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How can I approach him without making a fool of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - So i like this guy, he's a lot like me, shy backward and is very quiet. I asked him out a couple weeks ago online and he never said no. I see him looking at me all the time, along with his friends. No, I haven't approached him in school, and the reason is him looking at me. I'm ... (105 words

HIs attitude has changed overnight and I don't know what I did!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I have been dating a man for a few months and everything was going really well. He complimented me and wanted to speak and spend time with me. We spent xmas together and I stayed at his (invited of course)Then all of a sudden on the Monday he became very distant and aloo... (130 words

Should I try to get her into therapy because of her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1388 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - There is this girl I know and were not exactly boyfriend girlfriend but we sure have a connection and i love this person very much. Well I read her diary and it said at the ages of 9-10 she was molested every day and practically raped and it happened from two guys around the ... (253 words

I'm afraid if we hook up I'll disappoint him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1301 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - OK So I will keep this short. There is this guy I like. Lets call him "Kevin" Anyways Kevin has been with a lot of girls. He was always the hook up type. Now he has decided to start looking for a relationship. I know he is serious because he has stopped having sex for several ... (230 words

He won't date me because we're 5 years apart in age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey so i need some help here as i don't know what to do, I'm 16 and he is 21 next week we met on a work night out and instantly clicked, we were chatting and flirting and ending up snogging each other its legal I'm from uk, after a week of phone calls and texting i fell hard ... (181 words

My sister found out about my relationship and could ruin everything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi M 19.. I'm in a very serious and sweet relationship with an amazing guy.. Here the prob is I dont know how but my sis got to know about my relationship.. Guess she read my messages or cards.. This the worst that could ever happen to me or to my relationship. I ... (127 words

I'm ready for this relationship but he can be unreliable. How can I fix this relationship so he's ready too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I recently got back with my exboyfriend, he asked me out again. I feel as if he's not ready for a relationship yet. I really love him. Im ready for him, but i don't feel he's ready for me. I don't know how to make him know how i feel. I've been waiting for so long to get back ... (190 words

Should I be the one to 'cave in'? We haven't spoken for four days

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - This is kind of a followup from my last question. I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in 4 whole days now and I don't know if I should be the one to cave or not? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-asking-too-much-im-not-asking.html He's emotionally a handful, I don't f... (137 words

He feels like a 'keeper' but I'm finding it really hard to trust his sweet talking words

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, almost 10. I love him, I think I'm in love with him. But I don't know, how can I be sure? How can I be sure he's in love with me? He tell me he's madly in love with me, and I'm the only girl he EVER thought was beautiful, could that ... (421 words

Promise ring goes on what hand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1392 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - when you get a promise ring what hand do you generally wear it on?... (14 words

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as me. As I had some religiuos r... (870 words

People are spreading rumors about my fiance cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1391 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Other people are spreading rumors and accusing my fiance of cheating,They have also told him negative things about me. He said that he isn't cheating and it is causing a great deal of stress within the relationship. What do I do?... (41 words

Found out boyfriend is on dating sites, what now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Been going out with my fella for 6 months thought things were going well, he is supposed to be coming to see me tomm night, my friend has just seen him sign up today for a dating site saying same old me back for another crack at it. if he turns up tomm what the hell do i do ... (63 words

Is he just sweet talking me or is he in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend tells me I'm the only girl he ever thought was beautiful, all the time, he tells me he thinks NO other girl is even close to cute and I'm the only girl he ever found beautiful. Is this true? Or is he just sweet talking me? Or could this really be true because he ... (60 words

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1386 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a relationship after his ... (319 words

My mother's manipulating ways are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1386 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - my mum has always been controlling and manipulative and we used to argue when I was growing up. im from a strict asian family and didnt have freedom like my friends through school and had to lie about going out, boyfriends etc. now im at uni i only come home for holidays and... (462 words

I need to know how to french kiss by February

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I Need Help , Im 14 And Im Supposed To Be Tounge Kissing This Boy The 2 Days Before Valentines Day And I NEVER Tounge Kissed A Boy And Im Scared I Will Mess Up So i Need To Know How To Do This I Mean Like Step By Step Anddd Were Going To The Movies Too.! Help I Have No Idea How ... (71 words

I love her, can't stop thinking about her, but she hates me. I need advice please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - I'm 14 going on 15 and there's this girl i really like, only thing is she hates me, and i don't know what to do next. I think it's because first of all i got my mates to ask her out, and second when she said to them that she wouldn't go with me, i started sending her mess... (139 words

Why is she with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Gonna try keep this short.Im 27, met my current gf whos 25, 4 years ago through her sister,who is also my work colleague,she gave me her phone number so we could chat on an IM chat service.We chatted for a month,i got to know she liked clubbing,took a drink,didnt smoke ... (368 words

I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to lose my boyfriend telling him ... (74 words

My girlfriend has had over 30 plus sexual partners before me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1385 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am 22 years old and been with the girl for almost 4 months. I love her and she loves me and wants to have my children and has talked about marriage before. Here's the tricky part. I have no history of my own. She was my first while she's been with 30+ guys. How should I feel ... (126 words

"I still have feelings for you, give me another chance"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1373 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I had been dating this guy for almost three months and I was thinking about what to get him for our anniversary. Well a few days before our anniversary he told me on the computer that he wanted to take a break and start the new year of college single and if he couldn't find ... (277 words

Have you advice for a 17year old who's never had a boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm 17, female and living in the UK. I know is sounds really lame, but I have never had a boyfriend and I've never kissed a boy either, (apart from playing kiss chase when I was about 8, which obviously doesn't count). Is there something wrong with me? Without sounding too ... (302 words

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town that's about two hours away ... (216 words

We seem to have grown apart, is there a way back or should I go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Good evening to all and happy new year! Ive been asking myself why am i visiting this site? How did i came upon it, what led me to being here and the answer hit me - i know who i am, i know what ive achieved in life regarding work and studies and so on, but ive realised tha... (433 words

Husband is great but he looks at teen porn

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - So i am 40 weeks pregnant and just got married 2 months ago. My husband is great to me and we planned on having this baby. Problem is, he looks at teen porn. I caught him on the computer before so now he looks at it on his phone..The girls look to be around 14-18. I want to ... (213 words

None of the sexual aids help me get it up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 51-59 - my problem is that i cant seem to get a hard-on, i have tried a number of sexual aids i.e. all kinds of pills that say they can do this or that and yet none have worked for me. can someone please help me with my problem. i would love to make love to my wife.... (63 words

Both of these men are crazy about me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - im so confused and i have to make a choice soon. i have found myself in a bind dating two awesome men at the same time.the 1st guy is a recently divorced commander in the us army(i live in clarksville,tn-right next to ft campbell,ky). he treats me very well,helps me out ... (223 words

I'm running out of time to let him know how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - ok i'll try to be brief here. theres this guy i fancy who's 18 years old but i'm only 16. first off if we ever did end up going out would it be wrong? anyway he's going back to college on wednesday, which means that if i exclude the newyear and sunday i've only got monday ... (261 words

First time he hasn't been in touch! Is it because of his son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. He is separated and shares a son with his ex part-time. Unfortunatly over the holidays he did not get to see his son and was pretty upset (understandably). During this time he was texting me a few times a day and we were ... (234 words

How do I get the maximum sex out of my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1391 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am married last month to a businessman. he loves me but sleeps little with me.. though we are together in bed but less he will hug me to sleep together.. intercourse only on weekends because of his night business files on the bed. knows less sex postions, so how to tea... (74 words

Does the anus produce any natural lubricant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hi! So I'm a 16 year old guy, just starting to except the fact that he's gay. But I was curious, and so I'm gonna ask this: If a guys is being stimulated anally, does his anus produce any kind of lubrication or liquid like a vagina would? Idk, stupid question...but it just ... (71 words

I'm so scared! I don't want to be a lesbian, but I'm not sure if I am one or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - i think i might have HOCD (homosexual ocd). im so scared of being a lesbian. i would rather die. i just recently got over my hocd when i found a MALE crush. ive never had a crush on a girl. im not romantically attracted to them. however, ive known since i was 11 that im ... (237 words

Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republic. I was surprised when ... (513 words

I just wanted to feel appreciated after doing a favour for him. It that too much to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back since he said he got too attached to me and we got back together 10 days back. We work together. Yesterday he asked me do some of his work since he is going out with his friends. I too had a lot of work but still i worked... (186 words

I love him, but I get turned on by porn and not by him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm looking for help with my sex life in regards to a particular problem I've been having over the past few weeks. Me and my boyfriend have been in an amazing relationship for almost 2 years, and sexually active for just under a year and a half of that. Recently, I have not ... (222 words

Should I violate the no-contact rule and text back or just totally ignore her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago because I caught her in a lie that she totally denied. Her lie hurt me and I lost all trust in her although I still have feelings for her. I told her that I was through and that I have given her many chances to be a trustworthy ... (157 words

Troubled relationship has become perfect but should I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Am the one that told u b4 that had fight with my bf we were 2gether 4 2 years we fought and he scared me with msgs and said bad words but know am back with him i 4gave him and know hes totally different hes calm gentle and truly romantic cn he change totally in this short ... (83 words

I'm in my mid 40s, but my overbearing mother won't back off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - I'm trying to figure out how to deal with my mother. Quite a bit of the following is venting, so you may want to skip to the question at the end. I'm in my mid 40s, but she still tries to tell me what to do constantly. There are many things about her I despise, and ... (1199 words

5 year relationship, I don't think she's who I thought she was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have been in a 5 year LDR relationship with my girlfriend and am starting to have doubts about whether or not we should stay together. We met only get to see each other every few months, so it took me a while to get to know her. She is a great person,loyal, never jealous, ... (444 words

He's cheated twice and lies about doing drugs! Dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1379 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend has been making me feel terrible lately. I feel as if I can no longer trust him. He cheated on my twice and lies about doing drugs. Well he didn't lie more like tell me he would quit for me then text me the next day saying I can't tell him why to do...... Idk if he ... (102 words

Feeling sad, friend just got engaged yet I know I won't be for another 3 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - My friend just got engaged after being with her bf for 2 year. I have been with mine for 2 and I know it'll be at LEAST another 3 before my bf ever even considers it [due to training for his job]. I feel a bit saddened. I know I shouldnt compare myself and every relationship is ... (74 words

Guys:Do you honestly think he has led me on intentionally or unintentionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have known him for a year.I used to see him only as my friend...a few months ago,we were closer and we became good friends,but he started flirting with me,touching me a lot(played with my hair,touched my back,put my hair into his mouth and bit it and told me the smell of my ... (214 words

I don't know how this works...do couples tend to buy more expensive gifts for their partner through the years and discuss the price range??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1367 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I just received the Christmas gift box my bf who I'm in an open relationship with sent from the US, I'm in the UK and he moved from the UK to Asia for a job. I'm from a culture in which we don't celebrate Christmas so this is the first Christmas gift I've ever received. I want ... (253 words

Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1392 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some travelling and went to his home... (194 words

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1386 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking on the phone. I know he is ... (124 words

5 years together and planning to move to another state, but we're having problems. Should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 years, not engaged, ugh, but I do love him very much. We lived together once around the 3 year mark and broke up because he wanted to spend every waking moment with me. I mean, I love him, but I needed space. We we're broken up for 1 ... (236 words

Fight or flight - is it even worth it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1390 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for four months, passionate, loving, attentive and productive relationship. The problem, I was the "other women" - wait, let me explain. He isnt married to her, never has been, they have a baby together, a son (now 7 month old), she fell pregnant ... (544 words

The perfect boyfriend but I'm not sure if I like him or love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey guys,i think im confuse.im not sure anymore if this is "love" im feeling towards my 2years boyfriend,or just my hormones talking.well..lemme tell you about my situation.i came from not-so-happy-family.people say im very cheerful and opstimistic,but its very rare for me to ... (442 words

I thought I married a man, not a little boy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am at my wits end with my husband and do not know what to do anymore. We have had issues for a while, I will address them, for two weeks he is good and then goes back to his old ways. My husband is 13 years older than I am. I have been successful from a very young age, ... (945 words

I'm 20 and look 10!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (? age 22-25 - How do I make myself look older? I am 20 and I look like I am 10. I don't think I could find a guy looking like a kid. ... (29 words

Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship / a hook up (sex only), or just to be friends with a girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship,a hook up (sex only),to befriend with a girl? 1. If a girl is beautiful or sexy,but she has a poor personality or she's a b**ch,would you like to have a relationship with her?or just a hook up?or friends only? 2.If a ... (114 words

Webcam Incident - scared,afraid,paranoid. help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello people, i was faced with two seperate incidents that happen over a year ago, close to two. Basically, i webcam-ed in msn with strangers from a chatroom. And you guessed it, i "over-exposed" myself during the short webcam session. Worst of all, my face was showing during ... (527 words

Would you leave someone you love to protect him from being hurt even if he disagrees and says that the only thing that hurts him is being away from you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1392 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - i was with a girl for 2 years in a LDR and few months ago she said that she "can;t handle a gd relationship for now" and needed us to take a break and pause our relationship untill she works and fix her life problems, like an addiction to drugs and gramma;s death, add to this ... (366 words

yea crush- still cant find the confidence to talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1391 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - despite the last time i wrote to you, I had a problem with my promiscurity and men. Now problem two has re-entered my life. A boy I've liked for over a year now had just ignored me till recently when we started work and i really want to tell him...dont want to scare him off ... (104 words

Experiences with cheating boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1392 days ago

31 December 2010 (? age 22-25 - Okay, so I met my boyfriend at work, we were friends for a while then got together. I know a lot about his past, he's been engaged before and such... Anyway, his ex girlfriend was a bit of a stalker, she would constantly text but he'd never respond until Christmas day th... (188 words

I'm willing to wait 2 years for her! She's almost perfect!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1391 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm a college student and I met a girl in class in September. We started getting along really well and in 2 or 3 months we saw each other outside of school almost every day. It could be almost impossible to keep in better touch with someone than how we were keeping in touch. ... (524 words

Should I even be considering getting into a LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Aunties! It has been over a year since my last post on here. It has been a great year of finding myself. Been single for well over a year have dated a couple of guys but nothing serious. As the old year comes to its closure and the new year is upon us, its in with the "new... (333 words

Bf kept all pic he had taken with his ex - is it normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1393 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - We've been together for a year and a half. Recently I descovered he still kept ALL of his ex-gf's pics on his computer. Actually that's not what got to me most, but the fact that after seeing the pics and short video clips (we were looking at pics from his past together), he ... (80 words

Is it possible that we're meant to be even though he's married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm in love with a married man. I have been seeing him for a little over a year. He was only engaged when I met him,that I found out months later in the relationship. I knew he had a girlfriend but didn't know she was his fiancee. We started having a sexual relationship and ... (118 words

He enjoys hanging out with his friends more than me!

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - i m 20 yrs old n in a relationship with a guy since the past 5 yrs..off late differences r popping up in our relationship like in our choices of places to go or any opinion..n moreover he has this whole guys friends group whr he enjoys himself alot.so he alwaz prefers hanging ... (90 words

My wife wants another man on the side and still be with me as well.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - me and my wife have been married for about 6 months and she tells me that she wants a little something on the side .so i asked her what she wants on the side .she told me that she wanted another man and still be with me as well. what should i do?... (53 words

I don't want to hear my divorced father talking about other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey, my dad is devorced and he has this online dating things and he talks to me about the women and i don't want to hear it, and it makes me mad that he is not with my mom i don't want to think of im with another girl it drives me insane . but every time i tell him i don't wa... (96 words

Dating a man who is resentful that his marriage failed, should I bail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am in a new relationship, following a 23+ marriage that ended resently. My husband left after our youngest turned 18. He wanted a divorce so he could drink and party like a youth, since he did not get to as a child. The divorce took two years, as I tried everything to save it ... (276 words

Should I invest in a keylogger for his laptop and phone even though my heart tells me it will probably spell the end of our marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1391 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I have been together since we were 19, married since the age of 20. He's always been heavily into pornography and is constantly pushing me to engage in activities that make me uncomfortable. I understand that porn use is very common, but it's part of a larger... (385 words

Boyfriend of six months forgot my birthday. Dump him or forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - My birthday was a couple days ago and he still hasn't noticed. There are only two scenarios: He really did forget, or he's getting revenge on an argument we recently had. But either way... Should I reevaluate our relationship? We've been together for exactly 6 months. ... (46 words

I don't think I'm ready for sex but he indicates that he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - im a little bit worried, i have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and i know we are going to last longer, he has fingered me, licked me out and gave me pleasure in all sorts of ways but i never give him any back! and just recently he brought up sexual intercourse and ... (126 words

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1386 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and wants to stay with me and tells ... (98 words

I'm chatting with my friends boyfriend and I think I may love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1394 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - A few weeks ago, I moved to a new country. Before I moved, I became very good friends with a girl and I met her boyfriend of one year a few days before I left. We clicked instantly, and for the last few weeks we have become great friends, chatting over video call for hours and ... (124 words

Am I too young to find the guy?

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31 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - Hi, so there's this guy who were gonna call K-Fed. I'm 13 and I really love him. But he doesn't know that. This all started as love at first sight. When I first say him I instantly felt something so special about him. Last year he was in my math class and this year he sat right ... (225 words

Do alot of men run when they find their partner is pregnant?

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31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - i going to be giving birth in the next month and the father who i was dating for, for 6 years did a legger as soon as i told him he has a new gf now anyways i have to do it all on my own to be honest i don't think i'm ready to be a mam or to do it alone so i was considering ... (201 words

Oblivious of the Staring

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - He stares, he stares a lot. We are in the same math class, by the third day he was sitting two rows from me, constantly staring. He doesn't speak at all and it took two months to find out his name. I've discovered he's painfully shy when we happened to sit next to eat other in ... (119 words

Guys: what is your favourite down there?

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - So, Im a girl and I was wondering what way is favorite among guy to be down there? Like completely shaven, some hair, no hair random other stuff? Sooo whats your fav?... (32 words

Am I abnormal or just introverted?

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I have friends, and a boyfriend. I'm only 15. Yet whenever I'm with people, I just don't enjoy it. I don't make an effort to talk to people, they talk to me but I just don't get why I don't like talking to them. Am I abnormal or just introverted? I feel like because I end up... (93 words

Obsessed with lesbian porn...but I thought I was straight?

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm Fifteen and I think I'm straight, as I've had boyfriends in the past and I am attracted to boys. But over the past year I've had countless lesbian fantasies about friends, girls I don't know, even girls I made up in my head. At one point I was at a friends house when we ... (207 words

Is masturbation affecting my erections?

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31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - i have a girlfriend and we are almost regularly having oral sex(blow job and sucking) and my girlfriend dnt want to have sex until we are married. she loves discharging my sperm on her Breast and we are doing this almost regularly from past 1 year. recently i am feeling my ... (70 words

How do you know if you got married for the wrong reasons and to the wrong person?

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31 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have been married for 3 years know. How do you know when you got married for the wrong reason and with the wrong person? I have been dating my wife for 4 years before we got married. She is very loving person. But her family has a big impact on our life. Even if she deni... (369 words

Am I being taken advantage of?

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I want to know if he really loves me, or if hes taking advantage of me...or both if that's an option i don't know how to write this out because there's a lot i could say, so I'm just going to describe our typical day starting from when he gets off work I drive 30mins from ... (419 words

How do I meet someone when I work 13 hours a day?

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31 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hey all Recently I met up with a friend of mine who came to visit for the Xmas holidays. She told me about everything that had happened to her this past year and somewhere in that conversation I found out almost everyone I knew had already lost their virginity. Most ... (634 words

Have feelings for a girl and a guy?

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Help Is there something wrong with me ? When im with girl i start to have feeling for her ever simce we kissed when were drunk and im love with this boy who dosnt no im deeply in love and i no i will never have him what is wrong with me ?!... (53 words

Caught in the middle between a friend and a guy

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi I just registered on this website so this is my first time with all this stuff. My problem is I dated this guy. I was kinda pushed into it. I didnt know whether I really like him or not but I said yes anyway. A couple weeks later I broke up with him because I still wasnt ... (155 words

Should I keep dating when there is no spark?

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31 December 2010 (F age - Is it genuinely possible to fall in love with someone that you have no "spark" with? I am a divorced female, 56, considered very attractive for my age, intelligent, warm, funny, and been told I'm quite a "Catch". I have recently started dating a widower, 64, who is short and ... (190 words

Girlfriend won't allow me to talk badly about her ex

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31 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - my girl friend will not allow me to talk low about her ex boy friend why? she regards always high about him but she says " I love you more than anybody and I will never leave you", what could be the reason can any one please help me and my fear is she still likes him, what to ... (137 words

What does love feel like to you? How do you know when you are in love? Is love at first sight possible?

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - What does love feel like to you? How do you know when you are in love? Is love at first sight possible? I'm not talkin about lust, but seeing someone and conversing with them, and just knowing they are someone special.... (41 words

Its Me or the drugs

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I have had this one boyfriend for six months starting on the 7th and he means the world to me. But we have a huge problem. I can't trust him. I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16. I first met him at the beach near my house on June 1st. First night I met him he was drinking ... (579 words

Partner with intense chronic pain.

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31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a dedicated relationship with a wonderful man. We've been together for two years now and plan to get married and start a family later this year. I really struck gold with him - he is everything I could want in a relationship except one thing: He has chronic pain. M... (313 words

Caught between friendship and relationship

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31 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - This girl had a crush on my for a while, about a month and a half I think. I fell for her, and by the time I told her about it, she said she said I was the closest person to her, and decided we should stay friends because she was really afraid that would change. Basically... (215 words

I acted standoffish because I've been hurt and now I'm worried I should have acted more interested

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31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy and immediately clicked with him. I was fresh out of a bad relationship, so acted standoffish and not that interested. Now, I really like the guy. What do I do? I don't want to get hurt again, but I don't want to lose him! ... (48 words

Should I just make it clear that I'm attracted to older guys?

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 19 years old i turn 20 in a couple of months. I'm only attracted to older guys say 24-28... I'm sick of feeling like its something i should be ashamed of So i was basically wondering do you think i should just make it clear to everyone? It would honestly feel like a ... (112 words

With all the sex and no pregnancy, could I be infertile?

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear agony aunts and uncles I'm 19 and i just got married on the 17th of dec to my boyfriend of 3 years hes in the military and i'm really happy . how ever my concern is that when we got married we had sex with out a condom and i'm not on birth control its not like we planned ... (420 words

Is it just wrong timing?

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31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and him met, got to know eachother, then one night we made out. after that we hung out a bit more then we had in the past. It was going good. He had to move to a near by town to start his dream job. He invited me to come see him. I did. It felt like it went great. We talked ... (256 words

1st period and I need some advice

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I just got my period for the first time and I am a little nervous about whats going on in my body. Can anyone help, girls only please.... (28 words

Can you have an orgasm if your period hasn't started yet?

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm fourteen and haven't started my periods yet. I havent masturbated before and I'm a virgin, although some of my friends have regular orgasms using both masturbation and sex - but they all have their periods. I want to masturbate but don't know how, and I don't know if I'll ... (75 words

We weren't having sex so he was going to prostitutes

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my bf for 2years and everything was going good Until I found out he was ceasing on me with prostitutes and girls from clubs!!! To cut things short I broke up with him and Im trying to move on despite the fevt that I'm devastated aa I would have never expected... (193 words

My son is a crack addict, with criminal charges, on probation for the last 7 years. What can I do in this horrible situation?

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31 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - My 27 years old drug-addict son ,causing me and my family lots of pain. He moved back several times in our home, and we tried to help him over and over again. But it failed every time. He is here again. On house arrest, so he can avoid jail. I feel so confused, becaus... (269 words

How can I get over girls??

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31 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am a 23 year old and have real problems when it comes to girls. I cant seem to get over these 2 girls that I was involved with. One of these girls is my x girlfriend. We were friends for ages and kept rejecting me for other guys then after some time apart when I went to ... (539 words

My ex still texts me. Should I tell his new girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1388 days ago

31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi guys, you may have read my previous question about my situation with my ex.. complicated as it is! (and I recommend that you read that question first so that this one makes sense!)I made the decision to move out of the house that we lived in and I definitely feel better for ... (165 words

Do you think it's possible that we're actually in love at such a young age?

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31 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi(: Okay, as you all know adults and even other teens say when your in high school you think you're in love but you don't know what love is. Well, I've been with mmy boyfriend for almost 15 months now and honestly I can say I love him. I mean if something happened to hi... (211 words

Almost married a compulsive liar in 2 weeks

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31 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been with a guy for 3 yrs and been engaged for a yr and a half. when we first met everything was amazing and we both decided we wanted to marry eachother and worked towards it. I knew he had broken up with his last 2 gfs and they were serious relationships and they went ... (1394 words

How far is too far, too soon?

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31 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was just wondering what people's opinions on this were. If you really like a guy and want to do everything on the first date, or at a party, or something, would you? I know in my head that for a guy to respect you and see you as more than just sex you have to set boundarie... (121 words

I'm telling the truth but she doesn't believe me!

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31 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend got in to a argument and the first time we did i walked out and and got drunk and the first time we started talking i slept with a girl but it was nothing a one time thing. now She also dosent believe that i was at home in my room watching T.V., she thinks ... (105 words

If he goes back to his ex will he still want a FWB relationship with me?

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31 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - This guy i know wants to be FWB with me, as he still misses his ex girlfriend.They broke up a few months ago. I have only met up with him once, although, we have known each other in person for a few months. He said they started talking again recently, but he said they arent ... (290 words

I work with the woman I have been having a 5 year affair with and its causing alot of stress

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1379 days ago

31 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - Please I am looking for some advice and opinions, I know I will get judged but I can do that myself and have been will pay for this for the rest of my life I know. I've been married for 13years we met in university and we were good friends, played sport together and got drunk ... (583 words

I have a room mate, not a soul mate

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31 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband have been married for 4 yrs. We married 3 weeks after we met. He is my soul mate, he says I'm his. We would make love 2 to 3 times a day. I do know that after awhile things slow down. I get that. However, 1 month after marriage, I met his parents, it came to a ... (179 words

I know he has a past, I just wish he would leave it there

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31 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Im in a long distance relationship with a man i love very much he is working toward moving closer to me so we can see each other more. my problem in he still maintains in contact with a few women who he was in a relationship with, right before him and i two of these l... (323 words

I don't wanna be lonely and I LOVE HER! I'm a sweetheart.

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31 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone I just broke with my girlfriend and now we are trying to work/talk it out. Heres the situation we got in fight she was saying i didint give her I didint give her attention and affection the last day before she lefted to go home for the holidays and im here but not ... (554 words

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