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My girlfriend wants to have sex with another man, to get even for my cheating!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay this is long and....little embarrassed about this but here goes. 3 Years ago I had an affair with another women she was a close friend to me and my girlfriend. For an entire year I was seeing her off an on cause me and my girlfriend would always fight. At times my ... (465 words

Help! Do my guy friends like me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - So I have some guy friends I hang out with. For privacy, I'll call them Boy A, Boy B, and Boy C. Boy A: He's pretty much said straight out that he likes me, but I don't like him more than a friend. How do I tell him that? Boy B: I sort of like him, but he hangs out a lot... (271 words

How do I ask her out without ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Okay so there is this girl who I have liked for over a year now, but we did not start hanging out until October this year. We talked in class (I'm in high school) but I never had the courage to ask her out. This year I started talking to her again (despite not being in any of ... (307 words

Do you give up something good for the chance of something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating my boyfriend Michael for almost four years. Our relationship started off on a bad note; he had been my best friend for two years, but I had been dating another man the entire time. When my ex and I broke up, Michael was there with supportive arms. I had had ... (662 words

Surely you wouldn't carry on sleeping with an ex if you didn't still love them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok here goes..... ready to be confused..... I was with a guy for just over 6 years, he ended the relationship just over a year ago as he said he didnt love me anymore, But a year on where still doing things a normal couple would do, we go to the cinema, out for lunch, sleep... (286 words

How do I not make the same mistakes in my future relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - I've broken up with my ex about a month ago, and its only in the aftermath of things have I realised stuff myself. A recent bit of information from my ex girlfriend and what she said about me got me thinking. Yeah, it is a biast opinion from her, but even so, if she thought t... (1017 words

How do you help a long distance boyfriend who's stuck in a rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - How do you help a long distance boyfriend who's stuck in a rut? My boyfriend's been Depressed for about a year now and he just never does anything anymore. He works long hours during the week and lives by himself. On the weekends, he never sees his friends. He ignores all... (258 words

I need help negotiating all the problems with my girlfriend and my friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - If you've read my other quetions, you should know exactly what's going on. I've found lately that my best friend has become a bit angry with me abiut my girlfriend, who he liked, but I didn't know. He doesn't say anything to me openly, but I think it's just because he's really ... (328 words

Is it just me, or is there something wrong with this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I don't know whats happened today but it has been awful. We were just meant to be buying decorations for the tree but somehow we ended up angry with each other again. When we got home he sat on the laptop while I was decorating the tree. The baby was crying in the backgroun... (400 words

I never meant to hurt her, she left but I want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - dear cupid. I will be as honest as possible . I met a girl online. We started chatting everyday. Soon afterwards, we exchanged numbers and we immediately began making voice calls. We decided to hook up for coffee . The first time I lay my eyes onto her real image, I develope... (640 words

How does one stop actively looking for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - How does one stop actively looking for a relationship? I tend be constantly doing so, and looking at many friendships with women as potential relationships. I wish this weren't the case, and I just want to allow more natural developments. It's a shame, as I seem to be l... (70 words

Boys are asking me to change! Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1348 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hello. here's my question. i have so many guy friends and since we are now teenagers we are now talking about teenage stuff. some of my guy friends ask me to change and be a little more girly becuase they think i am too tomboyish. should i change? i like being a tomboy b... (75 words

What is it like to make love for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - question i would like to ask all the women on here what it was like to make love for the first time as i don't know what it like... (29 words

Why did my ex say hello? Was that all he wanted to say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure what's going on with my ex. He sent me a message on the instant messenger on facebook saying hello, and i said hello back and asked how he was, and he said he was ok, and told me that he got this message that i sent him a while ago, but he hadnt had the internet ... (148 words

We're both so shy, how do I get him to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - so i am talking to this guy our moms hooked us up we live four hours away from each other we have been talking for a month now i have went up to see him twice the only thing is we dont talk much in person we are both really kinda shy. he is really sweet and means well he has ... (119 words

What do I do about this problem with my friend and her boyfriend and my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1407 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - I'm 13. My best friend is dating this guy. He tends to get a little "handsy" at times....She asked me if she should break up with him, and i said she should. But here's the problem, my boyfriend is friends with her boyfriend and often defends him....but when it's just me and ... (102 words

How do I fight being too shy for cybersex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I've had an online girlfriend for about three months, and we've been talking lots, and recently she made it clear she wants to move forward to cybersex. But we're both criminally shy, and when we tried I just kept talking about sandwiches, when I typed anything at all. I ... (108 words

Am I dating my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello everyone, i have a question that i hope you guys can clarify for me. I recently hooked up with a guy who's Grandma is my Grandmas sister. His dad is my dads cousin... what does that make us?? Cousins? i really like him and im scared of disapproval from my family.. but ... (64 words

Is there anyway I can get them to leave me alone? Without telling my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay, there's a quite long backstory to this, but I'll try and surmise it for you. I had a six-month long relationship with this boy, which ended very messily with a lot of bad things said. I won't go into a lot of details, in short he got me drunk and got me to do stuff I di... (333 words

Girlfriend chose concert over me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Alright so there was this concert last night. Now my girlfriend had been looking forward to this concert for a while. It wasn't really a huge show....just a couple low key rappers. One of her friends bailed on her and I told her that I would go to the concert with her about a ... (235 words

I don't love him and I don't know how to tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - hey, im 13, i woke up this morning and discorved that i had a text from my best friend, who i havent talked to in a month, because i thought i made him mad when he said i love you and i said love is just an illison, so i awake this morning to a love note text type thing. i love ... (310 words

I asked her out because her friend told me she liked me, but she said no!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hello, So I am 14 and am really starting to like this one girl. She is a year younger and is very pretty. The one bad thing is that we have only hung out like 3-4 times. Her friend said that she liked me and wanted me to ask her out. We were hanging out one night and i ... (148 words

How can I stop my boyfriend giving massages to his girl friends? He should only do that to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Well I need some advice. Currently I've been getting very jealous over things my boyfriend does with his friends that are girls. They aren't new things he's never done before, and I never used to get jealous. At first it bugged me but I got over it, but now I just feel ... (182 words

Is it normal for friends to touch each other so much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Recently I've been making many new friends, both male and female. I have never had any male friends before, my contact with guys was limited to small talk with the boys in my class (needless to say I've never had a boyfriend). Lately, I've become close friends with a g... (174 words

My father is furious over my new bf, I am 16, how do I cool him down??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Um... I need help quickly. I got my first boyfriend about a week ago. He's really sweet, caring, etc. (not going into detail, just know he is a nice guy.) And I told my mom, who was excited, and knew i liked the guy before he asked me out. Now my problem is my father. i guess ... (115 words

Married, but I had a co-worker's baby, now what??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1405 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been together w my husband for 81/2 years. I got pressured into having sex with a co-worker. I was too afraid to tell him no. (why , because he got mad at me if I didn't). Stupid stupid I know. I have always had zero feelings for this guy. in-result ,this ... (159 words

My bf is abusive, what can I do to stop this??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Im only 16 my boyfriend treats me really bad he pushes me screams and does all kinds of things. I try to breakup with him but then im afraid because when i do then he gets more mad and hits me. He then feels sorry and wants me to not to be mad. I tell him that i need to let all ... (124 words

Is there any help that I can offer??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My closest friend has a lot of baggage but has been married to his second wife for 14 years from that and has 3 children with her and 2 from a previous my friend has stepped out on the his second wife twice to be exact now it gets sticky here the second wife has a 14 yr old ... (125 words

Should I be concerned with her thinking of other men during sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - In order to spice up our sex lives, my partner and I have been imagining others occasionally. It turns her on to hear me imagine she's another girl. Likewise, she is turned on by imagining other guys. Whilst it has worked a couple of times for me to imagine other girls, I'v... (280 words

Would my height be a problem "if" this happened??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - This question is purely based on IF I break up with "Dana". We are very happy and I have no intentions of ending our relationship. In the event that we do, there is this girl, "Marie". She's very obviously into me, and I wouldn't mind dating her (if i werent so happy with ... (251 words

Why no contact from him on the weekends??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1408 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy who owns his own business and is always crazy busy, he is a client of mine that we hit it off from the begining. We have a connection to each other that is so overwhelming to me it makes me weak everytime i think about him. I can tell he feels the ... (456 words

What is he really looking for??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating this guy for a month now. We've been out 7 times and there's great chemistry, we have a million things and interests in common, and we are very comfortable around each other, which is great. I've already met his girl and guy best friends and they are super ... (210 words

Was I wrong for not calling my ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hey my ex has treated me really bad for hurting him 2 years ago after I have told him I was sorry over and over. He has went off on me many times to make me feel guilty, Borrowed from me and won't pay back, and ask to get back to together just to break up again in 2 weeks. Now, ... (232 words

My boyfriend lives somewhere else, he says he loves me, does he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - I really need help !! My boyfriend lives somewhere else he always calls and sends me messages they are all sweet when we talk on the phone we can talk for hours without getting board I see him around six times a year we Skype a lot. He told me that he loved me yesterday on ... (125 words

Caught him looking at porn while I was pregnant and after giving birth!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1402 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, when I first found out I was pregnant I was the happiest i ever felt. I had the most wonderful fiance and then a baby on the way. things couldn't be more perfect. I was writing love quotes all over an sending him cute text messages, I was in perfect happiness. Til one day I ... (328 words

I was scared to go out with him, and now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Well i have a problem with this guy... well it started in eighth grade.(now in tenth) I had told him that i liked him, and he had said that he liked me back but when he asked me out i said no because i was scared and he would be my first boyfriend, Then he left to go to new ... (221 words

I have no feelings for my boyfriend, and he's perfectly happy with that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't think I have feelings for my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 3 months and we were pretty good friends before that. He has an amazing personality and he's fun, but I'm just not physically attracted to him. I'm not nervous or excited when we're together. My heart ... (270 words

How do I get out of this horrible situation with my husband's depression?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1405 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - How to get rid of depressed husband? I got married 2 and half years back. After one month in a conversation i told my husband about my all Exs. I felt he will not mind and was bold enough. Then he started asking in detail and at that time i was not in the situation to hid... (316 words

We're both virgins and tried unsuccessfully to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - hello there me and my girlfriend just tried to have sex for the first time (for both of us) and after a little foreplay we got down t busness and i put the protection on and then the problem, it wouldnt go in, we are both very nearly seventeen and seems as we are both virgins i ... (101 words

He broke up with me yet still texts me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - I was dating a man for 4 months, and things were going great but then he told me all of a sudden in a text message to ‘set myself free’ cause he couldn’t handle a relationship with all the things going on in his life right now. Right after he said that, he called a few times, ... (152 words

I'm growing up and reinventing myself! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I have always been shy, somewhat depressed, reserved etc this new year is going to be a turning point for me. I am going to become more confident and figure out who I am and what I want in life. I'm going to get out there and meat new people etc. Starting as I mean t... (198 words

What am I involved in with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Been involved for past 6-8 years with male partner with sex as the only reason for us meeting or communicating. He is more than willing to meet with me anytime at my request. This male is NOT married (confirmed)or in any other type of commited relationship (prefers being ... (80 words

What do I make of this online-turned-real life boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hey, this is my second time asking for help with guy problems haha, I guess I just don't have any luck. Well I met this guy online and totally clicked with him. He lives not that far from me, a couple of train rides away. Early on in the chatting he made it clear that he re... (349 words

I want him to choose her or me and our baby.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok i leaving on sunday for good but im pregant the dad was with me for 6 years and when i told him he did a runner he is now with someone new and my baby due in march. he told me when i did get him he felt trapped and he wants not part of either of our lives hes been dating his ... (164 words

I'm not 100% sure who the dad is.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - i found out i was pregnant in june 2009 i had a 1 night stand with sum1 in april 2009 (somwere in the middle of the month) then i had sex with my fella at the the end of april i had my period about may the 5th 2009 then had sex with my fella again in may then i found out i was ... (109 words

I'm 13 years old and pregnant. How do I tell my mum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1348 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - last night i was talking to my boyfriend, and we were discussing about what will happen when i tell my parents im pregnant. im really scared because my mother and i are still not talking, its constant fighting and yelling, now even in front of my grandparents. and well my dad ... (81 words

How can I get this good looking boy to notice me with all of these other good looking girls around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - well i am 16 and i am in my first year of college,i wouldnt say that i am beautifull or any of that becasue i dont have much confidence in my apperiance but i do in my personlaity even though a lot of peaple say i am stunning and i turn heads but i never listen to any of ... (202 words

Why won't someone who dumped me remove me from her MSN or other contact lists?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone; I was the dumpee of the 5 years relationship which 2 and half years living together with the dumper. The reasons she broke up with me 4 times prior to this break up all with similar reasons, i dont know what i want, you deserve someone better then me, i love ... (310 words

Boyfriend was robbed and says that if I love him I should go cash in my bonds and give it to him

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend was robbed for several hundred dollars, right before Christmas. He has a 6 yr old we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs. The past year has been rocky because he cheated on me and I'm stiiill trying to regain all the trust. He says because he was robbed, I should go ... (193 words

I might have lost out to another since I didn't ask her out when I had the chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Should I tell a girl that all my problem is because of my love to her. I fancied a girl who everyone believe she used to fancied me but I did not take it at that time due to I was not ready to go on to a new relationship since my last one ended up in a disaster. I ... (363 words

I swore I'd never marry again but now I want to! How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is a bit long, so thank you in advance for reading. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year, living together for 6 months. We are both in our early 30s and have known one another for 15 years. I am his first "serious" relationship, and I am divorced after a ... (336 words

I'm living with my boyfriend's ex and she hates him, how do I tell her I'm seeing him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1399 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a complicated situation I need help with. A few months ago my mom kicked me out and I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years for a month before we broke up. When we broke up I moved in with a friend who was my boyfriends ex-girlfriend(they broke up 3 years before before ... (244 words

I think she's interested in someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - I believe my girlfriend maybe seeing/interested in someone else… Basically, she added this guy called on facebook bout 2 weeks ago and put on her status tht she is checking out some fit boy on facebook wit her mates and the guy tht was the guy who they were checking out whi... (739 words

I can't seem to understand him... at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay so me and this guy has been talking for 8 months now and I can't seem to understand him... at all! He says he likes me and cares about me but never shows it besides when he comes to see me. And even when he does come to see me, we barely even talk! Its like we just sit ... (298 words

Is he done with this relationship but just not man enough to end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating a man for 7 months. We are both in our mid thirties. Our interests and our faults complimented one another, and we got along great. The sexual chemistry is fantastic. We live an hour away from one another, and it was beneficial in that we only saw each other ... (437 words

Girlfriend still living with me but seeing other men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ive been in a realationship with a her for 5 1/2 years. Lived with her for almost 2 1/2 years have two children one 18 months and one 8 month old. My girlfriend started seen another man well men in the last month. and still is living with me and the kids she sets up all nite ... (126 words

I don't love him like he loves me. but I like someone else they way they like me. can some1 help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1405 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - Hey, im 13 years onld and i have been in a relationship with a 15 year old for about 3 or 4 months now.... we had a relation ship once befor this and it dident work for many reasons. anyways. he says he loves me with all his heart, and he says when we get older he wants to... (288 words

My friend texted my ex from my phone and she thinks I did it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi i'm 15 and i was recently dating a girl but it wasn't working so i ended it. About three weeks later i started dating another girl whom i'm still currently dating, but one day my friend asked me if he could have a look on my phone i said ok thinking nothing of it but he ... (139 words

We have sex but he won't kiss me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy on and off for about 8 mos. now, we are sexually active, but he never kisses me. He knows it is an issue, I have tried to talk to him about a couple of times. It is depressing. He is a really great guy besides that. I sometimes like looking elsewhere ... (108 words

How can I date him and keep my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am in love with my friend 'Adam'. He's not my best friend or anything, but we sit by eachother in a few courses I met him in. He is SUCH a sweetheart to me, is really funny, kind, and cute. I'm pretty sure he's going to ask me out because whenever he's around me his friends ... (235 words

Crushing on teacher but concerned about his family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - I have a crush on my teacher I dont want to ruin his life with his wife and daughters. everytime i see him i want to tell him my feelings. how do i get ride of these feelings for him? do i move classes? please help and give sugjestions.... (49 words

I'm worried about going abroad because I can be weird around other people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi everybody, I'm Antonio and I'm a 23 year old spanish boy. I have to write this because I'm about to explode. I fell I'm getting older and I'm still a virgin. I've even never been kissed. It's not like I'm a monster, I don't feel like the ugliest boy in the world, but I don... (136 words

How you get a man is how you lose them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I want to know if this is true. I heard someone say "how you get a man is how you loose them" i got with a man that was married and he finally left his wife for me. So does that mean he is going to leave me for anothre?... (50 words

Boyfriend's mom coming back into the picture and I am deeply upset about the situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Known my boyfriend for 7 years but been with him for nearly 3 years. He's been through alot with his family and when he was 15 he left his home from his mum because she was violent and always drinking. He didn't have anywhere to go so after he had stopped with his dad for abit ... (360 words

Should I care or just follow my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - i am 13 and a girl and i really like this guy. he's not that cute, but he is really nice and sweet. our faiths are different, but i don't think that matters, at least right now. it's not like we're gonna get married, haha. but the thing is, my best friend's close friend likes ... (145 words

Off-Key Romance: A Sign of Incompatibility?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Please help! My boyfriend has a terrible sense of what he deems as "music". He insists on singing extremely hoakey songs to me in a weird, baritone voice. When I ask him to stop he ignores me because he believes I will like it if I listen a little more to it. He seriously ... (385 words

Should I lighten my skin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I dont like my skin colour. I'm not too dark but i'm not too bright either. How do I lighten my skin? And the real question is.....SHOULD I? Is it a bad thing if I want to?... (37 words

Falling in love with my out of country cousin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi! Im confused and need your advice please. I think im falling inlove with my first cousin. The first time i met him was 5 years ago when they spend their vacation here in PI coz he was born in US and he grew up there.It's weird coz the first time i met him, it feels like i ... (284 words

Girlfriend broke up with me saying I exhausted her emotionally

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - my girlfriend of a year broke up with me a week and a half ago, she said I exhausted her emotionally. She said she didn't want to break up with me but I left her no choice. the break up took 4 hours, after the first hour we had broken up the last 3 were spent crying, cuddling, ... (699 words

My co-worker butted her nose in my friendship with a married man, and now I feel very uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F - Hi, I have been getting to know a man I met through my work (I look after his son). As far as I am concerned, we are just friends. He has been giving me a lift home from work when he comes to pick his boy up because he has to go past my house to pick his other child up f... (589 words

No explanation why but sex hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I was with my previous boyfriend for 3 years, at the begining of the relationship we had sex 4 times a week minimum. through to the end of our relation ship, we had sex less and less as you can imagen. but near to the end, it hurt, it wasnt that i wasnt 'wet' enough as i was. ... (180 words

I want to be a nice memory for him, not mess him up!

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12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am single and 40. I transferred to this new job location a year ago. I made many nice new friends. Including B, a 29 year old guy. In the beginning I found him odd, awkward, loud, but brilliant and I assumed he had a form of autism, aspergers, I just assumed I never asked. ... (429 words

He asked me out, I said no, I've been regretting it ever since!

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay so here it is. I used to sit next to this guy in class and we got along really well. Long story short we both liked eachother and he asked me out. But i said no because i was scared. He still doesn't know that i actually liked him. That was 2 years ago, he started hangi... (130 words

I'm really tired of waiting to be dating!

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12 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - There's a weird pattern that's been happening over the last couple years involving my lovelife... First of, it's practically been non-existant. However, I'm called the smartest of all my friends understand emotions, how relationships work, always have the right thing to s... (243 words

Ex alone for Christmas? Or let him spend with my family?

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I split up with my boyfriend of 2years, 7months ago, because we were in a long distance relationship between the US and UK and he cheated on me. We still speak now and again via email and Facebook but that's about it. Last night we were talking because I've left some stuff over ... (238 words

Partner not treating me right while I am pregnant

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12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am so confused my partner just goes out and say's he is going to do something that really should take a fraction of the time it takes him. I am 6 months pregnant we haven't made love in an age he make no attempt to do so. I have asked to stop drinking everyday and he hasn't ... (121 words

HELP I am a complete social reject.

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - all of my friends have started talking to guys and although im not the preety kind, i find that people are always loking for girls like that. I really want to start talking to guys because otherwise ill have no friends. dont get me wrong! i have lots of loving friends who ... (240 words

My married lover has wronged me so many times, was I wrong in my behavior towards him?

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12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, My ex and I had broken up because he couldn't accept the fact that I decided to date someone else after he never divorced his wife , who he says had cheated on him. I only dated the other guy about six months, but after giving him over four years to get himself out of his ... (748 words

First time sex and the skin on my penis ripped?

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hey i am 15 years old and me and my girlfriend had un protected sex, (shes on the pill so i didnt really think it mattered) it was my first time having sex and the skin on my penis kinda ripped? :\ is this normal or not ):! It was bleeding and hurts a lot.. Thanks..... (59 words

I already have a child, I don't need my boyfriend to be another one!

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12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Let me start off by saying that I am a single mom taking care of a 2 year old. I'm going through divorce and trying my best to look good so I don't lose my child. My soon to be ex will have a lawyer but since I can't afford one, I won't. This is where my boyfriend comes in. ... (333 words

My best friend hates me?

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - I have this best friend JP (not a real name of course) andvI'm afraid. I've always been more popular, got the most girls and had the most influential friends. JP is just coming into the world of popularity as a freshman. i feel that he's been resenting me lately. i suppose it ... (110 words

My husband and best friend had sex and blame it on the drink!

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - SO, in need of some advice- my husband, who've I've been for 6 years and have a son with, has slept with my best friend. After a long night of partying she stayed over at our house. My husband, who was totally drunk, decided to go into her bedroom after I denied his sexual ... (290 words

After amazing sex I felt depressed!

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ive had anxiety and depression for about 5 years now,i have been seeking help with my mental issues aswell but besides that im not really sure if this has anything to do with my question. The other night my boyfriend and i had this really amazing sex. It was perfect and real... (132 words

The unthinkable happened, he just wants to be friends

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Last night my boyfriend Angel told me he just wants to be friends. It happened all of a sudden and I didn't see it coming. The reason for it is somewhat vague and I haven't fully grasped why yet because Angel was having a hard time expressing himself to me and our friend, who ... (293 words

Can people who are good at making money and excel at academics get a normal girlfriend who loves them?

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Can people excel at academics get a nice and normal girl friend who loves them. I am one of the people who excel at academics in a pretty good state school in england (I am not trying to show off). I will be in sixth form next year and I have received an academic scholar... (521 words

Should we just spend Christmas with our repsective parents?

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12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - My partner and I are both in our 40s and don't have children. My partner's mother was widowed 3 years ago and my mother died 8 months ago. This will be my father's first Christmas without her. I have 4 siblings of which only one is around to be with Dad. I'd like to join them ... (105 words

My friend usually criticises what she did last night

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I went to a party at a friends house last night and there was alcohol, i'm not much of a drinker, so i hung around with my other friends who just wanted to dance and have fun. The problem is, my close who i used to have respect for got 'drunk' on 2 alcopops and started flau... (98 words

Boy friend has no control over anger...any suggestions to cool him off?

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - how do i deal with a breakup? i mean i still didnt have one..but my boy friend sometimes acts real crazy that im afraid someday its going to happen..but the thing is...he says he loves me like he loves hia own family and he makes me feel like a princess but when sometimes ... (114 words

My sweet six year old becomes a demon when my boyfriend comes around

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12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Is it true that little girls will become more whiney and unruly to get attention, when their mother has a new boyfriend? i was in a new relationship and my sweet 6 year old became a demon when ever he was around What do I do?? I dont want to spank her, but I want her to know ... (64 words

I am starting to look at other men

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12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - My bf's hollier than thou attitude makes me vomit! He's never wrong even when he is wrong. He blames me for everything. And he never apologizes. Like for example this morning I was taking a shower while he was in the kitch. All of a sudden he was ranting and slamming stuff. I ... (123 words

Why does it have to hurt so bad?

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I decided to separate yesterday morning. Well, more or less "take a break". I always knew that if a man needs a "break" its because he has other interests. I decided to go to the local bar to have a drink alone to calm my frazzled nerves...and he just so happe... (175 words

Why did this girl come to me and not my Casanova friend?

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hi, recently i met a girl, but man was it easy! This has never hapend to me ever! She came to me and started flirting with me, it was as if she was instantly attracted to me when i walked in the room, she approached me! The thing is im good looking but i have bad vampire teeth, ... (150 words

How is this possible?

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12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - my friend is hiv positive and pregnant but her husband is hiv negative how is it possible?... (17 words

Am I crazy or is my family really screwed up?

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12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Are my morals wrong in thinking that sisters shouldnt sleep with each others exs?? I'm the middle child of 3 sisters.I found out recently that my little sister slept with my ex fiance' and my older sister is currently sleeping with a guy i was dating a few months ago.My older ... (100 words

Why do men cheat with women who are not as attractive / accomplished / affectionate as their partners?

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12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Why do (guy) cheaters cheat with women who are usually not as attractive, as accomplished or usually not as affectionate? ... (20 words

My FWB cancelled out with a lame excuse

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have this friend with benefits we decided we didnt want a relationship but tonight i called and asked what i was doing i invited him over. he said make sure im awake and dont fall asleep on him, which i always do. two hours later he text me and says "bABE IM JUST GONNA GO TO ... (132 words

My girlfriend ends up kissing her best friend whenever we're on a break!

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12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - please i need your opinions , every single one possible , i just do not get what my girlfriend means when she tells me she always had feelings for her best male friend ?.. i know that they kissed and done stuff together but i dont know what to think anymore, she tells me im th... (197 words

Has he become the guy I dread?

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12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - So there's this boy I really like, let's say A. A and I have known each other for about two years, talking/hanging out a lot since about September, and I fell for him at the beginning of October. A is super sweet, hilarious, kind, and one of the biggest reasons I like hi... (571 words

My neighbor asked me if I would engage in a FWBs with him?

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - My neighbour recently approched me online about the idea of friends with benefits. We had been casually talking for a couple weeks. At first I was totally offended he thought that way about me but lately I've really been warming up to the idea. He's the same age as I am but we ... (202 words

My boyfriend's best friend aka his ex, has convinced him to dump me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We've been through so much together, our relationship has been nothing but a crazy roller coaster ride! It all began 4 years ago, at the very beginning of our relationship. At the time I was just 16 years old and my ... (441 words

My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!

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12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. I tried to go back and see ... (590 words

He admitted he was hung up on his ex, so I went for his brother instead!

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - SO not too long ago I met a guy that I really liked. Well we hit it off well and things seem to be doing great! then a couple days ago he said that he is still in love with his ex. I told him that it was okay and we can still be friends. Then I started talking to his brother ... (211 words

I never get hit on!

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am a 19 year old woman. I'm five foot four 115 pounds in very good shape. Have green eyes long blonde hair and I'm a model and a nurse. I'm friendly and I smile but men still NEVER approach me. I don't feel like I'm unattractive and I make eye contact and I smile. So why ... (105 words

He still loves me but he doesn't want to continue with us!

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am in a relationship from last 2 years. We are so in love with each other. My beloved moved to abroad for his studies 3 months back. He's not happy over there. Presently what is going on is- he broke up with me and the reason he gave-''you are not happy. I don't know for how ... (214 words

Why does he cheat, there's nothing binding him to me?

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12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 yrs. I have caught him cheating on me a couple of times. But he insist that he want me and dont want to loose me. So why would a man cheat on you if he is really in love with you and dont want to loose you. He dont have ... (111 words

Will he say yes if I ask him out?

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12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - Ok well ive been getting mixed singals from this guy i like. Hes so sweet and considerate and caring. He makes me love him. i havent met him n person cuz i met him on Facebook thru my friend/his ex girlfriend. But hes sent me videos of him on Youtube, we text, we talk on the ... (136 words

Does age compromise a marriage?

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12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - do you feel that age compromises a marriage when you have two older kids that you rately see but you do talk to from time to time if your wife is 33 and your daughter is 25 and your son is 21 and now there is a grandchild in the picture in which your wife refuse to acknowlege ... (71 words

Should I see him again, even though he's hung up on his ex?

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I met a guy last night, went back to his place, and then he said he didn't want to have sex because he had only recently broken up with his ex-girlfriend and wasn't ready. I said that was fine, and we had a really nice time together afterwards. I would like to see him again... (85 words

Do you sometimes have to play games in relationships?

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12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Do you sometimes have to play games in relationships? I met a guy a short while ago and he came on really, really strong...not sexually, but lovingly and wanting a relationship. He kept saying he was afraid to get involved with me because he worried I would leave him or hur... (479 words

Anyone, can you help my married friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok I have a friend and his wife is so skeptictal about every woman that speaks to him they have been together for 13 years she constantly calls she is 33 and he is 44 . She burned right through the deployment money, she traveled to her home town , when he wanted to see ... (174 words

My wife has a list of rules and guidelines for sex!

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12 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - My wife insists on having rules for sex, no oral unless we are freshly out of the shower. No cumming on her face or in her mouth. And no matter what, I have not convinced her even once to swallow. I love her dearly but, I think this kills the spark a little bit, I mean, sur... (110 words

My Spanish teacher thinks I'm anorexic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - MY SPANISH TEACHER IS SAYING are u eating im watching u and she is like did u eat everything today i say yes but im also on add med which doesnt make me hungry so anyway the other i was ill at school i said i didnt feel good and she u know why you dont feel good is u dont eat ... (110 words

Dark areolae?

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - my nipples are really dark, does this turn guys off? i know guys like it when a girls nipple color goes good with there skin color right? should i go tanning or something to help match them up on me better? im very light skinned, and im so shy about i sometimes. girls opinions ... (70 words

As a journalist, why do I keep dating/meeting men in the science field?

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm a proud college graduate with nearly two years of dating experience. I have a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism and the college men I've met, have been in the science/math fields. I don't have a problem it, but I keep attracting men in those fields. The first guy I ... (142 words

My cousin flirts with my boyfriend when she has a girlfriend!

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12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - Recently my cuzin sits there and flirts with my boyfriend even though i tell her to knock it off and she wont she has a girlfriend .. and i dont hve any class'es with her and him so i dont know what she does exactly ... Thursday this past week she wrote on him with a sharpie ... (137 words

This nasty co-worker is spreading rumors about me all because I didn't invite her to my wedding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm getting married to my soul-mate February 1st 2011 (started dating February 1st 2006; about nine months after we both graduated from college both with Master's degrees). And there's really just one thing in relation to our wedding that is annoying me right now. It has to... (278 words

She's convinced that I don't love or care about her!

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been fighting about small things but now, she thinks that i wanted to brake up and she thinks that i dont love or care about her at all. But the thing is i really do love and care about her and i want to be with her. What should I or we do ?... (59 words

Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt?

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi eyeryone! Okay so here is my question. My friend told me that she lost her virginity and i asked how did it go and she said it hurt really bad but in the end felt good. so i was wondering. Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt or is that just a stereotype peopl... (59 words

Why am I feeling a bit cheated? Did I make a mistake marrying a person with such a heavy past? ?

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12 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - I married a woman 10 years older than me who had been married for 20 years before me. We have a good loving marriage, but our sex life is very basic. She has a very heavy sexual history with lots of porn, sex toys etc that she claims was her ex husbands doing all the time. I ... (177 words

Should I wait or is it stupid to waste my time on someone that wont change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boy friend is in prison and I'm in love with this boy he says he loves me. He always says it even if I dont, the thing is I want 2 trust him but its like I cant, my heart wont let me.. guess Im too scared too get hurt.. The question is should I wait or is it stupid to waste ... (70 words

Is it because he feels something more or he thinks that I do???

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I have been fuck buddies with a guy for quite a while now, but lately things are getting weird but for whatever reason we havent seen each other for a couple of weeks. That's because when one of us plans to chill something always comes up. Now he's being so hot and cold with ... (117 words

This loneliness is killing me and makes me miserable.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I’ve been married for 8 years. In general term, it is an OK relationship. However for the past two years or so, I feel terribly lonely and insecure. I don’t have any solid proofs which show my husband is cheating on me nor could I afford a private investigator. My suspicions ... (131 words

Don't feel attracted after 2 dates with internet dating site girl...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, i am hoping for advice as i met a girl on a dating site and we exchanged flirty texts before going on 2 dates. The first went well but she looked different as she was larger than her profile pictures showed, i decided to ignore that and took her for her nice personality and ... (230 words

Someone please explain why it bothers a guy for a girl to own various sex toys...

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - im hoping this question attracts a lot of answers from guys. if a guy masturbates all day long or however much they do, then why are they so intimidated by dildo's and vibrator's? guy watch porn to help themselves out and they masturbate very often, but then dont understand it ... (165 words

Please help me and tell me how to enjoy my sexuality more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have always wanted to have a one night stand and i was offered the chance and i refused it. i can't believe it, i am so regretful for saying no. I have been years without sex and mad at myself for my boring sex life and I only got myself to blame. What is wrong with me? ... (72 words

Why do some guys refuse to have sex with a girl on their period?

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Why do some guys refuse to have sex with a girl on their period. please be blunt!!! my boyfriend hates the thought of having sex with me that time of the month. my periods dont smell funny, im a really light bleeder, and i keep everything super clean down there. its also ... (68 words

I love her so much and the thought of anybody else having had her troubles me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I'm not normally troubled by many things, but I'm finding it hard to actually be happy in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. I guess I have a problem with switching off and taking the relationship as it comes. We love and care for each other immensely, and wh... (534 words

Lesbian love for my sixth grade math teacher! HELP!

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12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - Hey there! Well, I need help. I am in love with my sixth grade math teacher. Now, I know I know you're going to say, "Oh it's just a crush it's just a crush", but I know it's not. This is serious, very serious to the point where I'm obsessed with her and stalking her. I lover ... (373 words

I'm stuck in limbo!!!

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I have a real problem and I desperately need it fixed. It includes, relationships, dating, love and sex all in the one. About three years ago I met my first proper boyfriend. I had been innocent until him, I lost my virginity too, we ended up having sex pretty much ... (623 words

Should I tell my ex everything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Here's my angry little story. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over three months now, and I was deeply in love with her. We were in a long distance relationship and saw each other about once or twice every two months. And we were dating for about a year. We haven't ... (563 words

Does anyone else do this foolishness to themselves or have been in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - This isn't really a question since I know that no one is a mind reader and I know that the situation I'm in can be resolved by me completely ending it. But, I just want to know if anyone out there has someone on their mind that just won't leave! I've been seeing this guy ... (494 words

Should I continue to do my thing and be myself... or make a change?

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - I hate how my friend who is dating the girl I care about probably more than he does just acts like she is just another girl. I hate how he talks about how he is trying to get my other friend to hook up with this girls friend. And finally I hate that they both know I like her ... (504 words

I tell you, I feel scared and trapped. I'm not sure if I really want to stay with this man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am currently in a relationship of three years, only the last 6 months of which we have been living together, we have had a long distance relationship for almost 18 months. I love the guy and up until recently I have wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, but over the ... (1195 words

I was infatuated, but I wanna get over it! S.O.S.

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I am a sophomore now and this happened a couple years ago. So there was this one teacher, he was a band teacher. He was super super cute! He was a teacher at the jr. High. Everyday after lunch he would always try to walk with me and we would talk. When I was in 8th grade I had ... (199 words

I was thinking about saying something kinda funny that might get a little reaction rather than just a simple happy birthday.

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - well its been about a month since the last time I have contacted this girl... we were friends according to her but I always felt we weren't idk why but she wasn't like my other friends who are girls. I use to talk to her 4 or 5 times a week and would support her in her sports ... (250 words

Help!!! Is he ashamed of me?

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12 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - im 14 and me and this guy have known each other since we started high school and we stared goin out recently and we were out today with all our m8s and theres this 1 boy and he saw us kissin and he called me a s**g and my bf walked away from me an didnt talk to me for the rest ... (77 words

Will our marriage survive or should I leave?

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12 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband is 44 and I 33 he has 2 kids from a previous marriage 20 and 25 of age. I have 3 children with him 14,13 and 7. I lost the first one, my husband was unfaithful and that produced 2 more kids in which one the results are not back yet we have been married for 13 years. ... (100 words

She wants me when she's drunk!

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12 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - I'm so confused. I had been with this girl for 8 months, she ended it and its been 4 months since. We're beginning to get along well again. Tonight at a party she got pretty drunk, I wasn't too drunk. She was saying how I was right over the break up and that she'd read my blogs ... (133 words

Suspicious about his ex-girlfriend. Please help and give me feedback!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. we recently just moved in together. but i have a problem with the relationship he has with his ex girlfriend. the only reason i know he still contacts her is because i have looked threw his telephone. i know this is ... (576 words

Is there really such a thing as trust?

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Is there such a thing as trust? I had some things happen growing up that made me cautious of everyone in life. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm a suspicious person now, but all the same, I never really fully 'trust' someone. And now, i'm wondering if there really is suc... (274 words

Did I do the right thing?

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12 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Brief History: I.. 1) Recently graduated from college with a Bachelor's degree 2) Have my own car 3) Have a decent paying job 4)No kid. My boyfriend 1) Does not have a degree, but DOES have a High school diploma 2) Does NOT have a car 3) Has an OK paying job 4) Has a 5 yr old ... (301 words

He keeps asking all my other friends out, but he won't ask me out!

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12 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - Wow i have alot of problems. Well this one is about this guy Jared. Ive been getting mixed signals and i just wana scream ASK ME OUT ALREADY!! But im afraid. I was texting him today and he made my day:D He asked me what i wanted for my b-day. At first i didnt get it but i ... (236 words

Anyone have any advice on how to kickstart a relationship after having a baby?

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12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly three years and we have a four month old daughter together. Ever since our baby was born my girlfriend has stopped showing me any form of affection (including sex). When I try to talk to her about it she just rolls her e... (140 words

Should I just be friends or should I persist and give it more time to see if this turns out to something serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1407 days ago

12 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - About 3 weeks ago I met this girl in the school that I'm attending. Were both in the same program and taking the same classes. She has a baby that is 1 year old. We really hit it off from the beginning and the chemistry was great. The second week after I met her we had sex and ... (235 words

I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they have the real thing right in front of them.

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12 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend looks at porn all the time when he is not with me. I know because he has google chrome and it shows the most visited web pages when you go to open a new tab. It's sickening. I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they have the real thing right in ... (132 words

Troubled...

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12 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly six months and i am so happy, and i love him to bits! I went out with my friends a couple nights ago and i know this sounds incredibly lame and like i'm making excuses but i had a lot to drink and ended up going to another man's flat.. I ... (330 words

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