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writes:Hi!Im confused and need your advice please.I think im falling inlove with my first cousin. The first time i met him was 5 years ago when they spend their vacation here in PI coz he was born in US and he grew up there.It's weird coz the first time i met him, it feels like i have known him for a long time. Last Oct.26 2010 he went here on PI to spend vacation again. We were roommates then and i was surprised coz he kissed me on my lips and he's my first kiss. Then he said it's gonna be our secret. He said he likes me a lot.OCtober 30 when we went to my aunts house and stayed there for 2days, its just me and him there. then he kissed me again and i almost forgot that we were cousins coz i almost give him myself. sigh...what shall i do? im confused what was his feeling for me coz he's courting other girls and i got jealous with the girl he is courting. when he went back to states he still keeps on texting me almost everyday. he got mad or sad whenever im not texting him back. i thik i love him already but idk if he feels the same way with me. he always say he loves me and he miss me almost everyday.idk if im gonna believe him. sigh...help me please. he's american citizen that's y idk what ti think about him coz idk bout their culture,. maybe he's just too sweet to me ad im just misinterpreting him when he's saying that he loves me and misses me almost evryday
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reader, hopeful31 +, writes (15 December 2010):
hopeful31 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for the response. do u think i need to stop communicating with him? he got mad if i dont text him bakc and he got jealous when our other cousin startedcommunicating with me. he doesn't want me to communicate with our other cousin just him. he even blocked my cousin from canada to his facebook.
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reader, hopeful31 +, writes (15 December 2010):
hopeful31 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for the response. do u think i need to stop communicating with him? he got mad if i dont text him bakc and he got jealous when our other cousin startedcommunicating with me. he doesn't want me to communicate with our other cousin just him. he even blocked my cousin from canada to his facebook.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): it is illegal in only 30 states not in u.s in general and sometimes loves just happens just wait and see where it goes
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reader, steph007  +, writes (13 December 2010):
It is good that this love is a long distance love. Love between first cousins is not a good and not acceptable relationship - I guess even not in the Philippines. I do not say that this love never happened yet on the Earth - mainly between really young "far grown up" relatives - but it is just not good. So, even if you get really close to each other it is better if the relationship is intermittent and very discrete. And what is important; you must not reserve yourself for this cousin. Meantime you are e-mailing with him, you should have your everyday relationship with someone else, who is out of the family. You were who wrote: "he's courting other girls". You should do the same!! (And if you still have some urge to play a bit with him - that is an other part of the story)
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reader, Nonamus  +, writes (12 December 2010):
It's illegal to marry your first cousin here in the US.
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reader, meestal  +, writes (12 December 2010):
Out of all the 6 billion people in the world, this guy is the only one that makes you feel right? Girl, maybe you need to open your eyes a bit.
I don't think it's a super good idea to move forward with this guy. Not because he's your cousin, that's kind-of weird, but there's been US presidents whose parents were first cousins. No, I'd say the problem is this guy is playing you. He's not treating you respectfully enough.
You deserve better than him, and better may be everywhere around you!
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