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41-50,
*heresmyluck
writes:Hi everyone;I was the dumpee of the 5 years relationship which 2 and half years living together with the dumper. The reasons she broke up with me 4 times prior to this break up all with similar reasons, i dont know what i want, you deserve someone better then me, i love you but not in love with you, since we been too long together i love you as a friend, i cant do commitment etc... These were the reasons of our breakups for all the time. And now its been 2 months since the final break up ( i dont want to continue with this girl anymore anyway) but just wondered why when something is finished finally by dumper (as she said so) still keep me on their msn etc.. Please read my question below and help me.Why would dumper keep dumpees msn contact etc... on their messenger/aim and sign on time to time when they dont even have anyone else to talk on their messenger after saying goodbye?Also when they know that dumpee knows their password why wouldnt they change their password and put their status saying "stop going into my account and getting my details get a life saddo" I reckon easier to change password? I think dumper trying to boost their ego but what it is from dumpers perspective?PS: Its in No contact whatsoever but i know the password for dumpers emails and im positive that dumper have no one on their messenger to talk to.Im not stalking anyone just wondered thats all. When its over why dumper wouldnt block and delete?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Hey,
It could mean a lot of things. In my experience and from what I've been told is that girls traditionally like to be friends with the guys after break ups. Just to cents. Im not a girl so it could many different things. 1. She wants to check up on you. Sometimes my exs like to communicate with me and ask me how life is going. 2. It could be an ego boost. You said you've broken up before and came back together right? Well maybe she likes to keep you where your at so she knows she can always call upon you when she is in need. Some girls may do this but it can uber hurt full and shes kind of using you. All situations aside try to keep an openmind about things. Practice looking at 3-4 different angles. Cause developing a narrow view about something will only allow that to happen.
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