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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I wonder if I should have broken up with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer includes me. He started doing drag ... (314 words)

Should we go back to a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm now in an open long-distance relationship with this guy. We used to be in a close distance committed relationship for 7 months but after he moved to Asia for a new job, he admitted that he felt too hard to stay committed as he felt like a kid in a candy shop-I always know ... (459 words)

If I tell her I cheated she may not accept my proposal!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Please 1. what processes do i need to go through during love making (sex) to make my girl smiling during and after sex. 2. I've faulted my girl by having sex with another girl because she refuse my advances. So do i tell her that i did cheat on her, but i'm afraid she may ... (70 words)

Ex advice!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am new to dis but i need advice on how to get over a ex. we met in oct of 09 and i moved to his hme twn and 10 so we started dating and so on, then things began to change we argured more, broken up over dozen of times, so things started to happen on mi end and i moved bk hme ... (173 words)

Is it possible to make myself not love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Uhm... I've known a friend since I was 12, and we've been best friends since then. However, during the past year, I've come to realise that I love her more than just a friend. She got a boyfriend six months ago and everytime she mentions him I get really jelous of him etc etc. ... (127 words)

Why do some men play games???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - why do some men play games?? they say they like you, u say u like them now the more u try to talk to him, the more he baks away but the more i bak away the more he acts interested...im tired of the circles..he knws i like him..we miles away right now but im movn bak home where ... (139 words)

We hardly get to spend any time together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend and i rarely go anywhere. We used to work together so i was all right with it because i got to talk to him and he would take me home and pick me up everyday. But i got laid off and he didn't. now he works 5 days a week and rarely has time for me. He... (173 words)

I would do anything to save her or let her love me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So thank you for reading my problem and all advice would be extremely helpful. So in the beginning of october I was dating a sophomore(HS) and im a junior(HS) but things just werent working out and i dropped all interest in this girl and just let things slide. Well while that ... (315 words)

How do I tell my dad I'm bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm 16 and for all my life I can remember my dad taking the mick out of gay people and telling me that it is wrong. How it is against nature and shouldn't be done. But now I am older I am bi. I have been for a long time but just don't know how to tell him. My parent... (128 words)

My girlfriend slept with other men and now I can't touch her without seeing them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl back in March of 09. We had a lot of fun and built a relationship for a month before having sex. Over the next year and a half we fell apart and a lot of it was she has a lot of problems with her self esteem. I really love this girl but at the time in november ... (256 words)

I love him but at the same time I can't stand him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im realy confused at the moment just need some advice off someone that isnt my family. so if you could read this and help i would be greatful. Here goes..... I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs today we have two boys together under the age of three. We met a... (483 words)

Had sex with straight best friend, VERY confused!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Firstly this is gonna be really long, but i need help because this is really confusing me! Im 17 and gay, my best mate is the same age and straight. He is very much the typical straight guy and would never involve himself with anything that would be considered gay, He'... (978 words)

Is this crush on my teacher normal???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My teacher is incredibly handsome, funny everything I've ever looked for in a guy. But... I'm a student and it's clearly illegal to do anything. I fantasize about him and I can't think right when he talks to me.My class isn't a very big class and I have him first period so I ... (137 words)

Guy with Aspergers sundrome seeking dating advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am an adult male with Aspergers Syndrome, who is trying to have a fulfilling dating life. The problem is, with Aspergers, I don’t see the connection between myself and the other person so readily. An example would be, someone would tell me that they are carryin... (179 words)

His parents believe in no sex before marriage!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend! We've been going out for about 6 months and we felt we were ready. He and i were virgins at the time. But a few days after i found out from a friend that his mum and dad are very religious people and believe in sex after marrage! ... (83 words)

I don't feel guilty at all cheating on him? What is wrong with me seriously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, So I'm 20 years old, been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and I honestly do love him, he's literally my best friend. We broke you back in February cause I found out he used to think of other girls while we were having sex. I know it seems so immature to break up over... (155 words)

I wanna get out of the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive known this girl for almost 4 years and we have been best friends since the day we met. I have always had feelings for her and i want to get out the friend zone and make her mine. She recently called me and asked me if i would take her out on her birthday and i told her yes. ... (70 words)

Is it my own insecurities or is he in the wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship with a guy I have known for a long time and we now have a baby together. I really love him and want to be his wife one day, but I always think hes cheating if hes not with me I think hes cheating of flirting I hate for him to be on myspace or facebook or ... (175 words)

We love one another very much, but we can't go on like this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Our relationship has had many ups and downs. We're very different people and we've both gone through major crises while being together. It put a lot of stress on our relationship. The last year has been especially difficult. ... (291 words)

Will my daughters dad love his new baby boy more than her??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, i have question and would be grateful for any thoughts on it. my daughters dad and me split up when she was five months and she is now eleven and a half. her dad got married a couple of years ago and his wife fell pregnant. today she has had a baby boy and my ... (185 words)

Husband, Brother-in-law and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my husband deeply. We have been together for 14years. We recently moved to where his brother lives. We have only had limited contact with his family do to living 1200 miles apart. Within days of arriving I felt an irrisistible pull towards my brother-in-law and knew ... (176 words)

Should I just cut my losses and go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyf for 3 1/2 years and we live together. Although I do love him recently I have been feeling dissatisfied with the relationship. He is overly critical, to the point of sometimes making me feel bad about myself, insists on trying to do things in bed that he ... (208 words)

I'll never get my dream house with the white picket fence with my boyfriend's attitude

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we have a 10mnth old.he is not working and is not actively job hunting.he has paid once while out for a date but i had to pay half and i have been paying for dates and our baby's needs ever since and even buyin him ... (169 words)

What if you do not find your boyfriend attractive anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I don't know whats wrong with me I just do not find my boyfriend attractive anymore. And I don't want to break his heart because he loves me very much. And he's starting to realize it because I've been moody and distant. It's also our one year soon. He... (135 words)

I'm extremely shy, so how do I talk to this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. There's this guy that works at the grocery store near my house that I find constantly looking at me whenever I'm shopping there. I don't know anything about him, but I do know that I find myself extremely attracted to him, and I'm almost positive that he's noticed me as ... (333 words)

Help needed! How can I get her to give me one last chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok heres my problem, my gf and i broke up because i would unknowingly take out my anger on her and i would disobey her after she strictly told me not to do something. ive begged her multiple times for a final chance to make things better but she refuses to give me another ... (126 words)

Is feeling sad my only option?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello aunts, I realize that I´m setting myself up to be judged for my feelings, but I just wanted to clarify one thing. I would NEVER, EVER have an affair, or wreck someone´s home. I´m NOT like that. I´m so lost that I´m not sure what to ask, but I would in NO way seek t... (938 words)

Snogging Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) I'm 13 and I love my boyfriend alot ((: Trouble is, he wants to snog me! I really want to but I don't want to fail at it. :/ Any tips? Also I wanna go further with him but not as far as sex. how do I tell him? ... (51 words)

Is he going to get over this and come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a mess over this. I have been dating this guy for 9 months and although we never made it exclusive it was obvious that we wanted and liked each other. He is a very proud and kind of jealous person. Things were going well and I was looking forward to spending the holidays ... (522 words)

How do you choose between two guys that are a little alike?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you choose between two guys that are a little alike? I'm dating one of then but I'm really falling in love with the other guy as well. The guy I'm dating hardly has any time for me and the other guy would have a lot more time for me. The other guy is going into the ... (80 words)

Why did he want to know if I was a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy who is in the same program as me in my university He is really nice and always gives me advice. I like him and I think he likes me too, because he tells me why a nice girl like me doesn't have a boyfriend. we text each other occasionally and just get to know each ... (333 words)

Is my boyfriend talking to other girls online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess I need some reassurance here as my boyfriend is constantly on a "friendship site" (almost everyday) and I'm concerned. He paid for this online site which doesn't look like a dating site, it claims that you can meet international friends and talk about travel there. I ... (185 words)

Should I give up hope of him ever liking me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy at school who I've liked, but I'm not the only one by any means. They are all much more popular than me too. Should I just give up all hope of ever being with him? I mean I don't really ever get a chance to talk to him in person, we've texted each other a lot, ... (91 words)

I have no idea what he wants or what he's thinking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Usually I'm very good at reading guys and know what they want. But with this guy, I have no idea what he wants or what he's thinking. I get the impression that he does like me on some level, but then he does things that make me think the complete opposite. He canceled on... (210 words)

I don't want him to think I hate him... cause I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on a guy 4 almost a year and we re both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to talk to me and show me that he likes me month ago he sat next to me in class(it wasnt b... (365 words)

Is he only wanting me for the sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy in the military. its been two years. he still doesnt want me as his girlfriend, now im starting to think it just about the sex to him... he really only texts me. he even told me he was talking to someone else and i said fine. i know feel stupid for ... (154 words)

What can this itching be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - the outer area of my vaginal hole(?) it itches so bad could this be a sign of a yeast infection. please help cause i dont want to tell my mom and go to the doctor and it be nothin cause that would be embarrising.... (44 words)

Is her friend holding her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i need some advice on what to do i have wrote before about my girlfriend calling me controlling and manipulative, thats the reason she left. anyway she got into a relationship with another girl and it didnt work out, now she wants to come back, the problem is that her ... (168 words)

How can I look hot and sexy when people keep mistaking me for a cute little girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This is probably kinda shallow but i'm having a hard time trying to be sexy. People older than me tell me i'm a pretty girl but i always think they're lying. the thing is i wanna be sexy or hot and i'm more cute in a little girl way. i have a small nose with freckles, light ... (219 words)

Should I forgive him for the flirty texts since he forgave me for my indescretions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for the better part of 3 years with a guy I absolutely adore. The beginning of our relationship was difficult- He is a social guy with lots of obligations (not sure if anyone has dated a drum line drummer but you would know what I mean)- and I am ... (503 words)

I want a boyfriend too!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a 14 year old girl and my best friend always has a boyfriend and i dont always want one but then i do and i just dont know what to do plz help :)... (36 words)

My ex won't leave my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now but i cant seem to get over my ex boyfriend(lets say A is his name). well A and i try to stay away from each other cause as long as we are together we both wanna be in each others arms, but i have really deep feelings for both ... (146 words)

What to do... I think I'm in love with my sister in law...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all, i know this is a probably stupid but i am not the only i see, i am falling for my sister in law. i love my wife and we have a kid and very happy together but i am just infatuated with my sister in law that i cant think straight. i don't know if its just physical... (203 words)

Is she wrong to begin a relationship with me again when she still has feelings for another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age - five years ago I began dating a wonderful woman, after 1-2 months, she dumped me to be with another man. Five years later, she asks me to take her back, we begin a serious realtionship and even talked about marriage. 6 months later she dumps me for the same man 5 years before. ... (134 words)

How do I solve this conflict?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been together with my wife for almost six years in August and love her. She has a son who is now 15 and lives with his father. We have a 14 month old daughter together and she is currently 5 months pregnant with our 2nd. For Christmas we went to my parents and things w... (122 words)

Is it legal for me to live with my stepdad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) age 26-29 - i am in a bit of a tricky situation i have a problem. My mum and stepdad are divorced but i want to live wiht my stepdad... is that legal can i choose were i want to live? me and my mum do not get on i do not think she is fit to be a mother, she drinks and smokes ev... (118 words)

My wife is leaving me help please!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, my wife is leaving me after 6 years of marriage and 2 children 2 and 6. She told me 5 months ago she did not love me and is now leaving in a few days, the reason is she is unhappy and wants to be alone. We are doing a deed of seperation and I'm buying her out the house bu... (146 words)

Is texting other men and women while in a relationship acceptable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married for 17 years and have been divorced for 6 years. I've dated off and on in those 6 years. it seems that people think it's ok to text other girls and men while being in a relationship. I don't think that is acceptable. my ex-husband and I never were on our phones ... (104 words)

Having girl troubles!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ahhhhh help i think i ran into an relathionship too fast. someone please tell me how to handle this. i dont want to hurt her she asked me out. idk what to do. i been stress out about not being in a relship but now i am i just dont know if i could can being hurt again. it been 2 ... (81 words)

I'm in a relationship but thinking of experimenting.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a pretty serious relationship with a girl I love very much. I can see myself spending forever with her, and she is open to experimenting and doing all types of things, and has opened me up quite a bit. I feel very comfortable with her. But I have these issues and ... (234 words)

Does anyone find female bodybuilders sexy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I do and some of them have been able to build up their strength and retain their feminine features. While I admit, muscle women aren't for everyone, they do have their appeal, I am just curious who else feels this way?... (42 words)

I cannot orgasm from intercourse. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I just want to know if something is wrong with me because I cannot orgasm when we are having intercourse. It just does not happen, it only happens when he uses his tongue or finger. Does anybody know how to have an orgasm during intercourse?... (50 words)

CEO and PA... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, i am a CEO of my own company i am single, about a month ago i took on board a new sales lady only to find out a month later she is madly in love with me, i have never really given any advances at her or done anything to show it. she is currently in a relationship, ... (178 words)

Help!!! He's playing me, I know... but I love him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - To put it simple i'm in love with my best friend, again! i have known him for quite a while now. After a few months of knowing him i became attracted, but ignored this and that soon moved onto hardcore crush mode. Then i couldn't stand to be apart from him, he was playing... (257 words)

Please help! I need to break up with my boyfriend fast and avoid any questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This may sound weird, because I heard that mostly men have this problem. The thing is that I am very inexperienced but not virgin and my boyfriend has a colorful past. It really bothers me to the point that I want to break up with him and give another excuse to cover things up. ... (88 words)

I'd never cheat, so why can't I stop thinking about the girl at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and i am happy and so is she. I recently got a job that involves working with the opposite sex which she isn't bothered about. But recently me and this girl who i work with have been flirting a bit, and as ... (112 words)

Do I wait around and hope she decides she wants to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help, I’m confused. Ok, so I have been a fb with this girl for around 3 and half months now. She is 21 and I am 27. We get along, have a laugh and both enjoy the sex. Recently I have started to like this girl as more, and feel like I want to date her rather than just ... (907 words)

They swallow!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm almost 45 years old, and I can't seem to get over how offended I get when I hear a man make reference to someone or a sports team, etc. when they say "they swallow". This completely turns me off and sets me back so much, I don't ever want to give my man oral sex, at all. ... (368 words)

Is chatting on yahoo messenger classified as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i been with my boyfriend for over a year and we both in love as well as we both live together. the problem is i moved with my mother for certain time but i have been chatting on yahoo messenger everyday with different guys when im bored, and i do feel bad cuz i feel like im ... (102 words)

She basically did everything possible that hurt me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question about an ex girlfriend. we met during our freshmen year in high school and went out for 3 years. i thought all throughout everything was good with the exception of a few arguments throughout the way but doesnt every couple argue every now and then. well ... (345 words)

Torn between room mate and boyfriend in jail

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME. I have a boy friend in jail he's been in jail for two years, he comes home in three months. this guy supports me and we have a understanding. the thing I fear is him doing illegal things again. then theres this other guy we been together for six mont... (98 words)

My guy friend has sexual feelings for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my guy friend a year ago but we have become good friends a few months ago. He isn't in love with me.He loves me as a friend and lust for my body. He touched me a lot like touching my hair,my back,playing footsie with me,asked me whether I loved him sexually....etc...He ... (203 words)

How do I stop being overpossive of my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a guy. I think i'm over possessive over my girlfriend. Any guy who just posts on her Facebook wall will make me feel uneasy. Then I will start to be doubtful. I keep telling myself they are just friends (which I THINK it is true) Recently she has been hanging out a lot with... (299 words)

Was she trying to stir things up because she fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - whilst my boyfriend was away I had a little bit of a feeling that something was going on so i decided to login to his hotmail to change his facebook password and investigate. I found a message saying " fancy going for a drive and we can have a bum ?" I had told my boyfrien... (364 words)

Am I blinded to think that this relationship has hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend 1 yr ago and we've been together since then. I am 34 years old and she is 25. After we got together officially, she told me that she had sex with a guy she met at a club when we were dating. It bothered me but I accepted it because we weren't actually ... (354 words)

Pregnant, Jealous - how do I stop? urgent help needed!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I will try and keep this short. Basically I am 3 months pregnant to my live-in boyfriend. Before I got pregnant (this time), his ex (who has a new partner and child) would call him every week or so and despite us being together for 2 years, I have never met her. Quite ... (295 words)

How much should I drink for my age and height?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - New Year is coming up and my crush is trying to find someone who is having a party so we can both go together! It sounds fun but I havn't actually been to a proper party before with like alcohol and stuff cos I don't normally get invited and I've never been drunk! We're only 16 ... (171 words)

3 years, no sex, what do I mean to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a three year long relationship with a man who is 17 years older than me. I am in my mid twenties. We live together and I do all the house work (he helps with cleaning) and I do all the cooking. I run this man baths, I massage him, I shave him at times. I iron his ... (405 words)

Is it possible to have sex without breaking the hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i m 22 years old and i have a boyfrnd, he is also of 22. we had just oral sex. he wants to come more closer i mean anal sex. i want too but i have some problems. we r not sure that we will merry or not, we want to but depends on circumstances. if i had sex , my hymen w... (130 words)

I want to ask him to prom but what if he makes up some lame excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been thinking lately about this kid. I love him, and I want to ask him to my prom, but I'm so nervous and the perfect time to ask is coming real soon. I don't know what to say or do if he rejects me. What if he doesn't feel comfortable? What if he makes up some lame ... (100 words)

Desperately in love with my best friend. Is he gay or straight?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Id like advice about being in love with your best friend. For a while I wasnt sure and thought it was just a crush, but I really am in love with him and I think he might have feelings for me too. I love him so much I want to cry. I want to be with him all the time ... (584 words)

How can I trust someone again?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My last relationship with a guy was 2 years ago. I loved being around him and you know I felt something when I was around him, that fuzzy feeling. Well I broke up with him because he wanted sex and I was definitly too young. Now I'm ready to date again and when ever I get ... (104 words)

I'm stuck having too choose a good relationship or sex

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 been with my bf for 3years we live together.I know its stupid to base your self worth on the way your boyfriend treats you sexually. I'm in a constant battle with myself about it. I feel like an invisible tool. My boyfriend watches porn everyday 2 or 3 times a day on ... (327 words)

My aunt's father in law made inappropriate comments and now I feel really uneasy around him!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a problem. Over the holidays me and my relatives went to visit my aunt's in-laws and their family, who I used to feel comfortable around. They're usually nice and welcoming people, so I had no reason not to like them. But, on the day we went, her father in la... (729 words)

He wont leave me alone - is he crazy?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Two years ago, I went through a painful break up with my now husband. During this time, I had a rebound with another gentleman that I unexpectedly fell for. When my now husband and I reunited, I dumped the other guy. It has been 3 years and this guy is still pestering ... (177 words)

I feel really intimidated by a girl I'm attracted to

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've fallen for this girl I met in the first week of class this fall (I'm 18, she's 19, we're both in college) but she seems so far out of my league. I don't know what I should do now, should I just give up? I feel like there's no way a girl like her would be interested in a ... (334 words)

My boyfriend's smoking addiction is turning me off

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! Thanks for taking the time to read this! When my boyfriend and I started dating, I didn't know that he smoked. He never did it around me and I didn't think to ask since I never saw him smoking. One day though, the topic came up and I made a comment that I didn't l... (381 words)

Supposed to be getting married but I am unsure

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am just not sure and feeling very anxious. i'm engaged to be married to my boyfriend in August. I live with him. We are both in our 40's. However I am happy just living together at the moment but he wants to get married,as he keeps saying I have never been married - however ... (150 words)

Is there any chance of this situation turning positive?

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I am in dire need of advice, and I honestly never thought about posting on an online advice service before - I hope you will be able to provide me with some insight. After a 2 and a half year-long hiatus (not self-imposed, just due to lack of opportunities) fr... (1275 words)

How do I talk to her and tell her I like her?

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi friends iam a 16 year boy i just want to know that i have a girl in my class and i like her very much. Whenever she saw me in the class i passes away the smile to her and she also sometimes replies by smiling. Problem is that i dont have the courage to talk to her further.... (135 words)

Hubby cheated on me 2 weeks after our wedding.

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old mother of one. I have been with my husband (my child's father) for 9.5 years. We got married on the 3rd of July 2010. Two weeks later, I found out that he was cheating on me with his friend's sister. I was more in a state of unbelievable shock than I was ... (418 words)

I want some kind of commitment other than our 1 year lease together!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we have lived together for 4 of those years. We have been talking about marriage for the last 3 years (it was mostly me asking when we were going to get engaged). I boldly stated that two of my life goals are to get ... (612 words)

How do I explain emotional infidelity to my boyfriend?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I explain emotional infidelity to my boyfriend? We hit a rough patch approximately five months into our relationship - the issue: he was really stressed about personal things, and felt awful that he wasn't putting 100% into our relationship. We all experience stres... (475 words)

How can we get back to being BF and GF again?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a boy a lot but i pushed him away and started calling him "brother" or "Browdy" and he started calling me sister and i hate it because i love him and i have loved him since 2008 and i dont like it when he calls me sister because to me it means "yea your a cool chick but ... (99 words)

Tormented by severe premature ejaculation

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I foreplay with my girlfriend for about 10 minutes but when I get to start intercourse I ejaculate at the time I grab my penis in my hand for inserting it into her vagina, or sometimes i ejaculate by just inserting the (head) of my penis into her vagina. And I dont get back ... (181 words)

Sometimes it's like he's choosing weed over me

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a really good guy who treats me well but I hate the fact that he smokes so much (I don't smoke at all) I don't mind that he smokes with his friends or on occasion but he can't go one day without getting high. There were several instances where it really made me ... (210 words)

I'm 18 and never been in a relationship, so how do I tell if she likes me?

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, used to see dis girl in the church, any time we were in the service we normally stare at each, i really like dis girl, but i don't whether she feel d same i'm. The problem is that i have never been into a relatioship before. I'm 18.... (49 words)

I might be pregnant, and I'm 14!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im Maria and im from utah, and im 14 almost 15 years old, and i think i might be pregnant. I don no what i should do only 3 people no that i might be pregnant there all my best friends, i told my boyfriend(well ex boyfriend now) that i might be pregnant but he doesn ... (177 words)

It it love or is he using me?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here’s the deal,I ve known this guy since I was in elementary school. We ended up as classmates in 9th grade of high school,that’s when he started getting all crazy about me. He begged me to go out with him,begged my friends to help him and try everything possible,but I wouldn... (840 words)

My ex torments me emotionally

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28 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i feel like the bad guy here just because i am a guy. My ex absolutely believes i cheated and that i'm a liar and a jerk a good for nothing. She pounces on my faults and torments me emotionally even though she tells me its just a joke yet without regard to my feelings she still ... (130 words)

How can I get an honest take on his thoughts on marriage?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I recently got back together. We were a couple for three and a half years and broke up for three months this year. We've only been back together for a week, though we remained in the "working-it-out" stage for the majority of our break up, continuing to act as ... (259 words)

Is it wrong to avoid your ex?

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28 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Is it wrong to avoid social situations where you ex, and her bf will be at the expense of your own happiness?... (22 words)

My friend is a major alcoholic!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my friend is a major alcoholic for his age. I wanna help him out but he drinks to be happy. A way that helped my cousin to stop drinking was to find that one special person who can make you stop drinking or someone you want to change for. Would this work or is there another ... (65 words)

I feel like my husband and daughter are teamed up against me

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28 December 2010 (F)

age - My daughter wants to marry someone that I didn't approve of. I told my daughter my feelings and she was glad that I told her. The problem is now she can not saying hurtful things to me and has gained the sympathies of my husband. She will call and ask for him. When I ... (95 words)

How do I tell my daughter about her father's other family?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I tell my young daughter that she was conceived while her father was/is married and has a family to another?... (22 words)

Is he interested in me? Her?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the other day my brother went on a roadtrip, he'll be gone for a week. his friend (who I am really in to) came to say bye and what not. as his buddy (A) was leaving a friend told him that he could still come over and hang out with me, teach me to play cod if he wanted. he said ... (535 words)

Is this how an orgasm is supposed to feel?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, i just wanted to know what exactly an orgasm is. I'm a virgin, but i have fingered myself before. In the act, there is a point where my body basically goes numb. I feel my muscles tighten and my clit open and close. It's like i lose complete control of my body. Is that ... (93 words)

Getting a fresh start and need some insight as to why I've never been successful with girls

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and have never had a girlfriend. I've never dated and have never really kissed anyone either. (Ok...maybe one or two kisses in my past after having a few drinks at the bar. That's neither here nor there though.) I have a college degree. I'm currently in the military ... (793 words)

Can a vasectomy fail after thirty years?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A man I may be pregnant too claims to have had a vasectomy some thirty years ago.. Is it still possible it is his or is he likely to be lying? He never said this when we slept together in fact he asked if I was on the pill but he said this after I said I was pregnant? The ... (80 words)

Can't stop looking at porn and masturbating. Is this healthy for a 14-year-old girl?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old girl. I recently looked up porn and started to masturbate. I know I'm young but since the first time I can't stop. I feel bad or dirty after. I do but i can't stop... Is this healthy?? Does it mean I'm a sex addict?? Even if I'm still a virgin????... (59 words)

My mom won't forgive my boyfriend

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my mom won't forgive my boyfriend. yes, he's bipolar and a recovering addict and has done some things that should be deemed unforgiveable (stealing $400 from her, flipping out on her etc.) but now he's in a mental rehabilitation home and even though he's been putting forth the ... (329 words)

Boyfriend broke up saying he needed to find himself

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago - his reason being that he needs to "find himself". He hasn't been himself for the past 6 months - he's been confused about his feelings, his career path, etc and feels that he is no longer growing. He says it's not me, ... (110 words)

Are chivalry and fidelity things of the past?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - After getting my heart broken about a year and a half ago. Am I naïve to still believe in chivalry and fidelity? ... (22 words)

At 16, should I have already started having relationships?

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i am a 16 year old guy and i have never had any type of relationship with a girl. i haven't even kissed one and most of my friends have already, well you know. is this normal or should i hurry it up?... (43 words)

Why did my sister in law include photos of my husband's exs from 20 years ago?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Two months after our wedding, at the family gathering for Christmas, my husband's sister presented everyone with a slide show put together of all the kids growing up. She hooked it up to a big screen television and we all began to watch. At frst it was fun to see old photos of ... (235 words)

Boyfriend called me a tart!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 5 months and im not gonna lie i have had sex with him and not just once but any waay im a street dancer and me my boyfriend knows i wear shorts and belly tops alot and when im with him he doesnt mind but when i was doin a dance ... (171 words)

Am I outgrowing occasional sex?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - About 4 years ago just after university, I had what I thought was a one night stand with an acquaintance who was in town over the weekend. At times over the years, he has come into town and propositioned me (sublety). Sometimes I said I couldn't (if I was seeing someone at ... (252 words)

Sometimes I need space! My girlfriend just doesn't understand!

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 years now, first 2 years were fine but the last 2 are getting worse, always trying to look through my phone on who I talk to and what about, everytime I plan something with friends she pulls the oh we never spend any time ... (136 words)

Whos the daddy? Should I find out? Or keep it in the closet for a later date?

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28 December 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I am 30 partner 31 we are not married. Backstory- We dated for two years and had moved in with each other, and was still in the experimental sex mode when I found out we had fallen pregnant. With twins. We had a foursome(completly protected- condoms- no breaks) a... (461 words)

I'm in love with the idiot but now he has a girlfriend!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for almost six months. Things were going great, we had the best of times...then all of a sudden, stupid me decides to break up with him because I took something that he said completely wrong...and, well, i didn't want him back for a while. Had no idea why. But ... (80 words)

We have a crazy history together but I'm trying to just be friends with him

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating this guy about 9 months ago. After a couple of months we both kind of grew apart romantically but became really good friends. We would share stuff about our romantic lives and things were going fine. Then I found out that I was pregnant and it was his baby. He ... (242 words)

A short girl with a tall guy?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm asian.. therefore, generally short. i'm somewhat concious of my height, even though i'm 5'3". i'm not exactly super short like some other girls, and not all that tall. I used to weigh 110 but after track and such, i'm around 115..making me more concious about my weight. I'm ... (100 words)

Should I tell dad that his new fiancee is the same girl I had sex with at a drunken frat party?

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i met this really hot girl at a frat party and we got drunk and had sex. she was a year older and graduated a few months later so nothing after that happened. my parents got divorced a year later and when my dad started dating he got engaged with the girl i slept with. should i ... (82 words)

Why did my boyfriend turn into a different person?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently my boyfriend of three and a half years finished he turned into a different person and i dont understand how he turned out like this he is even neglecting our one and a half year old son and making up excuses to avoid seeing him, im heart broken and dunno why he turned ... (57 words)

I don't want this problem to keep going on!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am completely new to this but here it goes... I have been seeing a guy for a year and a half. Starting out we had an amazing relationship. We were both comming out of marriages... his 8 years mine 2. He left me and went back to his ex twice, said he had to make sure it was ... (294 words)

How long does it take to get divorced and who pays for it?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How long does the average divorce process take and what all does it involve if there is a child in the middle? when the parents have a mutual agreement on child support payments and visitation, do the parents still have to pay for the divorce? I'm just unaware of the whole pr... (66 words)

Flirted with other guys to make him jealous, now he doesn't want to be together. How can I make up with him?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know what I want help with, but I can't find the words. will try. My boyfriend and I broke up twice. The first time I broke up with him because he was chatting to his ex girlfriend who works with me sometimes. The second break up was mutual. I flirted with other guy... (144 words)

Do I love him or simply miss having him around?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We live in different countries in Europe. He has flown down to meet me three time from September. We met last week. I love him, he's lovely. Sometimes I think I could end up with him. He's five years older than me (Im 19 and he's 24) Sometimes he gets me really annoyed t... (391 words)

DNA says I am not her father but she acknowledges me as if I'm her biological father

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28 December 2010 (M)

age - I am currently 57 years old. When I was in my early 20's I met a young woman. We spent time together and had relations, even though she had a man living in the same apartment with her at the time. After a short period of time (weeks) that man did move out. After about 2 monthe... (430 words)

Can someone tell me what is wrong with me?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I have massive boobs, sized 34F, and I have had a few boyfriends, I've been felt up many times, I enjoy it, I do get slot of attention off boys for my boobs, and I do wear low cut tops, but I've been single for months now, and every so often, I get horny and feel the ... (89 words)

My fiancé changed his character 5 days before the wedding!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm revisiting this website after yet another abusive relationship that has ended in tears. Sorry if this drags on a bit! I initiated the break-up of my engagement last week (just before Xmas!!) after my fiancé flipped whilst he was on drugs. He then followed u... (753 words)

Is there something going on between my middle-aged boyfriend and teenage shop girl?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 52 and I'm in my mid 30's so quite an age gap but we've been together for nearly 10 years. He goes to the corner shop on a daily basis to buy some chocolate and a drink (I rarely go) and over the last couple of months he's taking alot longer, even though it's ... (611 words)

Is it ever possible to stop loving someone?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm out at school and everyones completely cool with it , by there is a girl I have liked for like two years now it's heartbreaking seeing her with guys that just continuously screw her over and break her heart, I know I would never do that , but I can't I know she's straight ... (133 words)

I've had 8 sex partners and only one has been able to make me have an orgasm

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. Ive got a really irritating and quite embarrassing problem! Im 18 years old and ive been sexually active now for a little ovet 3 years. My first sexual boyfriend and i had an amazing sex life. Everytime was special and we tried everything. He maxe me orgasm alot and it ... (166 words)

Is this really an orgasm?

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im a 18 year old female I lost my virginity at 17 going 18 bit before then I would finger myself and had my boyfriend do it also and its like my whole body gets a really great feeling like I get all warm inside my stomach clit and pussy muscles get super tight and I feel ... (106 words)

Married for 16 years, if I met husband now I wouldn't give him a second thought!

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband since I was 16. Now that I am 32 I find myself to have grown apart from him. We are different people with different likes and dislikes. If we were to meet now I wouldn't give him a second thought. We have 3 kids together an I only want to do what is ... (191 words)

First I was smothering her, but now I don't care enough!

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am a 17 year guy and I went out with my girlfriend for about 7 months. This is the second time we've split up. The first time was due to me "not caring", not being sensitive enough and generally giving the vibe that I didn't care (despite my attitude towards her being ... (521 words)

He cheated, I mentioned divorce and now he wants another chance

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28 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am married for 11 yrs and my husband cheated.I gave him 2nd chance but he decided to leave again. After 6 months he came back and wants another chance. I told him about divorce and suddenly he wants another chance. What is yr advice???... (47 words)

She says it wasn't cheating because we were broken up

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is this considered cheating? Please help me on this. So our relationship has been turbulent for quite some time now, and we've been on and off, so we were looking for a place to live when we were I guess on a break, so she said we were, but I thought we were still together ... (180 words)

Do women's sex drives fall off in their mid 30s?

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28 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - The conventional wisdom seems to be that a woman's sex drive peaks in her early 30s. Is this consistent with people's actual experiences? I've had an on/off relationship with my girfriend (35 years old) for about 8 years (we were "off" for about 5 years until about a ye... (597 words)