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writes:i confused by his signs i dont know if i should chase him or let him go please help. theres this guy from another state that i've talked to on the internet this weekend i've finally met him he recognized me before my sister which my sister claims to know him. his super cute but very shy. at a club he didnt recognize me and the next day he wrote a message being sweet talking about how he couldnt recognized me and added a few smiley faces after asking about my day and the night at the club. then i told him that he should go there again the next day i ran into him at a soccer game and he was nice just said hi and smiled and when to continue watching the gameas the night came i saw him again and he kept smiling and winking at me but i've noticed that he didnt talk to me much i asked him how he liked my state and he just said it was diffrent and hot and continued texting or being on the phone so i went back inside the club and he would still wink and look at me when he was insidethe next day he wrote on his status about how he feels like someone is his and that he likes her my friend commented on the status and said something like oh i see someone fall in love over there and he said that he really likes someone and couldn sleep. i'm confused he didnt know any girl but me and if he claims that he has falling in love then with who would he fall in love for? today he was online and so was i but he didnt i.m me or anything is it because he isnt interested or is he just really shy? should i message him or should i just leave it alone? please help me i'm lossing sleep.
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reader, VMS +, writes (8 September 2010):
Oh sweetie... I am sorry to say this, but I think the signs are pretty clear that he is really "not that into you"... He has had plenty of opportunities to show you his interest, and he has not, so I really don't think the interest is there. I would not contact him at all. If it is you he wants, trust me, HE will contact YOU. Sometimes as soon as we ignore them a little bit, all of a sudden they decide to show their interest. If he does not, then it really is not in him to be with you. Good luck!
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