there? so i said why is ... (108 words)

If I'm obsessed should I talk to him or leave him alone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid ive just got to High school and im already starstruck by this guy I really like. Im obsessed and I go this phone number every time i walk into the cafeteria I try very hard not to look in his direction. That never works I basically stalked him for a week. Onetime ... (214 words)

If we have nothing in common is it wise to get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys thanks a lot for spendin time in order to help me with my situation i ve been with my girlfriend for ages and we actually been talkin about gettin married and spendin the rest of our lives together we truly love eashother so much but the thing is . WE REALLY HAV... (212 words)

Do you see this relationship going somewhere or am I expecting too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy 3 months ago just after I moved to a new country. Settling in the new country has been like a rollercoaster ride for me and I 'clinged' to this guy as he was the one of the first few people I got to know when I first arrived. He seemed trustworthy, attractive and ... (477 words)

Did he have other reasons for marrying me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Iam a 20yr old Mother and Wife! Ive been with my husband for 3 years married and the way we met was thru my sister and he actually already had a gf I put thing in the hands of god I didnt know he was already in a relationship!!! Well the female tht he was cheating with me had ... (584 words)

How do I learn not to be distracted by boyfriends annoying habits?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is how to to stop getting annoyed at the quirky habits people have? I can admit that I am probably an easily annoyed person, so I will assume that my boyfriends habits are totally normal, and that instead of trying to make him stop I should try and be more graceful ... (301 words)

Have I caused her to lose interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I have been texting a lot lately has not been texting me back the past 2 or 3 days. This started the day after she told me that things weren't really clear for her without telling me what she really meant by it. I really like her and I have told her how I feel and I ... (90 words)

Why is he not calling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 months ago ive met a guy who is 20yrs old and im 22, ive brought him round to my place watch a movie then later on we made out, a few times ater that he came round to mine we had sex then condom burst he said to me that he would pay for the pill later on that day he aint ... (173 words)

Why is he getting married when there is something between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He is getting married !! How come ?? I always thought that there is something between us !! He was all the time in front of me. No matter where i go or be he is always there with his eyes all over me. He cant resist I can tell. He sends me emails. I have to ask him something ... (133 words)

Do I have my priorities straight in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going to a one off gig that my favourite band are doing in a few weeks, and its the day after my boyfriends birthday. i will be away on his birthday as this concert is no where near where we live. he is saying i think the concert is more important than him, and he has ... (192 words)

I'm searching for my gorgeous ex in new guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out with a man that I met online last nite. Weve been chatting quite a while got lots in common. I liked the look of him.got the same ideas bout life what we want etc. And I felt so comfortable when I met him last nite, but when I met him I dont know if I fancy him! He ... (157 words)

Husband of 27 years confessed that he was bi and had oral sex with a man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age - My husband of 27 years very recently told me he is Bi and tried oral sex with a man just a few weeks ago. He seems genuinely remorseful and wants us to make our marriage work. He says he would like to be able to forget that he he let himself do such an awful thing to me and ... (156 words)

Should I hang with a guy friend if I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it okay to hang out with my guy friend who has a crush on me if my boyfriend acts like he doesnt care about me anymore??.my boyfriend started acting shady two weeks ago.like not returning my phone calls and text.or saying hell call me back and never does..he just wasnt ... (162 words)

Can I trust a reformed cheater? He repented for cheating in our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I met in June last year. We became official in sep after sex. I caught him flirting with other women in feb this year. He repented and deleted all the girls he was flirting with in facebook and also cut all contact with them. We bought a place together i... (229 words)

Am I being mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks in advance for alll help. So we do everything as we married, thats a plan for down the pike. However in the last three months My Granny, and Step Grandad and my boyfriends Dad past away. So were both under all the stress. I have looked at my boyfriends parents as pa... (480 words)

Ho do I get my ex back with his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

- Hi, I will try keeps this short. The beginning of last year I was very ill with Glandular fever. I had it for a very long time which made me become depressed and a different person. This took its toll on mine and my ex’s relationship which sadly eventually broke us apart l... (498 words)

I want him to realize what he's got but I fear he never will!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok im not sure where to start but after working with my friend for the past year we formed a good friendship but ive always had feelings for him. he had a breakdown earlier in the year which i helped him through and have been there for him a lot-lending money etc basically a ... (157 words)

Do texting like this and the situation mean its more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - We've been close friends for a year at university, and recently we've got closer since we saw each other with other friends in a small summer get-together. Nothing happened but afterwards since we've parted again, for about a week since, we've been talking by msn, facebook and ... (432 words)

Husband lost all interest in me as a sexual being the last 5 years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) age - Would you stay with your husband,if he can;t explain,why he is not sexually attracted to you,and stops looking at you as a sexual being? He is good to me,but 5 years ago he suddenly dropped sex with me,and he does not know why....I just want to know,if anybody else experienced ... (57 words)

My girlfriend won't talk to me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

4 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and really hit it off. We talked a lot ... (812 words)

I regret it but I'm terrified she finds out I cheated... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - umm well it sounds stupid but like im only 15 but like I've been in a relationship with this girl for nearly a year now and we've been through so much and i dont know what i would do if i lost her but i cheated on her the other night at a party, i was drunk but that's not an ... (87 words)

He's like one of those strings on your shirt that just won't rip off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. I broke up with him once last October because I couldn't trust him but ended up taking him back by February after I went into a jealous fit when he was with a new girl. Now I realize my mistake. He's very possessive and ... (334 words)

Shy girl needs advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a problem with meeting guys. I'm a 16 year old female from an extremely small town. All of the people my age I know and I am not attracted to them. Everyone who is older is off to college. I am very shy and don't know how to meet people. It's not like I can join ... (147 words)

He throws ice water on me when I'm asleep!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. we have 2 small kids together... in the past 7 years he has never been a really good boyfriend.. but in the past 2 years he has become very abusive and controlling. every day i get yelled at, threatened, treated like a dog. he even ... (151 words)

My best friend told me he loved me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend, (he's a guy, I'm a girl) have been close for years.Recently, he told me that he is in love with me. We tried the whole dating thing a few years back and we kissed. I had to break it off with him though because it started getting awkward. Well that was 3 years ... (140 words)

I found out that his friends hate me and talk about me behind my back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello fellow cupiders, I am really gutted at the moment. Yesterday I found out that the best friends of my boyfriend for many years, and whom I thought of as my friends as well, absolutely hate me. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I thought I go... (578 words)

Is he just not interested...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When a man tells you you're a beautiful woman, flirts with you for months, wants to see you, you finally meet up and the attraction is obvious between the two of you, but your divorce isn't final and he says he doesn't want to be the type of guy who is with someone who is ... (88 words)

After our breakup he wants to remain bestfriends...but I'm scared I won't be able to handle any new girlfriends of his...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want my ex to be happy. my ex wants to be my bestfriend still which i think is great because most guys will just cut you out of their lives when they dump you. i'm still in love with him though and i know eventually he'll date a girl.when he dates a girl how do i not get ... (80 words)

Does Jelquing work to increase the size of your penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age - I am like most men and would like to have a bigger penis. I have been reading about jelquing. Has anyone every tried it and did it work? I have been doing it for the past month and think I am getting some benefit. My wife as never made a comment yet so I am unsure. I wo... (78 words)

Why can't my girlfriend come up a level of class but can always drop a level?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why can't my girlfriend come up a level of class but can always drop a level? Last week whilst on holiday at my girlfriend's parents house (in Spain) we met a couple of friends of her parents. Her father used his normal crudeness of introduction. "This is my daughter (name) a... (572 words)

I am getting increasingly annoyed and angered by friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All. Am not sure what type of advice I'm hoping to get, but recently I've found that I am getting increasingly annoyed and angered by friends. I'm always there to lend an ear and provide support, but I'm finding it increasingly difficult to empathise when they keep creati... (137 words)

Online true love is falling for a guy she met at a party...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This one is about an online romance... Now before you laugh, it's not something I've ever done before and I had actually met her in person once before. But about a year ago I met this girl online, and over a year we got close and watched each other grow. After months and mont... (265 words)

He turned me down a few years ago when I fancied him. Now I think I love him, could he fancy me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i once had a crush on a guy, so i asked him out but he rejected me, about 6 months later one of my best friends (also one of his best friends) told me that he had been talking to her about asking me out (this never happend though). now its been 1 and a half years and me and him ... (122 words)

He says one day he'll marry me but has a wife and child. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am separated from my husband and I am currently seeing this guy who is 10 years older than me we do not do a lot of things together. We hardly go out or do any fun things together. This guy is a medical doctor and is married with 1 adopted daughter. The problem I have with him ... (252 words)

B/f broke up with me after 3 months because he didn't think he was feeling what he should be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend online, although we live locally to each other. We only saw each other a couple of evenings a week, but after three months he split up with me, telling me he wasn't feeling what he thought he should be feeling. I think 3 months is far too soon to fall i... (128 words)

Is there anything there with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, first time poster and I just wanted to ask for some opinions and hints. I met this girl in the summer while we were swimming for a local club and immediatly realized that she was beautiful, but I felt she didn't know it. I quickly began to chat with her about her class... (299 words)

I kissed 4 other boys and have only just broke up with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i need some advice please... i have just broke up with my boyfriend not even a week ago and went to a party last night and kissed a few differnt lads in a game of spin the bottle and one of the was my ex before my recent ex!! i feel horrible because i know im not o... (120 words)

Bad(ish) boyfriend suddenly becoming wonderful overnight, turns out he's been watching porn. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry guys, it's another porn story, but please listen to me. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2/3 years now. He was wonderful at the start, but then he seemed to stop caring. He wouldn't do anything nice for me, didn't call me beautiful, didn't tell me he loved me much... (484 words)

My family wants me to get my sister inlaw pregnant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife's sister does not have a kid as her husband can not make her pregnant. medicals tells that it is his problem. in our family people considers to get her have a baby by me. i feel embarrassed. please help.... (42 words)

I don't think about this boyfriend all the time like I did with my last. Do I love him less?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i have a boyfriend. he is my 2nd boyfriend in fact.i We have been a couple for 3 months i am 15 he is 17. . . Now i dont know why but i dont think about him all the time.and i was wondering if thats normal? cause i want to think about him all the time.like with my 1st ... (85 words)

I pushed my boyfriend away because of insecurity and now I don't think I can get him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a long distance relationship, my last boyfriend cheated on me, so im very insecure and suffer with jealousy, and now my boyfriend has gone very cold on me, we use to talk about the future etc, but thats all stopped, its kind of formal talk now, i told him i was sorry ... (165 words)

She's 29, I'm 57 should we even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age - I have met a girl that is 29 years old I am 57.just how bad is this,should I just walk away.We both care very much for each other.We are falling in love.I don't know what to do.Can you give me some advice. thanks Fred... (47 words)

He's so nice but I don't feel attracted to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night i broke up with my boyfriend of eight months. he was like my best friend as well and we got on very well. but in the last few weeks i kept feeling like the spark was gone and that we just acted like friends when we seen each other like very little holding hands and ... (260 words)

I can't get over how pretty his ex was and it makes me insecure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some support right now. I have been with my partner for three years and everything in the relationship is great. He loves me, I love him we respect each other etc. However, I cannot get over how pretty his ex is! They broke up five years ago and they have no ... (196 words)

Boyfriend's welfare is really concerning me. How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im concerned for my boyfriends welfare. He is currently going through a hard time at the moment. He has a very demanding job and also going through a divorce which is never nice for anyone but there is a very young child involved with his wife. we have been together 9 months ... (151 words)

Girlfriend too good for you so she may cheat on you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys i need some really good advice here coz i doo need it have u ever felt that ur girlfriend is just too good for u to the point that u would even think that she may cheat on u ? im not a bad looking guy but the problem is not here, my girlfriend is... (257 words)

I feel like we are growing apart, how do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend works 4-11 at night and I go to school from 8-3 then work from 5-9. I feel alone. I miss him so much it feels like I never see him. The I my time we spend together is once in a while on the weekends. It really hurts being away from him for somuch I feel lime we'... (70 words)

Should I let my ex back in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Trying to make a long story short: My ex is about 5 yrs younger than me. When we met he seemed sincere. However, he lied very badly and in the result it cost me. He claimed he wanted to be with me and granted he was younger seemed to be very mature. Before we were together... (258 words)

IF she likes me then why is she kissing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this girl was going out with one of my friends. But before that we were talking alot and got to know each other and pretty much became besto's. But then my feelings changed a bit cause I started to like her, and around about then she was wanting to brake up with my ... (249 words)

I want to lose 10 pounds in 2 weeks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - oky i wanna loose at less 10 pounds in 2 weeks...(: i weigh around 140 and am 5'1". i dont look that fat. but im not confortable with my self . i go out for a hour jog 3 times a week and eat normal ... when i do go out for the jog i make my stoumach swet more so i place a ... (87 words)

After three years and a child together, I doubt my feelings for my partner! Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I really in love or just in love with the idea of being in love? I am having a relationship with someone for 3 years already and we have 1 child already. The problem is that often times, I am in doubt of my true feelings for him as well as his true feelings for me ... (122 words)

Why the silence all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age - He's not divorced yet, said they're in separate rooms for 4 years. I honestly am too! Same house, separate rooms for 4 years, not married though. We've known each other for 35 years, and have been talking and seeing each other for 9 months. He's selling his house, retired, sold ... (303 words)

He left me soon after my abortion, then I found out he was engaged the whole time! Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i got pregnant because my method fail, i have a genetic condition which if i get pregnant and labor a baby i have the change to grown tumors all over my body,also spontaneous abortion, hypertension, and a chance of high complication, even death of both me and the baby. My ... (583 words)

Since he found out that I lied the relationship is not the same. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey,i am with my boyfriend for 2 years,a few weeks ago we break up because i did a stupid thing..i lied him when i was hanging out with a guy..but that guy was just a friend,after that we were back together but now he sayd he loves me a lot but he is very cold and distant to me ... (160 words)

What did he mean by saying he still sees his ex as the woman he married?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last weekend my boyfriend saw her ex wife and he told me that he feels a lot of resentment, anger for her but someone he still sees as the woman he married I told him that maybe he still has feelings for her, that he should try to talk with her and try to work things out ... (139 words)

How can I improve the texture and look of my stretch marks. How do girls feel about them?

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have alot of stretch marks! i have em on my stomach, on the sides of my upper body, on my lover back, shoulders and where my arms meet my body, both on front and back. and i am a guy!! they are almost invisible by now but it feels awful to touch. my first que... (123 words)

Is my coworker interested in me? I really like him

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this coworker at work badly...we have each other's num..i got his num through one of his friends with his approval. i am always the one to initiate the texting and he replies..i sent him a text on thursday asking him if he would like to have a cd and i got no reply til... (135 words)

I don't know how to get over her.

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm 17 and a Senior in High School. You think I would be living my life up and living it to the fullest extent. Well, a couple months ago (Julyish) my ex girlfriend breaks up with me. I understood because we were in a long distance relationship and she was swamped ... (255 words)

I'm 23 and have never orgasmed. Help!

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just turned 23 and and i have never had an orgasm and my clit cant be touched without me cracking up laughing and i dont know what to do!? can you help me? my husband and i have tried everything!!!!... (41 words)

Why does he keep bring up the past?

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4 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - what does he want?... everytime where together he brings up the past but he doesnt look for me... what i mean is that he doesnt call me or vist me or even txt me (i dont think he doesnt because of his working schedual... because a minute call everyone can make) but he always ... (97 words)

Can you squirt through clitoral stimulation?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to learn how to squirt. But not because my man thinks its sexy. because, i believe its a higher level of orgasming, and i want to experience it. Which brings me to my question, I've read on HOW TO, but my question is, Do you have to find your G-Spot in order to do it. ... (154 words)

I'm scared of the man who molested me. Am I being stupid?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it stupid to be scared of the man who sexually molested you for years and stopped a few months ago? hes my moms bf and im really scared whenever im around him, i just cant help it but i also feel that im being stupid that im scared..... (49 words)

Can such a hard relationship end for the better?

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple who is in a relationship for almost 4 years. There were several break ups involved in their relationship but patched back. The girl who is 20, has went through a lot of emotional hurt with him. She has cried before and in the past, the guy slapped her before. ... (123 words)

How do you tell your boyfriend he is being too rough with oral?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell your boyfriend he is being too rough with oral? ... (13 words)

Shaved, trimmed or natural?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do guys prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural? ... (10 words)

Depressing Love?

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. Hi, first timer here...ok well, so I've been with this girl for a little over a year now and we're really in love, atleast I know I am and she says she is just the same, only when we take "breaks" they drag on in agony for me for too long...a... (239 words)

My father dissaproves of my relationship. I don't know how to deal with it.

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've currently been with my long distance boyfriend for over six months. And things have been wonderful between us. It started out as online, until we met in person, and he has even met my family. This is where it gets difficult. My father decided he disapproved of the ... (538 words)

Does she still feel the same about me, or is there another reason she could be angry with me all the time?

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my question is what can i do when my girlfriend seems to always be in a bad mood i have tried to help her with her problems by comfertng her the best way i can but she always seems to find something woring with the way that i confert her and from time to time seem to always ... (519 words)

My ex told my boyfriend I was done with him. Now he won't pick up so I can explain that I'm not.

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dating a guy named A for a month. Two weeks ago, due to depression he stops talking to everyone. Last night my ex had my cell and told A I was done with him....so I tried reaching out to A about that but no answer to the phone. So I left a short voicemail telling him what... (80 words)

Fooling around with my girlfriend was really good until a few days ago. Am I bored?

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have started dating about 6 months ago. We've been friends for about seven years now and we really care about each other. We can talk about anything and we get along great. We havent had sex yet but we still fool around in bed and it was actually pretty ... (75 words)

I'm 14 and I love a 17 year old. Is it wrong?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Im 14 years old I Met this 17 year old and i really like him but he has a girlfriend Hes been with her for nearly 2 years,My mum and dad are really really protective and wont even let me hang aroung with him my dad even rang him! and told him its wrong for a 17 year old... (169 words)

Ovulation on the pill?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if i ovulate while on the pill am i still protected?... (11 words)

Am I reading him right? Is he flirting?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am new at all of this since my husband died early this year. I guess I just do not know how to read men and if something is "flirting" or not. So like I said, I have been through quite a rough patch losing my husband unexpectedly in February and the my mother in June. I have ... (347 words)

I don't like when the guy I have been seeing for 4 months just shows up at my door!

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a guy for the last 4 months. I feel like he is already trying to mark his territory. Gave me two teddy bears with his colone sent.. three pictures of him on a frame. He left his toothbrush with his name labled. Now he is starting to show up without confirmation. ... (107 words)

When should I expect my period?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just completed my very first pack of loestrin 24 fe and i took my first brown pill today. when should i expect my period? i started my pack the day after my period ended-so day one of my cycle and ive ovulated this month which i thought wasnt supposed to happen. AND chan... (138 words)

Can a woman have an anal orgasm?

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4 September 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Can a woman have an anal orgasm?... (7 words)

How do I lose 11 pounds fast?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 121 pounds and 5' 4 and I would like to lose about 11 pounds. I work out 3-4 times a week for about an hour. I try and eat healthy - ish. Any suggestions?... (35 words)

He said he doesn't want to live with me any more! Help!

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and m boyfriend have been dating for about two years and a half and now we lived togther for a year and a half. Now he doesnt want to live with me what should i do ? I scared that at the end he wont change his mind.... (49 words)

I thought women are fickle, so how come my man is even more fickle?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Over the course of two years, I've seen my boyfriend changed from casual partner to potential life time partner. Here's the things he said to me, about me, about us throughout these two years in timely sequence, and I am pretty much level headed, open minded, acceptin... (340 words)

Wow! Does my ex want me back?

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Woo I just got called for a job then my ex wrote me back! here is what she said does she still care for me???? Hi. I am fine. My car is going to get fixed next week. I'm fine. Just a minor accident. I will survive. Just another day in my life. Not much going on here. Relaxin... (234 words)

Frustrated...

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know Im not unlike others. My husband who can be sweet when he chooses has been so mean lately. He gets mad at me at the slightest word he doesn't like. He can be so demanding of me and what he wants but today I only asked if he would stop to say hello after he had been home ... (370 words)

How can I stop being so hung up on this guy?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a summer fling with this guy that had turned into a summer relationship (2 months), that he ended because i was heading off to school 3 hours away and he doesnt like doing long distance relationships. WE ended our relationship on good grounds saying that we should have ... (115 words)

Opinions needed! Is he just being nice or is he REALLY interested in me?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I was just wondering if this boy is interested in me. Lets call him P well here is a list of things P does. Stares at me during classes and looks away fast when i look at him. We talk online for HOURS AND HOURS!! He asked me for my number, but the conv... (164 words)

I'm having a bit of trouble getting over this guy.

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all the age is wrong, I'm 17. I'm having a bit of trouble getting over this guy. See, we were great friends at first and I fancied the arse off him and he knew and used me for sex until one day he rang me to tell me that he started going out with a girl I knew. He ... (405 words)

Clingy issues

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a bit confused and frustrated and just all around unsure. I've been dating the most wonderful guy in the world since the beginning of March. We were so in love all the way up to June when school ended and we were separated from each other. He lives pretty far away from ... (881 words)

Do people usually talk to friends about arguments they have in such great detail?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend, after a (very long) argument that we had last night, told his friends about it (it was a very stupid argument, and it was my fault). Anyway, he refuses to tell me about what he told them, and what they said about it (apparently though, I would feel embarassed if I ... (168 words)

Does this mean he will abuse me if we start dating?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and the guy im talking to is 17. he seems really nice and we had a class together when i was a freshman. im a junior now. well he moved last year but is returning to my school this year. ive heard bad things about him tho. he dated a girl in my grade and apparently he was ... (219 words)

We broke up but still in contact every day, is this good for me?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up about almost 3 weeks ago, we had been together almost for a year, actually, tomorrow it would been a year. When we met he was separated from his wife for a 18 month and he was waiting for the divorce to come out but that's not all, he also has a ... (731 words)

He doesn't love me enough to leave his children

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4 September 2010 (F)

- If your married lover says that he doesn't love you enough to walk out on his children,does that mean he never will?... (22 words)

Why do guys not like makeup?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do guys not like makeup? Whats wrong with it. i mean if u look like a clown then yes but what if you only wear a lil bit?... (29 words)

I have a major issue with an adult figure!

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major issue with an adult figure. Who doesn't, except mine are my to-be in-laws... I moved in over a year ago with my bf and his parents, and after being here for 10 months things were alright. Then we went to another state and stayed with my parents for 5 months. We... (386 words)

Was it just family that got in the way?

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4 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - We're in high school, and she'd been acting really weird lately, as in not answering my im's and not talking to me at school. I already had a feeling that this was coming, I was prepared for it. But today, after school, she had finally gotten to me after the whole day. She ... (523 words)

He's gone off to Sweden to get this out of his system...

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So the guy I have been dating for a few months has gone off to sweden to meet someone he snogged before we met. he states that it is to get it out is system and we have discussed openly that he is clearly going away for whatever it maybe sex, space etc. Anyway my question is ... (128 words)

Is this boy for real or is he disappointed in me?

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please people need advice as soon as possible! been texting a boy for two weeks and met up with him last night and it went really well, we went to a beach and got to know each other and he told me i was a really nice girl and that i had a nice personality and told me that... (411 words)

My family are blatant in their discrimination

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I come from a rather conservative background, where caste based discrimination still exists. Around 7 months ago, I landed myself, my first job. where I met this guy, almost 10 years senior to me and we hit it off instantly. I've been seeing him from the past 6 month... (209 words)

I love him and I want to be with him forever but I'm scared he doesn't feel the same way anymore.

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4 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. Lately we've been arguing a lot and I feel like he doesn't love me the way that he did in the beginning of the relationship. He's been avoiding me for 2 weeks straight now. he hasn't called me or even bothered texting me. ... (94 words)