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My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 1318 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's falling in love with me, and ... (310 words

Is it too soon for me to get feelings for a guy I met on FB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met someone on fb but I already knew him from when we was younger. We talk everyday he tells me just about everything. I really like him. I believe I'm starting to catch feelings for him. Do you think it's to early for me to start catch feelings?... (49 words

I'm super attracted to this guy, but will he feel less of me for my 'enthusiasm' on our second date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I had sex with a guy on basically the second date ... Something I never do but I was just super attracted to him. I'm a little worried he'll judge me for it but I hope not, What's done is done anyways. How do I read his body language? After the second time we had sex (he c... (103 words

Get back together or just remain friends??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1319 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Me and my first love reconnected through FB after 20 yrs, were both single but live in different states. This is kinda a long one. sorry I dont even know where to begin, how about at the beginning. We met when we were both 15, he was a lifeguard at the local pool. I went alm... (1678 words

Is taking a girl's anal or oral virginity important???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Is taking a girl's anal or oral virginity important? I know there is no such thing but this is best way to describe it? or is vaginal the only one guys care about?... (34 words

He didn't kiss me, is he interested???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I started a new job in an office in July and I used to sit in front of this guy and we used to talk like small talk and then I moved desks and didn't see him for a long time. Until he asked one of my male friends if I was seeing someone and if I was going to the Christmas ... (512 words

Why does she find it hard to look at me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - So theres this girl who once before looked me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, in deep meaningful way, for a prolonged time (5 or 6 secs) but she cant seem to look at me any other time in the eye and never for a ... (160 words

She was more experimental with her exes than with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1287 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend was more sexually active with her exes than with me. I don't mind her past, but I wish she would just do some of these things with me. Does she just not find me as attractive?... (38 words

Sometimes it just feels like he's too mature...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey everyone, i'm on my friend's account, so i'm not 16. i am 14, and a freshman in high school. Let me set the scenes here: i started dating a sophomore in august, and we fell in love almost instantly. I fell for his 'badboy' black-clothes, killer-interests style. Just for a ... (157 words

Bi curious women???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a new girlfriend. Now that we are getting into it, surprise surprise, she has a fantasy about carpet munching. Does every girl have a desire to have a bi-sexual experience at least once in their life. I would say that almost every single girl I have ever dated, with ... (132 words

Is he wanting to remain friends or try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Please take the time to read this as you need the full details to understand. thanks for any advice in advance x :) x It started about 6 months ago when a guy (Ethan who was 17 and a virgin) approached me on holiday, we got to know each-other over the week and i guess you ... (252 words

He was talking about another girl's vagina!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok my boyfriend (both 26 years old) and I have been together a few years. We have a daughter together and I recently found out we are expecting again. Last night he had a friend over and they got drunk and I went to go to sleep. I could hear their conversation and... (240 words

I want him to tell me a story!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey im bisexual but i would never date a girl and my boyfriend knows this. Me and him send or tell each other "stories" there sexual and just say what would happen if we were with each other well i want him to send me a story about me and a girl fooling around an me an him ... (114 words

Emotions, exes and proper behaviour in a relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 48 yr old single (married 20 yrs divorced 6.5 yrs) mother ( 3 grown kids one lives at home,disabled) and i am not sure how to do what i need to do...My bf (10yrs younger than I) and i met about 10 mos ago and it was like we were made for each other, wow. Among the ... (612 words

How can I make my insecure girlfriend feel more secure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - I am trying to figure out a way to make my girlfriend feel secure about herself. When I first met her, and we started dating, she seemed perfect, confident, nice, smart, beautiful, everything. The way that I love who she is hasnt changed, (and all of those things except ... (471 words

Can my wife actually lose the weight?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 1322 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - What is a person supposed to do when they are no longer attracted to there spouse? My wife and I have been together now for 13 years, 8 of which we have been married. She is awesome in many aspects which is why I love her so much. She has always been there for me no ... (981 words

How can I be taken seriously as a real girlfriend, just once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I´m feeling a little discouraged lately. I realize that I´m setting myself up to be judged, but I can´t help my own heart. I realize I need to stop feeling sorry for myself but I just need some help. Thanks if you can help me. My flag is Mexican, and I am here in Mexico n... (1460 words

It's growing pretty fast down there, do I need to shave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey everybody, i have a question that I feel to embarrassed to ask anybody else in person so i'm wondering if you could help? Im 14 and down below is growing fast.. I'm going to a party soon and wearing a really short skirt so was wondering what is the best advice? shall i ... (61 words

He wants a child but I'm not bringing a baby into this toxic relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - So confused! I have 2 boys ages 16 and 9 from the same man which I left 5years ago. Since, then I've been in a toxic realtionship for 5years. He has a temper and has been violent in the past just last week he came to my house and broke my perfume and lotion by throwing against ... (306 words

Is he just naturally playful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok I really, really like this guy in my class in college. We never properly talked until two or three months ago, when he started playfully messing around with me. He's playfully slapped my ass a couple times, jokingly made fun and laughed at me, playfully argued with me over ... (132 words

I hate being normal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I hate being normal. I've noticed that no matter how many times people say that looks don't matter, hey, THEY DO! I've noticed how my male friends treat girls differently based on looks more than personality. I'm not the most attractive girl, I'm not ugly (at least people have ... (429 words

Maybe this relationship isn't that perfect.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - What do you do when you're in a relationship with someone who should be perfect for you. They're pretty much your own age, clever, funny and just generally lovely, but it's not enough, and you find yourself completely falling for someone else you know you shouldn't?... (46 words

Should I have sex with him so he can leave me alone?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1339 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Somebody plz help me. I made a stupid decision that can cost me my marriage. I'm ashamed,embarrassed, and feel like crap. I got myself involved with a man at my job who liked to do phone sex. He is older than I and married. It was fun at first because I would send him pics ... (341 words

Am I expecting too much now that we're married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1330 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - I met my wife online and we had a great relationship in the beginning. She was NEVER in a long term relationship before me but I never thought that to be a problem until we started having problems. I was previously married and have 4 kids. While we were dating and then when ... (760 words

Help! I want my best friend back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey guys :] well im in a pickle at the moment, basically i have fallen out with my best friend of 3 years, she started to date a boy i really hate, and a few days ago i had a fight with him. suddenly after that she told the school about it and says she doesn't want to be m... (153 words

I want a boyfriend but I still want to be me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend but I am more than ready... How do I make myself more attractive to guys but still be me???... (27 words

Are my feelings normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I'm feeling a lot of pressure to do things, you know the kind of thing, like touching etc. We've done some things that I wouldn't normally consider appropriate for my age, but I feel our relationship is really special, ... (157 words

I only know her through Facebook but I'm in love with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - I am 16 years old and I love a 15 year old girl. I don't know her only I know her on Facebook and she is living in US. I told her that I love her. but she says "Now, I am not thinking about love, so I can't reply to you." and you are saying this because I sent you money. b... (84 words

I'm in the middle of a love triangle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hey and Help! I am in a middle of a love triangle! There are three boys who go to my church and we are all really good friends. The fact is they all got a crush on me! I see two of my friends on Saturday at church and the other on every Wednesday of the first month, becuase of ... (113 words

My fiance is still friends with her past partners.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have finally found someone that I want to spend my life with after one brief, failed marriage already. While I am positive about this relationship, there is one thing that continues to nag at me... After her divorce, she went on a bit of a streak of casually sleepin... (346 words

All his relatives will be there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - What should I wear to my boyfriend's sister 21st birthday celebration at their house. All his relatives and family will be there and they have been wanting to see me. OMG!... (31 words

What should I do about my persistent ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - My ex keeps calling me like 5 times a day and wants me to be his gf, what should I do?... (21 words

How can I find a "nice girl" who wants an actual relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - How do you spot someone your interested in? Better yet how do you spot a "nice girl"? Nice girls/guys finish last and its true. I basically have to be a dick and you got a girl stringing. I want a long term relationship, anything else just seems pointless to me, seriously... (120 words

She's tame in bed with me, but I know she's been wild with others. How do I bring this up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - I feel a bit strange asking a question about sex, but I guess why not? I met a girl backpacking. We traveled together for a month and things moved pretty fast. To the point that I find myself living with her in Canada. I enjoy having sex with her because, well, I love h... (262 words

I just want to fall in love again, I don't want to be alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1336 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ive recently posted about ex boyfriends and current boyfriends and rebounds and I broke up with the current boy who was a rebound (or so I think) however now Im even more unhappy, I've found I dont like being alone and all I want now is to fall in love again. I want to just be ... (67 words

I can't watch him destroy his life, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1335 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Should I stay with my boyfriend? Way to get right to the point right, it's just that my boyfriend and I live in two very different worlds. We started going out about two years ago, fall 2009 he went away to college, and when he came back last january he broke up with me, ... (355 words

Could the issue be deeper than it appears?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 51-59 - Of late my wife seems to have lost interest in sex and in me in general - sorta nonchalant, and indifferent. We've had relationship issues these past years, but I'm beginning to suspect if she's approaching menopause. It's been on my mind for sometime, but sex until recent... (134 words

How can I ask my procrastinating BF to not put things off until the last minute?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, My boyfriend likes to put everything done in the last minute, and it annoys me. We are having an appointment with our lawyer at the end of the year and for all the dates the lawyer is ok my bf chose 12/30, of course the lawyer rejected it and changed it to the 29. I l... (131 words

What should I do? I never wanted my love life to be this difficult!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hey guys and gals hey guys i have a girl friend we love each other so much but my feelings for her have dimmed recently... you see last week i meet this girl at fencing we talked and surprisingly we had a lot in common we liked reading and enjoyed fencing and athletics an... (253 words

If I get near his phone, he flips. Am I wrong to think he could be cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1192 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok here is my problem. Me and my husband have two kids and have been together for six years. I recently discovered he's been watching porn behind my back after promising he wouldn't but I let that go without even getting mad at him. Well, I was upset but didn't tell him and ... (713 words

Have you ever tried pole dancing lessons? Should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'd like to take some dance classes next year, but i haven't done any dancing at all recently, and i've never been trained. I went to some dance lessons as a child, but they were just fun classes, not really professional. I'd like to try ballroom dancing, as my grandparents and ... (245 words

I can't take being JUST her friend anymore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have a friend (female) whom I (male) have a crush on but she is not interested in me, and just wants to be friends. I decided I was okay with that but recently I stopped talking to her because it was getting too much. I feel like a terrible friend but let me explain. You se... (179 words

How picky are you when it comes to dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - i want a boyfriend really i do. but i'm just too picky :( i just want to know if theres anyone who is picky about anything in particular about the kind of person he or she would date.... (38 words

Why does my ex still hurt me and string me along?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear all. please help. I split with my ex bf a few months back, and have been trying very hard to get over him, which has been really difficult as I loved him a lot. He has a lot of family and finance problems, and was controlling. Anyway, we tried the FWB thing, but I was too ... (198 words

Hurt, confused, and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been going out with the same guy for the last 8 months. It wasn't until recently that we started arguing a lot over dumb things. The problem that i have, and have stated in the past fights we've gotten into, is his lack of trying to make things better. I feel as if we ... (475 words

Friend of a friend fancies me, but I don't feel the same! How do I tell my friend I don't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm not sure how to tell my friend that i'm not interested in her male friend. Her friend fancies me. I have met up with him twice, and it was only for a couple of hours each time. Both times i saw him, he got hold of me and gave me a kiss on the cheek without asking me !. I ... (337 words

How do I shave without leaving stubble?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - How do i shave my pubic area? My boyfriend has recently asked my to completely shave my vagina, but when i did it with a razor, it just turned stubbly so wasn't very attractive. How do i shave without leaving stuble for a more sexy look?... (48 words

I cannot love him, even although we're married... Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1338 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for the last 12 years, have wonderful 2 kids. My husband is a good man. We belong to different cultures. It was a difficult for me to adjust but I knew what I was getting into. I fell out of love with him a long time back. I dont miss him if he's not ... (130 words

Am I able to pull it off as my boyfriend's baby?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 1340 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi I'm in a tough situation,I think I might be pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby. My current boyfriend and I have been trying for a year for a baby and haven't had any luck. He cheated on me 3 times a while back and out of anger I went and cheated on him because it kept ... (426 words

He's not in love with me any more but still loves me romantically... What gives???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex once said that he wasn't in love with me anymore but that he still loves me romantically and more than just a friend. I'm confused. What does this mean? I thought if you aren't "in love" with someone, you're loving them as a friend ... ... (47 words

I KNOW my husband's cheating... what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have just found out about the affair of my husband which has been going on for ove 3 years now. I have caught him many times but he always managed to convince me that it was not him but it is for his friend until i read all the messages on his phones and the pictures that he ... (91 words

I feel so strongly about him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I met this boy and the moment I saw him I was totally head over heals!! I'm NOT kidding. I knew he was a great catch, I just instantly feel something. I slipped my phone number is his jacket when it was hanging up, and eventually we got to texting. He told me he had a ... (257 words

Head full of the ex when we have sex!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we get along very well. He's stable, he has a good job, he's good looking, and he cares for me a lot. Unfortunately, I end up thinking about sex with one of my exes while I'm having sex with my boyfriend. I fee... (182 words

She broke it off with me because of my problems in the bedroom...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 51-59 - my ex-girlfriend broke up with me six months ago over my erectile dysfunction/uncertainty in the bedroom. Is there anything I can do? christmas card, her birthday in a few months, etc. I'm heartbroken, we were great together, and i just wish i could talk to her! ... (47 words

I don't want to hurt anyone... but I love them BOTH!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello help me plz i have been in the downward spiral since summer and i now turn to random people to help me... I fell for this guy he but he didn't like me at the time, so i gave up when he fell for a friend... i started talking to this guy's friend in ireland he is co... (553 words

I feel so guilty...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - I need advice please. I married my best friend that I never loved romantically. She got pregnant and I have the most wonderful child. I left my wife when my child was under 1 as I did not want to cheat and was not pleased sexually. I feel so guilty as she did nothing wrong. A ... (150 words

What is the price to pay for an affair when there are children involved?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1336 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 20 years. A month ago i found out that my husband is having an affair with my best friend. My friend stood there and let me confide in her while she was having an affair with my husband, in fact she was treated like family by all of us. We have 3 kids ... (378 words

Is my boyfriend getting too involved???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and living with him for nearly 1. He's a very caring person and goes out of his way to help other people, it's his second nature almost. Usually I don't have a problem with this (as I'm pretty much the same) unless I feel that ... (488 words

I think his ex is sending me text messages to keep away pretending to be HIM!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - About 2 years ago i met this guy through mutual friends and he immediately showed an interest in me and started messaging me, having got my number from one of my friends. I wasnt interested whatsoever as i was at a stage of my life where i didnt feel the need for a ... (885 words

Birthday blues...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My bf of almost one year didn't bother to give me so much as a card for my birthday. He did take me to dinner, and this isn't a money issue. I went all out for his birthday six months ago. I still can't get over feeling really hurt, should I ask him why? And how can I go ... (66 words

What to do about the girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - There is a new girl where i work she has been there about 2 weeks and we have spoke a bit and we smile at each other, we do really speak alot its just every now and then, i cant tell if she likes me but i wanted to get to know her but didnt want to seem too pressuring or ... (152 words

Why can't I be with the girl that I love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Why can't I be with the girl that I love? People always say no pain no gain but how much pain I have to go through. I seriously had enough pain and I am too tired to continue. I have loved two girls so far at different time. I spent 15 months on the first girl and I n... (233 words

Non-blood-related cousin asked me out, I think I like her but am very confused about the consequences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello there, i will tell you my story and hopefully you will help me with it. A cousin of mine (due to some circumstances Not blood related) asked me out on a date with a straight forward way few days ago, I never though her like this way I know her really long time now (so... (150 words

My partner and I had a really nasty violent argument... I don't know what to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - I really done know where to start... my partner and I had a really nasty argument,to the extent he physically hurt me. He is being very secretive with his phone and says its about his divorce, but normally he would show me. I did discovered a few months ago that he was on a ... (122 words

I'm feeling empty even though all should be well. How can I improve things for the better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have been happily married for 6 years and very proud to Have a pretty wife and a father of two lovely kids. Just when I should felt like I have everything in the world I have been feeling somewhat empty lately. I miss the time when I actually first fell in love with some... (133 words

Am I expecting too much even though he's not her biological father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend I have been dating long distance for a year. He has a strick job and a boss that refers him self as the devil... I tell him to get a new job but it seems like he's stuck... I have a two year old daughter who does not know her real father and calls my ... (120 words

My girlfriend keeps picking fights and rejecting me. What's a man to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1250 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I returned home with my girlfriend about half an hour ago. We just spent the last six hours with two new friends. One of which happens to be an old girlfriend of mine. But before you go "oh you idiot", it wasn't my idea. They've friended on facebook (my gf and my ex-gf) and ... (622 words

I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 1330 days ago

17 December 2010 (? age 26-29 - How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to work instead of a suit. ... (242 words

I feel so unloved and I no longer love my husband. Is divorce the answer, or is there another solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 25 years old and mother of 2. I'm married for 6 years now and I find my self not in love with my husband anymore. I have been supporting my husband financially so he can graduate for the past 4 1/2 years. (he is supposed to be done next summer) He says he loves me but ... (248 words

Her interest in me is waning. Is it time to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend 2 years younger than me finished her studies in NZ, and she went back to vietnam due to family issue. She will be there for at least a couple of years, and due to my personal issue, i cant work in vietnam. so, we are currently in a long distance relationship. ... (327 words

Things are about to get complicated. Should I tell my ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - Should I tell my ex gf that the person who broke her heart fell in love with me when my ex was breaking my heart. I met my ex gfs ex two weeks ago at a job fair. Its weird. We have been seeing each other ever since the night of the job fair. We will be working in the same ... (63 words

I just want my mum and my boyfriend to get on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I would like know how to handle the situation between my mum and boyfriend, i live with my mum, we dont really get along that well. i also have a boyfriend of 10 months, my mum loves him, but my boyfriend doesn't like staying at my house when mum was at home. but now he doesnt ... (126 words

I love my best friend with all my heart but he doesn't feel the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - So whats been going on is i love my best friend. i really love him with all my heart, more than i could ever express in words. but, he doesnt feel the same.. i have talked to him about it, he said im too much like a brother to date.. We have had sex a few times, not many, didnt ... (155 words

Bigamy in my family. How can it be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - My sister got married 10 years ago in India. Her husband is working in Abu Dhabi. They have three daughters. For some reason her husband got an affair with another girl in india (through internet) and they got married without divorcing my sister and they are staying together in ... (84 words

He doesn't last long at all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi. Um.. Well im sexually active with my boyfriend. I got the needle yesterday (its ment to stop you getting pregnant.) My mother knows, we cant tell my father because, he doesnt really have anything to do with me and he absolutely hates my boyfriend, he doesnt even live ... (137 words

What are your top 5 "Must haves" and "Can't stands"

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - Poll (just for fun). For women and men, for you, what are the top 5 "MUST HAVES" and the top 5 "CAN'T STANDS" when evaluating members of the opposite sex as a potential lifelong partner? I guess mine would be Must Haves: friendly disposition reasonably attractive a... (100 words

I want this guy back in my life but I don't know how to resolve this and I'm filled with anxiety over this problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I can't forget about this guy I was friends with; it's been months but I still cry over him. I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him, but I've been in a situation where I'm not around people and my social anxiety has become so bad I have trouble talking to my closest friends. I'd ... (118 words

Would taking birth control pills make my breasts larger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1313 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello. I'm 18 years old and my bra size ia 32A and I wish I could have at least a b cup without doing any surgery. From the research I've come across, some people say that birth control pills work! I just wonder if it really does work... PS. if you have any tips, they are v... (73 words

Does it get boring when your boyfriend tells you he loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - hey, i just wanna know if the gitls like it when their bf keep telling them that they love them , or does it at some point get boring ?!! in my opinion i think its the best thing to tell her from time to time that u love her but u also need to act a bit ignorant sometime... (105 words

How do I tell my friend to update his language and stop sounding ridiculous?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 16-17 - Hi, I'm a freshman and I have this best friend "JP". I use slang a lot when I talk: aiight, fookie, stresst, heated, blawk, gucci, boi, fit, madd, sick, tight, etc. It just kinda rolls off my tongue jst as well as the next guy. this kind of language is most commonly associated ... (155 words

Biggest chopper???

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17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - This is for the girls. What are the dimensions of the biggest penis a guy you had sex with? My girlfriend won't have sex with me cuz she says I'm too big. True I'm bigger than average but I want to show her it's possible for us. I've had sex with other girls, some liked it ... (79 words

Mystery girl..should I send her a message on facebook?

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17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Alright this will prob sound very teenage girlish of me, but what the hell im a 20 yr guy that needs advice. so i broke up with my first girlfriend(of about a yr) about a month ago. The is a this girl that was in a couple of my classes in college that was really pretty a... (328 words

It was our secret relationship and now I don't know what to do

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17 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - what should i do if i was dating this guy and i didnt tell my friend that we were dating and she starts to like him and i try to get them together knowing me and me and him flirt all the time and i stop it a lot and the last time he said f*Ck it and i didnt redply to the text ... (71 words

I didn't get to sleep with her when she was a virgin!

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17 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - Dear reader, my question concerns a deep psychological anxiety which I suffer from. In my more rational moments I know that it is immature, petty and even silly. But we are human and often the chaos of the psyche escapes into the lived reality of our real and outer life. I have ... (245 words

How do I make myself stop wondering about him?

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17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy during my internship. I didn't get the chance to know him very well while I was there. But after the internship we did kept in touch, we IMed constantly, texted back and forth, etc. He seemed like a really nice guy. He isn't my type at all physically. But his ... (295 words

I'm 14, he's 18..is it a good idea to date?

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17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay so this is considered wrong sometimes i guess. Okay so im 14 and I am going to be quite honest the guy i like 18 and he likes me to. My issue i giess is what other people say about it? In the State of Indiana i know that if someone has sex with someone at 14 even if its ... (343 words

Girls can you understand why she dumped me? I loved her

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17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - We met... there was an interest, we hooked up an became the best of friends that slepted together after a year of this we eventually wised up and officially became a couple, i have had alot of girls and im no amateur but we were so happy together, it was perfect in so many ... (276 words

Which guy do I pick?

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17 December 2010 (F age 16-17 - I think i like two guys at once, help! One of them i have just met recently, and we are almost officially going out. The other one is one of my best guy friends. We all go to different schools, so they dont know each other, but my friend knows about the other guy. I feel like ... (121 words

Help please! My girlfriend doesn't feel the same!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi! Here's my story... My girlfriend (of three years) has gone to university about four months ago, while I am on a year off (going to a diff uni in sept..8 months from now). Her uni is only 2 hours away away so we would see each other often and everything was going great unti... (228 words

My ex is back and I'm unsure how to handle her return!

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17 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - The days are ticking away and it's making me a little on edge just thinking about it. In about a week or so my ex is coming back to work for christmas break, she left for university in the fall and when she did it really took alot of stress out of my life because of the w... (249 words

Abortion shattered our lives!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - Basicly I was with a woman I truly cared for. We loved each other to death. We have matching tattoos on our hands on our ring finger. We were engaged for over a year now and known each other for 6 years. We have been through everything together. I have always been there and she ... (826 words

Someone please tell what this bump is!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1341 days ago

17 December 2010 (? age 18-21 - Hello im 15 years old, never had sex but i do masterbate. I think i might have hpv I am not sure. I googled this too but i want the agony aunts help also. I have this bump around my vagina. It hurts to touch its hard and i dont know how to explain it, ive just ignored it ... (214 words

Is he simply playing games?

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17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - There's this guy I started developing feelings for were both the same age 19, I'll be 20 in a few weeks. We met in this internet-chat thing about 5 years ago. But we talked for a few months then stopped. He found me again on Facebook, I added him. We talked for a while then we ... (229 words

He practised with me, it ended, but does he still like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1346 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - ok i dont "fall in love" with guy it doesnt happen. but i have been best friends with a guy who i think i love.. we have been friends for 2 years and over the summer we wanted to "practice" stuff so we were ready when the time came with someone else.. we promised each other we ... (144 words

I used the online hard-to-get tactic and it backfired!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was a asswipe and fell for playing that stupid "how to get and keep a girl" tactic and it ended up backfiring right in my face and now the love of my life is moving out of state with another man Please tell me how I can stop it in the next two months that's when I heard sh... (211 words

He doesn't talk to other girls when I'm not around.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - There is guy in my class who looks at me a lot but doesn't talk to me as he talks to other girls in class. My friends says that he only talks to girls in front of me. If I don't go to school or miss my class then he doesn't talk to other girls like the way he does in front of ... (72 words

Really need a male perspective...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1342 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've recently got back together with an ex. We dated for a year, 7 years ago. (I was 25 and had ended it because I'd felt it was too intense - he was very much in love with me, proposed etc., and I wasn't ready, then.) He still feels the same way about me now, and I for h... (218 words

I've lost the spark with my b/f, but it's there with his friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone. I have a relationship problem. I've had a boyfriend for almost 2years (I am 19 now) I love him dearly and he loves me. He is sweet, kind and I'm his everything. His dad also treats me like family. However there is something missing in the relationship; th... (299 words

Very disturbing behaviour from my son

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17 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I hope you can take the time to help! I have a ten year old son, and since he was born he's been the sweetest, smartest, and generous boy I've ever known and wanted. He did his homework every night and I've never had to ask him twice to do anything. But, for the ... (119 words

Did I blow it by telling him I was attracted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1346 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - so i have a dilemma. i met this guy about two years ago. we were both single, and he showed interest, but i didn't really take the bait too fast, i didn't want to seem easy. as time passed we hung out and went on a couple casual dates, but somehow we sort of lost contact with ... (211 words

Heartbroken and confused about my future love life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1335 days ago

17 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I dated someone for 8-9 months and it has been fully 5 months since the breakup and i'm still not over him. it was my first relationship. the break was really hard. I am worried that maybe he is the one, why else am i having such a hard time moving on? I just can't think of ... (74 words

Attracted to my therapist. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1334 days ago

17 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I feel attracted to my therapist and understand that unfortunately absolutely nothing is going to come out of that attraction, for the following reasons: 1. The therapist, despite her friendly, non-judgmental disposition, is just doing what she is paid and trained to do an... (643 words

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset when he drops this bombshell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

17 December 2010 (? age 22-25 - Hi. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been together for 3 years.(He's a year older, so I skipped my senior year of HS, graduated a year early, just so we could go away to college together.) As far as our future goes, we've always had a reasonably set, yet flexible, plan. ... (266 words

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