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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

I want to talk to my crush, but my mind goes blank!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - since i was 16 i always wanted a girlfriend but did not know the proper way to ask her , here i am 21 and i met a girl and it sounds like she is interested in me and i like her to but i dont know what to say to her.... (53 words

Boyfriend has an alcohol problem and broke my nose.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi I am 20 years old liveing with my boyfriend who is 35. Everthing was just fine until he started drinking realy bad! I have left him becasu of him hitting me on two different occasions but I took him back! About a week ago he broke my nose. I am back with my mom now,... (147 words

He's spinning me right round, right round..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone: Lately I've been going through a lot because of this guy I dated nd I'm in love with and now I don't know what to do. My story goes like this : I met him on january and since the first day we saww each other we had like a connection and like each other a... (915 words

I'm a widower who has fallen in love with my divorced sister-in-law!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age - help me.i have fallen in love with my sister in law.i am a widower and she is the sister of my now deceased wife.she is divorced and we both have grown up children. i know that she also has feelings for me but feels that our love is wrong and will lead nowhere.how do i get he... (66 words

I'm afraid of freaking him out if I say those 3 words!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1294 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok so this is the thing, I have been in a serious relationship with this guy for 5 months already and we both have agreed that not only do we enjoy each others company but that our relationship is in good grounds so far. He is great and makes me feel so special, that (along ... (408 words

Oh no, it's all gone horribly wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - This is it, this is the big one, what i have feared for a while now. Background, my ex and i broke up 6 months ago and he was with another girl days after we split. I have had interest from other guys, but nothing ever really came from them. Just recently (nearly 3 weeks ... (259 words

My boyfriend doesn't care about me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1414 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, im 28 years old and met my boyfriend in vacation, when we came back to our country we continue our contacts and after a while be a friend. he is 22 years old and live in onother country,he talk to eachother by phone and chat and skype. i dont know how i felt i like him to ... (148 words

She didn't want to see anyone else, but she didn't want a relationship either?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello everybody! I am in a big love pickle at the moment and would greatly appreciate if someone could offer advice to me. :( I REALLY need it :( Ok so I'll start from the beginning: I met this girl at a friends birthday party in june of this year. We hit it off really wel... (1007 words

My best friend's brother asked me to sleep with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - hi, I'm wondering something. A few weeks to a month ago my best friend's brother asked me to sleep with him. I said no and told him that it wasn't right because 1 I don't believe in sex before marriage 2 he's17 i'm 15 making it illegal 3 he has a girlfriend. ever since then ... (103 words

I feel like any girl is prettier than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - well!!! ive been dating my bf for about two years and when we first started dating he seemed to always be talking to girls and i found out because i checked his texts. Ok so theres this one girl he seemed to like a lot because they talked a lot about how much theyd like to see ... (546 words

Has she lost interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Okay so a girl who likes me used to text me all the time and joke around with me at school etc etc and now its different, she doesnt text me unless i text her before and at school she often ignores me, has she lost interest? What does she want? Please help me.... (54 words

Why do white guys ask me if I've been with a black guy?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - white guys, why do you have problems/questions with girls who've been with black boys before? why is it that every white guy ive been with has asked me if ive ever been with a black guy, what is the big deal all about?!?!... (43 words

Rocky relationship with my boyfriend but I have no where else to go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ive got myself in a bit of a situation. I live with my boyfriend of 5 years and our relationships has been a bit rocky a for long time. when we spend time together all we seem to do is argue and the arguments are always about the same things. i often feel happy when im ... (309 words

Lack of intimacy led to an affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 6 years. Wife and I are both in our mid 30's. We have two beautiful boys, a newly built house and on the surface appears to be a picture perfect life. Here's the problem. 2-3 years ago our sex life went from average to non existant. We have tried ... (304 words

Want some privacy to ask her out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - For the last year or two I attended badminton training during summer break. In my first year there, I met a girl who seemed to connect pretty well with me. Then life happened, and I wasn't able to see her until around September of this year. Our training is every Saturday for ... (157 words

My GF has a crush on another. and I feel as if I'm her default.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi, my gf and I been dating for 3 years. for the 3 years.. we always spoke about how no other person could replace either of us.. she promised to be with me forever and that no other guy was better than me. We were a cute couple.. and we now know almost everything to know about ... (399 words

Why is it easy for women to stop looking after marriage, and so hard for men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1254 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - {Moderator note: two questions from the same poster combined} Just a quick question. After a woman gets married it's easy for her to look at a man and not feel attracted to him or think of him sexually or get aroused by him. So why is it so hard for a married man to not look... (85 words

Help me to interpret his signals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am very confused/ puzzled about this guy I like...I met him about a month ago..and we get along great..I am a little naive about how men give signals ,ive only had one boyfriend but I would say I am very mature, he is fun and youthful and a great person..he is older than ... (185 words

She untagged our romantic Facebook pictures?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - I really like this girl who lives the same floor as me in our University accommodation. We went to a club on Monday and i bumped into her. She was with two of her friends away from the dance floor and looked bit upset. I went over and she hugged me. Her voice was very soft ... (380 words

He asked for "space" -- does this mean things are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear friends, dear friends, Your advice has been extemely valuable and made me deal effectively with many issues in the past. I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months. the last time i want to his place i was not in a very good mood and he asked me what was wro... (291 words

Lovesick thoughts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I do believe that I am a lovesick person. I dont always feel this way. I only feel this way whenever I meet a new girl, and all I think about is actually falling in love. Ive be alone for a long time, but I am not a virgin, or a prude. I feel really love sick this time, and I... (279 words

Eeny, meeny, miny, mo!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm a seventeen year old girl and quite frankly...I'm completely confused. A few months ago the guy I was in love with broke up with me. I've had plenty of "likes" but never feelings quite like the ones I had for him. When it first happened I was devastated, I never thought I ... (472 words

Boyfriend won't use condoms because he says they're gross and smell bad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (? age 22-25 - Hi Im 21 years old and i have been with my boyfreind for 4 years and recently he wont use condoms he says that they are gross they smell and that he cant feel anything when they are on and he gets turned off. it make me upset that he doesnt want to use them and at this time i ... (172 words

How can I conceal these stretch marks before prom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi! :) Ok I feel really paranoid because my prom is in 2 weeks and I have stretch marks on my legs, the thing is, I'm wearing a knee length dress because I'm not actually overweight, (size 8/10) so I have no idea why I have these stretchmarks and it's really getting me down ... (179 words

I don't think I've had an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - i am a girl. i hava had sex and ofcourse it always feels good. but i dont kno what an orgasm is or whats the feeling of it ? how do i know when i am having an orgasm... (39 words

After almost two years I asked that he commit to me and he found it absurd!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is going to sound a little crazy...for two years I have been seeing a guy, who for the first 10 months told me we could not be together properly because he was still really close to his ex and they still saw alot of eachother. So we could only meet up when he said. I fell ... (207 words

I don't want to be with her, but I hate seeing other guys with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, ive been with this girl off and on for about a year and a half but like it always goes well for like the first couple months than i get bored so then it kinda doesnt work out cuz i wanna see other girls, but when we break up she's always all over my close frie... (101 words

How do I redeem myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Today I did something very embarrassing! I have a bad affliction whereby I can't help but smile or look like I'm laughing in inappropriate situations, like at work for one of many examples. I do it out of some kind of nervousness. And today at wrk I did it in front of this bl... (201 words

She calls him every day - do you think he is still seeing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend used to see a girl he worked with for about 2 years. he said they broke up and he started seeing me. i found about a year ago that she calls him still everyday. he denied it until i told him i could see the phone records. then he says she is calling about ... (128 words

Secret relationship with much younger sister-in-law

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am 42 year old married man. I am very close to my 18 year sis-in-law. She is bubbly and jolly in nature. She is very fond of me. She allows me to hugg, kiss and touch her boobs. She often says she loves me.I too say same. We enjoy a flirting relationship. How should i... (72 words

Why would he vanish again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I think at this point I do not care that much but still I would like to understand what happened. Why is he ignoring me ? I do not think it is something i did but cannot stop wonder. We had an amazing thing together going on for several months. He was crazy about me and I f... (311 words

He wouldn't take 'no' for an answer but now doesn't seem to care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi,there's this guy that really loved me and he asked me out, i just liked him as a friend so i had to turn him down, but he wouldnt take no for an answer.he kept asking and asking, and i felt so bad, i had to accept. he always calls, text me all d time but of recent he seemd ... (88 words

How do I give him the time and space he needs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - im 21 and my boy is 29. we started talking in august and been together since then. hes amazing has everything a girl wants in a guy, succesful, smart, amazing body and face, caring, generous, its almsot so perfect i can almost guarantee his the "one". Im in school and he ... (603 words

Do I emphasize "no contact" after being dumped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - What do you think of the no contact rule if you have been the one dumped, yet still in love? My bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago because he thinks we fight too much and he needs time to himself. He claims he still loves me, buthis behavior is hot and cold. I plan on moving in 3 ... (116 words

How do I walk out of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - I met this married man who made me fall in love with him with his good heart, wits and charm. The empathy that I initially felt for him when he started confiding about his sexless marriage has turned into a deep friendship (myself having had experienced a sexless marriage for ... (333 words

This was a big mistake wasn't it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hoe stupid of me was this? My boyfriend has been bugging me for forever about having 2 girls give him head. I finally said no its never gonna happen if you want it so bad go do it with 2 other girls. He took this literally! I mean I love him so much and wanna let him do it to ... (73 words

How do I deal with favouritism at work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I love my job with all of my heart. I have heard rumors of favoritism and people not being allowed to grow and get promotions, etc. I have seen first hand that people are not treated equally at my job. The favoritism occurs at the highest levels, so there is no one, not even... (228 words

I'm a quiet and shy person but what do their comments mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone could help me figure out what each of these comments mean. I feel offended and ebarassed when people point out my shyness, especially by the way they mention it. I've had people saying things such as " what's wrong with you ? " , just because i am ... (138 words

Help! I have a phobia of being bullied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey, i need some advice about my phobia. before i explain, i hope people will take me seriously and give me constructive advice and not tell me to get over myself. my sister abused me phycally and emotionally from when i was born until i was 12years old, when we moved house. m... (799 words

How do I make him realize it's over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I know this is really long, and I'm sorry. I need to tell the whole story because I'm lost right now. I hope you take the time to read it and give me some help. I don't know what to do. I was dating this boy for a while and then because we kept fighting... (1462 words

Should I tell my mother in law I find her sexy?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm 28 and very sexually and emotionally attracted to my mother in law. she is 45. I have known her for 8 yrs and we get along very well. she knows I check her out every chance I get and has never said anything, she has checked me out before and flirted a little but nothing ... (100 words

Should I leave it up to fate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi there, im in a perdicament, im nearly 21 and ive been in 1 real serious relationship when i was 16, unfortunatly it didnt work out, ever since then i havent wanted to get into a relationship untill the rest of my life was sorted, ive been in and out of loads of jobs, nothing ... (185 words

I'm back with my ex, but I can't help but have eyes for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I just got back with ex and now I'm eying someone else!!!!! WTF!!!! I love my ex but idk if I can see us being together forever and I'm younger than him and I wanna see what else is out there but the last time we broke up it was very bad so I'm scared if I do decide to brake ... (76 words

When do I go in for a kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 18-21 - This girl that I've liked for ages has finally said she likes me aswell but she doesn't want a serious relationship at the moment but she does want in her own words to be get off buddies, so I don't really know how to know when the right time is to kiss her help??... (54 words

Is she breaking up with me? I don't know what to do.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been arguing a lot lately, she is always so snappy and argumentative. ,She says i annoy her all the time, but i really cant see what im doing and if i ask her she will cause a massive argument and threaten to end the relasionship. This morning ... (180 words

I'm scared of sex and marriage now! Can someone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi! I am a Pakistani muslim girl and my problem is kind of freaky and stupid!! It's just that i got married to my cousin(my mom's elder sister's son)in the end of december 2008. He was quite good and friendly before our marriage. when we got engaged he and i were completing our ... (318 words

Long distance communication problems....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello..I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for 8 months now. When we first met, we talked all the time. He'd text me througout the day and would call me every night. He was always saying sweet things and telling me how he felt about me and such. Slowly, that all changed. Right ... (291 words

He wants to get married, but I do not and because of this he wants to break up.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and i have been together for five long years. Of course we've had our ups and our downs, and iv caught him texting another girl a few times during our second year of being together. I love this boy to death there is no doubt in my mind about that, but now he thinks ... (175 words

Does he still love his ex wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am in a muddle. I am an Australian girl just 25. I have been in a relationship with an older man for four years now, he is 42. I am worried he still loves his ex wife. He gives me every reason to be suspicious. he never talks to her infront of me, turns to her for advice, and ... (207 words

How can I lengthen my penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - My penis is 5 inches long when erect,how can i lengthen it?... (12 words

Should I get even with my ex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi , Here's a question for all you guys and girls. Whats the best way of revenge on an ex. My girlfriend of two years who I was extremely loyal and faithful to had an affair with two different guys. I don't mean just sex ... she was in an emotional relationship as ... (191 words

My wife left but acts as though I kicked her out! I don't understand why!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - A question for women my ex recently left because she said that we grew apart. She was the one who wanted to leave so I told her to leave it began to get a bit messy because she did not have the money to leave and expected me to give it to her. This is from a woman who paid for ... (152 words

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - pls help me out, am a 17 years pld virgin and my boyfriend put his hand inside me which really hurt me and later i saw blood coming out. my question is ,am i still a virgin? pls i need answer urgently.thanks... (43 words

My ex is ruining my current relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - my ex is going to end up ruining my current relationship because she fucked with my self esteem my current gf brought up a threesome today and i was all for it but at 1 in the morning i woke up at 1 and was and am freaking out now what if she gets something from the other pe... (175 words

Do men think about other women whilst having sex with their partners?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok i am curious..i myself when i am having Sex with my fiance he is all i think about, not any other men or nothing like that, i have been like that with all guys i have had Sex with..i only get off on what is in front of me and what i am feeling, but my Q is are guys ... (161 words

Has he always felt disgusted by my past and my son's ethnic origin? Or is it just an excuse to dump me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a bit older than me, we've been together for about 18months. I have a son from a previous relationship who is 5 years old, he idolizes my bf and I thought the feeling was mutual until just recently. We have been having a lot of problems recently,he can'... (277 words

I know I have made mistakes, I'm not perfect but neither is he! What can I do to save this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1397 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - Well im new to this but here it goes im 15 years old.Im in a long distance relationship I've been going out with him for a year and four months now.We meet by a prank call random i know but when we meet we hit it off and fell crazy in love with each other.Though we've been ... (1103 words

Why do women play hard to get?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - I don't know if there's something wrong with me, but I get extremely angry when a woman is interested in me but she plays hard to get. Why do women do that? Why can't they just throw themselves at you if they are genuinely interested. It would make life less complicated. Rig... (69 words

Unfinished business....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - Has anyone ever found themselves still holding on after a breakup because there's a lot a unfinished business to wrap up or plans that were cut off in mid play?... (30 words

She wants to write off everything we ever had......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - I met this girl online 8 years ago, we have been friends since then up until now. 2 Years ago we started talking a lot more personally and soon fell into a mutual love. During the last two years me and her have shaped eachother's lives. I do not exaggerate when I mention t... (1078 words

Am I crazy for feeling uncomfortable about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - My relationship has become a twisted vortex of confusion and I need to get some opinions before I explode. Its gonna be a long one so get ready. October 20th I break up with my girlfriend. We were having problems, quite a few that I was causing myself, that I felt I needed to... (1370 words

Why did he go to a dating agency when we are so happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - i have been wiith my partner 10 months now and 3 weeks ago he went to a dating agency and told me he was curious and wanted to find out if he was ready to settle down and if was me wanted to share life with . we are so happy ... (51 words

What exactly is a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a wierd question: What exactly is a relationship? i have never had a relationship, but i see all these happy couples around town holding hands, kissing, buying things for each other, doing nice gestures for each other, and obviously saying those 3 words "i love you". I... (151 words

Cheated but it was protected sex, now I am pregnant but don't know who this father is!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I had protected sex during my ovulation week. I had a lot to drink that night and it was a big mistake. But at least we used a condom and correctly. But i have a boyfriend that i had been trying to have a child with. And we have unprotected sex all the tme.we have 1 other child ... (115 words

I just wanted to remain good friends with him, but then I dreamt we were living together! What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have this guy friend, that while yeah we do have sex and only talk about going out on I guess you can say a "date", i dont see us as a couple and want to remain good friends with him. Well i had a dream of him the other night that we were a couple and he was livin with me at ... (71 words

Tips for male virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - I may have my first sexual experience with this girl that I really like (she's not a virgin). So far, from the things that I've read over the internet: I should take it slow (no rabbit humping), and include a lot of foreplay. Any tips on foreplay and does rhythm come naturally? ... (99 words

Stay or Leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we are very compatible. Recently, for the second time, (his ex fiance who is married) has stayed at his place because her relationship was so bad and she had supposedly no where to go. It was for a few days each time and he didnt ... (136 words

For the guys: advice needed about my ex boyfriend's previous girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - so first off im 17, so its a highschool relationship, any how here's the situation. My now ex-boyfriend and i were together for roughly 11 months, our brake up was mutual, then we ended wanting to give our relationship another shot, but the problem was one of us didnt while the ... (282 words

Are we rushing things? Is that why I still occasionally think about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi Aunts and Uncles! This is a stupid situation I got myself into. This is a bit lengthy, so please bear with me. I need to dish all the details to help YOU help ME. Thanks... First off: My boyfriend if fucking amazing. Like literally... he's basically all I could ask for in... (1179 words

When love turns to hate.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - What does the saying "When love turns to hate" personally mean to you? Have you ever experienced it? I have and it was the best thing that ever happened between him and I! Life's Great!... (35 words

Is my boyfriend a pervert? How do I deal with ex-girlfriend syndrome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1391 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - So there's two major questions in my relationship. Is my boyfriend a pervert? And is he not over his ex girlfriend? Me and my boyfriend have been together now for 7 months and we have a happy relationship so far. Prior to him I've steered clear from serious relation... (647 words

Do women really like one night stands? Is "new" sex more of a turn-on? Or, is the sex better after you've been married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - The conventional wisdom seems to be that sex for women is more emotionally involved than it is for men. The gist of this seems to be that women like sex better when they're in a committed, stable, loving relationship. Yet, I see a lot of posts by men on this site who have be... (296 words

About to get married in 4 months, but I feel nothing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm very confused at this point. I am 22 and about to marry my boyfriend of 4 years in 4 months, and I feel nothing. I'm not overly excited and even though I love him with all my heart and feel he's my soul mate, I feel like we've lost our spark. I was excited to plan a simple ... (292 words

Did my boyfriend cheat on me with his psycho ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. From the begining his ex, mother of his two children, has been harrassing me. She's jealous of me and wants him back. She is also jealous that her kids love me. She really went off the deep end when she found out I was ... (379 words

Am I weird for feeling confused?

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8 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I guy I was dating told me things that a lot of men I have dated have never told me-----he told me that he could see living his life with me, that he was falling in love with me, that he was surprised that no one ever asked me to marry them, etc. He never asked me for any... (527 words

Can anybody tell me how to forget him?

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8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - I have a friend, I have a crush on him. We used to be like best friends. Somehow, this one day he suddenly says he hates me, more in precise, he despised me. He then told all of my other friends to leave or he'll kick their ass. I know I have to forget him, and he has moved on ... (103 words

Building trust after being cheated on.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Just wondering if anyone has any advice on dealing with trust issues after being cheated on? Can couples therapy/councilling help, or are the trust issues always there? Also, has anyone had successful relationships after being cheated on (with the significant other who cheated ... (50 words

I treated her so badly she has finally snapped, will she ever come back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi Everybody I need some serious help and please don't say things like that's what I get because I already know it's all my fault. I just loss my gf and I'm I think for good this time. I took her for granted and not once was insecure about her leaving me because I no mat... (432 words

Is it a good idea to send my ex a Christmas card or even a gift?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - So my ex girlfriend of one year and I broke up back in September and it's been almost three months since we've seen each other. As far as I know she's been dating somebody else almost a week after we broke up. It wasn't best of news when I heard this but I've learned to accept ... (94 words

If he only knew how bad it hurt...

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8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - In December in 2009 me and my ex got together. We broke up in April 2010. We haven't lost our virginity to each other but we have done so many things other than that. He keeps saying that he loves me and everything and i know for a fact i still love him. Since we broke up he ... (161 words

Why can't I be loyal?

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8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I love him so much. He's my best friend and we do everything together. I have an issue though. I seem to get satisfaction out of flirting with other people and leading them on and talking to them sexually. I got caught a ... (160 words

Brother in law problems....

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8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey all, Iam a happily marrieed woman but I have one problem. The problem is with my brother in law. This started a while back before I got married. I was suppose to meet my BIL at a party in 06 that was arrangged by a family member, but he didn't show up at that time, inste... (210 words

Why am I the bad guy here?

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8 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I am told things about a guy I was seeing until a week ago..that he beat his ex wife (my friend) and put her in the hospital...so i call him to tell him what I was called and told..and he gets pissed at me..I wasn't spreading the rumor...i wanted him to know what was being ... (73 words

Confused and trying to escape the friend zone

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8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm in college and I met this girl at a couple of parties. Originally she asked a friend about me. i started taking everything slowly because i thought it might turn into a serious relationship and i eventually hooked up with her after about 4 weeks into our relationship. she ... (224 words

What can I do to help the relationship get back on the right track?

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8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - All of the past couple of months, the guy I like and I have been getting closer. I was positive he liked me back, and he was showing good signals, like: He started sitting next to me in class daily. He would text me for long periods of time. I would catch him staring at me.... (307 words

Everyone says it's not right we're dating because she's under 18?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hey everyone, So my girlfriend is 17 years old and i'm 19. Everyone keeps saying that it's not right for us to be dating because she is under 18. I don't think it's a big deal but I was wondering what you all think. So do you think it's okay or is it wrong?... (56 words

How do I get my boyfriend to stop abusing his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1366 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend wont stop texting his ex and calling her names he tells me he hates her and everything n he doesnt have her number but he keeps texting her, im friends with her and she tells me, he tells me not to talk to her. I talk to her behind his back to make him think i... (100 words

How do I comfort my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 16-17 - The girl I love is the world to me. Things arent well between me and my family, and shes all I have. She trusts me enough to tell me anything, but she says she still doesnt trust guys (see my first question). I dont think she sees how much I need her. Her mom is getting ... (88 words

I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else to have him either!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 18-21 - So my boyfriend came over today, and he doesn't have anywhere to go. I don't have any feelings for him, he knows that we are not together, but I don't know if he thinks that Im serious. I'm not in love with him anymore because of the past. I will always love him like family ... (139 words

I feel guilty about cheating on my girlfriend, but I don't intend on leaving her for this other girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - i am cheating on my girl friend and i am feeling really bad about it.My other girl friend broke up with her guy for me and she is in love with me as well.And just to make her feel better,i ended up saying that she is the one for me and because of this i am in big trouble ... (86 words

He prefers to look at porn rather than have sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend got together when i was 16 and he was 17. We have now been together for just over 7 years and living together for 3 years. 6 months befor we moved in with each other the sex dried right up. I usually get sex once a week but i find i have a high sex drive and ... (190 words

Can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend broke up with me for another guy, we were together 5 months. When we met we had this major connection between us, alot of chemistry, something that i never felt before with another person and i felt that from her cause she had tryed things with me that she never ... (1668 words

Is my husband confused or is it over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - right its a long story but i need our help, my husband of nearly 3 years (been together over 7) left me on 6th october, he said he needed to do this! right we lost our first child last a year gone may (6 years of trying), we didnt grieve together, he had help i shut mself... (911 words

I can't get fully aroused and sex become uncomfortable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 22yrs old and why is it when I have sex or foreplay I can't get fully aroused. It gets unenjoyable fast. I've never even had an orgasm (I think). And during intercourse it's like I dry up to the point where my vagina feels raw and the labia minora gets swollen like it's not ... (80 words

My husband likes for me to sleep with other men, I feel like I'm cheating!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1159 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, My husband likes me to sleep with other men. It turns him on and is his greatest fantasy. At first I thought it was really strange but I found I actually really enjoy it too. Only thing is that I generally meet these guys out in pubs and clubs. They know I am married but... (119 words

I have no feelings or sex drive for my 330 lb. husband!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Iam so imbarrased to write about this! But iam so tired of this I really need some advise! I have a husband that weighs 330pounds. I weigh 140pounds. Our sex sucks really really bad because of his weight. I keep on asking him to loose weight in nice ways and in mean ways. He ... (336 words

Dating is like riding a bicycle, right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I posted questions before about being cheated on for almost 3 yrs and not knowing what to do about fiance, moving on and our businesses together. Well, I am trying to move on! Here's my new question: I met a new guy, who seems great, treats me with respect, has a good job, own ... (144 words

How do I take the time to ask him what he wants and to express how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1417 days ago

8 December 2010 (F age 22-25 - Iv'e known this guy for almost 10 years now we have had on and off flings this entire time but nothing ever official and the boundaries have never been very clear. Well the past 6 months or so we have been hooking up...I've always wanted more with him...but here is the ... (123 words

Why is dating her so wrong!?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

8 December 2010 (M age 22-25 - My girlfriend is 15 and I am 19. We are not sexually active. Everyone is telling me it is wrong, but I don't know why. The only answers I have received so far are: -She is in a different part of life and we should have nothing in common. -I have too much power over her because... (257 words

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